Wang Mumu's inner house has once again become an examination room, and in the face of three top European beauty princesses in different tones, Wang Mumu is a little dizzy.

Fendi in Italy? Giorgio Armani stood there, twenty-one or twelve years old. She's like a breathtaking, anachronistic girl who has stepped down from a fashion magazine. She has a wild and uninhibited beauty, shiny and charming long red hair, seductive green eyes, sexy and plump flaming red lips, white and red transparent complexion, soft and smooth pearl skin, tall and well-proportioned fiery body, rich and unparalleled exotic colors, and unrivaled sexy charm. She has an irresistible beauty and sensuality, her beauty comes from the natural temptation of human nature, her big green eyes are enough to melt everyone's heat, and every inch of her curvy figure is written "I am a woman". When she dances her slender legs in front of her, between the intertwining of her beautiful legs, an inexplicable impulse will always hit the people around her. She is like a mature honey táo, a little fleshy, and very tempting, following her laughter and anger, like a fire-like contagion, can be restless and uncontrollable......

Montejiao of France? Ji Ji Xiannu stood there, seventeen or eighteen years old. She is like an angelic girl next door, very flattering, with a round face, round eyes, a round nose, round dimples, and everything looks round. Her brown hair and skin looked surprisingly healthy and natural, and she smiled and showed a mouthful of snow-white and neat teeth, which were as sweet as sugar water with honey, which went straight to her heart. She is a bit of a shadow of a southern European woman's amorous style, she is so beautiful that she can warm people's hearts, and in a group of innocent childlike behavior, she exudes romance, literature, fashion, sweetness, and warmth......

Sarah of the Holy Roman Empire? Kona was standing there, about twenty years old. Her pointed chin, slender face, thin mouth, and a pair of clear, melancholy brown eyes that hang diagonally upwards can make the world fall in love with her. She is both Western sensual and Oriental mysterious, exuding an irresistible charm. The beautiful figure is unobstructed, the blood is noble, the body is sexy and hot, the face is extremely delicate and noble, the taste is elegant, but the facial features have a cold demeanor. I don't know if it's the marriage effect of Holy Rome, she has the shadow of a Nordic woman who is tall, horse-like, with very white skin and brilliant blond hair. If Armani is a flower that attracts bees and butterflies, Jaehime Sennu is a cute little apple, and Kona is like an ice beauty, she is sexy, elegant, noble, classical, and wild, and she is breathtakingly beautiful. There's also a little bit of coldness, and a bit of punk. She is as clean as a white lotus, dusty and proud, cold, and pure.

The three big Western beauties, without the gentleness and sweetness of the Oriental beauties, and the subtlety of smiling without showing teeth, each blooming their own delicate, sweet, and arrogant, standing there, Wang Mumu looked at it, and felt that he had to hurry up and work, so that the work could concentrate on himself.

The first to be interviewed was Fendi from Italy? Armani, Wang Mumu looked at this beautiful woman who was dressed in a famous brand and felt quite good about herself, and thought, how can this be tested? Let's learn from other people's old drama bones: "Excuse me, Madame Armani, can you tell me why you want to apply for graduate school at Harvard University?" In the meantime, can you tell us a little bit about yourself? ”

Giorgio Armani smiled, full of charm, and laughed so much that there was no noise in the audience. She bowed slightly and said, "Dear teachers, first of all, I have to correct a misunderstanding of teachers, that is, I am not a lady. I am a princess of the Italian royal family, and I have not yet married, or even engaged, and I am a leftover girl in the flower season. As for the fact that we report to you that I am Pompeii? Boccaccio's wife, this is a safety measure for our trip. Alas, who told me that I was too beautiful, and there are too many troubles for beautiful women to travel, so I can only sacrifice it. In this regard, I apologize to the wedding organizer for hiding the truth. However, I think that the three goddesses who are high up, after you understand the truth, you will not mind, after all, women will not embarrass women, will they?

Also, I help my two sisters of France and Holy Rome, Montejiao? Jakihime Sennu and Sarah? Kona confessed that they were in the same situation as me, and they were also called Mrs. for more than a month in order to provide a safety umbrella. Actually, I think I may be saying this too much, for I can see from the cunning eyes of your little witch from Europe, the Flower Fairy, that she knows that all three of us are virgins. But you are abundant, and do not measure; Or, if it's not about you, you just hang it high.

