Four miles and eight towns, when it comes to the big tiger, there may not be many people who know, when it comes to the 'little carpenter', there are more people who know it, and the people who come to the big tiger's house to propose relatives have also begun to increase, and the father is very happy to see the people who come from afar to propose, and he didn't expect that his son will be so promising, and the apprentice will come back for two years, and he will continue to be happy, so that he can earn enough face in front of the old folks in Shayu Village. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

One night, when Dahu dragged his tired body home, his butt was not yet sitting, and his father told Dahu the news of the matchmaker's proposal, he thought that Dahu would be very happy when he heard the news, but he didn't expect that Dahu was not only not happy, but also seriously entrusted his father to refuse the kindness of those who came to propose, and the father wondered, where is the problem with his son, in Shayu Village, seventeen or eighteen years old said that the matchmaker is not fresh, even Jin Changyuan knows that there is a child daughter-in-law early, not to mention that now Dahu, has skills and can make money, why not take advantage of the early selection of a good girl to be a daughter-in-law, Dahu saw his father's doubts, and he put his thoughts and thoughts out:

"Dad, I want to take advantage of my youth to do a few more years, talk about the daughter-in-law's business, I can't think about it now, there are some words, I haven't had a chance to tell you, when I left the master's house at the end of my apprenticeship, I promised the master's family to take good care of them, now for me, it is to take care of the two families, and my current desperate efforts are to fulfill my commitment, so that both families can live a good life, now, I haven't accumulated, this time is too early to say daughter-in-law, in other words, I have the responsibility to take care of the two families, And the future daughter-in-law doesn't, I can't drag others down, I want to work hard for a few more years, and then I will be able to marry you a satisfactory daughter-in-law. ”

"Dahu, I didn't expect that you have so many things in your heart, you blame your father for being careless, you said that you want to take care of the master and the mother, I am a hundred in favor, 'a teacher for a day, a father for life', being a man should be like this, I am patronizing in front of the villagers to have face, without taking into account your feelings, so let's do it, just according to your meaning, tomorrow I will find an excuse to push away those who propose marriage, if you have anything in the future, you will say it, everyone will find a way together, don't always carry it alone." My father spoke out about his feelings.

However, not long after this incident, the appearance of a girl from the village broke the goal set by Dahu for himself.

This girl's name is Meizi, speaking of Meizi, she is an inconspicuous girl in the village, but when it comes to Meizi's brother Han San, it is a figure that everyone knows and everyone knows, it was back then, he took the big tiger brothers to the coal kiln, and later saw death and did not save him, causing Jin Changyuan to be disabled.

Big Tiger and Plum are playing together since childhood, in the impression of Big Tiger, Plum is like a tomboy, the speed of climbing trees makes the average boy willing to bow down, Big Tiger has never linked Plum and the girl together, since Big Tiger went out to apprentice, the two have never met, Big Tiger has never thought of Meizi at all.

But the flowing water is ruthless, the falling flowers are intentional, since the big tiger apprentice came back, Meizi has a male and female affection for the big tiger, when the big tiger carries the toolbox in the morning, when he goes to work in the village, Meizi is always early behind the old locust tree at the entrance of the village where the big tiger must pass, waiting for the big tiger to walk over, and has been watching the big tiger's back disappear completely, and the plum is lost and goes home, every day, and the plum does all this, the big tiger is not aware at all.

Meizi is one year older than the big tiger, eighteen years old, 'female freshman, hugging the golden rooster', this is the blessing words often said by the daughter-in-law in the village, Meizi vaguely feels that she and the big tiger are like a destined pair, the reason why Meizi has such a recognition is the feeling.

On that day, the apprenticeship of the big tiger expired, and he passed by Meizi's house when he went home, Meizi was just about to go out, and he took a look at the big tiger, the big tiger didn't recognize the plum, and he didn't say hello to the plum and passed through the house, and the plum recognized the big tiger at a glance, if it was placed in the past, with the character of the plum boy, he would definitely shout the name of the big tiger loudly, and then chat a few words, but the plum didn't do it, her face was red at first, her heart beat very fast, and then she ran back to the yard, Meizi's abnormal behavior should be tempted by the big tiger.

Besides, the big tiger has only been gone for three years, and he didn't recognize the plum, which also makes sense, 'the eighteen changes of the female college, the more she changes, the better she looks', the plum in front of her is by no means the plum of three years ago, there is no 'wildness' of a tomboy, and there is more beauty of a woman.

'Men should get married, women should get married', the matchmaker stepped through the threshold of Meizi's family, but Meizi is just three words 'can't look down', so worried that Meizi's mother sighed all day long, there is no rut, the girl is older, scolding, scolding, beating, beating.

Meizi likes the big tiger in her own way.

A few months have passed, Meizi is a little uncontrollable, she decides not to be a behind-the-scenes lover, she wants to show her love to Dahu openly, even if it is rejected, it is better than no result.

At night, Meizi took advantage of her mother's sleep, and secretly boiled several eggs that she was reluctant to eat at home, she wrapped it in a handkerchief, and hid it in her own bed, and the next morning, Meizi estimated that it was time for the big tiger to go out, she first came to the old locust tree at the entrance of the village, this time she was not hiding behind the tree, but standing in front of the tree, and when the big tiger approached, Meizi shouted at the big tiger:

"Big Tiger, I'm Meizi."

