Yesterday, August 15, was the first day of the wedding's 'Three Books Day', and the Chinese and foreign guests first looked at the dragon and phoenix list that 68,000 people appeared together, and talked about the new fashion of the Ryukyus: three books become one certificate, collective wedding, single marriage for single women, and hidden marriage for diving women, ....... At night, it shocked the little heart even more, what is going on on the "three-layer cake"? Did the gods become statues, or did the statues become immortals? Before the audience has recovered from the miracles, the musical fountain that shines under the stars, moves Asia, and sparkles in the sky draws the audience to their own sound, light, and water shapes. At the end of the party, some people went to find nozzles, some people went to see the projection holes, some people went to study the loudspeakers, and some people stared at the statues on the cake in a daze, and everyone was digesting the surprise of the multiple compounds brought by the first day of the wedding.

Now, the Chinese and foreign guests have been notified that the 'Nacai' ceremony will start at five o'clock in the afternoon. First come, first served, first come, first served, no come, no vacant seats.

How can Chinese and foreign guests not come? Although the surprise and confusion caused by yesterday's magic have not yet been digested, who would refuse more candy? I don't get tired of eating, I don't get tired of stewing, I don't have too many dishes, I don't love it, I heard that there was a good show to watch, and I moved when I heard the wind, and I came to grab a seat.

Today is the day of "Nacai" on the second day of the wedding. This "Nacai" means that the man wants to marry the woman, and the man sends the matchmaker to the woman's house to propose marriage and give gifts to propose. After receiving the promise, the matchmaker was asked to officially accept the "gift of choice" to the female family. Of course, in view of the current situation in the Ryukyus, and in view of the mainstream status quo of 68,000 men and women, the traditional "six rites" have been transformed.

A group of Chinese and foreign guests knew that the theme of today's wedding was "Nacai", so before watching the performance, they were also talking about their hometown, national conditions, and male and female feelings.

The Uighur Vijab Jin of the Gaochang was chatting with the Zhangzhung of the Tibetan Guge, and the two families were close to each other, and some topics were easier to communicate. Now, Vijab said, "One day, in my hometown, I went out into the street and saw a young man sitting on a lump of trees by the side of the road, and next to him there was a large bag of things, which should have been bought for his girlfriend. His girlfriend was standing next to him, and the two seemed to be at odds, and I was curious, so I listened to a few words.

The woman said, "My mother said, it's not appropriate to feed a girl." Starting from being smaller than a small arm, it was hard to feed so big now. I see that I can make money, but I will marry you! Give it to it. Not only did you not get the money. I have to pay for the two of you to get married!

The guy said, "Isn't my mother just me?" We got married, and for my parents, it was also a child who ran away from home, how is this different from your family marrying a daughter?

The girl said, "That's what you men are all good at." Okay, I won't talk to you, really, you say, how much dowry do you plan to give?

The guy said, fifteen thousand, okay?

The girl said, "Your family is really calculating." I'll tell you, multiply it by ten times, and it's 150,000. Just when my mother supports me for 10,000 yuan a year! Feeding me 10,000 a year is definitely not enough. You steal the fun! You should buy it for me for 150,000 yuan, can you buy it or not?

The young man said, isn't the money the same in everyone? When you get married, you're a family!

Girl: I don't care anyway. You say, 150,000 or not? You're going to say no. I'll take my bag and walk away!

Hehe, in this world, even love is a business. ”

Zhangxiong patted Vijab's catty and said, "Xiao Bi, I say, this young man's suffering, he himself has a great responsibility. You see, when the two of them talk, the guy sits and the girl stands, which is a big taboo. Even if there are a lot of things, it is better to put them on the seat. Stand with the girl too! Especially when talking about this kind of bride price, you can't stand and sit one by one.

