Chapter 167: Cone Thorn Self-Motivation
Wei Jia could also understand this truth, she nodded, her eyes staring at Su Qin, wanting to continue to hear his thoughts.
Su Qin saw that Wei Jia was listening to his words very attentively, so his interest increased greatly, and he continued: "What the world is worried about is that they can't keep up with it and are left behind, so they must strongly express that they move with the trend and emphasize their existence; In fact, if you think about it, it is precisely the complete loss of yourself, becoming a pitiful vassal or slave. ”
"I am just devoting myself to the path and cause that I adhere to, and I am indomitable. Just like me, if I give up my ideals and become a businessman as my father expected, then I really don't have myself. ”
"The wisdom of the predecessors is condensed in a few but fine books, repeated and careful study, coupled with their own diligent thinking, will naturally form their own unique skills or unique learning, the way of survival is in it, and the way of wealth is also in it."
Although Wei Jia listened carefully, she was still a little confused by what Su Qin said for a while, and she blinked her eyes wide, revealing a little confusion and incomprehension.
Su Qin saw it in his eyes and further explained to her: "You see that there are two big trees in our yard, one is a jujube tree and the other is a locust tree, they both have their own nature and endowment, they both grow between heaven and earth, and each has its own life cycle and way of survival. If the jujube tree grows in the way of the locust tree, or the locust tree survives in the way of the jujube tree, won't they all lose their unique nature and die miserably? ”
Wei Jia heard the explanation of the big tree as an example, and only then did she understand what Su Qin meant, and she said: "Sir's opinion is that everyone should always ask what they really want, don't be like some boring people in Luoyang City, all day long, follow the trend, although you can enjoy yourself, but life is pale and powerless." ”
Su Qin slapped his face and praised: "Miss Wei said almost more thoroughly than me, she is really a good heart, Su Qin admires it very much." ”
"I'm not actually against indulging in gossip and self-satisfaction, it's also a way of life for them, and it's good to live like that. After all, people have their own paths, and how they choose is in their own creation and understanding. ”
"Just like this book "Taigong Yin Fu", it is a military book in your father's hands, but in my hands, it has become a philosophical work, all because of our different endowments and choices."
Wei Jia was fascinated by what he heard and wanted to listen to it again, but Su Qin himself had only just read "Taigong Yin Fu", although he had some other experiences, he felt very immature and impenetrable, and he was reluctant to say it for a while.
Therefore, he said: "My comprehension is only these at present, and if I can refer to the essence in the future, I will definitely learn from Miss Wei in time." ”
Wei Jia only then stopped his heart and stopped asking. Wei Jia was of course a little interested in Su Qin's thoughts, but in fact, he preferred to watch Su Qin speak, intoxicated by the atmosphere of dialogue with Su Qin. For this, Su Qin didn't see it so clearly.
Su Qin has repeatedly emphasized personality and choice, so what will Wei Jia's own choice be, Su Qin didn't think to ask her, in fact, Wei Jia already had a plan in his heart.
The two talked with great interest, and before they knew it, more than an hour later, Wei Jia got up to say goodbye. Su Qin thought about it for a while, and then begged Wei Jia: "Does Miss Wei have an awl for needlework, can you lend it to me?" ”
Wei Jia didn't know what Su Qin was doing with the awl, so he paused it and said, "Of course I have it, the girl's family has to use it to sew and weave, and almost everyone has that thing." However, what do you want it to do? ”
Su Qin smiled and said, "I'm a little useful anyway, you can borrow it from me for the time being, and if you do knitting work one day, I'll give it back to you." ”
Wei Jia agreed to Su Qin, so she went to her house to get a needle cone, sent it to Su Qin's room, and said goodbye with a questioning face.
Su Qin put the awl on the bookcase and continued to read. After about half an hour, drowsiness struck again, so Su Qin mustered up his courage and stabbed him in the thigh with an awl, and his body suddenly became agitated and drove away the drowsiness.
But after all, it was the tip of the awl that pierced the skin, and one or two drops of blood slowly seeped out, Su Qin felt that his legs were strange, and he lifted his shirt to take a closer look, and found that the blood had seeped into his clothes.
Su Qin originally thought that the posture of the head hanging beam was a little scary and could not be used anymore, so he came up with a way to stab his thigh. It seemed that this method was also dangerous, and he couldn't help but be careful, and when he drove away the drowsiness again, he hit the thigh with the tail of the awl, which could also make the body and mind tremble.
In this way, Su Qin taught his children to study, and at the same time studied hard behind closed doors, enjoying it. Time slowly slipped away, cold and summer, and before I knew it, more than ten months had passed, and it was the late autumn of the year.
The book "Taigong Yin Fu" given by Wei Wei, Su Qin has read it more than 100 times, and the words in it can be memorized backwards, and he will also record his feelings at any time, and gradually it has been collected into a new book, which Su Qin named "Speculation".
In his new book, he particularly emphasizes that a person learns and thinks from his own life, and how to analyze and discern the situation, and to take advantage of the situation, which requires repeated deductions from the other party's standpoint.
After this cultivation and training, he felt that he had made breakthrough progress, and he was able to come out of the closed personal circle, wandering between here and there, between me and non-self, adjusting his strategy at any time, responding to changes, and thus standing in a state of invincibility.
The two children have been able to memorize classics such as "Poems", "Yi" and "Books", and each has its own ideas and ideas.
One afternoon, Su Qin was sorting out his books in the study, when suddenly there was a fierce noise from the door of the small courtyard, Su Qin stopped what he was doing and walked out to see what was going on.
When he arrived at the gate, he found that Wei Jia and Gao Yan were arguing with a person, Su Qin looked at that person again, it turned out to be Wu Jing in Xu Gao's mansion, only to see him slamming into Wei Jia and Gao Yan vigorously, and wanted to break in, Wei Jia and Gao Yan reached out and grabbed Wu Jing's sleeve, dragged him, and did not allow him to enter the courtyard.
Su Qin came out of the gate, Wu Jing saw him, immediately stopped, and said to Su Qin: "Mr. Su, you really live here, you asked us to find you so hard." ”
He turned his face away again and said to Wei Jia and Gao Yan: "You two girls still say that Mr. Su doesn't live here, isn't this clearly a lie?" Don't you see that others are coming out of it? ”