"Plums? If you hadn't reported your home, I really wouldn't dare to recognize you, it's cold early in the morning, what are you standing here? The big tiger was a little surprised when he saw the plum suddenly appear.

"I boiled a few eggs, I want to give them to you early, and they're still hot." Meizi took out three eggs from her coat pocket and handed them to the big tiger.

"It's so decent, why do you give me eggs? I don't want it, I'd better leave it to you to eat. The big tiger returned the egg to the plum again.

Seeing that the big tiger finished returning the eggs, he was about to go down the mountain, Meizi didn't want to miss the opportunity to confess to the big tiger, she put down the girl's reserve, mustered up the courage, and expressed her admiration to the big tiger, but I didn't expect that Meizi's bold confession scared the unprepared big tiger, he carried the toolbox on his back, and the girl ran away, and the girl ran away, Meizi stood stupidly in place, she couldn't guess, the big tiger slipped away, whether she didn't fancy herself, or she confessed too suddenly, so that the big tiger didn't know how to respond.

Meizi returned home and pondered back and forth, and in the end, she still believed the second guess, and Meizi decided to take advantage of the opportunity of the big tiger to call it a day in the evening to listen to the big tiger's true thoughts, even if it was the result that she didn't want to hear.

Big Tiger carried the toolbox on his back, trotted all the way to the employer's house, if there was no plum in the morning to confess this stubble, into the employer's house will be dry without saying a word, but today, the big tiger looked at the wooden work but started to be stunned, picked up the planer is wrong, and picked up the chisel is still wrong, the big tiger has never been like today, in order to prevent mistakes in the chaos, the big tiger simply sat in the yard, let himself calm down and think about it.

Meizi's sudden confession disrupted Dahu's plan, and Dahu also knew that many things were planned to catch up with the changes, but this change made Dahu a little out of his power.

Thinking of Meizi, an eighteen-year-old girl, if she didn't really like herself, she wouldn't take the initiative to confess to herself, Dahu remembered that three years ago, Meizi was still a little girl who hadn't grown, and now, she has become a big girl who knows courtship, the change is too great, Dahu asked himself in his heart, if there is no commitment to the master's family, if it is not for the goal he set for himself to be too far away, just Meizi alone, will he agree to Meizi's courtship? Big Tiger's answer is, yes.

Because Meizi is kind-hearted, Dahu is recognized, in Dahu's mind, the preferred condition for the person who will live with him is to be kind-hearted, and this will not change at any time, not to mention that Meizi's appearance is also impeccable, but this is just the assumption of the responsibility that is pressed on Dahu.

If you face the reality, Dahu must stand in Meizi's position to consider, Meizi looked for Dahu originally wanted to live a good life, and Dahu brought Meizi to bear the life of two families, this road was chosen by Dahu himself willingly, no complaints to tell, but it is unfair to Meizi, a good girl, why bear such an additional burden? Is it because you like yourself that you should pay the price? After thinking about it again and again, Dahu decided to refuse Meizi's courtship and find a time to make it clear to Meizi.

In order to make up for the work that fell during the day, the big tiger finished work relatively late.

When I returned to the village, it was already dark, and the wind was blowing, and the cold wind blew into the chest along the neckline of the big tiger, feeling cold, the big tiger took out the hand towel used to wipe the sweat during the day from the toolbox, and wrapped the neckline tightly, the big tiger suddenly felt that the chest was much warmer, he quickened his pace, and wanted to hurry home to drink his mother's hot millet porridge, and then get into the quilt, and sleep beautifully.

Just when the big tiger was thinking and bowed his head to hurry, on the side of the road, a person suddenly rushed out to block the big tiger's way, the big tiger thought that he had met the robbers, he subconsciously reached out to the toolbox, to take out the axe to defend himself, the man's laughter, made the big tiger cry and laugh.

It turned out that Meizi had already made up her mind to intercept Dahu on the way to finish work, and let Dahu explain his words, at this point, Meizi and Dahu's thoughts coincided, but what Dahu didn't expect was that on this night when he couldn't see his fingers, Meizi would appear here, Meizi told Dahu that he was a person who couldn't hold back something, and since this layer of window paper had been pierced, he wanted to know the result.

Seeing Meizi's body shivering when he spoke, Dahu asked Meizi distressedly, how long have you been waiting here, Meizi told Dahu that because she didn't want to miss Dahu, she hid in a nearby ravine when it was still bright, and waited until now, although Dahu has not told Meizi what he really thinks, but as a man, seeing such a cold day, a girl's family stays here for a few hours, not to mention Meizi, even the big man can't stand it.

The big tiger took off his jacket and put it on the plum, and after the plum's body warmed up, the big tiger found a leeward place for the two of them to sit down, the big tiger told the plum the reason why he couldn't accept the plum courtship, the big tiger thought that this reason was enough to scare the plum, so as to dispel her pursuit of herself, but she didn't think about it, and after listening to the reason the big tiger said, the plum was more determined to pursue the big tiger.

She said that she not only supports Dahu to respect his master and wife, but also helps him and take care of the two families.

