Chapter 146: The Theory of Friends
People, eloquence is not the capital to show off, she is the need for communication between people, if you don't say something, then how can others understand your true feelings in your heart. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info
Some words will grow green hair and mold if they are stuffed in the heart for a long time, and if this goes on for a long time, it will make people's hearts even darker, and they will be incompatible with other people, and they always feel as if no one looks down on them in their hearts, or they look at that person as if they are their enemies, which is called setting up their own bamboo fences.
People who speak quickly will always live brighter and happier than those who are depressed all day long.
At the same time, his joy and humor can also be contagious.
As soon as Liu Mei finished saying the sentence of success and victory, everyone couldn't help but smile.
Yes, as a person who is addicted to gambling for his life, there is no language that can make him happier than this sentence. It's better to be alone than to be happy, to be able to sit around a table and drink and eat, that's also the fate of the previous life, isn't it okay for everyone to be happy!
Although the shopkeeper Yu has heard of Liu Mei before, he has always felt that he is rich and rich, and he disdains to have a deep relationship with the uncle Liu Mei.
Thinking of this, the shopkeeper Yu moved his chair back, stood up and walked to Liu Mei's side and said, "Uncle Guo, what you said to the old man makes me admire, if you don't dislike someone for being rude, how about we have a drink alone?" ”
Liu Mei saw that the rich man in Bianliang City, Tokyo, who had always been coaxed by cowhides, took the initiative to come over and have a drink with him, and hurriedly said: "Okay, Yu Da Shopkeeper, you can call me Liu Mei or call me Brother Liu, this left sentence Uncle Guo and right sentence Uncle Guo yours, so that I can't get off the stage, I am not afraid of everyone's jokes, how did my uncle come here, who still knows!"
Yu Da Shopkeeper waved his hand and said: "You don't care how the uncle of this country came, no matter what, this is a lot of good things that you can't dream of, the official is not trembling when he sees you!" ”
Ding Qian said with a smile: "So you Yu Da Shopkeeper was also trembling when he saw my Uncle Mei!" ”
Yu Da shopkeeper shook his head and said: "Nonsense, I'm not an official to someone, and I can't make a mistake with the emperor's relatives and relatives, what are you trembling!" Do you know what it means to be just without desire! You just think that Brother Liu is humorous and funny, based on my experience in the big shopkeeper for many years in the rivers and lakes and officialdom, this humorous person is much better than those who can't touch a fart, because he doesn't have a bad stomach. ”
Ding Qian hadn't spoken yet, Chen Lang said over there: "I agree with the words of the big shopkeeper!" ”
The shopkeeper Yu smiled again with his Mi Tuo Buddha symbolic smile: "Hehe, I said Chen Dagongzi, since this is the case, you can also sponsor a cup!" ”
Chen Lang said: "Okay! He walked over with a wine glass.
Liu Mei arched her hand to the shopkeeper Yu and said: "The shopkeeper Yu has won the award, I Liu Mei only thinks that no matter what, people must not forget their hearts, they used to be just a poor bastard who walked the streets and alleys with a burden on his shoulders to beg for a living, how can he do that Zhongshan wolf is rampant!" Everything is watched by people in heaven, and people must have a heart that is not only kind, but also cannot lose their conscience. ”
Yu Da shopkeeper said in a rough voice: "Well said, everyone here has heard it, we should be on par with Brother Liu Mei in the future, so that I can treat someone as a friend, otherwise it is how far and how far to roll, the farther the better." Dry! ”
Ding Qian and Xie Jinwu also stood up and said, "Cheers!" Five people touched the cups and drank them all.
Qiu Ju's mother stretched out her foot under the table and kicked her husband and said, "Those big men are all clinking glasses and drinking together, why don't you go over!" ”
Qiu Ju's father snorted: "You see that I'm like this, can I get on the stage!" ”
Qiu Ju's mother glanced at her husband and shook her head, sighed and didn't make a sound.
