Eighty Red Treatises: Seven Emotions Refining Jade Book

During the Eastern Han Dynasty, Xu Shen was influenced by the sage Confucius's saying that "a gentleman is more virtuous than jade", and put forward the theory that jade has five virtues, that is: "Jade, the beauty of stone, has five virtues." Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 info moistens with warmth, benevolence also; Reason comes from the outside, you can know the middle, and the righteous side is also; Its voice is soothing, dedicated to hearing from afar, and the wisdom is also; Indomitable and bending, brave and brave; Sharp and honest but not resentful, the clean prescription is also" translated into the vernacular: "moisturizing with warmth, benevolence is also the prescription" - mild and moisturizing with luster, indicating that the jade is kind and benevolent; "The gill is from the outside, you can know the middle, and the righteous side is also" - jade has a high transparency, and it can be seen from the outside that it has a characteristic texture inside, indicating that the jade is loyal to the heart; "Its voice is soothing, it is heard from afar, and the wisdom is also" - if you hit the jade, it will make a clear and melodious sound, and it can be transmitted to a long distance, indicating that the jade has wisdom and is conveyed to the people around it; "Indomitable and bending, brave and brave" - with extremely high toughness and hardness, indicating that jade has superhuman courage; "Sharp and honest but not resentful, clean and clean" - there is a fracture but the edge is not sharp, indicating that the jade itself is honest and self-restrained but does not harm others. Therefore, it is righteous for people to give jade human affection, and it is based on jade to give people a material foundation.

People have seven emotions and six desires: seven emotions refer to the seven emotions that ordinary people have: joy, anger, sorrow, thought, sadness, fear, and shock; The six desires refer to the six desires of the eyes, ears, nose, tongue, body, and mind. Based on the theory of the five elements, the pre-Qin medical classic "The Yellow Emperor's Neijing" put forward the changing relationship between human emotions in "Su Wen: Yin and Yang should be like the Great Treatise": "The wind in the east is wood, the body is tendons, the Tibetan is the liver, the color is the blue, the sound is the horn, the sound is the exhalation, the change is the grip, the trick is the eye, the taste is sour, the will is angry, the anger hurts the liver, and the sorrow is more than anger; The south generates heat, the earth is fire, the body is the pulse, the hidden is the heart, the color is red, the sound is the sign, the sound is the laughter, the change is the worry, the trick is the tongue, the taste is bitter, the will is happy, the joy is sad, and the fear is overjoyed; The center is wet, the ground is the soil, the body is the flesh, the Tibetan is the spleen, the color is yellow, the sound is the palace, the sound is the song, the change is the sigh, the trick is the mouth, the taste is sweet, the will is the thought, the spleen is hurt, and the anger is better than the thought; The West is dry, the ground is golden, the body is fur, the Tibetan is the lungs, the color is white, the sound is business, the sound is crying, the change is coughing, the nose is in the nose, the taste is pungent, the ambition is sorrowful, the lungs are sad, and the joy is better than sorrow; The north is cold, the ground is water, the body is the bone, the Tibetan is the kidney, the color is black, the sound is the feather, the sound is the moan, the change is the chestnut, the hole is the ear, the taste is salty, the will is fearful, the kidney is hurt, and the thought is better than fear. Therefore, the transformation of the seven emotions in the body is of great significance to personal health.

Love--Seven love letters

Happiness is also one of the great emotions of human beings, it is the gathering of positive energy of society, and it has extraordinary significance for the existence and development of society.

In life, joy, happiness, and love are intertwined, and there are still boundaries of each family's "self-reserved land".

Joy, joy and the word "Xi", the ancients said that "the night of candles in the cave room, when the title of the gold list" is a classic drama in ancient times. Joy is the main content of social communication connotation and constitutes the mainstream direction of society.

Different from Buddhism, which believes that life suffers, Confucianism talks about benevolence and believes that life is joyful, so there is a division between "happiness alone" and "happiness for all", and special emphasis is placed on "happiness for all". Confucianism is a mature social psychology that requires people to have a view in social life, and requires that there is no separation between people's eyes and thoughts. Confucius said, "Seventy and do what you want from the heart", the ancients summarized life from youth to twilight to ask people to learn, not to ask people to be "old" or rigid, but to be old, mature, and accessible. In this way, people can obtain "happiness for all" and social pleasure. In ancient times, the emphasis on convergence culture was to avoid the recklessness of young people, and its purpose was to achieve freedom and social harmony.