Meizi's joy is colorful, or let Meizi's mother see the flaw, she presumes, Meizi must have a sweetheart, the mother from the Meizi may have come into contact with the boys in the village, all filtered through, there are only a few of the same age, and I haven't seen Meizi get close to anyone, Meizi's mother suddenly thought, the big tiger who returned to the village not long ago, but it's not right to think about it, she has never seen Meizi and the big tiger alone, Meizi's mother thinks about the head is big, simply, she wants to ask Meizi herself in person at night.

Meizi's mother came to Meizi's house and asked Meizi's personal questions straight to the point, Meizi began to deny it, and her mother used the excuse of promising the matchmaker to propose marriage to set out Meizi's truth, Meizi couldn't stand her mother's repeated questioning, and confessed the fact that she and Dahu started dating.

After confirming her judgment, Meizi's mother was silent, and said in her heart that the big tiger was grown up under the watchful eyes of Meizi's mother, and Meizi's mother also saw that the big tiger was honest, honest and filial, and it stands to reason that the big tiger can be the aunt of the Han family, and it is also a blessing for the Han family, but a scene that happened a few years ago made Meizi's mother have to make the decision to let Meizi give up her relationship with the big tiger.

Meizi's mother told Meizi that this marriage will not be recognized by the family, and the long pain is better than the short pain, and she must cut off contact with the big tiger, otherwise it will hurt the two of them and aggravate the grievances of the two families. Meizi's mother reminded Meizi that a few years ago, because her brother was indifferent to Jin Changyuan, Jin Changyuan was disabled, and back then, Jin Changyuan's father came to Han Jiaxing to ask about the crime, Meizi replied to her mother disapprerovingly, so what?

Mother recalled that the sentence that Kim Chang-won's father left when he left, 'From now on, the Kim and Han families will not be in contact' has affected the relationship between the Kim and Han families, and the children may be forgetful and have long stopped taking Kim Chang-won's father's words seriously, but the elders in the clan have always remembered it.

In the past few years, the weddings and funerals of the two families of Jin and Han have not been blessed, it can be seen that the contradiction is difficult to resolve, if at this time, let the people of the two families know about it, the old Han family is better to say something, after all, it is Han San who is not benevolent first, but the old Jin family must be strongly opposed, which is equivalent to dropping a bomb on the Jin family.

Meizi listened to her mother's sensational analysis, but she didn't take it to heart at all, she told her mother that her brother's sins should be borne by himself, and he couldn't hinder his pursuit of happiness because of his brother's affairs, Meizi also told her mother that back then, Dahu was also a victim of her brother, but Dahu did not refuse her courtship because of her brother's affairs, Meizi reassured her mother, as long as she and Dahu really love each other, the contradiction between the two families can finally be resolved, Meizi's mother sees that Meizi is so stubborn, and there will be no result if she continues to persuade her, I had to leave it to her.

The idea of plum is simple, and the method is simple.

Without informing the big tiger, Meizi came to the big tiger's house alone, and as soon as she entered the door, she helped the big tiger mother do this and that, which made the big tiger mother feel very embarrassed.

At night, the big tiger mother told the big tiger about the fact that Meizi came to work at home during the day, and the big tiger mother wanted to see the big tiger's reaction, but unexpectedly, as soon as the plum was mentioned, the big tiger's expression began to be unnatural, and deliberately avoided this topic, the big tiger mother had some points in her heart, and the difference with the plum mother was that the big tiger mother did not directly pick out the big tiger and the powerful relationship between him and the plum child, but told her own guess to her wife.

Jin Guangzheng listened to his wife's speculation, and based on his experience, he inferred that Dahu and Meizi must have been dating, and he couldn't guess to what extent, but judging from Meizi's high-profile approach, the two children had already poked open the window paper and made the words clear, otherwise, Meizi would not take the initiative to come home.

At this time, an ominous premonition rushed to Jin Guangzheng's head, the people of the family will definitely not agree to the relationship between the two children, especially Jin Changyuan's father, what happened a few years ago, it is not that you can forget it, besides, many elders are still alive, they have witnessed the scene of the two families breaking up the relationship, in this context, the relationship between the two children is not a personal matter between the two of them, but a matter of the two families, in Jin Guangzheng's view, the interests of the family are the first.

Jin Guangzheng discussed with his wife to find out the matter with Dahu as soon as possible, and asked Dahu to cut off his relationship with Meizi, in order to let Meizi break off his relationship with Dahu and restore the peaceful life of the two families, Jin Guangzheng was preparing to ask a matchmaker to say goodbye to Dahu.

The big tiger mother also thinks that what her wife said makes sense, this kind of thing is still a quick knife to cut through the mess, and she can't hesitate.

Just when Dahu's parents thought that they could handle the matter of Dahu and Meizi, that afternoon, Jin Changyuan's father led more than a dozen old buddies of the Jin family to Dahu's house.

