Seeing his daughter out of the ward, Tan Sen told Yin Ling that Xiaohong had just had a boyfriend, a college classmate who was one year higher than her, and now she is the deputy chief clerk of the Municipal Development and Reform Commission. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

Yin Ling said to Tan Sen guiltily: "I used to ask too little about children's affairs, I have thought about it a lot these days, and I am constantly reflecting on myself, many people who chase fame and fortune are often harmed by fame and fortune, and I am the same." There was Xiaohong here just now, and I didn't dare to say more about it, a middle-aged man in the opposite ward died last night, he was in the advanced stage of liver cirrhosis. In the past, I only knew that liver cancer can kill people, but I didn't know that cirrhosis of the liver can also kill people. Listening to the patients, this man has experienced many twists and turns in his life, and his life is very hard, but he is optimistic by nature and gets along very well with the patients. From the time he was admitted to the hospital to the time he died, he suffered a lot of pain, but he never cried or shouted, and always tried his best to comfort and help others. When his body was pushed away, many patients cried as they chanted his name. ”

Tensen said silently: "This kind of human soul is immortal, everyone has their own soul, and the human body is the resting place of the soul, the healthy body is the edifice of the soul, and the unhealthy body is the thatched house of the soul. ”

"You're trying to persuade me to pursue the edifice of the soul and not settle for the thatched hut where I live!" Yin Ling looked at Tan Sen and said with a red face.

Tan Sen looked at Yin Ling noncommittally, and from the eyes of the husband and wife looking at each other, it could be seen that they had a tacit understanding in their hearts.

"It is well said that a person comes with a clenched fist, spreads his hands and leaves, begins in his own cry and ends in the cry of others, life is actually very short. It is not worth spending one's limited life on the struggle for power and profit, the pursuit of money, and a person with high and powerful positions does not mean that he is morally noble, and a person with a lot of money does not necessarily lead a happy life. Through this hospitalization, I also have a deep feeling that many people know what they should get in life, but few people know what they should lose. After I got out of the hospital, I was going to resign from my position as deputy editor-in-chief, and in the future, while recuperating from my illness, I would do some service guarantee work for you and Xiaohong at home, and I would write something when I had time. ”

When Yin Ling said these words, she looked like she was fully enlightened.

"I'm very happy that you can think of this, a person, only by looking down on the vicissitudes of the world, can he be safe and sound. Desire is like a coin in people's pockets, the more they are loaded, the heavier the burden, on the road of life, people who know how to move forward lightly can go further. In fact, on many issues, the two of us have a common ideological foundation, but in recent years, there is little heart-to-heart, someone has said that husband and wife love, not only you look at me, I look at you, and appreciate together, but more is to look at a direction together, understand each other, have a heart, and plan a better future together. ”

Tan Lin said in his heart, and Yin Ling nodded straightly.

Tan Sen saw that his wife was listening carefully to him, and continued: "I agree with what you said just now, when your condition basically improves, go back to the unit to deal with some things first, and then we will work together to plan the next step of life." Your editor-in-chief has prejudices against you, and I think one of the important reasons is because you are so strong, I have been a soldier for so many years, although I have never been a leader, but I also know that in a unit, the deputy position can only be a supporting role for the main position. If the supporting role wants to play its role well, it must be like an athlete on the football field, and it cannot be 'offside', and sometimes in order to highlight the height of the main job, you have to temporarily lower your noble head and deliberately shorten him. The masses as a group are generally not wrong, but as individuals, you can be different, you can't have prejudices against them, and there are many people who respect the 'superior', which can also be said to be a virtue, but there are also many people who are afraid of the 'superior' or even flattering the 'superior', and these people should be despised, which is also an inevitable phenomenon in real life. Everyone admits the phrase 'everyone makes mistakes', but in real life, you have to exclude your direct leadership, as long as he is still in charge of you, he will always be a 'perfect person', the masses will rarely give him advice in person, and he does not want to really hear what his subordinates have to say about him. Some people adapt to the psychology of the leader, have ulterior motives, do what they like, after meeting the leader, use what you once said to describe, but afraid that the mouth smile is not big enough, only afraid that the waist is not bent enough angle, and can even compliment the leader's snort into a famous song, and the leader's fart into a good song. ”

Tamson Sen's words amused Yin Ling, and she smiled and said, "That's not what I said, you have creative development. ”

"I can't remember exactly what you said, but the general meaning is not wrong." Tamsyn said.

"No, your words are more profound than mine, and I think that some of my previous practices are actually ridiculous, and there are personality problems and ideological problems. I always wanted to be superior, and I liked to walk on my tiptoes, but I couldn't stand on my feet and fell down. I also always want to make more money and leave it to my children in the future, so that her future life will not be as hard as we used to, but judging from the current situation, my children do not accept it. ”

"It's not that the child doesn't appreciate your affection." "She has her own opinions. Parents of children in some countries advocate that children should be allowed to live independently and be financially independent when they become adults, while Chinese parents always want to leave a rich legacy to their children, in fact, sometimes it is counterproductive, you leave a million yuan to your child, which may help him become a genius; If you leave a child 10 million yuan, it may prompt him to become a mediocre talent; If you leave a child 100 million, you may indulge him to be stupid. Xiaohong is a very smart and ambitious girl, she will not be a bird waiting to eat under the egg wings of her parents, nor will she take the wealth you create for her as a burden on her body, and she is not willing to be like some "cheating father" children, do not seek progress, and sit back and enjoy their success. ”

"I absolutely believe what you said, she also once said in front of me, she doesn't want to be a green vine climbing a big tree, but to be a strong pine in the rain and wind, with a piece of sky of her own, I thought she was talking big."

The husband and wife talked for a long time, and it was not until the nurse reminded Tamson not to affect the patient's rest for too long that he reluctantly left the ward.