For the problem that he has not been moved by working with Yao Shufen for several years, Aijun is not too worried, he believes that the foundation of love at first sight is not necessarily very strong, love should understand each other and adapt to each other, two people may not have too many feelings when they start to get along, and once they have feelings, they can get along very well, and father and mother are like this. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 infoDad and Mom didn't know each other before they got married, when Dad had been promoted in the army, he agreed to find a rural girl as a wife, part of the reason was to let her replace his own son in his hometown to do his filial piety, take care of the sick grandfather and grandmother. Dad later said that after he and his mother lived as husband and wife for a few years, he felt that his choice at that time was right, and his mother's filial piety to the elderly, care for her children, diligence and thrift, simple and capable, made some of the comrades-in-arms around my father who married a city daughter-in-law envious. My mother sent her in-laws away in the countryside and joined the army after working in a small factory in the county for a few years. After arriving in the army, she taught her husband and children, so that her father could enjoy some care that her husband could not enjoy, and her father also wanted to strive to let her mother enjoy some care that his wife could not enjoy. The two people did not have any basis for hospitality at first, but they also loved each other for most of their lives, so that when one person left first, the other person felt that he had lost a lot, including a part of his own life, and was lost and confused for a while.

Thinking of his father, Aijun felt a little guilty and a little pity, he was not very sensible, after his father urged his son to get married and start a family as soon as possible, he asked his father to "buy a new house first, and then marry the bride". In order to be able to buy a dream small house for himself, after his father retired, he worked for a few years outside, doing text proofreading work, which took both his brain and his eyes, and because of his poor physical condition, he quit his job and really rested at home. Now the funds at my father's disposal are his own pension, and the pension is so much every month, if you want to save more, you can only save. When my mother was alive, my father basically didn't care about housework, but now I have learned to cook a few meters, and I go to the supermarket to buy vegetables after four o'clock in the afternoon to deal with the goods. Dad didn't know how to cook, but now he has become the head of the kitchen at home, but the cooking level is the same as that of the breeders of rural pig farms, except for scrambled eggs and instant noodles, other meals are basically cooked together, and then salt and oil are added after cooking. Fei Aijun sometimes thinks crankily alone, who invented instant noodles, he should be credited, he has provided convenience for millions of people, and his family can consume several boxes every year; Whoever invented instant noodles should also be convicted, he doesn't know how many people have hurt their stomachs, and even if he hasn't eaten for two days now, he will be full when he sees instant noodles. What's even more ridiculous is that Dad used to hate leftovers at home, and would rather stare at them and not let the leftovers occupy the bowl, so that Mom could finish the day's meals that day. It's good now, there is a little leftover food at home, so he puts it in the refrigerator like a baby egg, and eats it hot next time, "The leftovers are heated three times, and the meat is not changed", is what he says now. However, Dad's hot leftovers are a must, salty, thin and thick, and the leftovers are better than new.

Aijun used to look down on people who were thrifty, because this kind of person would not necessarily be rich, and he might develop a petty habit of living and could only make a little money by trying his luck; A big spender is not necessarily poor, he may be a big person in and out, and earning a handful is not a small amount. However, people who don't have the ability to make a lot of money can only accumulate a lot of money by saving a little money, and now they have learned to save from their father, and they can't break a coin into a few petals. Sometimes I think about it, I can be regarded as a "dreamer" - dreaming of having a home, although the requirements for the home are not high, two bedrooms and one living room, wide and relaxed, but the house price is flying in the sky, the salary is chasing on the ground, and the matter of buying a house seems to be getting farther and farther away from me.

Shen Qiao said to Aijun that "home" and "house" are two different concepts, there are parents, wives and children, where they live, where they live, where is "home"; No matter how big and good a person lives, the place where he lives can only be called a "house".

Shen Qiao's statement Fei Aijun agreed, but home and house are inseparable, the house is the carrier of the home, the home is the theme of the house, the father is over 60 years old, the experience of life is getting longer and longer, the road of life is getting shorter and shorter, he has passed the age of "the four seas as a home", and now he still lives in the apartment house assigned by the military academy before the transfer, which makes him feel uneasy. Aijun has now thought about it, and he will talk about his girlfriend in the future, no matter what the conditions she puts forward to him, he has to propose to the other party, that is, if he has his own house in the future, it is best to live with the old man and return the army's house to others. This kind of consideration is also a last resort, he and his father are not able to and may not be able to buy two houses now, and may not be able to afford to live separately from his son.