As soon as he entered the door, he said bluntly that the relationship between Dahu and Meizi had spread in the village, which made the old Jin family's face have no place to rest, and said that the Han family clearly bullied the Jin family, and Dahu still wanted to marry the girl of the enemy family, which the Jin family must not allow, they came today to ask Jin Guangzheng to say a word, whether they want the Jin family, or Meizi, and the Jin family, they want Dahu to cut off contact with Meizi, insist on marrying Meizi, and give up the Jin family, from then on, Erasing the names of Kim Kwang-jung and his descendants on the genealogy of the Kim family, which is more important, requires Kim Kwang-jeong to give a clear answer.

In the face of the tough attitude of the brothers of the Kim family, Jin Guangzheng had no choice, standing in the position of the Kim family, he understood the anger of the brothers of the Kim family, especially Kim Changwon's father, empathy, if it was his own son who was disabled, he might do the same in the face of Han San's desperation.

But as a father, he felt sorry for the big tiger, for a few years, the big tiger has suffered a lot outside, never seen the big tiger complain, now, but it is the turn of the big tiger to make the decision for himself, but he encountered the condemnation of the family brothers, seeing Jin Guangzheng's delay in expressing his position, Jin Changyuan's father was a little impatient, he reprimanded Jin Guangzheng, not worthy of being a member of the Jin family, Jin Changyuan's father's words, Jin Guangzheng's heart completely hit the cold palace.

Jin Guangzheng's heartbeat began to speed up, his hands and feet began to be numb, the whole person was paralyzed, and his buttocks slid from the stool to the ground all of a sudden.

At this time, according to the old rules, Dahu's mother, who was originally not qualified to participate in the opinions of the Jin family, risked the family's big disagreement and boldly replied on behalf of her wife, agreeing to the request of the brothers of the Jin family, and Dahu severed her relationship with Meizi.

Dahu's mother's statement met the requirements of the brothers of the Jin family, and they left the Dahu family one after another.

The big tiger's mother hurriedly beckoned Dalong to invite Langzhong, at this time, Jin Guangzheng, a mouthful of phlegm blocked in his throat, coughed up, shortness of breath, straight eyes, purple lips, the big tiger mother hugged his wife anxiously and cried, fortunately Langzhong arrived, took out the medicine from the medicine box, washed it with warm water and fed Jin Guangzheng to drink, Jin Guangzheng slowly eased up, the first thing Jin Guangzheng woke up, and was still thinking about what the family brothers wanted him to answer, and his wife told Jin Guangzheng that it was okay, and they were all gone.

After a day's work, the big tiger's waist was tired and a little sore, he wanted to go home early to rest, walked to the entrance of the village, and saw the plum waiting for him, the plum pulled the big tiger to sit down on the stone on the side of the road, and wanted to talk to the big tiger about himself, but the big tiger always felt unsteady, as if something had happened, he pulled up the plum and said that he was too tired, and talk about it another day, he and the plum went into the village together, and when he was going to separate from the plum, he happened to be seen by the big dragon in the lang, the big dragon said to the big tiger in a complaining tone, you two are quite beautiful, But my father almost killed you.

Listening to Da Long's words, Da Hu hurriedly ran home, pushed open the door, and saw his father lying on the kang with his eyes closed, his face was very ugly, his mother sat next to his father and took care of him, Da Hu asked his mother what was going on at home, and his mother waved his hand to signal him to keep quiet, and then pulled Da Hu to the corner of the yard.

Mother whispered to Dahu about what happened at home in the afternoon, and also said her promise to the brothers of the Jin family in place of her father, and her mother's words shocked Dahu, he never expected that the matter between himself and Meizi would alarm the entire Jin family, and even almost caused his father to die.

It has been a few years since what happened in Han San's family, and Dahu's idea is that this matter will be slowly forgotten over time, so when Meizi confessed to him, he did not affect his choice because of what happened a few years ago, and now he knows that his mother has made the choice to give up Meizi for himself when his father is dying.

Although he can't accept his mother's decision, what else can Dahu say, can he complain about his mother? His mother had to do it as a last resort to save his father's life, could he complain about the elders of the Jin family? They can't let go of their hatred for Han San, and she and Meizi are just victims of this struggle, can he complain that Meizi shouldn't confess to himself? Umeko just did what she wanted to do, standing in the shoes of different people, and everyone was not wrong.

Dahu comforted his mother to go back to the house to rest, while he stood in the yard and sorted out his thoughts, he thought of a lot of ways to make up for it, for example, going door to door to beg the elders of the Jin family, so that they could complete their marriage with Meizi, if it didn't work, the last way was to take Meizi out of Shayu Village, Dahu's mind kept thinking.

At this time, a cool breeze was blowing outside, coupled with the fact that he had not eaten a bite of food after a day's work, Dahu suddenly felt that he was cold from his heart, and his head began to faint, and he had to interrupt his thoughts.

Back in the house, he put on a quilt and lay down, and his mother called him to eat, but he did not respond.

However, the cold from the inside to the outside, and there is no improvement because of a quilt, Dahu put a new quilt made by his mother on his body, the situation is still not improved, after Dalong entered the house, he saw his brother huddled in the quilt and shivering, he hurriedly called his mother, his mother touched Dahu's head with her hand, it was hot, and his mother hurriedly went to the kitchen and made ginger water, Dahu drank it while it was hot, and he was in a daze, and slept until the next morning.