China's social structure is like a "well field" due to the social family, which involves the feelings of the family and the country of the "University", and it can be said that a "University" has created the most stable social structure in the world. In modern society, these are facing the fate of being broken, and the reason may be the influence of fast-food culture, or it may be the consequence of great industrialization. Although the West talks about "existence is truth", it is a social theory that does not be overhauled and replaced, although it can have social speed, but it is also a multitude of social problems, and it is constantly accelerating in the hope of using time to grind out the problems, which can be regarded as an understanding of the general social operation mode of the West. Different from benevolence, after the love of people came to China, there was a tendency to fragment the "joy of all". Although it is strange that the social impact of "public music" into the addition mode of "music" and "music", the social "family love" and "friendship" still exist, and the trend of social harmony still exists. This is perhaps a social adjustment in the field of sociology. Perhaps in modern society, that kind of vision and thinking that transcend time is somewhat inapplicable. Especially for the post-80s generation, people's "self-reserved land" is limited to personal circumference, requiring couples to become "blind" and give each other more space, although it is strange but the reality requires that it is true, and it is a "slave" family relationship that completely belongs to each other, otherwise it will become difficult to maintain the family, which is also a generally accepted view in society. From a sociological point of view, perhaps a social concept has slowly developed from the Taoist Ren Yun, and then gradually returned to the Confucian tradition, so that the voices of social ambiguity will also be silenced.

Seven emotions and six desires - life exploration is endless, infinite changes, and it is just that individuals cannot be fully understood; And knowing is not the same as understanding, and understanding is not the same as application, otherwise the ancients would not be like Wang Yangming.

Revised from June 16, 2016 to July 18, 2016

Nervous - Seven love letters with happy words

Nervousness also stems from the fear of the unknown. Tension is caused by a physical and mental system; Tie means restraint, and the restraint of the mind causes tension; Nervousness is confined in the heart, because there is a difference between large and small the number of people affected.

For individuals, nervousness is not an essential emotion and can even be harmful. For example, in an athlete's competition, nervousness is the most detrimental factor to winning gold, because of the importance of nervousness, the athlete's nervousness will produce an imbalance, thus losing the usual level of competition, resulting in a decline in performance.

For society, tension has a well-known slogan: unity, tension, seriousness and liveliness. "Unity, seriousness and liveliness" is easy to understand, but it is really difficult to understand why "nervousness" is solemnly proposed by society. It wasn't until I read "The Founding Ceremony" that I realized that this is the same meaning as people to tighten the "strings" or hold a little strength, so that people do not relax and stay focused in life. In the film, the older generation of revolutionaries realized that the revolution was not stop and the struggle was endless, so the national anthem was set as "March of the Volunteers". The slogan "unity, tension, seriousness and liveliness" is more solemn and more serious because of seriousness.

In the interpersonal emotional sphere, tension is also less necessary. Because the Confucian ritual system developed according to the "Jingtian system", the relationship between people is fixed, so that people have emotional communication in the moral distance, so there is no need to be nervous. Moreover, a person's position determines the degree of social influence of tension, especially if the king of a country is nervous about the beauty instead of the country, it will be fatal. The "red face and troubled water" that have been counted are such as Daji, Bao Xi, Xi Shi, Feiyan, Diao Chan, and Yuhuan, in short, there is an excuse for the lack of personal will. In China, where culture is convergent, tension in the emotional realm is very disadvantageous. Because tension is heavy, this can cause a serious emotional skew. Personal tension may not mean true love in the eyes of the other person. Because, nervousness also means immaturity of the individual. Although true love is indeed as precious as the morning star, the result is that the other party who is in a strong position may be "leisurely into a plane", which is a common phenomenon in the youth without regrets. Therefore, when tension arises in the emotional field, it often means synchronous stress psychology, or even extreme anger, and its choice may be just to bump out, in a word, immature. Whether it's a particular person or a particular thing, tension may be unavoidable, and there's no point in avoiding it. Facing it calmly may be a normal approach, and not excessive, moderate tension can also have a certain positive effect on a specific person or a specific thing, which can be understood from the past saying that husband and wife "respect each other as guests".

