The more the old man talked to Da Lin, the happier he became, until he saw Da Lin get up and say goodbye to leave, and then he remembered something and said to Da Lin: "Don't leave this afternoon, let the pillar roll noodles for you in a while." Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo”

Dalin smiled and said to the old man: "I have already made an appointment with a few people to gather at Qiaotou today, and I will come back to eat at your house in the future." ”

Out of the door of Zhuzi's grandmother's house, Zhuzi said to Dalin: "My grandmother is always reluctant to go out to see the outside world, the farthest place she has been to in her life is the county seat of our county, and the biggest place she has been to is also the county seat of our county, and she is not willing to contact new things, sometimes she says some old words from decades ago." Grandma usually likes to listen to local dramas on the radio, and does not like to watch theatrical programs on TV, once, an actor sang on TV: la------lala------lalala------ grandma said on the side, the TV program is really not good, and you can sing with a stammering tongue. Last year, our village was connected to the Internet, and my father and I discussed that we were going to spend a few thousand yuan to buy a computer, so that we could browse all kinds of information on the Internet and download useful materials when we saw them. Grandma said on the side, how can it cost so much money to buy a 'chicken', wait for the 'chicken' you bought to give Erlin a cub. She is sometimes nosy, sometimes she also likes to interrupt, once she asked me, why didn't you come to the Dunzi who had a good time when you were a child in the past two years, I said that Dunzi is now studying for a doctorate in the provincial capital, and grandma smacked her lips regretfully and said, what a good child she was, what a good child she was, how to do something, how to learn to 'Bo', and ran to the provincial capital to learn! Ridiculous, you say? Not long ago, Dunzi came to my house to see me, and my grandmother knew that Dunzi was now a person with college questions, and was very happy, so she had to leave him at home to eat, but Dunzi said that his time was too tight, and he had to go back to school to defend as soon as possible, and he couldn't stay for dinner. After Dunzi left, my grandmother asked me if he thought our thatched house was not clean, why did he have to go to the city to 'defecate'? ”

Dalin smiled happily and said to the pillar that the elderly have adapted to an environment, and the younger generations do not necessarily have to forcibly change it, but should try to retain and create conditions suitable for the traditional life of the elderly. Let the elderly do what they want and do what they are happy to do, and they will feel happy and happy.

Zhu Zi said: "The eldest brother is right, I also think so, the elderly have their own way of life, have a relatively fixed range of activities, have their own correct code of conduct and moral orientation, the younger generations should understand them, respect them, and try their best to adapt to them." As long as they live comfortably, eat well and dress warmly, and feel happy, as for what is the difference between the Internet and fishing nets, and what is the difference between Baidu and ferry, it is not necessary to let them know. Of course, in the modern society, there are some things that inevitably affect their lives, and this kind of influence can only be easy for them to go with the flow. When I was studying at the county health school, a female classmate who went to the UK last winter to marry her boyfriend who was studying there for graduate school, her grandmother was not at ease with her, and repeatedly told her granddaughter not to forget to call her often, and her granddaughter called her at Christmas and said, I wish grandma a Merry Christmas! Her grandmother said, what 'laying eggs' is happy, I will only give birth, you should say this to the old hen! I heard that now this old lady will also say 'bye-bye' after talking to her granddaughter on the phone. ”

Da Lin likes the pillar's intelligence and studiousness, and also likes the pillar's loyalty, and persuaded him: "You and Erlin are both older unmarried young men in the countryside, if there is a suitable girl, talk about a marriage as soon as possible, the old people need you to take care of their lives, what they want to see most is that you have a happy family." ”

Zhuzi said: "Erlin may have told you, I had a girlfriend when I was studying at the health school, and after graduation, she was assigned to work in the health center of our township with me, and then my father left sequelae of cerebral thrombosis, and had to be given frequent infusions, and my grandmother was so old that my mother alone could not take care of it, so I resigned and went back to our village to set up a small clinic." My girlfriend was later transferred from the township health center to the county hospital through a relationship, and she broke up with me due to a change in status. ”

"If you open a clinic in the countryside, you may be limited in the development of professional skills, but when the uncle's health is better, you will still go to work in the hospital, and improving your medical skills there will definitely be faster than in the village."

"I used to think about it the same way, but then I saw that the countryside really needs medical personnel, and some farmers are not in good health, and they are waiting to see the king of Hades when they are seriously ill, and they are not willing to spend more money to see a doctor, and they also think it is too troublesome to go to the hospital to see a doctor. Although my small clinic is small in scale and has limited conditions, it can solve a lot of practical problems for the villagers. ”

Dalin listened to the pillar's words and nodded approvingly.

"If you are looking for a girlfriend in advance, you are not in a hurry, and now the concepts of young men and women in rural areas are also changing, if there is no suitable one, just wait, let it be, it will come naturally, I don't want to make do with this matter." Zhuzi continued, "For the problem of finding a partner, Erlin is not as good as me, he has never been in a relationship, he has a strong inferiority complex because of the poor economic conditions of his family, and now he does not dare and is unwilling to contact girls." ”

"I'm dragging him down!" Dalin said guiltily.

"Big brother can't say that, Erlin and I are proud that you got a job in Beijing after graduating from university, and you work in a magazine under the jurisdiction of the army."

Da Lin listened to the pillar's words, shook his head, and smiled bitterly.

Every time Dalin comes back from Beijing, he will get together with a few good classmates or friends, thank them for taking care of the elderly in his family, and also exchange ideas about each other's work and life. This time, he asked Zhao Lianming, a high school classmate who worked in the township government, to arrange a place to have a meal with a few people. After graduating from the provincial capital at the Normal University, Zhao Lianming worked as a village official for two years and was later appointed deputy director of the Qiaotoupu Township Party and Government Office, and he and Dalin have maintained close ties for many years. Zhao Lian will be young and old next year, and he will be relatively stable in speaking and doing things. Doing things properly and speaking in moderation is the greatest knowledge in life, Zhao Lianming has done a good job in both aspects, and Dalin likes his old classmate very much.

There are only two small streets on both sides of the street, east and west, north and south, and on both sides of the street are small merchants and vendors who can't stretch out a hand from their eyes and snatch the wallets of their customers at once, and they demand that the money paid to them by customers must be real, but many of the goods sold to customers are fake. There is no decent restaurant in Qiaotoupu, but there are a few decent restaurants, and the food in this kind of restaurant is cheap and not good, and every food served to the guests by the waiter must be tasted by flies first. When people in the countryside enter restaurants, the first thing they pay attention to is to eat well, and eating well is the second, and they don't care much about hygiene or not. They usually rarely spend money to eat outside, some young people come to Qiaotou shop to do errands, and they can't go home to eat when they are late, or they want to improve their food and change their stomachs, and they will spend more than a dozen or dozens of dollars, about one or two friends, order three or four stir-fried dishes, ask for five or six bottles of beer, and talk about some messy things.

Zhao Lianming thought that Dalin also received a salary every month, and the army hired personnel working in the capital Beijing, and it was not too shabby to invite people to dinner, so he chose a somewhat decent one among several non-decent restaurants in the town. (To be continued.) )