After waking up the big tiger, the head is still cloudy, the whole body is not energetic, thinking of what happened at home yesterday, the heart is chaotic, the mother made breakfast for the big tiger, the big tiger hastily eaten, then carried the toolbox out of the house, the mother thought, the big tiger is a strong body and went to the employer's house to work, in fact, the big tiger is to the village school to find Mr. Zhang, he wants to tell Mr. Zhang what happened at home yesterday, so that Mr. Zhang can show him a clear way, in the cognition of the big tiger, he encountered a difficult thing, in the past was the grandfather enlightened, Now it's Mr. Zhang's enlightenment.

Seeing Mr., just like seeing the grandfather of the year, Dahu couldn't wait to tell Mr. about the confusion that happened to him and Meizi, Mr. sat next to Dahu and listened patiently and quietly, and after Dahu finished explaining the matter, Mr. Zhang stood in the perspective of the people who came over and expressed his views on this matter:

"Dahu, you are only seventeen years old this year, and you have encountered a difficult problem in life, I am a person from the past, I will tell you my experience, which may help you analyze rationally from another angle and find a solution to the problem. Of course, nothing can be copied from the rest of the world. ”

"Sir, I need someone to enlighten me right now, you go on."

People often say that their own destiny must be controlled by themselves, this sentence sounds not wrong at all, but back to real life, how many people can control their own destiny? Can't say no, it's too little. Each of us lives in this world, and we all shoulder various responsibilities to varying degrees, including for our parents, for our family, for society, for others, and for our children after we become a family. It's called responsibility, and it's a man's responsibility. ”

"Responsibility? Is falling in love also related to responsibility? ”

"Of course, judging from the situation you tell, on the surface, it is a personal matter between you and Meizi, but because of our responsibility, the matter between you and Meizi has evolved into a matter of two families or even two families, this is an eternal problem, unless you give up your responsibility, in all fairness, can you do it?"

"If I could do it, I wouldn't be so distressed."

"That's what I'm saying, take me as an example, I fell in love with a girl in the same school when I was studying in the provincial city, she was a good girl with excellent character and learning, the two of us fell in love, at night, we sat on the playground against the stars, looking forward to a better life in the future, always free time passed too fast, the classmates were very envious of our love, we had discussed, after graduation, go to a small town, run a school that belongs to the two of us, teach and educate people, this life."

"It's really enviable!"

"However, my parents set me a baby kiss when I was young, so they desperately blocked my free love, my mother forced me to die, I withstood the pressure and stuck to our love, just at our graduation ceremony, my father took my uncle and uncle to school, forcibly took me home, and forced the girl to stop contacting me, after returning home, my parents and the elders of the family forced me to marry the doll, I refused to live or die, several times to run away, in order to prevent me from running away again, my parents locked me in the house for more than a month, In this month or so, I experienced the most difficult choice in my life, my mother was looking for death and life, my father began to drink heavily, and the whole family deviated from the normal life track. ”

"Sir, what happened to that girl?"

"Later, I heard that during the time I was locked in the house, my girlfriend came to my house several times to look for me, but was blocked by my parents, and after a few years, I learned from my classmates that she left this sad place and went to work as a teacher in a school in another province and never came back."

"It's a shame."

"Big Tiger, I was a few years older than you at that time, it stands to reason that I should have the ability to solve my own personal problems, why would I do things against my will, I took my girlfriend away and flew away, didn't it solve the problem? However, have you ever thought about it, in order to pursue your own happiness, leaving behind your elderly parents, is it also unfilial, will I live a down-to-earth life with such happiness? I think there must be many people in this world who have similar experiences to us, and I believe that in the end, like us, they can't choose their own lives. ”

"Besides breaking up, isn't there a better way out for me and Meizi?"

"Big Tiger, there are a lot of things, when we can't grasp it, we have to learn to let go, maybe it's good for our family and girlfriend, but one thing, no matter what decision you make, life still has to go on, and the responsibility still has to be born, when we have a loss, it's all for the parents who raised us with hard work, thinking of this, you have no resentment."

"Sir, before listening to you tell me about your experience, I have been entangled, thinking that life is unfair to me, after listening to your experience, I understand a lot, people live in the world, everyone will face many, helpless choices, the matter between me and Meizi is just one of them, if I can't give up my responsibility, I have to think about my parents, family and family, don't let them fall into a never-ending war." Big Tiger tried to put his understanding into words.

"Big Tiger, you are still young, with the increase of life experience in the future, you will understand more things, and you will also improve your ability to deal with and solve problems, you and Meizi's matter, I suggest that you take time as soon as possible, have a long talk with Meizi, and analyze the relationship thoroughly, I believe that the two of you can make the right choice." Mr. Zhang gave his own advice to Dahu.

"Sir, I listen to you, today, tomorrow at the latest, I will talk to Meizi." Dahu accepted Mr.'s suggestion.

"Big Tiger, in another month, I'm going to leave the school, if you have anything in the future, come to me at home, the two of us are New Year's friends, there is a common language, I am very optimistic about you, and I sincerely hope that you will deal with your personal affairs as soon as possible, in the future life, continue to learn, continue to improve, and ask a few more why." Sir raised hope for the big tiger.

"Sir, I made a note of it."