Okay, now, without further ado, I'll introduce myself. I am not only an ordinary aristocratic woman, but also a royal princess with a bit of a story. I will talk about the ups and downs of my mood as a stepping stone to the graduate school entrance examination, and I also hope to start the topic, do a psychological research, and write a report for the benefit of thousands of people.

Once, the royal family held a banquet, and it was the same as yesterday here, and somehow, a lot of couldn't be left for me. I was no exception, so I hurried to the WC. But there are so many people this day, there are long queues, helpless, obey the rules and disciplines, and I also obediently stand in the line.

I lined up, and finally it was my turn, and I was just about to make a move, when a young lady who was nobler than me flashed vigorously, and took the lead. I stood still, indifferent. I'm y- how do you say? It's very "depressing". Afterwards, I turned to a lot of books and consulted many wise people. I understand that this is a kind of personal frustration, not a subconscious that releases and turns out the changed thoughts and emotions, but suppresses them in the heart, unwilling to admit the existence of troubles.

Okay, go ahead. After a while, the noble young lady came out, and I was about to make a move, when a little girl rushed into the squatting position like an arrow off the string, and I could only wait calmly outside, as if I felt nothing. In hindsight, I learned that I was called "isolation" in psychology. That is, I am deliberately isolating some of the facts from the realm of consciousness, not allowing myself to be aware of them, so as not to cause mental unpleasantness. Just like now we say "going to the toilet" as "going to the toilet" or "going to sing".

Okay, go ahead. After a while, the little girl came out, and I was just about to make a move, when an old lady broke through the door again, and I thought, "The young man let the old man, should, should." ”

Afterwards, I analyzed myself, and I was in a state of "rationalization" at that time. This rationalization is also known as the role of cultural ornamentation, commonly known as finding a rut. When an individual's motivation is not realized or his behavior does not conform to social norms, in order to alleviate the tension and anxiety caused by motivational conflicts or failures and frustrations, or to maintain personal self-esteem, it is always necessary to excuse one's own actions and justify oneself, which is called rationalization. For example, if you can't eat it, it is a sour "sour grapes" mentality; For example, the fox who didn't eat "sour grapes" insisted that the sour lemon in his mouth was sweet, and the "sweet lemon" psychology and prevarication psychology. It's like thinking like this: a child's mediocre qualifications are "stupid people have stupid blessings", a mediocre wife has inner beauty, a ball game is lost because the venue is not good, a failure in the exam is due to too biased exam questions, a poor stool is due to the toilet has no suction, etc.

Okay, I'll get down to business and move on. The old man came out, and I was just about to make a move, when a pregnant woman shouted "I'm sorry to let me" rush in, and I gritted my teeth and said to myself, "If it were someone else, I would go and scold them in the morning - but I was not such an uncultivated person, and at that time I thought I was a very noble person."

In hindsight, I knew that I was "denying". Denial is not about purposefully forgetting painful events, but about "denying" unpleasant events that have occurred, believing that they never happened, in order to escape psychological stimulation and pain, and to obtain temporary psychological comfort. It's like "covering your ears and stealing the bell" and "out of sight is pure".

Then, the pregnant woman also came out, and I was just about to move, when a foreign woman gestured and was about to squeeze in, and I couldn't stop, so I rushed up, slapped her twice, and rode on her and roared while beating and screaming, "You still have to inch in?!" The little lady has long been unbearable for the despicable acts of foreign robbers like you! ”

In hindsight, I knew that I was "empathetic". This is my experience of the feelings, drives, attitudes, fantasies, and defenses of a person at the moment. Empathy refers to someone's special relationship, which is a special type of object relationship, whose main feature is the sensory experience of an unsuitable person, when it is actually directed to another person.

The police received a report from the masses that I had beaten a foreign guest, so they intervened: they rescued the foreign woman and put me in a police car. Actually, they are on my side in their hearts. ”

In hindsight, I knew that I was "projecting". It is to transfer to the outside world or others a character, attitude, motivation or ** that you don't like or can't accept. Projection is a form of self-defense used by the individual's ego against the superego to alleviate inner guilt.

