Fei Yuanqing said to Lao Shi's wife: "I am a little embarrassed by what the eldest sister said, a man thinks that a woman who doesn't pay much attention to him thinks that what she says too much is a kind of nagging, and listening to her is a kind of merciless torture for the ears; For the woman whom he values, the man thinks that what she says is like singing, and listening to her is a spiritual pleasure. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 infoWhen Aiqin's mother was alive, I really didn't pay much attention to her, and I always thought she was talking nagging, and now I want to listen to her, but I can't hear a word, and I regret why I didn't keep some recordings of her words when she was alive. Okay, let's not talk about this matter for now, someone said that if you want to laugh when you mention the past, it's a young man; I want to cry when I talk about the past, but it's an old man. As soon as I talk about some things in the past, I feel uncomfortable, and it seems that I am indeed old. When I first met a couple when I was young, I would only appreciate each other's clear eyes and bright lips, and my lifelong wife would appreciate each other's yellow faces and wrinkles on their faces. ”

Lao Shi said: "I know the wine when I have been drunk, and I know it when I have loved, I admire your deep friendship for Aiqin's mother, if you can't let go of your wife's feelings now, we respect your opinion, when Aijun gets married, and your two children have their own small families, we will discuss this matter again." The last time I went to the Wancui Road Military Rest House for a tutorial class, Director Yang told me that Aijun's mother-in-law is on the same level as you, and he wants to match you with each other, but he is afraid that you and the children will have concerns. I would like to persuade you again, in the past someone said that it was called 'listen to people's advice, eat well', and today I want to say another sentence to you, which is called 'listen to people's advice, and have no regrets'. If possible, cherish this opportunity, the bus runs every half an hour, the subway train is a group of five minutes, and the passenger ship that meets you in Pingshui may only meet once in a lifetime. ”

Fei Yuanqing just wanted to say something more to Lao Shi, when the mobile phone rang, he answered the phone, and hurriedly said to Lao Shi: "It's Aijun calling, he, his girlfriend and the child, and the child's grandmother, will come over in a while." ”

"Okay, go over quickly, your eldest sister and I came out early today, it's time to go home, you and Aijun continue to play, Aijun must tell me in advance when he will get married."

After Lao Shi finished speaking, he left with his wife.

Before Fei Yuanqing walked to the meeting place that Aijun said, Yao Shufen's fat body squeezed into his eyes first. He then saw the chubby, well-dressed, and kind-looking elderly woman standing next to Yao Shufen, who must be Yao Shufen's mother.

Fei Yuanqing walked to a place more than ten meters away from them, and Yao Shufen's youngest son shouted "grandpa" in his mouth, stretched out two little hands and flew towards him.

Fei Yuanqing happily picked up the child and walked quickly towards the few people who were waiting for him.

It's almost time to go to work in the morning, the smog is thick, and the horn is loud.

Fei Yuanqing and Yang Chuanfu still walked east along the Jingmi Aqueduct, preparing to enter the southwest gate of Yuyuantan Park.

Yang Chuanfu returned from his hometown a few days later than the scheduled time, and he told Fei Yuanqing that his old mother had been arranged to be in Cui Dalin's nursing home in their county. The old man was a little lost when he first moved in, no matter how good the outside, after all, it was not as convenient as in his own home, at home you can go to the village to see in front of the village, and talk to the neighbors, the nursing home is only a small piece of the world. But the old mother is more suitable there, Erlin and Qingcui are very warm to her, she also met a distant relative there who has not been in contact for many years, it is an old lady left behind in the countryside who is older than her, the two old people met in the nursing home, and they were as affectionate as sisters who had been separated for many years and reunited.

"Our county is also planning to build a nursing home, and now we are selecting a site, and it is estimated that it will be completed in one or two years, and then I will transfer my old mother back to our county seat, so that it will be more convenient for my brother and relatives to visit her." Yang Chuanfu said to Fei Yuanqing, "The reason why I came back a few days late is because I looked at the newly built real estate ready for pre-sale in our county, if the old mother returns to the nursing home in our county, I will buy a small house in the county, and together with Zheng Lina, I go back to live for a period of time every year, mainly to accompany the elderly and change the environment." Compared with the big cities, the air in the countryside is still fresher, the sky is dotted with bright moons at night, and the sky is clear during the day, unlike Beijing, when the smog is severe, the sky is gray. After my brother learned my idea, he told me that the house in the county seat is very expensive, thousands of yuan per square meter. I said in my heart that a few thousand yuan a square meter is nothing, which is much cheaper than the housing prices in Beijing. When I was in my hometown, Qiu Ping also told me on the phone that I should at least buy a two-bedroom house in the county seat, and when I would go back to my hometown in the future, my parents would live in one, and she would live in one room with Dalin, and when I returned home, I could not only accompany my grandmother, but also see Dalin's parents. I said to her, now that you and I are here, you don't need to worry about your grandmother's affairs. Qiu Ping disagreed with my statement and told me that people talk about 'next generation', not only to say that the next generation should also include the next generation, not only the grandparents and grandparents to take care of their grandchildren, but also the grandchildren to their grandparents and grandparents. She also told me that when she was studying abroad, she was most worried about her grandmother, she loved me so much when I was young, when I used to think about me, she came from her hometown to Beijing thousands of miles, and now she is old and can't walk, why can't I go back to see her often? My daughter's question made me ------ I really wanted to ask the rat to help me make a hole in the ground and get in. My grandparents passed away in less than a year, when I was just promoted, I was busy with war preparations, I didn't go back to visit when they were sick, and I didn't attend their funerals, in fact, my grandparents also loved me very much when I was young, which is an eternal pain in my heart! ”

Yang Chuanfu said, and his eyes were red.

Fei Yuanqing couldn't stop laughing, and comforted Yang Chuanfu and said: "A few days ago, I also mentioned a sentence that someone said: If you want to laugh when you mention the past, you are young people; When I want to cry when I mention the past, it's the elderly. This sentence is really right, people may be prone to sentimentality as soon as they get older, that day I met the old Shi couple in Yuyuantan Park, we talked about the past together, and I almost shed tears. ”

"Some of the things I experienced when I was young have become clearer and clearer by the water of history, and I will never forget them for the rest of my life." Yang Chuanfu said to Fei Yuanqing embarrassedly, "I arranged my mother, the last time I left the nursing home, the old mother held my hand, tears gushed out, crying silently, she said to me, maybe I will never see each other again after that time and me, I had mixed feelings at the time, and my heart was like a knife." Mother's tears are the most precious liquid in the world, every drop is like gold, in order to let my mother shed one less tear, I am willing to shed ten more drops of blood. In recent years, my teeth have been shaken one by one, but my determination to go home and live with my old mother has become stronger and stronger. I discussed with Zheng Lina, when Qiuping got married, I would try my best to live in my hometown for as much time as possible to accompany the elderly, the conditions in the county are slightly better than in the countryside, and I will not have too much discomfort in life. (To be continued.) )