The house in the military compound is not safe to live in, and several people who have changed jobs with their fathers have been urged to move by the army barracks management department many times, and they can't withstand the pressure, and the apartments they have lived in for many years have been withdrawn, but my father has no plans to move out in the near future, although he has been urged to move many times to vacate the house, and the rent has been raised several times, but living in the army's apartment can cost a lot less money than buying and renting a house outside. Of course, if you don't live in your own house, you always feel unsteady in your heart, and you inevitably have a feeling of being under the fence.

Aijun didn't want to live with the old man after getting married, and the young people should have their own space. However, it is not scary to live with the elderly, who can help themselves take care of the children and take care of the elderly. The "nagging" of the elderly, if you see it as the elders finding fault and picking thorns on the younger generations, you will get tired of it; If you see it as the care and love of the elders for the younger generations, you will listen patiently.

Out of the office building, Fei Aijun knew that there was still a lot of porridge cooked by his father in the morning, and he was waiting for him at home with another pot of leftover rice in the evening, so he ate an egg fried rice in the fast food restaurant next to Wanshou Road, and bought a bowl of braised noodles for the waiter to pack, ready to take home for his father to eat. Aijun thought that his father had a bad stomach, and sometimes he bought some soft, thin, and hot meals for his father to take back, and lied to him that he ate the leftover bags when he had dinner with his colleagues, although Fei Yuanqing would say "Don't spend money outside" every time, but the food brought back by his son did taste much better than the food he made, so he ate it with relish every time.

When Aijun returned home, he saw his brother-in-law Zhao Qiliang sitting on the sofa chatting with his father.

Aijun put down the things in his hand and just sat down on the sofa, Zhao Qiliang spat in his mouth and said to him, how obedient is the son of whose family, how filial he is to marry a wife, how cute he is to have a child, and how happy the family is. And said how good he is, he is a good employee in the unit, he is not only a good son of an old man at home, but also a good husband to his wife, a good father to his son, and of course, a good son-in-law in his father-in-law's house.

Aijun understood that Zhao Qiliang was a reinforcement brought by his father and persuaded him to start a family and find a daughter-in-law.

Aijun didn't say a word, Zhao Qiliang's words were not in his left ear and out of his right ear, but he didn't want it to enter his ear at all, he didn't look at his brother-in-law, he just lowered his head and thought about his own thoughts.

Fei Aijun has never had a good impression of his brother-in-law, he and his sister are at home, one is "one", the other is "two", "one" is not to do anything, and nothing is cared; "Two" is two endless, and you can't be idle for a while. Aijun said in his heart, you Zhao Qiliang is very good at playing tricks, you are worse than anyone else, you are lying when you sleep in your sleep, and a big mouth that likes to smoke and drink is a very efficient fake story manufacturing factory. It's okay for you to coax your father and sister with virtue, but it's not enough to do my ideological work, I hope you will shut up quickly, play the piano to the cow, the cow can still enjoy the music, and brag to the cow, the cow is uncomfortable.

Zhao Qiliang said to Aijun for twenty minutes with a dry mouth, feeling that he should have successfully completed the glorious task assigned to him by his father-in-law, and said that his friend would have something to do with him for a while, and he didn't ask his father-in-law to collect the spittle fee, so he quickly got up and left.

Aijun saw that his father had not yet taken care of the hot rice, so he opened the braised noodles he brought back and asked him to warm it up before eating.

With rare patience, Aijun sat down in front of his father and solemnly told him that he had plans to get married and start a family as soon as possible, and strive to let him hold his grandson as soon as possible.

Fei Yuanqing ate the meal brought back by Aijun, looked at his son seriously, and felt that he didn't look like he was fooling himself today, although the autumn breeze was still on his face, his heart was already full of spring flowers, he attributed the transformation of Aijun to the result of his son-in-law Zhao Qiliang's "hard and meticulous" ideological work, and at the same time felt that the stewed noodles brought back by his son today were particularly delicious. (To be continued.) )