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Fei Yuanqing was going to be discharged from the hospital today, Yang Chuanfu ate something casually at home, walked for more than half an hour, and came to the PLA General Hospital early, he entered the ward building and saw Fei Aijun and his sister Fei Aiqin waiting for the elevator in the hall.

The siblings told Yang Chuanfu that they were going to go to their father's ward to have a look first, and when the staff in the inpatient department went to work, they would go through the discharge procedures, and after Zhao Qiliang sent Xiao Xiao to the kindergarten, he would drive over and take them home in a while.

Fei Yuanqing had already sorted out his things, and he was very happy to see Yang Chuanfu and his own children coming.

Aijun checked the bathroom and the wall cabinet and bedside table used by his father, and after confirming that he had not left any useful items, he opened a bottle of mineral water and handed it to Yang Chuanfu, and went to the inpatient to settle the bill.

Fei Yuanqing sat on the hospital bed by himself, asked Yang Chuanfu to sit down on the chair, and said to him: "Those of us, staying in the hospital once is equivalent to a trip to the ghost gate, I can be regarded as reborn from the fire, I have thought about a lot of things during this time, and I have understood some things." Life is actually very simple, one day less in the past, tears when sad, drunk when happy, bitter when studying, tired at work, all passed by like a cloud of smoke in the future, I am not ready to think so much about some messy things in the future, there is no need to think about this every day, that also want to ask, worried, sad face, as if you want to hold a memorial service for yourself in advance, others will feel uncomfortable when they see your appearance. ”

Yang Chuanfu happily said to his old friend: "I'm very happy that you can think of this, old Fei, to put it mildly, you used to have a serious excess of inferiority complex and an extreme lack of self-confidence. You are quite right, many things in the world, once you pass by, will become a cloud of smoke, an unsatisfactory thing is over, bow your head in silence for three minutes, then raise your head and chest, and continue to move forward. In the future, your focus is to arrange your life well and take good care of your body, I have long said that the human body is fragile, and you should pay attention to it; Human life is a one-time thing, and it will never come again. ”

Fei Yuanqing nodded and said: "You have persuaded me many times before, what you said makes sense, there are some things that you worry about too much, it is useless, such as yesterday I was worried that I couldn't eat safe food in my mouth, today I was worried that my nose couldn't breathe fresh air, and tomorrow I don't know what kind of things are in front of you, let the people who can solve these problems deal with tomorrow's things!" For some unaccustomed phenomena, I think that what should be said should be talked about, what should be said should be said, and the world is complicated to comment, so don't hold back in your heart. I don't care so much about my own family, I have already educated my son as an adult, there is no need to educate him as an adult, and it is up to him to choose how to take the path of life. ”

Yang Chuanfu said with a smile: "That's right, you can't always worry that the fish will drown in the water and the birds will fall to their deaths in the air." If you love a fish, you should give it water and let it swim freely, not keep it in a tank; To love a bird, you should give it the sky and let it spread its wings and fly, not keep it in a cage. I will advise you again today in front of Aiqin, not to ignore the children's affairs in the future, but to try to take care of them as little as possible, the elderly are easy to break their mouths, they are annoying to be in charge of things, and they are annoying to talk too much. In the future, with a positive attitude towards life, think more about how to arrange your life in your old age, there is a rope in front of you, some people use it to climb up, some people use it to commit suicide, attitude determines the road. I have a fellow who is also hospitalized here, he was the pen in the unit when he was in office, after retirement, his attitude towards life is more negative, after the illness is more pessimistic, lying on the hospital bed does not want to cooperate with the doctor to treat the disease, but pondering how to write the inscription on his tombstone in the future. You love literature, good writing, to give full play to your own advantages, now suitable for the elderly to read a lot of newspapers and periodicals, you can practice writing some manuscripts to vote to them, we can also work with Director Gou, if necessary, let the old history give guidance, write something, not to publish, just for hobbies. The management department of retired military cadres in Beijing has put forward the concept of 'cultural pension', and I think local communities can learn from it. ”

Fei Aiqin, who was standing on the side, said to Yang Chuanfu: "My father has thought about a lot of things now, and he has been in good spirits recently. ”

"It's not very good, but it's not mentally ill!" Fei Yuanqing joked.