I was taken into the police station, and to my surprise, the police were going to take me seriously! So, I refused to answer the question, and I lay on the ground and began to cry and roll.

Later, I realized that I was "regressing". This refers to the fact that when an individual encounters setbacks and stresses, his mental activity regresses to the level of an earlier age stage, and he copes with the current situation in a primitive and naïve way, which is a regressive phenomenon of anti-maturity.

I was fined by my parents from the police station, and after that, I thought about it behind closed doors and learned from it, and a year later I published a 50,000-word bestseller called "Thoughts on Life Triggered by Going to the Toilet".

I know, this is called "sublimation" in psychology. This kind of motivation and behavior that is not allowed and accepted by society is directed in a more lofty direction, so that it conforms to social norms and the requirements of the times, can be accepted by society or others, and becomes a constructive activity energy is called sublimation. For example, Goethe wrote "The Troubles of Young Werther" because of his broken love, and Sima Qian wrote "Historical Records" because of his crime.

I became an overnight celebrity and became an idol in the hearts of the people of the whole country. One day, I forgot to take off my shower cap when I went out, and the next day, most of the city was already popular when I wore a shower cap to the streets.

I know, this is the "celebrity effect". That is, the phenomenon of persuasion and blind obedience due to the acceptance of the hints of celebrities.

A very small number of citizens originally thought that it was really vulgar and indecent to wear a shower cap to go shopping, but when they saw that the vast majority of people took it as beauty, they also followed the trend with confidence.

I understand that this is the "herd effect". It refers to the herd effect, in which individuals adjust and change themselves to become more similar to others under the effect of a group.

After I learned the truth that this trend turned out to be because of me, I was pleasantly surprised to find that I was a "genius in the fashion industry" who had been sleeping for nearly 20 years, and I decided to write from "art", and within two years, I really found more and more feelings, and finally stepped out of the country, went to the world, and became the most prestigious fashion design master in Europe.

I know, this is actually the "Pygmalion effect", also known as the "expectation effect". It is a phenomenon in which students achieve the progress expected by teachers through the subtle influence of teachers on students' psychology.

At this time, major companies all over Italy began to come to me and asked me to do image design for them, and I was so busy that I had to work on the toilet every day, and the supply was seriously outstripped.

I know, it's actually the "Matthew effect." As the Gospel of Matthew says in the Bible, "To everyone who has, add to him that he may be superfluous." and he that hath not, even what he hath shall be taken from him. ”

So, for a while, all kinds of media stared at me like mosquitoes, and within a week I was portrayed as a "perfect female representative with a face like a fairy, a devil's body, a stunt, both civil and military, meritorious, and never pooping and farting".

I know, it's my "halo effect" that comes in. Also known as the halo effect. Refers to a tendency to perceive others as a deviation, when a person has a good impression of some of the main qualities of another person, he thinks that everything is good about that person, and that person is enveloped by an aura of positivity. Otherwise, they are endowed with other bad qualities.

At the peak of my life, a handsome young man shook my eyes at the moment when he happened to pass me, I fell in love with him at first sight, I was fascinated, and I firmly believed that he was the Prince Charming I had been looking forward to.

Later, I realized that I was coming from the "first cause effect". In other words, the impression I formed based on the information I first obtained is not easy to change, and it can even affect the interpretation of the new information that I have obtained later.

After further understanding, I became more and more sure that this Prince Charming is indeed a rare all-round talent on earth, with wealth and beauty, excellent personality, and high cultivation. But what is sad and indignant is that my parents, brothers and sisters firmly believe that the little white face of the rich woman must be the one who has no ability to do it and relies on eating soft rice to find a way to live.

In hindsight, I learned that this was probably the "stereotype effect". It is a mental phenomenon in which the mind has a fixed impression of a certain type of person.

Unexpectedly, before Wenrouxiang was greedy for a few days, his original partner found out that he was a married man. His one scolded the street for hanging, looking for death and life, and the paparazzi also saw that they forgot their righteousness, turned their eyes on hatred, spitted and spit, and criticized and wrote, and for a time the world was so hot and cold - the world was so cruel and fickle, and there was no place for us to live the huge earth! As a result, he and I became more affectionate and hated each other, and finally simply rolled up thousands of family assets and joined hands to die in the world.

