Seeing Jindeman "crying" to himself here, Shi Bufan not only did not have any sympathy, but showed a sneer in his mouth. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 info This Kindman has miscalculated, and he actually wants to use this method to sympathize with himself, which is simply too bad. This kind of method is simply an unpopular means, and it may be useful for ordinary people, but for a person who has seen many political changes of the times, and even the changes in the international political scene in the 21st century, Shi Bufan, who has seen many political changes in the times, and even the changes in the international political scene in the 21st century, will naturally not be flooded with sympathy by this kind of behavior. Shi Bufan knows very well that he is first in the Tang Dynasty officialdom, first of all, a politician, not a "man". As a man, you may be sympathetic to women, but as a politician, there is no distinction between "men and women". If Kindman had been just an ordinary woman, Extraordinary might have sympathized with him at that time. But she is the **** of Silla, the only ****, the future queen of Silla, so she is destined to be not an ordinary "woman", but a politician. In the eyes of Shi Bufan, politicians do not distinguish between men and women. So a politician barely cried when Shi Bufan cried, so Shi Bufan not only did not sympathize, but secretly sneered.

However, at the next few princesses, I saw Jinderman crying, and I felt a little surprised.

"Why is this Silla woman crying? Why did she cry when she saw Shi Xiaoshulang? Li Li asked.

The county lord of Dingxiang said casually: "Hmph, maybe it's another woman this guy doesn't know where to provoke, and now it's making people cry!" ”

I have to say that the county lord of Dingxiang still has a lot of complaints about Shi Bufan, and now he is directly and deliberately so sarcastic, he is very dissatisfied with Shi Bufan, and he will be ruthless as soon as he opens his mouth, and directly say that Shi Bufan provokes women everywhere. Several princesses in the palace probably also understood the things of Shi Bufan and the county lord of Dingxiang, so naturally it was not good to say anything.

"Sister Dingxiang, in the future, I will ask my father to let you marry Shi Xiaoshulang!" Li Lizhi said.

The county lord of Dingxiang sighed and said, "I hope that if you are as old as you, you will never grow up, otherwise I am afraid that there will be more and more difficult things in the future." At that time, I am afraid that you will meet the man you like, but he will not be able to marry you, and that is the saddest thing. ”

"Sister Dingxiang, I will definitely help you!" Li Lizhi patted her small chest and reassured.

At this time, Shi Bufan came over with Jindeman and Jin Shengman and invited them to take a seat. However, Jindeman and Jinshengman saw Shi Bufan and the county lord of Dingxiang, and next to them were a few Loli who were less than ten years old, and Jindeman soon began to greet them.

"Hello Mrs. Shi!" Jindeman first greeted the county lord of Dingxiang and said.

Jindeman didn't expect that when the county lord of Dingxiang heard this, his face immediately turned blue. This is not deliberately uncovering her scars, it is simply deliberately uncovering the scars and sprinkling salt! When Jindeman said this, he directly hit the most painful place of the county lord of Dingxiang, that is, it was almost impossible for her to become "Mrs. Shi". Therefore, the county lord of Dingxiang glared at Jindeman directly.

"This is the county lord of Dingxiang and the adopted daughter of the emperor!" Shi Bufan said.

Jindeman secretly screamed that he had mistaken his identity and offended the adopted daughter of the Tang Emperor? However, Jindeman also felt strange, didn't he just call the wrong identity, as for letting the county lord of Dingxiang stare at him so viciously? There are countless things that intersect identities like this, as for being so angry? However, Jindeman obviously didn't understand the special relationship between Shi Bufan and the county lord of Dingxiang, if she knew about these relationships, she would definitely regret to uncover the scars at this time. However, because of this, this has caused the relationship between Jindeman and the county lord of Dingxiang to be the worst in the extraordinary "harem" in the future, and even worse than the relationship between the county lord of Dingxiang and Dugu Daxue.

However, now Jindeman secretly complained that he had offended the adopted daughter of an emperor, which would definitely not help his next plans.

"These are my princesses of the Tang Dynasty, Princess Changle, Princess Linchuan, Princess Dongyang, ......"

Jindeman and Jin Shengman were even more puzzled, is Shi Bufan a "nursery" in the Tang Dynasty, but Li Shimin brought several daughters to Shi Bufan?

"This is Princess Kindman of Silla, the future heir of King Silla, the only ****. And the other is Kim Seungman, the princess of Silla, and they are cousins. Shi Bufan said.

"It's so tall, as tall as my mother!" Linchuan princess Li Mengjiang said.

"Oh? Which concubine is as tall as my sister? Kindman also asked in surprise.

"Concubine Wei is also a very tall woman!" Shi Bufan explained.

Jin Shengman immediately seized the opportunity and said, "Since that's the case, can I meet Wei Guifei?" ”

"Sure enough, it is a climb along the pole, and there are some means, no wonder they were able to form an alliance with Datang later, and even become another Silla queen! Kindman and Kim Seungman, the two future queens of Silla, are not simple! Shi Bufan thought.

Shi Bufan hurriedly said: "The princess can't be the master of this matter, let's talk about it when the time comes!" ”

Jindeman saw that Li Shimin's daughters were here, and immediately used the old method just now again, and directly began to cry. directly began to spit out bitterness to these princesses, complained vigorously, and said that Goguryeo and Baekje were not in front of these princesses, hoping to influence Li Shimin's judgment through these princesses. Because anyone knows that influencing someone through their loved ones is a very effective way. Therefore, Jindeman and Jin Shengman naturally also intend to influence Li Shimin through this method, and influence Li Shimin's judgment by influencing his daughter.

Sure enough, these Loli are young after all, and when they saw a woman, the same princess crying miserably in front of them, they all had some sympathy.