When the big tiger answered Mr., the tears almost fell, Mr. just finished relieving the depression in his heart, he told himself that he was leaving the village here, the big tiger was difficult to accept for a while, he didn't know, who would he talk to in the future, but he knew that people always have to grow, just like when he was young, grandpa was his day, but when grandpa left, he himself would slowly learn to live, but, Mr. taught his own principles of life, which is a lifelong benefit, Dahu proposed, take advantage of today's rare opportunity, See off Mr. in your own way.

Dahu ran home, took the wine and paper, ink, pen and inkstone stored by his father to the playground of the school, and the two of them wrote couplets while drinking until the sun set.

Early the next morning, the big tiger went out to work with tools on his back as usual, Meizi also waited for the big tiger at the entrance of the village as usual, the big tiger wanted to talk to Meizi at night, and before the big tiger offered, Meizi actually cried first, in the Meizi crying while intermittently telling, the big tiger learned that what happened in his house the day before yesterday had already reached the ears of Meizi, Meizi's mother, also persuaded Meizi and Dahu to separate, and had begun to say goodbye to Meizi, Dahu saw Meizi crying sadly, knowing that now to talk to Meizi, the timing is not right, he persuaded Meizi to go home firstMake an appointment to meet and talk on the playground of the school in the evening.

In the evening, Dahu and Meizi came to the playground of the school as promised, Dahu told Meizi in detail what happened at home the day before yesterday, Meizi began to cry after listening, Dahu originally wanted to try to persuade Meizi to calm down for a while, and then talk about personal affairs, but Meizi only cried, Dahu had to comfort Meizi first, Meizi was in Dahu's arms, crying for a long time, Dahu kept touching Meizi's back with his hand to stabilize Meizi's emotions.

Since the elders of the Jin family made a big fuss about the big tiger family, Jin Changyuan's father couldn't believe the promise of the big tiger mother, he would only let the family members pay attention to the actions of the big tiger and Meizi.

Someone reported this morning, saying that he saw Meizi and Dahu dating at the entrance of the village in the morning, Jin Changyuan's father believes that Dahu's behavior is not keeping his promises, and it is disrespectful to the elders of the Jin family, in order to catch a current, this time, Jin Changyuan's father did not go directly to Dahu's house to force the palace, but sent someone to quietly follow Dahu, when Dahu finished dinner and went to the school to meet Meizi, Jin Changyuan's father gathered the elders of the Jin family, and also went to the playground of the school to ambush up, just when Meizi was crying in the arms of Dahu, The elders of the Kim family appeared, and all this Dahu and Meizi didn't know, and with a shout from Kim Changwon's father, the prelude to this farce began:

"You two rebels, despite the opposition of the family, ran here to hug and hug, and you are bold!"

The big tiger was startled by Jin Changyuan's father's shouting, he fixed his mind and looked at it, good guy, like a heavenly soldier and a general, standing in front of him was a dozen elders of the Jin family headed by Jin Changyuan's father, only to see them, all of them with angry eyes, as if the big tiger and the plum were their prey, in the face of this formation, the big tiger a boy can still stand up, where can a girl in the plum stand, she was so frightened that she was paralyzed on the ground, and never dared to raise her head.

At this time, Jin Changyuan's father proposed to find Meizi's parents, so that they could witness the scene of his daughter's private meeting with Dahu in front of everyone, and his proposal was immediately opposed by Dahu, and he told the elders present that dating Meizi was his own behavior, and it was not Meizi's business, and he wanted to beat and punish himself, and not involve Meizi's parents.

Unfortunately, at the scene, no one was willing to listen to Dahu's explanation, and in the panic, an elder of the Jin family went to Meizi's house to inform him, and then the scene became out of control. After only a while, not only Meizi's parents, but even the sick Dahu's father and many villagers rushed to the scene after hearing the news, and Dahu realized the seriousness of the situation.

After Meizi's parents arrived, they saw Meizi squatting in the crowd, and the big tiger was standing next to him, so he guessed that he was not far from ten, and in the face of the eyes of the brothers of the Jin family, Meizi's father was an honest farmer who was affected by his son, and his face couldn't hang up, he picked up a wooden stick from the ground and whipped it at Meizi, Meizi was beaten and rolled on the ground, Meizi's mother felt sorry for her daughter, and wanted to snatch the wooden stick from her man's hand, but was pushed to the ground by the man.

At this time, the big tiger didn't care about the orderliness of the young and the young, he used all his strength, pushed Meizi's father to the ground, and snatched the wooden stick in his hand, at the same time that the big tiger subdued Meizi's father, Meizi's mother pulled up Meizi lying on the ground and ran home, seeing Meizi's mother and daughter gone, Meizi's father also launched cruel words in front of everyone, from now on, Meizi is an old girl at home for a lifetime, and she will not marry Dahu.

Meizi's father's cruel words gave the elders of the Jin family another insurance, they were satisfied, the goal was achieved, and the people were scattered.

At this time, Dahu's whole body was wooden, and he instinctively walked over and hugged his father and went home.

In the next few days, Dahu had a high fever and did not go away, his mouth kept talking nonsense, and he drank the traditional Chinese medicine prescribed by Lang Zhong continuously, but it still did not improve.

