The time has entered June of the first year of the Tang Dynasty, and Shi Bufan will experience something that he has not experienced in his previous life and this life, that is, he is going to get married. Pen Fun Pavilion www.biquge.info he didn't get married in his early thirties, and after the crossing, he didn't get married because of filial piety. Now it's finally a month after the deadline for filial piety, and it's time to officially get married. Although this period of time is used to deal with Dugu Daxue's fiancée, the relationship is still relatively dull. However, Shi Bufan has experienced a lot of civil cases, and naturally knows that many marriages may be full of passion from the beginning, but then gradually dull, which makes them conflict. So being bland can avoid the gap after the climax has passed. Although it was Li Yuan, the emperor, who gave the marriage this time, it can be regarded as completely plain.

"Ah Lang, this time it's time for you to greet you. The previous six salutes, this last one is missing! The servant in charge next to him said.

Shi Bufan nodded, the six rites of the Tang Dynasty this time are actually more complicated, and the higher the status, the more complicated it is to get married. In principle, people with a certain status in the Tang Dynasty had to have "six rites", and these six rites were the six steps of marriage. However, Shi Bufan has also completed it before, and in principle, it is necessary to check the birth date, but this is the marriage of Emperor Li Yuan, even if the birth date is not matched, it must be smoothed.

Shi Bufan rode a horse and walked forward with some people, preparing to go to Dugu's house to prepare for the wedding.

"Kalala......"

Along the way, Shi Bufan began to throw money, this kind of money is an ancient practice, generally people with status get married, will throw money along the way. This represents wealth, so the times are not exempt from vulgarity. However, this money is also some ordinary copper coins, and the value of copper coins is very low, not too high. Shi Bufan can also afford to sprinkle, not to mention that it is not too far, so that he can have enough face.

"Welcome!"

Shi Bufan walked in step by step, ready to greet his wife through the door. This time Shi Bufan was also married for the first time in two lives, which made him quite nervous.

"Uncle, please! The general is ready, and he won't come out to see you! He said he would go directly to you, and when the time came to worship the high hall, he would leave immediately! ”

The corners of Shi Bufan's mouth twitched, this Dugu Kaiyuan really hated himself to death, and he didn't even see one more side. He is his son-in-law, but this time he came to greet his wife in person, so he didn't come to meet, which was too shameless. But the times are not extraordinary, and they don't care about it. Anyway, after today, it is impossible for him and the Dugu family to have any de facto dealings, and the future will be talked about later, this Dugu family will only be nominal relatives in the future, and in fact there will be no real dealings.

"This is Miss's boudoir, Miss is dressing up, you see ......"

Shi Bufan understood, this is to let himself compose poems, the ancient unspoken rule is to make hypnotic poems when dressing up, but when it is not enough, Bufan is not prepared. This kind of hypnotic poem is generally prepared in advance, but it is not unusual. He didn't want to prepare, because he was really not very good at writing poetry. He also disdains to plagiarize a large number of ancient famous sentences, because there is one less ancient famous sentence in one song, so naturally there is no need to plagiarize a lot. What's more, writing poetry is such a thing, and there is no progress in his career. As for those who obtained official positions by composing poems, at most they were literary courtiers who could not hold much real power, and he disdained to do such official positions. The life and death of such a person are all in the hands of others, and of course he disdains it.

"Daxue is my wife, and I won't do any hypnotic poems. However, I know that a husband is a wife. Don't put the score in front of me, understand? Shi Bufan said with a smile.

Shi Bufan walked directly to the outside of Dugu Daxue's boudoir, directly pushed open the door of this boudoir, and walked in.

"Ah, uncle, why don't you write poetry?" Dugu Daxue's maid exclaimed.

Dugu Daxue, who was using a red hijab, was also surprised, obviously didn't know that there was such a thing, this is not according to the routine!

"Heavy snow, follow me!"

Shi Bufan came directly to a princess to hug and hugged this Dugu Daxue away. This shocked everyone, this Shi Bufan did not play cards according to the routine at all, and the general marriage process was ignored. Shi Bufan left Dugu's house with Dugu Daxue in his arms and helped her onto the horse.

