Actually, Zhao Yun's meaning is very simple, he wants Xu Shu and Zhao Man to get married as soon as possible.

First, in the future, I don't know where I am, if I don't get married, there will be a Yellow Turban Rebellion, the princes will fight, the mountains and rivers will be separated, and when we meet again, I don't know if it is the Year of the Monkey.

Second, whether Xu Shu has a historical reputation or his current performance under his command, it is worth solving his worries for him.

Although Zhao Man is not very capable, he can also do some specific things, and the children of the family have a balanced development in all aspects.

The most important thing is that everyone is of the same clan, so it is safe to use.

Like Cao Mengde in the Three Kingdoms, how many people with the surname Cao and Xiahou were used? Without him, on the one hand, he is Cao Teng's clan, and on the other hand, his father Cao Song did not succeed the previous Xiahou family.

"Nephew, is the time too rushed?" Kuai Quan was a little helpless, he got married just after getting married, and he was indeed a little caught off guard.

"Uncle," Zhao Yun gave a deep salute: "Yun also knows that such a request is very uncourteous to both the Kuai family and the Cai family. ”

"Then in the future, when the maritime merchants begin, Brother Shunqing and Yuan Zhi will accompany the team. I miss my uncle Su Shuang and Zhang Shiping, who have not returned for nine years, and will return this autumn. You see? ”

He was just scared, Su Shuang and Zhang Shiping asked them to go and see everywhere, and by the way, they brought a lot of products that were not available in the Central Plains.

In the future, both academically and militarily, there will be a basis and convincing.

The next day, both the Cai family and the Kuai family agreed.

Before the Zhou Dynasty, the marriage ceremony was not lively. "The Book of Rites: Suburban Special Sacrifice" cloud: "There is no need to be happy for weddings, and the righteousness of the shadows is also." The wedding is not celebrated, and the order of people is also".

Obviously, in ancient times, weddings were regarded as a ritual of gloom, no music was played, and people did not congratulate.

Until the beginning of the Han Dynasty, some local officials were confined to the Zhou ceremony, and people were also forbidden to congratulate each other at weddings.

However, marriage is always a happy event of "great luck, very auspiciousness", and in an era like the Qin and Han dynasties, the situation of not congratulating the wedding cannot last.

In August of the second year of Emperor Xuan of the Han Dynasty, the edict said: "The gift of the husband's marriage is also the great man of humanity." The meeting of wine and food, so the ceremony is also happy. ”

"Now the county is 2,000 stones, or it is strictly forbidden, and it is forbidden for people to marry, and they are not allowed to drink and eat to congratulate each other. It is the gift of abolishing the township party, so that the people are happy, not so to guide the people. …… Don't be harsh. ”

This is the first time in Chinese history that the wedding is not congratulated in the form of a government decree, and since then the marriage has gradually been passed down.

The rise of early marriage in the Han Dynasty was true for both the royal family and the people.

The age of first marriage is generally between 14 and 18 years for men and 13 to 16 or 7 years for women. 19. And there are those who are married.

The age of men and women is mainly matched, and it is common for men to be slightly longer than women.

For example, Emperor Shun of Han was fourteen years old for his first marriage, and then thirteen years old for Liang.

It is also recorded that Xu Pingjun, the daughter of Xu Guanghan, a violent husband, was fourteen or fifteen years old when she got married, and her husband Liu Sui was sixteen years old at the time.

Some royal families are even younger, and some marriages are almost child-married.

Emperor Zhao of the Han Dynasty, Emperor Ping, Emperor Huo, and Emperor Wang were all under the age of ten.

Therefore, the two of them are not considered to be married early in this era.

In the past, the doors of the Cai family and the Kuai family were about to be broken, and the nearest ones were naturally the families in the Nanjun and Nanyang areas, and the far ones were Changsha, Guiyang, and Lingling.

After all, Jingzhou's influence could not be transmitted to the Central Plains, so there was no family over there to propose marriage.

Besides, if this era is too far apart, the cost of marriage is really unimaginable.

The man sent someone to greet his relatives and walked on the road for several months, so whether it was the Kuai family or the Cai family, he agreed after Zhao Yun's suggestion after only a little consideration.

