Both government surveys and Yoganta's surveys show that, contrary to popular belief, girls are most vulnerable to attacks at home, where their partners are attacked, with data showing that 40 per cent of women have experienced domestic violence. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 ｉｎｆｏ

Snealata comes from a middle-class family, lives happily, and has arranged for the right husband after graduating from college, well, it should be said that he is an inexplicably nervous violent man, and since he got married, Snealata has lived a life of scolding and fear.

The violent man was comfortable restricting her freedom, depriving her of her property, and harming her body and mind. If the meal is not done to the liking, a meal will be beaten; Stand in the hallway and take a beating; When I saw my brother, I beat him...... In the end, even his father-in-law couldn't stand it and asked Snealata to go to the police station to complain.

"Even the trivial things can be a reason for him to beat me, he said that he likes to see me trembling and scared, he restricts me from talking to my neighbors and laughing outside, and even once my own brother went out to eat with me and was beaten when he came back, because he said that my brother was also a man. And he also said that I was his wife, so it didn't matter if he killed me. Snealata said.

Snealata lives in a panic every day, and finally one day the violent man threatens to cut out her tongue and scares her into the hospital, this time Snealata is determined to leave the violent man and end 16 years of horror. Now that Snealata is back studying law, the smile is back on her face.

Rashmi was born in a wealthy family and lived a life of clothes to reach out for food and open his mouth since he was a child, and when he grew up, he married a husband who seemed to be a good match to outsiders, and he lived behind closed doors for only two or three days, and his husband was exposed, it turned out that he was a violent man, and since then Rashmi has not had a good life, and violent men often do trivial things, and once almost caused Rashmi to have a miscarriage. At first, the violent man would cry and beg for forgiveness, but slowly his heart became reassuring, "My wife is going to be beaten."

Domestic violence not only hurts Rashmi, but also hurts her children – Rashmi's son realizes that this cannot go on after his father beats his mother, and that this kind of family is very harmful to her and her two children, and she ends her 10-year marriage and leaves with her two children.

The violent man was unwilling to divorce, and he didn't have a wife to fight, so he went to Rashmi's parents, but to no avail; Then he once again embodied the scumbag nature like the previous violent man - divorce is okay, don't want any property, Rashmi still said that he was determined to divorce; The violent man resorted to a very nasty trick - spreading rumors and ruining Rashmi's reputation.

Although Rashmi was so financially struggling that she had to sell her jewellery at the beginning of the divorce, she and her two children lived happily on their own, and now she is not only a writer, but also a service for the Women's Counselling Centre of the Delhi Police Department, and she pointed out that the notion that "you can't get a divorce for the sake of your children" is wrong, and that children, especially boys, growing up in a violent environment can lead to autism and may become the next violent man, which is harmful to children.

And what do these men who are domestic violence think, the reporter immediately interviewed some men on the street who admitted that they had beaten their wives, and came up with the following remarks: "I go out to sell vegetables in the morning, and when I come back at two o'clock in the afternoon, my wife is still lying in bed and hasn't even made lunch, so what else can I do if I don't beat her?" ”

"If a wife is unreasonable and disrespectful to her husband, then the man should teach him a lesson."

"I warned him not to complain when I was going out, it was unlucky, but she just wouldn't listen, so I beat her up!"

"I only beat my wife twice a month, which is not much!"

"If I don't do what I want, sometimes I'll get angry and hit her!"

"If a wife does something she shouldn't do, then any man should beat her!"

Why do men beat their wives? Why do they take it for granted that wives should do what their husbands want? Kamra, who has been studying women's issues for 42 years, sees it this way:

First of all, patriarchy, that is, the supremacy of male power, is the root cause of all kinds of women's problems.

Secondly, Indian traditions reinforce the sense of superiority of men, such as the hand and foot festival to express gratitude to the father and brother for protecting him, but before the little brothers can protect the little brothers, it is the sisters who protect the little brothers. Another example is Women's Day, which asks women to pray for the longevity of their husbands, but does not ask men to pray for the longevity of their wives.

Thirdly, the relationship between husband and wife in Hindi is that of master and slave, which also has a subtle effect.

Men are not born to beat their wives, what turns them into violent men? Karam thinks it's an idea.

In the traditional conception that men must be strong, not crying, and not having weaknesses, this concept also affects women, especially middle-class women, who are seen as a burden by the middle class, and women in the lower classes may make a lot of noise when they are beaten, and middle-class women who are beaten will help their husbands cover up (...... ）

There is also a common excuse that a man is tired of earning money to support his family and work, so he beats his wife, which is also ridiculous. Surveys show that wives work longer than men in any class. Moreover, the family is a cooperative system in which men earn money, women do laundry, cook, and take care of children, and the status should be equal with different division of labor.

Although some people accuse Karam of destroying ****** family, Karam still believes that she is doing the right thing and that women should be respected. In cases of domestic violence, women should have the self-esteem and courage to leave, and society and their families should accept the women who have left, and society should set up shelters for such women, and women should also have the right to inheritance.

India has introduced an anti-domestic violence bill against domestic violence, which expands the target of domestic violence to all women in the family, stipulates that men cannot expel women from their homes, and sets up shelters in various places. Haryana's police chief, Baran, is committed to increasing women's motivation to protect their rights through the law, and more than half of the cases in his police station are domestic violence, and he opposes the police's mediation of domestic violence cases, which he believes is a serious blow to women's rights protection.

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