Revised from June 14, 2016 to July 18, 2016

The Thinker - Seven Love Letters of Joy Words

Thinking is a great emotion possessed by human beings, a collection of the seven emotions of human beings, and an eternal representative of human beings themselves.

Thoughts, thoughts, doubts, thoughts, thoughts, thoughts, thoughts, thoughts, thoughts, thoughts......, thoughts,

These short-lived changes in the heart or brain are collected and formed into thoughts through evolution, and thus passed down within human beings themselves.

There are many social issues involving the eternity of thought, such as the following examples:

Philosophical category: There is a proposition in the history of ethical thought in China that is the "three immortals". It is called "virtue", "meritorious service" and "speech" by the uncle Sun Bao of the Lu State in the Spring and Autumn Period. "Virtue", that is, setting a moral example and influencing others to follow suit; "Meritorious", that is, to establish meritorious service for the country and the people, so that the country and the people are safe, is the direction of participation in the society; "Speech" means putting forward insightful remarks in order to write books. Although these three have not been abandoned for a long time, they will last for a long time.

Art category: The Thinker by French sculptor Rodin. It was originally part of his large-scale sculpture "The Gates of Hell", which later became Rodin's greatest masterpiece in his later years, and has played a powerful role in the subsequent social process. At the beginning of the 20th century, it was seen as a symbol of the power to transform the world. Lenin said to two youth delegates who were on their way to London for the Russian Social Democratic Congress and were passing through France: "You must go and see Rodin's The Thinker." ”

Due to the excessive content, I will talk about the common way of thinking, hoping to relax everyone's tense social rhythm.

The thoughts of ordinary people are synchronized, that is, what they want to do and what they do. Most people's thought synchronization is linear, intelligent, responsive, and able to keep up is a description of the speed of people's thoughts. Some people's thinking is branch-type, which is a creative way of thinking, and the branch-type is orderly, and the vine-man type may be mixed. Some people think in parallel, which is a more dangerous way of thinking, which belongs to the application of diverse talents, and it is recommended to reduce the number of parallels when using them.

Some people will speed up their thoughts, such as prophets. Most of the predictions will be distorted, because when the prediction is spoken, it means that the development of the society has added a variable, that is, the variable increases, the future is more unpredictable, so that people will avoid the prediction, especially the pessimistic prediction; Beneficial prophecies have come true, including science fiction prophecies, which are also natural selection.

Some people's thinking will slow down, which is due to age on the one hand, and at the same time, peace of mind is a part of health; On the other hand, there are people who deliberately slow down the pace of thought, which means that they are sociologists, and such a purpose is to be deliberate.

For people, how to think is the process, the result is more important to people, and the result of producing an idea that can be circulated is the embodiment of social value. The fact that any emotion can be processed to become meaningful is not only a psychological issue, but also a sociological one. Because much of human social progress stems from the result of emotional change-driven.

Joyful love, sad parting, troubled sorrow, anger, escape from fear, exploration of change and surprise, ....... All this makes it possible for individuals, people, and human beings to move forward. What we have to do is abandon the theme engraved on "The Gates of Hell": "Come here, give up all hope!"

Revised from 2016.6.11 to 2016.7.18

Sadness - Seven love letters of joy and words

"Since ancient times, there has been affection and empty hatred, and this hatred has no end" - Bai Juyi

"Affectionate parting since ancient times, and even more so that can be snubbed the Qingqiu Festival" - Liu Yong

The sadness of later generations has deviated from the original meaning of the word "sadness", but the connotation is becoming more and more profound.

In the early stage of Homo sapiens, the death of the ancestors caused people to be sad, but the emotion of remembrance should be greater than the sorrow. Since the ancients did not understand memories, just as they did not understand dreams, when the ancestors vividly circled in their minds, so that people gave birth to world consciousness, then the concept of the real world and the world of the dead was born in the germination, and as a result, the ideas of human ******** such as witchcraft and shamanism began to be enriched.

Entering the era of civilization, human thought is constantly summarized, and Confucius proposed in the "Analects" and "Eight Hundreds": "Guan Ju" is happy but not lewd, sad but not sad. Emotional control has become the norm in people's lives.