At that time, the relationship between the two of them was not very equal. The girl is already saying the last sentence, you let the girl stand and say, condescending, wrong position, who still takes you seriously? Secondly, this guy's answer can basically be said to be a stupid way of answering! Regarding the saying that the girl raised the white to feed others, can't you say this: Then you see how suitable your mother is, give birth to a girl, the girl grows up, marries her husband, and has many sons. Isn't my son able to do all the things that the girls in the family couldn't do before? Also, the woman asked how much the bride price was, and she should be more skilled when answering, for example, it can be said that the bride price has to be talked about by the two old people, between the two of us, then my money is all yours, what I earned in the past is yours, what I earn now is yours, and what I will earn in the future will still be yours! In the matter of bride price, if the uncle is a little better, it is much easier to deal with the mother-in-law than the daughter-in-law. As for the question of more than 150,000 yuan, the young man should say this: Of course it's not expensive, let alone 10,000 yuan a year, if we give birth to a girl for tens of thousands a year, we may not be able to grow up to be so beautiful as her mother! So smart. And when I get married, I don't forget my parents! You're a priceless treasure! My dear, if you find someone who can give you 150,000 yuan, but the relationship is not harmonious, you say that our mother will be more angry. It doesn't matter if you give our mother 150,000 or 1.5 million, isn't it all for you to be protected! Don't they all want you to be happy after marriage? So, dear you say, can I not be nice to you? I'm not good to you, I just give 150,000, 1.5 million, and my mother can't marry you to me! This guy should use sycophants to resolve the crisis, and he can also shoot this little girl! ……”

Behind Vijab's Jin and Zhangxiong, Li Daocheng listened to the second language, and he thought it was his doing, so he was full of wisdom and said to the two: "In our Jiaozhi, we received money, lived in my husband's house for two months, and sued for divorce on the grounds of emotional discord. There are many people who use this kind of procedure to cheat marriage and money, and they have even become professional, team-oriented, and internationalized. What's more, he didn't even give you the benefits of living with you for two months, and directly took the bride price at the wedding and disappeared; Or, before the marriage, take the dowry and evaporate. Therefore, Lao Ma knows the way and tells you: A woman who asks for a bride price and refuses a dowry is a cheating marriage nine times out of ten, so be careful! ……”

At this time, Pompeii, Italy? Boccaccio and his wife Fendi? After understanding what dowry is being talked about in many Asias, Giarmani said: "In our Europe, there is no dowry or bride price, and when you buy a big diamond ring, you also wear it on the bride's hand, not for the mother's family to take it." ”

Na Liya, the deputy envoy of the Cham country, is a woman herself, and her speech is biased towards the interests of women: "We are now in some rural areas of the Champa bride price is soaring year by year. Local villagers said that in the past, the heaviest burden in the countryside was building houses, but now it has become a wife. Marrying a daughter-in-law has become a 'hard wound' for some rural men. In some villages, the girl's educational background is also used as the standard for claiming a bride price. The usual "price" is: 100,000 yuan for 16 years of books (equivalent to undergraduates), 80,000 yuan for 15 years (equivalent to junior colleges), and 60,000 yuan for 12 years (equivalent to technical secondary schools). The reason why the parents calculate the bride price in this way is because they have borrowed so much money to pay for their daughter's schooling. Alas, I really don't know how fortunate it is to be a woman in this atmosphere? Or is it unfortunate? Marrying a woman becomes a woman's sale, and marriage becomes selling one's body. ”

Dali borders on Jiaozhi, and the customs are somewhat similar, so Gao Shengtai said: "Some civilians get married, not only to ask for a bride price but also to repair the house, a daughter-in-law enters the door and is in debt, and when she marries her daughter, she tries to ask for more bride price." It's all the fault of bad customs, a vicious circle! ”

The righteous family of the Wa Kingdom asked: "The schooling expenses of the woman's family have been recovered, so where will the tuition fees of the man's family be charged?" Marriage is not a sale, and the bride price should only be collected as a traditional form of symbolism and should not become a substantial means of profit. ”

The fairy Jima of the Great Song Dynasty said: "The value of academic qualifications is reflected in this way, sad ......."

Xiao Xiamo of Liao wanted to have a good relationship with these people, so he came in and chatted together: "If you want to change the bride price according to your academic qualifications, you can't blindly question it, but you need to change the status quo of local poverty, when the economy is developed, maybe everything will change." ”

The green-clad Malek? "Borrowing money to raise my daughter to become a college student is hoping for a new life, but I can't find a satisfying job, so the debt becomes a wound that I don't know when it will close," Everdler said. Finding a slight sense of balance from the high-priced bride price has to be said to be a kind of helplessness. ”

Abuel of the Ghaznavids? Hassan? Iraq said: "The greatest harm of the bride price is that on the one hand, it "beats the mandarin ducks", so that those who are affectionate but cannot afford the bride price cannot become dependents; On the other hand, some people who have no emotions at all are "tied" into marriage with a bride price. This is simply a disaster for some young people's love and marital happiness! ”

Gangang of Bagan said, "Whatever exists, it is reasonable." What is the difference between a girl being charged according to her educational background and a hotel being charged according to the level of the star? ”

