"Chen joins the army, maybe you don't know it at all, although many people envy us for being born in a big family, it seems that we have endless glory and wealth. But who knows the anguish of our hearts? Because as soon as we are born, everything in life is prescribed, from childhood to adulthood, weaning in a few months, starting to study at what age, and then what kind of friends we can have, these are all planned for a long time. According to the arrangement, the sons-in-law and the direct collateral have their own division of labor in this family, and then they are responsible for different things. And these are all predetermined at birth, and there is not much right to choose. This is especially true for the children of the direct line. In fact, some of the ancestors of our Cui family have said that they would rather be born in an ordinary family than be born in this indifferent and ruthless life, where everything is prescribed. Because we feel like we're all machines, not people. And if you can become rich one day, maybe your descendants will be like us. Cui Xiuxiu said.

Chen Fei sighed and said, "This may also be the siege effect!" The people inside want to get in, and the people outside want to get out! When you don't have wealth, you want to be rich, but once you are rich, you'd rather go back to that dull time. Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory, and if you choose the same, you will inevitably lose the other. ”

Chen Fei suddenly felt a little emotional, these people from big families are not very happy!

"However, perhaps even fewer people know that the direct girls of our family are even more miserable!" Cui Xiuxiu said.

"Huh?" Chen Fei asked.

Cui Xiuxiu went on to explain: "Men in the direct line of the family may also be able to lead the family to the top by working hard and then fighting for the position of head of the family. But we, the girls in the direct line, have no choice at all. As soon as he was born, he may have already made a marriage contract with a man with a foreign surname as a bargaining chip for the family marriage. And after that, there is no choice at all, you have to get married. Women do not have the right to inherit. Therefore, no matter how good a woman is, she is not qualified to inherit the position of head of the family. ”

Of course Chen Fei won't say anything, this kind of patriarchal thinking will exist even in later generations. In later generations, many wealthy people chose their heirs to give their sons more wealth, while their daughters only received very little, or even gave nothing at all. This situation was even more severe in ancient times, especially for large families. There has never been a woman who can inherit the position of the head of the family, no matter how good her daughter is, it is impossible.

"Are you engaged?" Chen Fei asked.

"No, but my end is even worse!" Cui Xiuxiu said.

Chen Fei couldn't figure out why he hadn't been contracted. Worse yet?

"Although I was not betrothed when I was born, from the time I was sensible, I didn't want me to be manipulated as a bargaining chip for marriage. After that, I studied hard, and then I learned to manage the house, and learned all kinds of power and scheming, just to make the family pay attention to me. Later, my father did pay attention to me, and my father chose me as his important assistant. But that's exactly what happened. My father will not let me be qualified to marry in this life. Because only by not letting me get married can I do things for my family wholeheartedly. ”

Chen Fei understood the reason, that is, Cui Xiuxiu had studied so much and hoped to make the family pay attention to her. As a result, her father Cui Fu did attach importance to her. and regarded her as his important assistant, but what followed was that Cui Fu couldn't do without her. Of course, for the average son, maybe it's a good thing. But for the daughter, once the father can't do without her. That may mean that I don't want her to be someone else's wife. Once the daughter becomes someone else's wife, or even marries another family, I am afraid that she is giving talent to the other party.

Cui Fu is not a fool as long as he is not a fool. I know that if I marry my daughter to someone from another family, it is equivalent to giving away talents to other families. Cui Fu will not do this kind of "capital enemy" thing, so even if Cui Fu makes his daughter unable to get married in her life, she must keep her daughter by her side, after all, if she marries, it is equivalent to being an enemy.

So this Cui Xiuxiu is tragic, because she is too good, so Cui Fu refuses to let her marry someone else. Although Cui Xiuxiu doesn't have to get married, the ensuing price is that she loses the right to be a real woman, and she can't get married and have children in her life, which is tantamount to depriving her of the right to be a woman. This is so cruel for a woman, so Chen Fei doesn't have a good impression of the inside of these families. After all, this kind of life is definitely not what Chen Fei wants, and Chen Fei may not stipulate future generations like this even if he has certain achievements in the future.

People in this era attach great importance to family inheritance, so they do everything possible to hope that the family can continue. But Chen Fei doesn't see it that way, this has something to do with his background. Chen Fei has always been an orphan, and his own parents don't know who it is, so it's too difficult for him to have a sense of belonging to the family. Therefore, Chen Fei does not pay attention to the inheritance of the family, even if he achieves great things in the future, he will not pay too much attention to the inheritance of the family, after all, the children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, can he still do too much for his children and grandchildren?

"If I can one day become a high-ranking official and become rich in the world, I will never leave a penny to my descendants! I will not leave a big family for them, I plan to let them fight on their own, which is good for my descendants, and good for themselves! And in this way, it will not sacrifice the happiness of countless people for the sake of the so-called family interests. Chen Fei said.

"Oh? How so? Cui Xiuxiu asked.

Cui Xiuxiu didn't understand Chen Fei's idea, after all, after working hard for so many years, didn't he just hope to be able to leave the industry to his children and grandchildren, and leave a big family to his descendants? Countless people have worked hard all their lives, and they all hope that their descendants and their families can be strong and their families can have enough status. Each person wants the descendants of his family to be able to lie on the inheritance of their ancestors and enjoy happiness instead of suffering. Chen Fei's taking away all the stimulus wealth is obviously not in line with ordinary people's thinking.

"If children and grandchildren are like me, what do they do with their money, and they are virtuous and rich, they will lose their ambition; My children and grandchildren are not as good as me, what do I do with my money, and I am foolish and rich, and I will increase my faults. Chen Fei said.

Cui Xiuxiu heard this and thought thoughtfully. (To be continued......)