Cui Ying feels that there have been a lot of annoying things in the recent past. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

The first is the retirement of my wife.

Retirement is the inevitable outcome of people working to a certain age, and even the president of the state will have to retire when the time comes, let alone the director of a division-level research institute in the army. In the fifties and sixties of the last century, the word "glorious" was added before retirement, and retirees wore big red flowers and were sent out of the gate of their units with gongs and drums. Whoever is retiring now, you say that he is "honorably retired", may be considered a joke. Cui Ying didn't think much about what others thought about the retirement issue, but she just felt that the retirement of cadres means that people are old, their rights are gone, their money is less, their friends are gone, their treatment is reduced, and they are left out in the cold.

When his wife Ren Chunhua retired, the director who replaced him was the deputy director of the higher authority, and his friendship with Ren Chunhua was not very deep in the past, but the words of the new director to the home really moved Cui Ying for a while. He said that the old director's today is his tomorrow, and taking care of the old director is like taking care of himself. More than half a year has passed, and the new director, as well as some people who often come to the house in the original institute, may want to "take care" of the old director but can't "take care", and now no one has ever come to the house again. Cui Ying complained in front of Ren Chunhua that when a leading cadre loses his hair when he is in office, some people will ask if your head is itchy; After retirement, you have a broken finger, and no one asks if your palm hurts.

The second is that the son has just divorced.

Nowadays, some boys, after graduating from college, may not be able to find a suitable job for a year or two, but they can change a girlfriend in ten days and a half months. Son Ren Xiaogang is an honest and obedient child at home and school, and after graduating from college, he worked as a salesman in a friend's company, and his job was quite stable. Not long after, he met his colleague Wenxiu, and the two got married after a short time of love, and the young couple rented a small one-bedroom house outside to live alone.

Although Wenxiu is not like what others say, she is a person who is loved by everyone, flowers bloom, a car can automatically burst a tire when she sees it, and a beer bottle can jump off the lid by herself, but she is also a girl who makes adult men shine when they see her, Xiaogang knew that she had no marriage match, so he made up his mind not to marry her.

Xiaogang's superior family conditions and good personal appearance won Wenxiu's heart, and after the two knew each other for three months, they walked on the red carpet of marriage.

Xiaogang is a young man with a real heart, thinking that Wenxiu's home is in the field, working and living alone in Beijing, he has suffered a lot, he takes care of her in every way, loves her a lot, he usually spends money more frugally, but he buys a lot of accessories and clothes for Wenxiu. This is just like what some people say, in front of beautiful women, stingy men will also become bold and become ATMs who can spit out money without losing passwords. After Wenxiu and Xiaogang got married, they also bought something for Xiaogang: a hat, and it was green.

That was what happened half a year after they got married, Xiaogang went on a business trip to the south and returned to Beijing a day earlier than originally planned. In order to surprise his wife, he didn't tell Wenxiu in advance that he was going home early. As a result, when he returned to the rented house, Wenxiu was only surprised, she and her ex-boyfriend, who made a comeback after the company's bankruptcy, used the lotus root that was still silky, and offered Xiaogang a plate of cold dishes mixed with too much mustard.

Xiaogang is a man who is very traditional in marriage matters, and his requirements for his wife are: one infidelity will be intolerable for life. Like many men with strong blood, he chose to divorce, resolutely resigned from his husband, and returned to the ranks of bachelors.

And the daughter does not marry.

Daughter Ren Xiaoyuan has always been the top student in the class from elementary school to high school, and she has never understood why some children in the military compound are unwilling to be soldiers and go to military schools like her brother, but she has regarded herself as a member of the army since she was a child. When she graduated from high school, she gave up the possibility of attending a top university in Beijing and did not hesitate to apply for the Military Medical University in Xi'an.

Xiaoyuan is a bachelor's and master's student, studied medicine in school for seven years, and was already a twenty-six-year-old girl when she graduated.

After graduation, Xiaoyuan was assigned to work as a doctor in the Department of Stomatology of a military hospital not far from the research institute. Cui Ying originally thought that after her daughter's work was implemented, she should find a friend to fall in love, and then get married and have children, who knew that after working for a few years, she was recently preparing to study for a doctorate on the job, and she pretended to be deaf and dumb to her mother's advice.

After hearing enough of Cui Ying's complaints, Xiaoyuan once smiled and said to her: "Mom, there are some things you don't understand, books are a summary of the experience of predecessors, and they are precious spiritual wealth, and there are two biggest needs in life, one is to supplement food in the stomach, and the other is to enrich the knowledge in the brain. ”

Cui Ying seized the opportunity to refute her daughter and said: "You are in your thirties and you are still not looking for a boyfriend, when will you have children and grandchildren?" ”

Mother's words made Xiaoyuan blush.

Cui Ying is a family member of the army, she worked as a worker in a food processing factory in the county before joining the army, and in the era of lack of food and drink, a worker in a food processing factory, that is an enviable profession. Although she and her husband have been separated for a long time, because the efficiency of the factory is better, and their home is not too far from the county seat, she and her children have not suffered too much.

Cui Ying did not have much education, barely graduated from primary school, and after joining the army, she worked as a worker in the army's family factory, she said that "military family members" are women who follow their military husbands to do housework and take care of children. Therefore, in addition to coping with her job for eight hours in the unit, she spends the rest of her time worrying about pork and eggs, washing dishes and cooking at home. In the nearly 30 years since she arrived in Beijing, Ren Chunhua has worked from a deputy technician to a leading cadre at the level of a full teacher, and she is still an ordinary worker.

When Ren Chunhua was in office, he basically didn't care about housework, and after retirement, he still basically didn't care, practicing calligraphy, playing billiards, fishing, and chatting with a group of old comrades-in-arms all day long, so that Cui Ying was the same as before, fully presiding over the daily work of the family.

My wife is easy to serve, just go home and have a bowl of rice to eat, the affairs of the two children are more difficult, they don't let you take care of the things you want to manage, and they don't want to take care of the things you don't want to manage, they still have to pull your heart so that you have to take care of it, which makes Cui Ying feel a little unhappy.