Human emotions have gone through the embryonic period, to the period of control of thinkers who take the world as their thing, and then to the wild period of the complex period, which is represented by the "Seven Sages of the Bamboo Forest" in the Wei and Jin dynasties. Note that the wild and uninhibited is not only Confucianism and Taoism, the development of Chinese Zen Buddhism under the influence of naturalism has also been first-class in the future, and it is not only in China, Japan's famous Yixiu Zong is purely a mad monk, and the "Yixiu Monk" in this film and television was thoroughly enlightened at the age of 27, so that there was an unbelievable behavior later.

The following literati and artists gradually became familiar with emotions, and wandering and immersion are two attitudes towards feelings. Needless to say, it is the attitude of most people to life, especially those who are focused on work and career. The sincere attitude of the people immersed in it gave birth to a large number of cultural and literary masterpieces, such as the poets of the Tang and Song dynasties who wrote the first two lines of poetry.

The ease with which grief is manipulated reflects the psychological maturity of human beings. For example, Su Shi's "Jiangchengzi Yimao Dream on the Twentieth Night of the First Month" recalls the vast space between life and death for ten years, and Lu You's "Hairpin Phoenix" "Red Crisp Hands...... Spring is like the old ......", Li Qingzhao's "Slow Voice, Seeking and Seeking" "Looking for and Seeking...... bits and pieces ......", in which the love, hate, sweetness, and emotional changes are difficult to say constant.

It's different for ordinary people, although most people can get rid of emotions, but some people need to know how to let go in time if the situation is infected with sadness. Of course, even if modern psychological cheats are everywhere, what if there are people who can't get rid of it? That's to expand the range of emotional perception. It is often said in society that travel is to expand life, and it can also expand personal emotions or common workaholics to expand the scope of personal action.

Finally: pathos is a category of humane society; Grief is a social category of human nature. For people in society, this kind of emotion is both reasonable and valuable.

Revised from June 9, 2016 to July 18, 2016

Sorrow - Seven love letters of happy words

"He who forsaken me shall not remain in the day of yesterday; Those who disturb my heart will have many troubles today. ”

Li Bai's thorough understanding of worries lies in his life experience.

In many cases, life's troubles and sorrows are not a bad thing. The constant high sunshine in nature can only indicate that the weather is dry and requires extreme weather to bring rain and dew to the creatures on the ground. The same is true for human beings, and the continuation of peaceful and prosperous times sometimes means the accumulation of contradictions, which can lead to social change. Of course, in many cases, social wealth is created in prosperous times, but avoiding duplicate creation is the problem. Therefore, there are those who blow and blow in joy and quiet, and there are also those who seek breakthroughs in sorrow and change.

Instead of criticizing him for being worried, I hope that he will find a new way. For the treatment of troubles, it is necessary to know that "there are always more ways than problems": there is only one problem, and when it is time to solve it, there must be many ways. The emergence of a problem means that the problem is solidified, and the fixed problem is not a problem for the changing angle; Standing on top of the problem, the problem is not the problem. That's the perception of a lot of the upper echelons.

The ancients said that "boating on the bitter sea", so Li Bai's follow-up was "drawing a knife to cut off the water and the water is more flowing, and raising a glass is more sorrowful." Life is not satisfactory in the world, and the Ming Dynasty spreads flat boats", Qi Wuqian, who understands the same truth, also said, "The ghost is not broken, and this goes as you like." The evening breeze blows the boat, and the flower road enters the mouth of the stream". When there is a "crossroads" in the future of the vast road and galloping life, it is also the moment when the best way out is endless.

Worry is the hand-holding of the heart. The word "worry" is especially in the heart, or heavy or repetitive, so what does it matter if it is beneficial to others and take it in the hand?

2016.6.8——2016.7.18 Revision

Shocking - Seven love letters of happy words

Surprise is a short-lived reverse emotion in human beings, and even has intermittent characteristics. Surprise is often mixed with other emotions, such as panic, shock, surprise, etc. Like taking suffering as pleasure, the emotion of surprise can also be controlled and transformed, and the light of wisdom often shines in the process. Typical examples include:

At the end of World War II, during the Potsdam Conference, US President Harry Truman pretended to have no intention of revealing to Stalin the news of the successful US atomic bomb test. After Stalin's return, the Soviet Union intensified and succeeded in developing the atomic bomb, and finally avoided American nuclear blackmail.