After Meizi went home, it was like being stunned, not thinking about tea, not wanting to eat, shedding tears on the roof all day long, a few days of hard work, people lost a lot of weight, parents were worried that if this continued, Meizi's life was not guaranteed, so they remembered the little tailor in the neighboring village who came to the house before, this person is honest and honest, and knows how to work, one year older than Meizi, if there is anything unsatisfactory, that is, he is a little shorter, and people are still reliable.

When the parents told Meizi about marrying the tailor, Meizi didn't speak, shook her head vigorously, and cried, but Meizi's parents were ruthless, they felt that only by finding someone to marry as soon as possible could the matter between her and Dahu be completely broken, and the war between the Jin and Han families could be quelled.

Meizi was lying in the house stupidly, thinking about the big tiger, perhaps, the first love, the truth of love, the heart of love.

Although Meizi hadn't eaten for a few days, a belief in love supported Meizi, and under the cover of night, Meizi sneaked out of the house, and he staggered to Dahu's house, at this time, Dahu was having a high fever and talking in his mouth.

As soon as Meizi wanted to knock on the door of Dahu's house, she heard a conversation between Dahu's mother and father:

"Old man, I always feel that our big tiger is pitiful, you say, since the big tiger remembers, has he enjoyed a day of happiness? He and Dalong are both our children, but how did Dahu come over all these years, and now he finally has the opportunity to think for himself, okay, the elders of the family came out to intervene again, you say, what is this called? ”

"You think I don't feel sorry for the big tiger? Let me tell you, my heart is like a mirror, and the elders of the family only consider their thoughts, which one is thinking about our big tiger? However, after all, we are members of the Lao Jin family, what else can we do if we don't stand in the position of the Lao Jin family? ”

"But it's hard for my big tiger!"

"However, you said that when you gave birth to the big tiger, our old man moved the ancestral grave of the old Jin family for the healthy growth of the big tiger, and a few old brothers, didn't they also agree? Let's not forget about them, right? ”

"I can't forget it, but..."

"Don't do it, Meizi, this girl is good, but she has nothing to do with our big tiger, right now, big tiger has been unconscious for several days because of this matter, if he has three long and two short, I really don't know how our family will live in the future!"

I don't know if it was the words of his parents that touched Dahu's nerves, and he talked to himself intermittently in a coma:

"Meizi, Meizi, they all blame me, I don't have the ability, I can't give you happiness, Meizi..."

Meizi was outside the window of Dahu's house, listening to what Dahu's parents and Dahu said when they were unconscious, and her tears fell like beads with broken threads.

Meizi made up her mind to leave Dahu, he didn't want to see Dahu Jia embarrassed between the family and her, besides, Dahu is the pillar of the family, and the master's godson, if he falls because of his own affairs, then he really responds to his father's words, and their family really can't live.

Meizi feels that a woman who has truly loved herself in her life is already very satisfied, and she knows how to let go when she loves to the extreme, and as for the future, it will be good to bear her own fate.

Thinking of this, Meizi returned home, when Meizi lay down on the kang again, she felt that her body was much more relaxed than before she went out, and a terrible thought also appeared in Meizi's mind, I want to take the love of the big tiger to another world, that world, the interference of the absolute family, and her body and mind will always be reserved for the big tiger.

Thinking, thinking, Meizi went to the yard to find a rope, and when she returned to the house, she began to dress up in the mirror, she took a piece of red paper, and pursed it with her lips, her lips became ruddy, and she dipped her comb in some water with a comb and combed the front curtain of the head, and strangely, in the face of the next choice of death, Meizi did not have a little fear, but smiled at the mirror.

No one knows whether Meizi's smile at this time is a helpless laugh, a bitter laugh, a mockery of the family forces that broke up their relationship, or a laugh at the big tiger.

Without hesitation, Meizi moved the stool and kicked it up, and the moment she kicked the stool hard, the last thing she thought about was that she was going to separate the yin and yang, Meizi was unconscious, and her body floated up.

The stool toppled and made a noise that made the mother feel wrong, and she ran to Plum's house and saw a scene she didn't want to see.

The mother screamed and called the family over, the father took the plum down and untied the rope around the plum neck, the mother touched the plum nose and found that there was still a faint breath, she put the plum flat and kept calling the name of the plum child, finally, the plum opened her eyes.

Seeing that her family was all around her, Meizi's first words were:

"Why did you save me! I am more miserable alive than dead. ”

Looking at her daughter who was looking for a short time for love, Meizi's mother couldn't care about any family anymore, grievances, she got up and ran to Kim Changyuan's house, she wanted to beg Kim Changwon's father, forget the past grievances, and fulfill the two children who loved each other.

Meizi's mother thought wrongly, Jin Changyuan's father transferred the hatred of Han San, who killed his son's disability, to Meizi and Dahu, this stubborn hatred is probably difficult to change and forget for a lifetime.

Meizi's mother knocked on the door of Jin Changyuan's house in the middle of the night, and as soon as she entered the door, Meizi's mother told Jin Changyuan's father about Meizi's hanging to find a short-sightedness, and Jin Changyuan's father heard that Meizi had found a short-sightedness, and hurriedly asked, what is the situation, Meizi's mother said that she had come back to life, and Jin Changyuan's father breathed a sigh of relief.

