The "common people" of the military compound (5) (2)

Fei Yuanqing joked to Lao Shi on the side: "Now that the bird flu is so bad, do you dare to say that you are a chicken?" ”

Lao Shi also joked with Fei Yuanqing: "According to what you say, there are so many smog weather in Beijing now, and those surnamed Fei (lung) should not go outdoors easily." Pen Fun Pavilion www.biquge.info"

Lao Shi saw Yang Chuanfu smiling on the side and watching him talk to Fei Yuanqing happily, and said sarcastically: "Lao Fei and I are fellow villagers in the same county as our hometown, and we are also old friends who have known each other for decades. ”

Yang Chuanfu laughed and said to Lao Shi: "Are you praising my choice of hair dye, how many people of our age have not gray hair?" ”

Lao Shi seems to be a talkative person, after listening to Yang Chuanfu's words, he said with emotion: "People can't disobey old when they are old, but they are not afraid of being old, the flowers are beautiful in spring, the fruits are sweet in autumn, the morning sun is like fire, and the evening is full of red clouds, and each season and each time period has different wonderful." I think the elderly should do 'three to', that is, 'one to laugh, two to make trouble, three to be pretty', laughter is a good mood, noisy is friends often gathered, pretty is fashion and beauty, isn't there a word called 'old to pretty', hair dyeing is also a manifestation of old and pretty. Yuan Qing is a good comrade, he has done very well in many aspects, but he can't be flattering in this aspect, and he can't be sad and lost every day after his wife leaves, let alone give up on himself. Cheer up, pay attention to your appearance, score two goals, dead wood in spring, maybe one day which half-old will fall in love with you, you may also fall in love with her, if you are always crying for the lost sun, you will miss the opportunity to enjoy the moon. ”

"In the end, he is a member of the Beijing Writers Association, and he speaks like a poem recitation." Fei Yuanqing said to Lao Shi with a red face, "When people are old, there are more problems, they gnaw half-cooked pork ribs when they are young, and eat pig blood tofu when they are old; The eyes are getting farther and farther away from the book when reading, and the body is getting closer and closer to the urinal when peeing; I can't sleep in bed at night, and I doze off on the sofa during the day; I can't remember what is in front of me, and I can't forget what happened in the past; The child is not lonely, and the child is noisy by the side. Sometimes, mainly when it's cold, I don't dare to go to public places, and I can't seem to wipe my nose clean. You talk about virtue like us, what kind of pretty, waiting for the braids! Regarding the matter of finding a wife, others have introduced me to a few other women, but I would rather 'miss' ten times than dare to have a 'fault', if I see the wrong person, it is not a trap for me, but a harm to my whole family. ”

Director Gou said: "When I was young, I was also a lover of literature, and I published some small articles, and I have always admired writers, and I think that Comrade Lao Shi's words are very reasonable and profound. A considerable number of veteran comrades who have been exercising here regularly have the conditions for the 'three essentials'. There is a saying that time does not spare people, they are people who do not spare time, when they are sixty years old, they look like they are fifty years old, and when they are seventy years old, they live like they are sixty years old, and they make a joke with the laws of nature. There are also some veteran comrades who always can't think about some things, can't get along with the past, and can't get along with themselves. Some veteran comrades always say that they have lived hard and tired, and now that their living conditions are better, they have no worries about food and clothing, and they don't have to run around. ”

Yang Chuanfu echoed Director Gou's words: "I also think that Comrade Lao Shi's words just now are very good, and I also persuaded him about Lao Fei looking for a wife, a person should understand that there are some things in the world that are not regrets, but not regrets." In addition, I think that human life is short, but if you live sadly or boredly every day, it will be too long. ”

Fei Yuanqing said helplessly: "Standing and talking doesn't hurt your back, it's easy to persuade others, and some things are put on yourself is another situation." ”

Lao Shi said to Fei Yuanqing a little unceremoniously: "Every family has a difficult scripture to read, some people are not without sadness, but have learned to forget, even if I have an experience like yours, I will be more optimistic than you are now." There is nothing big in life except death, in fact, at our age, even death is not a terrible big thing. There are no permanent residents in the world, you live to be eighty, ninety, and a hundred years old, and eventually you have to leave, you have to leave this community, you have to leave this city, you have to leave this world. If there is any permanence in the world, it is that everyone will eventually be permanently cancelled by the police station. Since the world lives and dies, and since death is inevitable for all people, what is there to fear? Life is like a stage, after you finish performing your own show, you have to take a curtain call, and give the stage to future generations to perform, and the 'descendants' I mean also include your own children and grandchildren. People often say that red and white happy events, that is, people should be born and born, and they should die in the past, which are inevitable and good things. ”

Director Gou said: "The old history is well told, and the meaning of the words that come out of the writer's mouth is very profound. I think it's the same for me, people's sleep and death are rest, one is temporary rest, the other is permanent rest, both belong to natural phenomena. I also have a different view, that is, in a sense, people will not 'die', your children and grandchildren are continuing your life, and if your children and grandchildren live healthily, you are equivalent to eating Tang monk meat and can live forever. ”

Director Gou's words made Yang Chuanfu's heart sour, he didn't know when his daughter would get married and when she would have grandchildren.

Fei Yuanqing seemed to disagree with Director Gou's statement, and said to him: "I am basically a vegetarian now, I used to love meat, but now I rarely eat it, what's wrong with Tang monk meat, maybe there are additives that are not conducive to human health." ”

A few people stood on the side of the road and chatted for a while, Lao Shi looked at his watch and said to a few other people: "I have something to do in the morning, I won't talk to a few people, let's meet and talk later!" ”

Lao Shi's wife is also surnamed Fei, and she is Lao Shi's classmate in college, and Fei Yuanqing calls her "eldest sister". Seeing that Lao Shi was leaving, Fei Yuanqing asked him to "say hello to Sister Fei". Lao Shi said to Fei Yuanqing: "Your eldest sister used to love watching TV series, and she cried and laughed with the actors inside, but now it's good, her grandson has become a film and television star in the family, and noisy crying has become her favorite show, and we can relax next year when my grandson goes to kindergarten." Your eldest sister is most concerned about when you will find a wife after the death of your younger sister and sister, she has said it in front of me several times, I still mean what I just said, don't miss the opportunity when you meet the right one. I have a different view on what you just said, a person has a "mistake" can be corrected, and once he 'misses' some things, he will lose it again, and on the road of life, the biggest "mistake" is 'missing', missing once, regretting it for life. ”

Fei Yuanqing listened to Lao Shi's words, did not argue anymore, and nodded thoughtfully.

After Lao Shi left, Director Gou also said that something was gone, and Yang Chuanfu and Fei Yuanqing continued to walk around the pond.

"I felt very inspired by the chat with the two old comrades just now." Yang Chuanfu said to Fei Yuanqing as he walked, "Many of their words are summaries of life experience, which are worth pondering." We should all throw away the burden, travel lightly, whether it is material or spiritual, people sometimes have to be willing to throw away, there is a gift to gain, to give is learning, to have the ability. Well, let's go home too. Tomorrow at noon, because I have a fellow party, I will no longer accompany you out in the morning, let's meet at the old time and place the morning after tomorrow, and come here again to exercise. (To be continued.) )