Su Cherry, who was sitting at the table, watched Liu Mei, Yu Da Shopkeeper, Ding Qian, Xie Jinwu, and Chen Lang touch the glass with a clanging sound, but they all drank the wine boldly, "snapped" and slapped the table and said loudly: "Okay, happy!" As he spoke, he picked up the wine glass in front of him and said, "Come to Qiu Ju, Yang Liu, Yue'er, Xiaohua, Meilan, Yang Xing, our sisters also toast!" In the future, I will also become a good friend and sister who will take care of each other! ”
Chen Lang turned his head over there and said, "Cherry, a few of our big men are drinking, you have a big belly and follow what kind of coaxing, you are not afraid of holding the child in your belly!" ”
Su Cherry said: "I am willing, I only allow you to shout and shout there happily, and I don't prepare for us to be happy and happy, this is the reason of that family." ”
Chen Lang was just about to speak, but the shopkeeper Yu pulled his sleeve and said: "Master Chen, the cherry is right, oh, only our old men are allowed to be chic, and women are not allowed to be happy, like what to say." Besides, everyone finally had the opportunity to get together today, which is also rare, so let them drink! Rest assured that the cherry can grasp the measure, and you can't hold on to your future Xiao Chen Gongzi! ”
Chen Lang smiled when he heard this, nodded and said to Su Cherry: "Since the big shopkeeper Yu has spoken, then you can do whatever you want!" But Cherry, you can be sure, don't get yourself drunk! ”
Su Cherry smiled and said, "Xianggong, don't worry, do you think that you are more close to me than anything else!" With that, he raised his glass to the girls and said, "Come!" Cheers, sisters! ”
At this time, Qiu Ju's mother stood up and said, "Cherry, can you be considered an aunt." ”
Su Cherry said happily: "Okay, we can't ask for it!" ”
Yang Liu also said: "Aunt! You're welcome to join us! It's still young! ”
Qiu Ju's mother nodded and said, "Yes, the most memorable and beautiful time when I was young, but it's a pity that I didn't have any opinions at that time, so I let my father and mother sell it to this gambler for five taels of silver." Now that I think about it, if at that time, my aunt had such a positive idea as your willow, cherry, and autumn chrysanthemum, and made her own decisions, she would not have lived so many years of life without people and ghosts. Alas, it's too late to say anything. ”
Su Cherry hurriedly comforted her and said, "Auntie, now you don't sigh, your hard life is now over, Qiu Ju has found Ding Qian a rich shopkeeper." ”
Qiu Ju's mother said: "Yes, yes, this is really borrowing the power of her daughter, Amitabha." ”
Qiu Ju said a little impatiently beside her: "Mother, don't recite any Amitabha Buddha here." Here, let's all cheers! ”
Qiu Ju's mother hurriedly said: "Okay, cheers, I wish my Qiu Ju's little day to be more and more prosperous!" ”
Here, the big shopkeeper Yu and the others have returned to their places and sat down.
Just sat down in the big shopkeeper and leaned his head in front of Ding Qian, and said: "Ding big shopkeeper, you said that I didn't eat less food at this banquet, but I never felt so happy and happy today." ”
Ding Qian said: "Because all the people who came today are friends, just like what you just said, we have nothing to ask for from each other, we can open our hearts and speak, we can drink freely, unlike those socials that you and I sometimes participate in, all of them have goals, and they all have a clear purpose in their hearts, that is really a person who has to say three points, a person with a false and clear purpose, there is always an invisible pressure and depression in the heart, how can you be happy and happy!" ”
The shopkeeper Ding nodded again and again: "That's right, it can really be said that listening to your words is better than reading for ten years." So Ding Da Shopkeeper, can you tell me what a friend is! ”
Ding Qian said with a smile: "Yu Da Shopkeeper, I'm afraid that there are 10,000 people in this world who have 10,000 understandings, and 100,000 people have 100,000 cognitions." Some people think that it is a friend who can arrange a flower knife for your two ribs, some people think that it is a friend who can send charcoal in the snow, and some people think that it is a friend who can trust you with life and death. But that's not the way I understand it. ”
The shopkeeper Yu said in surprise: "Oh, these two ribs are not friends, sending charcoal in the snow, and life and death are not friends, so what kind of friends do you have in mind!" ”
Ding Qian picked up his wine glass and took a big sip of wine and said: "My understanding of who is a friend can be summed up in only one sentence or ten words. ”
Yu Da Shopkeeper stretched out his hand and grabbed his scalp a few times and said, "Those ten words!" ”
Ding Qian said word by word: "It's okay to see each other, don't come to Chang Sijun." That's what friends are! ”
Yu smacked his lips in the big shopkeeper and tasted back: "It's okay to see each other, don't come to Chang Sijun." "It's okay to see each other, don't come to Chang Sijun!" "It's okay to see each other, don't come to Chang Sijun!" After repeating it three times in a row, he grabbed the wine glass on the table, and drank a large glass of wine with "Gudu" and said, "That's right, this is a friend!" Then he put down the wine glass and said: "Shopkeeper Ding, I always felt that it was a friend who stuck a knife in the two ribs, a friend who sent charcoal in the snow, and a friend who entrusted life and death, but I have never found it, and now after listening to your words, I feel that I have set the standard of my friend too high, and some things are impossible for me to do, how can I ask others to do it!" This often leads to misunderstandings about some people and leaves out people who could have been friends. It seems that you still understand it, and it's okay to see each other, and you don't see Chang Sijun. Only in this way can friendship last forever. ”
Ding Qian nodded solemnly and said, "Yes, Yu Da Shopkeeper, I don't know if you remember what Mencius once said!" ”
The shopkeeper Yu said humbly: "Brother Ding, you also know that I haven't read any books and learned from someone, may I ask what Mencius you are referring to?" ”
Ding Qian said solemnly: "Don't do to others what you don't want." ”
Yu said: "Don't do to others what you don't want." Speaking of this, he pondered for a while: "Oh, I understand, it's something I can't even bear, how can I ask not to do it!" ”
Ding Qian nodded and said: "Yes, so we must be strict with ourselves and lenient with others, so that we can get more supporters and make more people become our friends!" ”
Friends, what is a friend!
If someone says goodbye to you one day and says goodbye, you will leave a space in the corner of your heart for him to return.
Maybe he is gone, then, you will occasionally silently send him a distant blessing in your heart.
That's what friends are!
Friends, it has nothing to do with sticking a knife in the ribs, nothing about sending charcoal in the snow, and nothing about life and death!