Zhou's Book of Rites stipulates that the procedures for "marriage" are: Nacai, asking for names, naji, naji, advising, announcing and greeting, also known as "six rites", that is, six kinds of etiquette in the process from marriage proposal to consummation.

This marriage procedure was established in the Zhou Dynasty. Most of the subsequent generations followed the Zhou rites, but the name and content were changed.

In the first three years of Emperor Ping of the Han Dynasty, he ordered Liu Xin to make a wedding ceremony.

Now that the society is in turmoil, I can't take care of the six rites, only worship the in-laws, and don't even want the ceremony.

The three books are the traditional wedding etiquette of the Han people, including the letter of appointment, the letter of etiquette and the letter of greeting.

Later generations generally combined the two rites together and called them the Three Books and Six Rites.

Don't see Zhao Yun and they were calm along the way, in fact, they can't say it, even the mountain bandits have encountered twice.

Around Nanjun, especially in Jiangxia and Jingnan counties, barbarians rebelled at every turn.

Otherwise, Du Chun in Runan County was a fart in Zhao Qian's eyes, but he didn't bother with him because of the Yuan family's face.

And in Nanjun, Zhang Quan's status is comparable to that of Taishou Cai.

That's because he is facing the rebellion of the barbarians at any time, he has to lead troops to protect the territory and the people, and the power comes out of the barrel of the gun.

Originally, it was prepared that Kuai Quan and Cai Wei would be matchmakers for each other, but it was appropriate to be reasonable anyway.

If you want to marry a daughter together now, obviously there is no way, besides, Cai Yan is still the Taishou of Nanjun, it is impossible to help you Zhao Man run east and west if you have nothing to do.

Fortunately, there was a person who understood, that is, Zhang Ji, who had just returned from his hometown and was about to go to Changsha to be a taishou.

When he introduced his younger brother to Zhang Xian, Zhao Yun was instantly petrified, could it be that a plague occurred in Jingzhou a few years later, Lao Zhang resigned, and this person was too conservative and then rebelled?

None of this is your business, though.

Under Zhang Zhongjing's deployment, things became orderly, and the matchmakers became Huang Chengyan and Zhang Ji himself.

Huang Chengyan proposed to his sister-in-law on behalf of Xu Shu as a matchmaker, and Zhang Ji himself proposed to Zhao Man as a matchmaker.

The birthday on both sides is reported, and then the date is seen.

Gengshen year 癸未月二酉日, auspicious, should be married.

The two shoulders set off in the sound of firecrackers, and the shoulders are sedan chairs, and the big families get married, and they are carried by eight people, so they are commonly known as the eight sedan chairs.

Firecrackers are really burning bamboo, making a crackling sound.

The two matchmakers wore red auspicious clothes, rode on tall horses, and drove towards both sides with a welcoming procession.

In each team, eight people held whips, and they fell as they went, making a snapping sound.

Watching the lively people fence the road to the brim, when the greeting procession arrived, they made way for it.

As soon as the line passed, the crowd suddenly closed again.

Many half-grown children ran along, and every time the whip sounded, their mouths made a snapping sound, and those who threw the whip shook it more vigorously.

It's really a sin to get married in the summer, you see Xu Shu and Zhao Man, the two groom officials are wearing red robes, and the sweat on their faces can't help but flow down.

This is the first time Zhao Yun has felt the marriage scene of this era, and there have been people who have been married in the past when they were really determined, so they went to the banquet and didn't participate.

Xu Shu and Zhao Man, who usually like to joke with each other, still don't forget to point to the sweat beads on each other's faces and laugh at the moment.

Ma Bing took Qin Tao and presided over all the chores.

Chen Zhi's five brothers were full of envy on their faces, and it seemed that after returning to Zhending, the marriage of several of them would be put on the agenda.

Only when they have a stable home will they fight for it.

After a period of recuperation, Huang Xu's face was much better, running around in the crowd, Diao Zhen's arm was still on the splint, chasing after him, for fear that he would get lost.

Seeing the scene in front of him, Zhao Yun was in a trance, and it was estimated that when he went home, his parents should also marry him, right?