Jin Changyuan's father asked Meizi's mother to sit down and talk, and the atmosphere of the conversation between the two people was still incredible, and the tone was relatively mild, but under this appearance, what was hidden was the stubborn character of Jin Changyuan's father who admitted death.

Meizi knew that her mother must have gone to Jin Changyuan's house just now, so she pulled her mother to sit down and said to her mother calmly:

"Mom, it's my daughter who is not filial, it should be the time to be filial to you, but let you worry about me, I know that you went to Jin Changyuan's father for me, why bother, after such a show, I also want to open, and I don't want to see the big tiger embarrassed for me."

"Girl, didn't I say you, such a big thing happened at home, how could Dahu let you carry it alone, but he didn't show up, such a man is so worthy of your love?"

"Mom, you're wrong about the big tiger, do you know what the big tiger looks like now? Since the accident that day, he has a high fever and has not gone away, unconscious until now, I went to his house without telling you, and before I entered the door, I heard the big tiger talking nonsense, but the nonsense was shouted by my name, Mom, I really can't stand it, since God doesn't call me dead, for you and my father, I also want to live a good life, and the matter between me and the big tiger will be let him be in the past. ”

"Meizi, my good daughter, you have finally figured it out, just treat you as if you are destined to have no part."

Hearing that there was no fate, Meizi couldn't help but remember that Dahu's parents also said the same thing, it seems that parents all over the world have the same idea of caring for their children, but in different ways.

After a few days of stopping, Meizi's mother mentioned to Meizi about the little tailor's marriage, and Meizi's mother told Meizi with a trembling heart, after all, her daughter had just been pulled back from the death line, but to Meizi's mother's surprise, Meizi readily agreed, and said that the sooner the better.

In order not to make extraneous branches, Meizi's parents chose a date.

The night before Meizi left, Meizi's mother still mentioned Dahu, she said to Meizi, if Dahu wakes up and comes to you at home, how should I tell him about your marriage, Meizi told her mother, you tell Dahu, let him forget about me and live his life well.

The little tailor brought a few relatives, carried a sedan chair to Meizi's house, and took Meizi away.

There was no sound of firecrackers, no blessings, and Meizi quietly became the tailor's daughter-in-law.

On the day when the tailor took the plum away, the big tiger was still lying on the kang and talking nonsense, no one listened to what the big tiger said, maybe only the plum could read the big tiger, but unfortunately, that was a thing of the past.

A few days later, the tiger woke up, and he told his mother that he remembered that he had been to many places, climbing mountains and crossing rivers, and that he was almost exhausted, and when his mother told him that he had been asleep for almost ten days, and that he had been talking nonsense every day, he touched the tiger's sad nerves.

After the tears flowed out, the big tiger was in a slightly better mood, he told his mother that he wanted to drink millet porridge, and his mother hurriedly boiled the porridge, and the big tiger drank three bowls in one go.

When chatting at night, Dalong inadvertently told Dahu the news of Sister Meizi's marriage, and Dahu ran towards Meizi's house.

When he arrived at Meizi's house, Meizi's mother called Dahu to the house where Meizi lived and told him everything that happened to Meizi during his coma, Dahu had mixed feelings, and when he heard Meizi's mother say that Meizi left words when he left, let Dahu forget her and live his own life, Dahu agonized in front of Meizi's mother.

After the pain, Dahu understood that this was Meizi's helpless choice, he understood, but he was also sad, his heart hurt, but he couldn't do anything, at this time, he was pale and powerless to say anything and everything, and he couldn't change the fact that Meizi was married.

Meizi's mother also revealed that when Meizi walked to the entrance of the village and passed the old locust tree, she got down from the sedan chair despite the tailor's obstruction, and stood in front of the old locust tree for a long time.

The big tiger can understand the meaning of the plum bow to the old locust tree, this old locust tree, witnessed the whole process of her and the plum from acquaintance to acquaintance, from acquaintance to love, and then to a helpless breakup, the big tiger tried his best to control himself no longer thinking about the plum, just want to be in his heart, wishing the plum eternal happiness, the big tiger swore to himself in his heart that in the next ten years, he would never consider personal problems again.

After Meizi was married home by the tailor, the tailor did not enjoy the treatment of the candle night in the cave room, Meizi sat on the kang, facing the big red happy words pasted on the wall of the house, she didn't feel a little, she just sitted, the tailor was an honest and kind man, he didn't want to force Meizi to do what he didn't want to do.

Considering the feelings of the family, the tailor slept on the floor, and it was like this for several days, and there was no word of blame or complaint, which made Meizi have to look at the tailor differently, Meizi felt that she and the big tiger were fated to have no part, and there was no way to stay together.

However, the tailor is innocent, and he can't mess up the tailor's life because of the death of the first love in the previous paragraph, and ruin the tailor's happiness, Meizi figured it out, and she began to do her duty as a wife, and get along with the tailor as much as possible, half a year later, Meizi was pregnant with the tailor's child, and the neighbors could occasionally see the scene where Meizi took a towel to wipe the tailor's sweat.