"Let's go, come back with me!" Shi Bufan said.

Shi Bufan finally brought his wife home along the way, and he was all smiling.

Shi Bufan returned home, and finally saw his cheap father-in-law Dugu Kaiyuan again. However, Dugu Kaiyuan's face could not see joy and anger, there was no joy of his daughter's marriage at all, and his face was not sad or happy. Shi Bufan hurriedly walked up.

"Father-in-law!" Shi Bufan took the initiative to greet.

"Hmm!" Dugu Kaiyuan replied casually.

Obviously, Dugu Kaiyuan has no intention of having an in-depth exchange with Shi Bufan.

"Over the brazier!"

Shi Bufan walked through the brazier with Dugu Daxue, which means that the bad luck brought in from the outside can be burned together, and the blessing can be happy and healthy after passing the door. Shi Bufan walked to the front of the high hall with Dugu Daxue, ready to worship the so-called heaven and earth. This time, he can be regarded as having a good time with the groom's addiction.

"Worship heaven and earth!"

Shi Bufan and Dugu Daxue knelt down and knelt outside the door, even if they were worshipping heaven and earth. In the Tang Dynasty, only the face of heaven and earth was used to bow down, and no one else had to bow down.

"Second worship high hall!"

Shi Bufan and Dugu Daxue bowed to Dugu Kaiyuan, which can be regarded as a second worship of the high hall.

"Husband and wife worship each other!"

"Licheng!"

Shi Bufan was swarmed in by the blow and walked into the cave room. As for the wedding, there were almost no guests. Because Shi Bufan didn't have a few real friends, those high-level officials didn't come, and it was impossible for them to come to Shi Bufan's wedding. However, Shi Bufan didn't care, he didn't care about these people's opinions. Because he values himself more, as long as he is comfortable, there is no need to consider the feelings of others. Getting married is your own business, not about pomp and atmosphere, as long as you live well, you don't have to care if you have guests or anything.

Shi Bufan walked into the room with Dugu Daxue and sat on the bed together.

Dugu Daxue's maids also came over and said, "Please ask my aunt and young lady to drink the wine, and from then on we will be together and share weal and woe." ”

Soon, the wine made of two gourds was brought, but Shi Bufan probably knew that this was the origin of the wine in later generations. This cup of wine originated from the ancient Hejiu wine, which was drunk by husband and wife in the cave room, representing that they would become an extra real husband and wife together in the future. Only wives can drink wine, and other concubines are not qualified.

Shi Bufan picked up the wine glass made of this gourd and tasted it. But as soon as he touched his lips, he felt a bitter taste that made Shi Bufan almost vomit.

"Uncle, you don't know yet, do you? This combination is made of gourd, and gourd is a bitter and inedible thing, so using this gourd as a wine must be bitter wine. This represents the sharing of joys and sorrows between husband and wife! ”

Shi Bufan didn't know about this, but Dugu Daxue obviously understood that Shi Bufan might not have gotten married yet, and his parents died, so naturally he didn't know much about this. However, after listening to the explanation, Shi Bufan can also drink this bitter wine together, which can be regarded as sharing joys and sorrows together in the future. Husband and wife share weal and woe, this is a kind of responsibility in ancient times.

"Please aunt pick up the hijab!"

Shi Bufan picked up the hijab with his hand, and Dugu Daxue's face with a crown appeared in front of Shi Bufan's eyes. Shi Bufan felt that Dugu Daxue was very different today, but he knew that this woman belonged to him in the future, and he would not change in this life.

"Daxue, you're so beautiful today, let's rest together!" Shi Bufan said.

Dugu Daxue understood what Shi Bufan meant, Dugu Daxue had not allowed Shi Bufan to touch her before, saying that she would wait until she got married. But anyway, Shi Bufan has Qin Jiarui by his side, so he is naturally not afraid of any woman, so it is acceptable for Dugu Daxue to be allowed to touch her only after marriage. Now that they are finally married, they can be considered a real husband and wife.

thought of what was going to happen later, which made Dugu Daxue blush.