The Samrivijaya Gentrava said, "Yes! This idea will help improve the education of girls in remote areas! This is a good phenomenon and a kind of progress! It reflects the farmers' respect for knowledge and culture. After marrying a college student's wife, in the future, his children's preschool education, primary and secondary education will save several teachers and tutors, and reduce the investment in the education of his children after marriage. It has also reversed the idea of preference for sons in the countryside to a certain extent! ”

The princess of Babylon of the Arab Empire said: "I disagree with your assertion that this is a disguised act of abduction and trafficking in women. Many people see their children's marriage as a life-changing transaction to change their lives. Such parents can't give birth to good children! ”

Omar of the Seljuk Empire? Khayyam said: "Judicial interpretations should be added. Such acts should be considered as traffickers. It is a despicable form of trafficking in women. ”

The Samvijaya Gentabhara said: "The poorer and more backward the place, the more the bride price is demanded, and it is simply to the extent that the family cannot afford it. It is not surprising that the phenomenon of 'selling daughters' abounds in rural areas in poor areas, especially in families where both parties make a living from farming, and once the daughter is married, she will become the labor force of the in-law's family, and the possibility of feeding her mother's family is extremely low, and it is difficult to be compensated for the cost of raising her for many years. ”

The Buddha of the Buddha said: "This is a certain truth, the countryside generally has two or three children, supporting parents generally rely on their sons, married daughters spill out of the water, sooner or later for the man to make money, support the elderly almost can't talk about it, is to see the old people during the New Year's holidays, and there is no difference with relatives, the bride price is also given to the son or the old man himself to stay for the elderly." ”

Pan Changjiang, who eats Pandia, said: "No wonder a female doctor can't get married, the higher the knowledge, the easier it is to be left!" Now, hehe! I finally understand what is the truth of 'a woman is virtuous if she is not talented'! Because you can save a lot of bride price money by marrying a wife who has never read a book! ”

Zhu Simao of the Great Food Chola Kingdom contradicted him: "Knowledge is wealth!" Other girls are worthy, you are small, stand aside, and you have a tall child who will carry it. ”

Audi of the Holy Roman Empire? Adidas said: "There is no right or wrong in this matter, only whether or not you agree with this custom. It's just that it's best not to exceed the other party's ability to bear when operating, and don't make people think that it's just a girl who is not marrying a girl but selling a girl! ”。

Audi? Adidas's wife, Sarah? "Bride price is a custom, and no amount of bride price money can repay your parents' kindness. If the woman is sensible and the dowry is rich, at least equal to or close to the value of the bride price, then it is not bad, just don't make the marriage look like a love deal. ”

Vyacheslav of Kievan Rus? Vladimirovich said: "Alas, if a commoner or a poor person, because of money, cannot get married or start a family, will he have negative feelings towards society and his family? ”

Tie Guan Li, who was on the side, was touched by the scene and interjected: "Yes!" Definitely! In China's Niu'anshan, a mother-in-law gave her son-in-law a 4 million luxury car, at the wedding banquet, witnessed this super bride price, after three rounds of drinking, a 30-year-old unmarried man among the guests thought that he had no married room, a moment of sadness came from it, to his parents, blurted out: There is no million! Why did you give birth to me? Didn't you hurt me! All four of them were shocked at one time! ”

Uncle Cao Guo thought, what do you mean by "China"? Great Song? Or Luzon? After thinking about it, he also said a few words: "Alas! If a person regards the parents who gave birth to you and raised you as the ones who harm you, is there anyone in this world who does not harm you? Who else would want to be with such a person? Perhaps, we can understand this as just this person's momentary drinking and angry words, but the emotions behind this should be said to be very common. In fact, the verb in front of 'happiness' should be 'pursuit' instead of "sit and wait", your parents gave birth to you, you have hands and feet, you have the ability to work, this is the greatest capital for the pursuit of a happy life. Drip your own sweat, eat your own food, and do your own things; Relying on people, relying on the sky, and relying on the ancestors, they are not considered heroes......"

Stephen of the Kingdom of Serbia? "One time, I came home on duty," Stankovic said. Passing through an alley, I heard two children talking. The little boy said to the little girl, "You women know how to ask men for money, do you know?" Our men are strong, and our men can predict the future? You don't believe it? Hum! Let me tell you, at least we boys can know what our children's surnames will be in the future, but you girls are different, and what your children's surnames will be is still unknown! The little girl replied loudly without thinking, hum, that's! However, our children must be my children, and your children may not be......"

While everyone was gossiping, today's wedding performance began.