"I'm talking about mental state!" Aiqin blushed, and then said to Yang Chuanfu, "There have been many happy events in our family recently, first of all, my father's illness has basically been cured, and in the future, the main thing is to pay attention to maintenance and strengthen physical exercise, and my younger brother and I will take care of it more." The second is that Aijun just talked about a girlfriend, you already know about it, he brought his girlfriend and his girlfriend's children to visit my father in the hospital the day before yesterday. I was not there at the time, and I heard from my father that Aijun's girlfriend was in good health, with sharp hands and feet, and she had not been in the ward for a long time, so she wiped down the wall cabinets, bedside tables, chairs and benches used by my father, and washed several of my father's changes of clothes. Her son is very cute, beautiful, and has a sweet mouth, and when he saw my father, he was a 'grandpa', and my father was so happy that he burst into tears. ”

Fei Yuanqing said embarrassedly: "The child is simple and innocent, he now regards me as his own grandfather, and I will recognize him as my own grandson in the future." ”

Aiqin said to Yang Chuanfu again: "My father and Aijun have already looked at a house near the West Sixth Ring Road, Dad still has some savings on hand, Aijun has also saved a little money recently, Xiao Xiao's father and I are ready to support some more, put together the down payment first, and repay the loan slowly after the loan." ”

Fei Yuanqing said: "Aijun's girlfriend's mother lives with her, after Aijun got married, there are three more people in the family at once, and it is inconvenient to live in the apartment I live in now, and renting a house is not a long-term solution, I think it is difficult to buy a house." However, the top priority is to buy a car first, Aijun has become a family, we have become a big family, with a car, it is convenient to do something, Aijun has obtained a driver's license in a driving school last year, and the income from helping others proofread manuscripts has been stored separately in the past few years, and there is no problem in buying a low-end car. ”

Yang Chuanfu smiled again and persuaded Fei Yuanqing: "Don't waste your 'youth' anymore, if there is a suitable candidate, you can find another wife, the girl and son have figured it out, what other concerns do you have?" Our neighbor who used to live in a dormitory building, Director Huang, you know, after his wife died, he became a family with a widowed retired street cadre last year. ”

Fei Yuanqing looked at Aiqin, and said to Yang Chuanfu with some embarrassment: "Don't mention the matter of finding a wife in the future, although my health is not very good, with their sister and brother taking care of me, there should be no major problems in life in the future." Of course, the most important thing is to take care of yourself, my body is better, I can give Aegean and Aijun less trouble, the best gift for children to parents is promising, and the best gift for parents is good health. I still remember what you said to me, that everyone is his own best health care doctor, happy, free from disasters and diseases, sad faces, and short life. The most important thing is to maintain a good mindset and living habits. Aijun told me that one of his classmates had opened a large farmhouse in Changping, and it was the off-season and there were not many customers, so he asked me to stay there for a while after I was discharged from the hospital. ”

Yang Chuanfu said happily: "I told you a long time ago, Aijun has a casual life on the surface, but he is actually a very meticulous young man, and his son's love is not as easy to reflect on the surface as the girl's love. It's a good choice for you to go to the suburbs to change your living environment, and I also miss rural life, so I have to go back to my hometown for a few days every year. ”

Fei Yuanqing said: "A few years ago, I also went back to my hometown to live in my brother's house twice, and after my parents died, I really realized that where your parents are, where is your home, your parents are gone, even if you are close brothers and sisters, you can hardly feel 'home' with them, and you don't want to live for too long." ”

"That's why I've said before that a person in his sixties and seventies is happy if he still has parents at home, whether they are healthy or sick. In front of your parents, you will always feel that you are still young, you can also enjoy the rare love of father and mother, and you can also be an example of filial piety to your elders in front of your children and grandchildren. Yang Chuanfu said with emotion.

Yang Chuanfu and Fei Yuanqing were talking, Aijun and his brother-in-law Zhao Qiliang walked into the ward together, some of them supported Fei Yuanqing, and some carried the items packed for him, and walked in the direction of the elevator, Aijun said to Yang Chuanfu: "Uncle Yang will take the car with us in a while, and I will send you home first." ”

Yang Chuanfu said: "No need, you go first, I have to go to another ward to see one of my fellow who is hospitalized." (To be continued.) )