"Uncle, Miss, you are busy, I will serve by the side!" Dugu Daxue's maid said.

Hearing this, Shi Bufan was startled, the intimate matter between his husband and wife, let another woman follow him, what is this? It was originally a two-person world, so there was one more person for no reason?

"Husband, let Chun'er stay and serve! Since Chun'er came with me, it's also yours! Dugu Daxue said a little complicated.

Shi Bufan patted his head, only then did he know that in ancient times, when marrying daughters between large families, the wives often followed with some maids to marry. These maids who accompany the marriage are generally the maids who have been together since the young lady was a child, and they can be regarded as the daughters of the nobles who are married together. This kind of marriage custom actually originated in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, and the king of the general vassal state married the daughter of another vassal state, and he was eligible to ask his wife's sister and sister to marry together. Generally, the concubine is married, and the concubine enters the husband's house together as a dowry. Now this lonely and snowy maid Chun'er is obviously going to marry.

This is an ancient custom, and Dugu Daxue is not easy to oppose.

"I guess, I'd better not use it, right? I don't have to force it, I'd better send it back! Shi Bufan said.

But that Chun'er became pale, and said directly: "Miss, I want to come over together!" ”

Dugu Daxue sighed and said, "Let's let her come with her, I'm afraid she will be bullied after she goes back." I thought you and she had been waiting for me since childhood, and if I let her go back, I am afraid it will not end well. So keep coming and serve me, that's okay. Wait, let her serve by the side. ”

"But that's not appropriate, is it?" Shi Bufan said, obviously the matter between husband and wife is too speechless for others to watch.

But Dugu Daxue didn't mind saying: "What's inappropriate, Chun'er grew up with me since I was a child, there's nothing inappropriate." She can watch from the sidelines, and she can serve together, and that's what everyone does! ”

Shi Bufan had to be speechless about the ancient aristocratic marriage customs, and when husband and wife did this kind of thing, they actually had to let other women watch from the side, such a feeling made Shi Bufan only have one sentence to evaluate.

"You ancients really know how to play!"

But I don't care about it, although I haven't played this kind of gameplay, but I must adapt to this extravagant and decadent gameplay in ancient times, otherwise how will I mix it in the future! Especially when everyone plays like this, what comes is safe, so Shi Bufan can only choose "survival of the fittest". What's more, this kind of gameplay is obviously very exciting, and if you don't play like this, it's really boring.

Although Shi Bufan pays attention to the study of the mind, he does not think that it is necessary to be completely desireless. As long as you can truly understand your own heart and understand your own conscience. Desire is not completely rejected by conscience. All living beings have desires, but excessive desires will overshadow their conscience. As long as you can maintain the desire above the bottom line of conscience, it is normal and healthy. Of course, as a historian, he knew about the different social structures and ideas that came with different productive forces. He would not think that ancient times were completely decayed, and that each era had different productive forces, so it could not be measured simply by the thinking of later generations. Because there is no best system in this world, only the most suitable system. Different eras cannot be completely copied, even if you want to make social progress, you must let the productive forces progress, otherwise it will be a castle in the air. In the same way, Shi Bufan will not use the thinking of the 21st century to measure the thinking of the later era, in fact, if it is a few thousand years later, maybe the people of the 21st century will also be said to be "old" by the people who are further behind.

Therefore, since the ancients could accept it, he could only choose "survival of the fittest", not to resist. What's more, Shi Bufan thinks that he only needs to respect his independent personality of women emotionally, don't discard them as objects, and respect the basic personality and human rights. Of course, this human right is also a human right in ancient times, and it is not a copy of the thinking of later generations, so Shi Bufan does not need to dogmatically say that monogamy and equality of status between women.

"Uncle, Miss, let me serve you wide clothes!" Dugu Daxue's maid Dugu Chun said.

Duguchun took the initiative to untie Shi Bufan's clothes first, although his face was relatively shy, but he still helped Shi Bufan to take off his clothes. It is her duty to serve later, although future generations may not understand this behavior. (To be continued.) )