"Are you really willing to do anything?" Shi Bufan asked. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info

The woman nodded, obviously indicating that she was willing to do anything, and even deliberately tidied up her hair, and then hoped that her okay face would be revealed. And Shi Bufan can be sure that this woman is definitely not a good bird, this woman is definitely the kind that loves vanity, so of course Shi Bufan will not look down on it. I have a Shang Palace by my side, how can the two former county lords look down on this kind of woman? In fact, with Shi Bufan's current identity, he still uses women if he wants them, as long as he can afford to raise them, there will be countless women in his arms. But on the one hand, he doesn't have any money, and on the other hand, he doesn't want any woman, so it's naturally impossible for him to mess around.

Shi Bufan said quite coldly: "Okay, I don't want you to do anything, so I will tell you what to do then." I'll go back and talk to them, let them slow down this matter first, at least the Qin family's home can be saved. ”

"Thank you Shi County Man, thank you Shi County Man!" The woman said hurriedly.

Shi Bufan was ready to let this woman leave, obviously not planning to keep her for long. But the woman soon spoke.

"Shi Xiannan, I have something I want to tell you!" The woman said.

Shi Bufan asked, "What's the matter?" ”

"Please let my children go down first, and I will speak to you alone!" The woman said.

Listening to this woman's hint of such a red fruit, this made Shi Bufan dissatisfied. Although this woman has a bit of beauty, she is the wife of her cheap father-in-law, although she is not Qin Jiarui's biological mother, but is it really appropriate to seduce herself like this? Shi Bufan is not the person who messed around, and his current identity is not suitable for casual messing. Although this woman has no direct blood relationship with Qin Jiarui, she is Qin Jiarui's stepmother after all, and she is also a kind of "mother" in ancient times, and her identity has been decided.

In ancient times, fame was valued and even bloodline, and in ancient times, fame was almost the same status as blood, and even higher than bloodline in some cases. For example, if a child is passed on to someone else, for example, to an uncle, then from then on the uncle is also the "father", but the biological father is the "uncle". This is also the ancient ethics, once passed to the uncle, the uncle is the father, and the biological father should be called uncle, so that the name is more important than the blood.

So of course Shi Bufan didn't dare to touch this woman, otherwise he would get into trouble in the future. The relationship between himself and Qin Jiarui is like this, although the relationship between Shi Bufan and Qin Jiarui is like a cover-up, but who in Chang'an doesn't know that Qin Jiarui and Miss Qin are their own women? At that time, if she has a relationship with her stepmother, she will be criticized.

For this kind of woman to affect his future, it is really unnecessary, so he naturally won't do this.

"I'm not interested in listening, you go down!" Shi Bufan said.

The woman said unwillingly: "I have some secrets about my daughter, and you, as my daughter's man, must want to hear them!" Don't you want to know my daughter's past? ”

The daughter that this woman said was actually in a hurry Qin Jiarui, so she was obviously telling Shi Bufan that Qin Jiarui had some things before. And this is obviously an attempt to take advantage of the opportunity to attract the attention of the extraordinary of the times, because any man tends to care very much about his woman's past, so I am afraid that no man can resist the importance of this news.

This woman also thinks that she has caught the man's death hole, any man who hears this kind of words must think that he must listen to it, and the things related to his woman's past are of course very curious. Especially when it speaks so ambiguously, many people will be puzzled by what extraordinary experiences Qin Jiarui has in the past, which is unknown to people.

"Husband, I'm me, I'm ...... No! Qin Jiarui hurriedly explained.

This is related to her reputation, I am afraid that any woman will care very much, especially now that Qin Jiarui is already an extraordinary woman, and even pregnant, so if there is any problem with her reputation at this time, I am afraid that it will be ruined in the end. So although Qin Jiarui hurriedly wanted to explain, even because she knew that women often suffered a lot in this kind of thing. Even in the Tang Dynasty, even men in the Tang Dynasty did not like to marry a woman who came casually and had bad conduct. But men don't have this problem, as long as they are powerful and rich, the vast majority of women will stick it upside down.

This Qin Jiarui was also very nervous, obviously thinking that if he caused a misunderstanding between Shi Bufan, it would be troublesome. So Qin Jiarui hurriedly hoped to explain clearly, otherwise the consequences would be unbearable.

"Jiarui, don't explain!" Shi Bufan said.

Hearing this, Qin Jiarui was suddenly faceless, which almost made her legs weak and fall. Because Shi Bufan's words are sonorous, so he doesn't need to explain, what does this mean? Could it be that Shi Bufan didn't want to hear Qin Jiarui's explanation? If that's the case, then I'm afraid Qin Jiarui can't speak clearly. Once she loses the protection of Shi Bufan, then I am afraid that her industries will also be swallowed up by others. Even whether the child in her belly can be recognized by Shi Bufan is still a question, which really makes her feel almost broken. No matter how capable Qin Jiarui was in the past, but after all, she is a woman, and women still generally attach importance to the family, if there is a problem in the family, a woman will definitely have problems in her career. However, if a man has problems in his family, he may not have problems in his career, which is the difference in the impact of ideological bias.

If Shi Bufan doesn't trust her, the consequences must be unimaginable.

"Husband, listen to me!" Qin Jiarui hurriedly said.

The woman was even more proud, she felt that she had grasped the weakness of the man, so she succeeded this time. In his eyes, there is no man who does not want to know the whole of his woman's past, especially the possessiveness of ancient men is extremely strong, I am afraid that the men of the Tang Dynasty will definitely give themselves a chance no matter what they say, so he is very confident.

But then Shi Bufan's words completely blinded this woman.