In "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", the green plum boiled wine and talked about heroes, and Cao Cao's sentence "Only the envoy and the ear" shocked Liu Bei's spoon to the ground, which coincided with the thunder, which made Liu Bei think that Liu Bei was timid. Liu Bei's escape lies in the transformation of emotions, from shock to horror, which are two attitudes towards life.

The practice of the seven emotions of life is not only a life story, but also a life culture. Studying life is also an important thing, don't be like Sean Connery in "Raiders of the Lost Ark 3", hoping that "II" is as "godly" as the Yellow Emperor, otherwise how can there be Harrison Ford's consternation when he shot down enemy planes and chanted poetry with seagulls. The West considers that meritorious deeds are often commensurate with the first and second generations, and the Easterners know that it is difficult to start a business by keeping a business, so there is a saying that "immediately fight the world, and rule the world under the horse". Therefore, the child who is born with a supernatural spirit is brought by the previous life, and it is best to be able to extend the family business; Otherwise, it is like intermittent personal emotions and the change of dynasties in history. "Earthquake" in the Book of Changes: Heng. The shock is slight, the smile is hoarse, the shock is hundreds of miles, and the dagger is not lost. The thunder shocked a hundred miles, some people panicked, some people were as usual and some people were afraid; People are different from each other, or in the congenital birth, or in the acquired cultivation, in a moment, in a lifetime of feelings, with people at any time with the fate of things, the past has been recalled in the heart, the future is endeavor on the road.

Revised from June 6, 2016 to July 18, 2016

Fear - Seven love letters of joy words

Fear refers to people being panicked, scared, and uneasy. From a biological point of view, fear is an instinctive reflection of survival. Human fear is an instinctive conditioned reflex that does not change will, which is manifested in two types, one is the empirical type and the other is the unknown type. The empirical type originates from the accumulation of factors such as death in the long process of human evolution; Scientists have discovered that fear genes control brain secretion; Personally, for example, childhood experiences lead to fear of certain things, i.e., traumatic habits. The unknown type stems from people's doubts about their ability to live, such as facing the dark night or not having confidence in dealing with possible problems in the future.

Powerful people are role models in the fight against fear. For example, British Prime Minister Winston Churchill famously said, "Courage is justified as the first of human virtues, because it guarantees all the rest; Courage is one of the most important human qualities, and if we have courage, we will naturally have other human qualities." Churchill used his experience to dispel the difficult problems that lay ahead. In his Memoirs of World War II, he looks back as a statesman on how to overcome all kinds of crises in the face of war, and his fearlessness has guided generations of people. And the resilient President of the United States, Franklin D. Roosevelt, famously said, "The only thing we fear is fear itself." Roosevelt led the people into the future with faith, and inspired countless people to overcome the difficulties they faced in the form of conversations by the fireplace.

Here's a subtle explanation of the "joy of fear" in life, yes: the pleasure that fear brings. For example, when you get a haircut. The loss of hair is actually not happy, but there can still be happiness in the process. For men, this psychology also exists when shaving their faces. Therefore, the positive and negative changes of the seven emotions are unpredictable.

Revised from June 5, 2016 to July 18, 2016

Road Fury - Seven Love Letters of Joy Words

Anger is a manifestation of the individualization of emotions. Although socialization requires people to be positive, the joy of the seven emotions and six desires is only one of them; While joy and joy are the mainstream of society, people often talk about non-mainstream social factors. When a society reports on an event, people accept it because it solves the problem.

For example, what happened in the car two days ago.

At that time, two elderly people got into the car, holding red preferential cards, and there was no tag.

The driver said: The car does not recognize the card only the plate, and wants to play the ticket.

(The tone is a little hard: "take the car with the card" is a little unacceptable)

The old man was embarrassed to put away the red card, turned over for a long time to find 5 yuan, and asked the driver to find money.

The driver said: Insert coins yourself, and the driver is not responsible for finding money.

The atmosphere in the car was a little stiff.