"This Goguryeo and Baekje are really too hateful, I must let my father teach them a lesson!" Li Lizhi said.

The other princesses were also very "righteous", and took the initiative to take care of everything and said that they would let Li Shimin teach Goguryeo and Baekje a lesson.

Shi Bufan's eyelids rolled up, these princesses were really too young, and they didn't even notice that people were deliberately provoking. Of course, in fact, even if Silla doesn't propose an alliance, then sooner or later Datang will have to fight Goguryeo and Baekje, but Datang takes the initiative to fight and provoke Silla, which is actually two different things! Especially to incite Li Shimin through this kind of emperor's daughter, this is simply a big taboo. This may have the opposite effect, and this one is not good for Datang and Silla.

"All right, Princess Kindman, you don't have to cry. If you keep crying, then I'll have someone kick you out. Your behavior like this is really a loss of your identity as a Silla ****, if you let the people in Silla know in the future that their **** is actually such a person, it will really be a shame to be thrown to the world, and you will be laughed out. Shi Bufan said politely.

"Well, you ......" Kindman was speechless.

Jindeman originally hoped to win sympathy by deliberately crying, but the little princesses were also sympathetic, but Shi Bufan, this man, was very cold, not only did he not have any sympathy, but continued to sprinkle salt here.

"Princess Kindman, you are the **** of Silla, the future queen of Silla, aren't you losing your identity by doing this? Do you think that you can gain sympathy by crying? But I want to tell you, when you wear a crown, you must bear its weight, this is what I have told many people. Do you think you can gain sympathy by this means? I'm telling you, politics doesn't believe in tears. You think you can get sympathy by crying, but that's a big mistake. Do you think that you are a woman who is qualified to cry to win the sympathy of others, do you think that you are a woman, and you can win the sympathy of others by crying with peace of mind? But I'm going to tell you an ironclad rule, politics doesn't believe in tears. ”

"Since you are a ****, the future queen of Silla, you can't measure yourself as a woman like this. You are a king, have you ever seen a king who cries all day? As a leader, you have to have confidence, courage, and means to do what you do. And this means, absolutely not including crying, understand? As a future king, you cry so much, just to expose your weakness and incompetence. You may be able to win the sympathy of some fools and fools, but you will never win the sympathy of the real statesmen. Even if those foolish men and fools sympathize with you, they can't affect the general trend. But those of your opponents can kill you! ”

"So, since you're going to be the king of Silla, don't think of yourself as a woman. If you're just a woman, you're naturally entitled to win sympathy by crying. But as a king, you are not qualified to do so. Although you are a woman, as a female king, you can only suppress them by being stronger, more powerful, more means, and more ruthless than other men. A woman who weeps and sympathizes with her will never be a true leader. ”

Shi Bufan dismissed this Jindeman's method of winning sympathy by crying as worthless. Shi Bufan has seen a lot of international news in later generations, and many female politicians sometimes use "crying" to win sympathy, but this is of no use at all. Politics doesn't believe in tears, this is an ironclad rule. In a political situation, you will not be treated preferentially just because you are a woman, and you will not be taken special care of because you are a woman. In political situations, there is only bullying, and there will be no sympathy.

Just look at those outstanding female politicians in ancient and modern China and abroad, those female politicians who have made some achievements, which one of them does not have the means, courage and deterrence, and even make those men obey through various means? China's Wu Zetian is even more powerful with iron and blood, but he is not a guest to eat. Even Cixi of the Qing Dynasty, although she was weak externally, she had a lot of internal means, and even launched three coups in her life, and even the most men could not do it with the decisiveness and courage in this means.

The same is true in foreign countries, those female monarchs with outstanding achievements, none of them are not powerful characters, and none of them have won sympathy through tears. Even the modern German Chancellor Angela Merkel, and the British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher, they did not rise to power by tears, the same lady relied on means and cold steel means. Although the political struggle in later generations was much less cruel, it was also impossible to rely on tears to ascend to power, and it was necessary to use means and ruthless and decisive courage to ascend to power. If you rely on tears, then no one will really obey you, I really think that some Western novels like a certain public tears, countless warriors actually obey ah!

Those who rely on tears, such as the two beautiful prime ministers of Ukraine and Thailand, did not end well, and this is the difference. No one can rely on tears to get to the top, and it is also impossible to be convincing by tears, so Shi Bufan simply can't look down on Jindeman's methods.

"But......" Kindman wanted to say something, but he was also quickly intercepted by Shi Bufan.

"Princess Kindman, being a king is not a dinner party, do you think you are a woman who is qualified to use this means? No, if you want to be a king, don't think of yourself as a woman in the first place. You have to be the leader of a country, and you can't think of yourself as a 'woman'. Because of your subordinates, most of them are men. In a place where the majority of men are predominant, if you want to be their leader, you have to be more men than them. Of course, it is not that you want to really become a man physically, but to be stronger than them in terms of character and courage, which is the most important means to stabilize the country. You can't get sympathy by crying. Your methods are very inappropriate in international exchanges, and they are useless at all, you can only deceive the sympathy of some little girls, but they can't really affect the emperor at all. You did this, but it was the opposite effect, and let others see your weakness, do you understand? A king or a minister or even any politician who cries to win sympathy will never end well, and there will be no exception just because you are a woman. Shi Bufan said politely.

Jindeman quickly began to ponder, and after more than ten minutes without speaking, Jindeman finally threw his handkerchief directly into the trash can not far away, and finally said to Shi Bufan seriously: "Thank you for the reminder, otherwise I really took the wrong path." In my life, I will never let others see me cry again. ”

"It seems that you understand that politics does not believe in tears. This is the bearing that a lord of a country should have, even if there are really tears in his heart, he must try to swallow them back, and he can't let anyone see them! Shi Bufan praised. (To be continued.) )