You laughed at it, this is probably two people in love, but they are hindered. But oppression did not break up the love, but deepened the love, until the "Romeo and Juliet effect" of martyrdom.

After a few months of traveling in the mountains and rivers, we wandered in happiness, until one morning when I woke up, I suddenly found that not only was there not much gold or silver left, but my Prince Charming had begun to fight against me. I yelled at him, "I have paid so much for you, you must love me, you must take care of my emotions, you must ......"

Afterwards, I realized that I had lost my temper, which was the "absolutization requirement" of an unreasonable cognitive model, also known as "shouldism". It is an irrational belief in ABC theory. It refers to people who take their own will as the starting point and think that something will or will not happen.

He finally couldn't stand my growing temper, so one day he left a farewell letter and evaporated, leaving my already empty purse on the table. I gritted my teeth and scolded: "This killer of a thousand knives has been lying to me from the beginning, he has never loved me or given me a little sincerity!" And I, with you, are all pain, and there is no happiness! ……”

I know that love is crazy, and falling out of love makes people lose their intelligence. I made a mistake again, I am an unreasonable cognitive model of "generalizing from partiality".

I felt like I had come to the end of the world - now that I had lost my lover and my parents wouldn't want me, the nodding and smiling man had knocked me out of the door, and I had to sell my priceless diamond ring to pay off my debts...... Then I felt like I had nothing left, homeless, spurned, and living on the streets, and I feared that I would die a lonely and desolate convulsion in poverty and sickness......

I knew that I had a psychological problem at that time, and this was the "catastrophizing" of the irrational cognitive model.

The more I thought about it, the more furious I became, and in the end, I was so desperate that I decided to use suicide to avoid the risk, and I did it all the time: I took a shower, put on makeup, put on Chanel, sprayed on miracle, and then took twelve bottles of sleeping pills and lay on Simmons mattress and waited for death. Hey, I'm "seeing action".

Unexpectedly, the pharmacy that sold me sleeping pills was selling fake drugs that would cut off children and grandchildren, so I vomited and diarrhea, dizziness, and died in vain for a whole week, and I didn't die. After this baptism of life and death, I suddenly realized that even death has passed, what am I afraid of?! So I decided to save myself. I went to the wise man, or laughed and scolded, or high-pitched and angry, or complaining and mourning, or pitiful, or fierce, but no matter how you swelled, the eyes of the wise man always followed and accompanied me gently.

I am grateful to this wise man who gave me "positive attention".

I cried and said that I wanted to come and go, but I only loved "him" alone in this life, and the wise man asked me if this "he" I said was your husband or your friend?

I know that the wise man is "clarifying".

I said that the heartbreaking clips that always played back and forth in my head, and I knew that this was a "traumatic flashback".

I said that now, as soon as I see a young little white face, I will have a crooked mouth, slanted eyes, gastrointestinal spasms, and diarrhea. Hehe, this is "generalization" and "somatization" in psychology.

I said I had nothing left and that I couldn't go on with my life. The wise man said, don't you have time? Not healthy? Not beautiful? No freedom of choice? Don't have parents? No experience with past achievements? A delicate figure without maintenance? Don't have an expensive jade necklace? Not well-known? ……

Hehe, the wise man is "confronting" me.

I said that I gave up everything for that unconscionable man.

The wise man said that she understood the shock, the anger, the sorrow, and the remorse in my heart. She has "empathy";

As soon as I saw my confidant, I couldn't help but be more generous and indignant, but the wise man was even more excited than me, and she was already hugging you tightly and crying until 45 minutes later, she cramped and rolled her eyes and passed out on my shoulder, because she remembered the old story of her being deceived ** - this is the "countertransfer" of the wise man to the consultation.

When I saw the wise man like this, I thought to myself, didn't I pay to send her to death, so that she could ignore people's lives? So he hurriedly found a fork and staggered out of the consultation room and returned to the small shabby hut he rented. I decided it would be safer to try to heal myself. So, I calmed down and looked at myself, and after a long period of time, I finally got out of the haze of my soul. Hee-hee, I'm "repairing" ......"