In the palm of your hand on Qingwen (3)
"Eighty Red Treatises" --- On Qingwen in the palm of your hand (3)
Lao Tzu believes that people have both sides of strength and softness, and it is wrong to be blindly strong. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info However, it is easy to be soft and difficult, because no one wants to wronged themselves. Therefore, one should concentrate on being soft, because it is impossible to remain too strong for a long time, and there are places where it seems to be weak that it is better than being strong. The classic metaphor is: When a person is old, his teeth are gone, but his tongue is still there.
Qingwen is more than strong and not flexible in things, which is reflected in the book, at least what we see. For example, she confronted Baoyu and dared to fight with him, taunted and attacked people, accused Qiu Wen of getting Mrs. Wang's self-sufficiency, and expelled and stole things
's pendant is all a way of being reckless, and it is fair to say that "sexual impatience" is a fair word.
In fact, Qingwen and them are all in the status of slaves, although there is a difference in the level of the maid ring or how much they earn in Jiafu, but in the eyes of Mrs. Wang, they are the same.
The argument between her and Baoyu can be said to be the embodiment of the spirit of resistance, and the other Yahuan is "born from the same root, so why be too anxious to fry each other." "Looking at it today, the Ming and Qing dynasties were a period of feudal decline, and any behavior of making trouble with Jiafu can be said to be broken
Kicking on the house, isn't it better than Qingwen and Baoyu to talk about anti-feudalism?
The reason for Qingwen's gun-like character lies in Jia's mother. Jia's mother is willing to let Qingwen assist Baoyu, "The appearance of these girls is refreshing, and her speech is not as good as his" This is because Baoyu "Baoyu will not listen to the advice of his wife and concubine in the future". merchant
Mother thinks that a woman like Sister Feng is needed to stabilize Baoyu's inner house. As long as Jia Mu revealed her thoughts to Qingwen, it was enough for him to assist Baoyu wholeheartedly.
When viewed from this point of view, Qingwen not only tried her best to take care of Baoyu, but also cleaned herself and fought against Baoyu, it is easy to understand that this is Jia's mother's original intention of "only he can call Baoyu in the future".
Also, Qingwen is a person who is "very smart", but I am afraid that she has to face Jia Mu alone, which is different from Sister Feng's comprehensive and overall language. This cannot be said that Qingwen has the defect of servility, but because she is an orphan girl, she got it from Jia's mother
Others don't have the heart to give maternal tenderness. "Qing has a forest wind", at this point, Daiyu and Qingwen, who are both fallen people at the end of the world, are no different.
Qingwen's fault is that she didn't plan ahead. "Now that I have taken on a false name and am dying, it is not that I say a word of regret, but I knew that this was the case, and I also had another reason that day. Unexpectedly, he was stupid, and only said that everyone was in one place. Don't want to be empty
This verse was born, and there is nowhere to sue if there is a grievance. These were her exact words. It's not that she doesn't have the ability, but she was only locked up in Baoyu's house alone, which caused her vision to be too shallow, and she didn't expect that the pressure of the big ship of Jiafu was about to sink only for Mrs. Wang's housekeeper
Military-level people can feel it, and only people with rich experience in cheating rivers and lakes like Leng Zixing can see it. In the end, she couldn't see Jia's mother even if she was wronged, and Jia's mother's abacus was shattered by Mrs. Wang.
She doesn't seem to lack anything, just like Daiyu: Jia's mother's acquiescence, inseparable from her Baoyu, brocade clothes and jade food. She lacks a key position, and in this regard, people are stronger than Mrs. Wang, and she can see far and get through.
The relationship between Mrs. Wang and Jia's mother is like that between the emperor and the emperor, but the emperor is the emperor, and the words he says are also the will. Qingwen was arranged by Jia's mother to Baoyu, but wasn't there an attacker sent together as a shield? It can be easily sealed
Jia Mu's mouth.
January 8, 2013 3:33:12