"Jiarui, it's not that I don't believe you, but because I believe in you very much, that's why I won't let you explain. Because I know that no matter how much you explain, this woman will always be able to find loopholes to refute. But I know that these loopholes are plausible, and they are only exploited by the idea that people's hearts are suspicious of their neighbors. As long as I have the idea in my heart that you are disloyal, I will be disloyal no matter how I think you are. At that time, you will just sell more and more black, and in the end it will not be good for you. ”

"And I trust you so much, that's why I don't listen to his useless nonsense."

Shi Bufan knows very well that this is actually the use of a human characteristic, and the ancients had this kind of story called "Suspicious Neighbor Stealing the Axe". Shi Bufan has probably heard of it in later generations, but in fact, many people use this kind of thinking to achieve their own rumor-mongering goals. This kind of person first creates a "result" person for people, and then asks you to follow this result to find evidence. But the result is already set in your mind, so that you are not neutral when you look for evidence and the process.

When you are biased towards this result, then the evidence and thinking you are looking for are also blinded. This kind of thinking is a lot, and Shi Bufan has often encountered many civil family disputes in later generations.

This is actually the case in many courts where a family couple divorces, when someone says something about your spouse's cheating, you choose to believe it. Next, you go to follow or look for all kinds of evidence, but you already have a "formula" in your heart, so in the end, no matter how you look at it, this spouse is bound to cheat.

As a result, in the end, the family members were suspicious of each other, which caused a lot of conflicts. As we can see from the cases tried by the courts of later generations, in fact, many family disputes of all kinds are actually uninteresting. In fact, many of them originated from "suspicious neighbors stealing axes", which caused distrust. At least a few people who really cheated from the beginning, most of them were because of this kind of paranoia, which caused conflicts among family members, and finally caused a series of psychological effect changes again to cause the family to break up later.

This situation is not rare, so in fact, this so-called psychological phenomenon is not worth mentioning, but it is easier said than done. Shi Bufan has consulted many cases of civil and family disputes, and is naturally well aware of the evolution of this process. He directly chose to believe Qin Jiarui, because when he had sex with Qin Jiarui for the first time, Qin Jiarui was obviously very jerky at that time, and he had no experience at all. Although Qin Jiarui took the initiative at the beginning, he was still extraordinary in the future, otherwise he would not have been able to carry on at all.

Therefore, Shi Bufan can believe that Qin Jiarui was still a virgin before he was with him, so he naturally would not have any doubts. This Qin Jiarui's stepmother is just grandstanding, Shi Bufan, as a person who studies law and is good at sophistry, can he not know what means? This kind of grandstanding, taking advantage of the widespread curiosity of the masses and some psychological means, can do a lot.

But this woman used it so much in front of Shi Bufan, in fact, she was getting an axe at the class gate, and Shi Bufan didn't give her a chance at all.

After the woman was blown away, Qin Jiarui hurriedly wanted to explain, saying, "Husband, I really don't have anything, he said nonsense!" ”

Shi Bufan shook his head and said: "I am not interested in knowing, I just know that if you really want to tell me, you will say it." If you don't want to tell me, I won't force it, I believe that your feelings for me are real, not false. In short, when living together, whether it is a husband and wife or a friend, the most important thing is trust. If you can't trust, don't live together. It's easy to get acquainted and it's hard to live together, in fact, this truth is very clear. If you really can't trust each other, then don't live together. So since your relationship with me is like this, then I will also believe in you. I also think you'll trust me, and if you really have a problem, you can tell me and I'll try to help you solve it. If you don't want to say it, I also believe that you won't do it to harm me, so what do I not trust you? ”

"If I don't trust you, then how are we going to live under one roof? So if you want to be a husband and wife, you must first be able to trust each other, and I won't be suspicious. So don't worry, I still have a lot of trust in you, and I won't have any doubts. I believe that you won't hurt me, you won't do anything sorry for me, and I won't care about anything else. ”

Qin Jiarui replied movingly: "Husband, it is my luck to meet you in my life. ”

Qin Jiarui knew that the question just now was actually almost unsolvable, because her stepmother put forward this statement, I am afraid that no man can ignore it. In Qin Jiarui's eyes, Shi Bufan may also be suspicious, because many men are in line with the idea that they would rather believe it than not believe it. But once you have this idea of "it's better to believe it than not to believe it", then you are already in the trap. People are just taking advantage of your suspicious thoughts, as long as there is the slightest suspicion, then you are not far from a family outbreak. Even if this time is temporary, once this seed is planted in the future, I don't know when it will take root again.

This problem is almost unsolvable, especially since the vast majority of men have a strong possessive desire for their women, so it is almost unsolvable. But Shi Bufan didn't listen to it, and directly chose to believe Qin Jiarui. It's impossible to imagine how generous this is, how big a belly, enough to move any ancient woman.

"Husband, if my brother continues to live with that woman, it may not be good for his future! If I let my brother continue to follow him, I don't know what will become of my brother. Why don't you take my brother over, what do you think? Don't worry, my brother doesn't need our family to provide for him, I'll solve it for him. Qin Jiarui said.

Shi Bufan thought about it, and finally chose to shake his head and said, "I think I have a place where I can let him study hard and grow as soon as possible." What he has to do now is to grow up as soon as possible and take on the burden of their Qin family, otherwise he will never be able to grow up if he keeps relying on you and me to help. Therefore, it is also necessary to grow as soon as possible. Only in this way can you truly become a useful talent, otherwise you will grow up in the hands of such a woman, and of course it is not suitable to be a strong and decisive person. (To be continued.) )