The old man embarrassed and put away the money.

(The same is true in your own pocket, if it is worth putting it in the cash box, it is another social problem)

The old man was annoyed, and later showed two attitudes: either get off the bus or not make a ticket.

The driver's attitude is not to deduct the ticket.

(At that time, even if the driver was reminded, he probably wouldn't listen - pull the old man to the main station, and the result may be that the station manager personally drove the old man home)

This was followed by a spat of the tongue.

During this period, the driver drove for 3 or 4 stops.

When an eldest sister came to the back of the car, she took out 5 yuan change to solve the matter.

Think back to this, consider the changes in society over the years. There are obvious trends such as the individualization of the individual and the institutionalization of the country. For individuals, it's important to note that personalization is not personalization. In the past, the emphasis on people's consciousness was a society governed by man, or a society governed by benevolence. The legal society emphasizes supervision, and it is difficult to implement it in all aspects. Thus, in the case of the individual, the elimination of individualization in the social and collective environment is one aspect of the role of traditional culture.

Confucius was separated from his disciples in Zheng Guo, that is, he had the self-deprecation of "the dog who lost his family", such as "Xinran" in the "Historical Records". Looking at the word "Xinran" is a matter between people, I don't know if it was infected Zigong at that time. The joys, sorrows, and sorrows of the ancients have been passed down to this day, making people introspective. The story of the "Historical Records" is as follows: Confucius was suitable for Zheng, lost with his disciples, and Confucius became independent of Guo Dongmen. Zheng Ren or Zigong said: "There are people in the east gate, whose style is like Yao, its item is like Gao Tao, and its shoulder is like a child, but it is not as good as Yu three inches below." Tired like a lost dog. Zigong told Confucius the truth. Confucius smiled happily and said, "The shape is the end." And it is like a lost dog, yes! Oh yes! "Confucius was in exile, and when he met Zheng people, Hezhang people, and Chu madmen, these hermits were not alone. Confucius was ridiculed, but he was still not angry and had a pleasant mentality, which is something that future generations need to learn.

After watching "Tang Ju Fulfills His Mission" in "Warring States Policy: Wei Ce IV", you need to know that life is also angry when you are angry, and what is the difference between the anger of the husband and the anger of the Son of Heaven. In some problems of entanglement, anger does not help to solve the problem; In the confrontation of certain interests, anger can be transformed into a shock force. We know that a famous photo of British Prime Minister Winston Churchill is the image of an angry cane, which inspired people to bravely fight against the fascist **** on the European continent in World War II until the final victory.

2016.6.4——2016.7.18 Revision

Pain - Seven Love Letters of Joy Words

Pain is a strength. I don't know how many people have elaborated on this proposition. In modern society, people live a tense life, and few people are idle in the competition to remind others to pay attention to the feet ahead. But there is still a voice echoing:

Go ahead! The children! Advance! Whatever lies ahead, move on! This kind of voice reminds people who are comfortable to fight in war, in exploration, in the commercial sea, and when they are ploughing! Endeavor! Don't indulge, otherwise, you're not even as good as a bug.

Standing at the crossroads, looking at the people coming and going, the bustling people are pushing people to pursue happiness and stay away from painful hopes. Pain can be forgotten: because the brave face it, face it, and break it; And for those who have attained enlightenment, it exists, it accompanies it, and it inspires. People in prosperity like happiness and laughter, but tragedy is a classic, comedy is a common song, and the world is about the same. But the pace of society still calls and inspires people to move forward through it.

2016.5.24——2016.7.18 Revision

Summary: Seven emotions are things, good is happy, rebellion is sadness, anger is worry, thinking is fear, and fear is shocking. Husbands are born of joy, and love follows each other; Therefore, love is not happy, it must be demonic, and it is impossible to be wrong to give love; Therefore, the seven emotions are also positive, and they are also lost. Things are touching and affectionate; People are happy, scared, sad, shocked, prolonged, tied too tightly, implicated in worry, hedged anger, have no regrets, refining but quality refining opportunities, Wenfu past love for a word is a pity.

The seven emotions of life do not lie in the purgatory of Buddhism, but in the cultivation of virtue like jade, self-cultivation, family members, others, and society.

2016.7.18