Chapter 25 The world is not deep
I'm talking nonsense, don't be angry, but this nonsense, but from the bottom of my heart, if you can accept it, you can accept it, if you can't accept it, then turn your face and see how patient you are with this matter, don't tell me what we want to say now is whether you can accept this thing is what kind of thing has come to now, you hand over this 40-degree water on the back of your hand, don't you think what. Although you also feel uncomfortable, this water is added to 50 degrees, added to 60 degrees, a little hot and a little uncomfortable.
What do you react, how can you have time to complain, and take the time to ask others, you hurry up and pull your hand back, this is what we call unbearable, the problem is how many degrees of water do you think he has, handed over to your hand, handed over to you, you are not to the point where you want to immediately pull out your hand and break up and beat someone, if you think this is fifty or sixty degrees of boiling water, I will find anyone, my third uncle, second aunt, aunt, I can spit with them, then this is fifty or sixty degrees of water, after spitting out, go back, you continue to live your life a lot, as long as things at home do not involve the principle of big aspects, let's just say that you can't do it, and insist that if you can't get by, you will turn your face immediately.
Don't miss a minute. So how patient you are with this thing, how much do you worry about this matter, what kind of annoyance does he make you, so annoyed that you can't eat, can't sleep, feel that it has seriously affected the physical and mental health of the child, and feel that this day can't be lived, then go and turn your face If you think so, I don't hurt my muscles and bones, don't move quietly, say a few words softly, and accompany me and the child in the rest of the thirty or forty days, don't go to anything, don't do it, don't go to play mahjong, I tell you that the gods can't do it, so it depends on how this thing is for you, I said it clearly enough。
If you complain, why is the relationship between two people so bad? It's easier for people, isn't it? Why should you be picky about why people want to eat.
My husband is not often at home, and you like to complain to him when he comes home, and this is how it is today, and it should be like this today, so your husband at that time did not comfort you, he just didn't speak. Oh, in fact, no one said that they often complained to me, just because of this, you didn't say it, but I can imagine that I must not be happy in my heart, and I will complain when I go home with your husband, your husband is a big car driver, I go to drive a big car is very, very tired, and it is very easy to be dangerous, to be honest, I have always felt that driving a big car, running transportation is a high industry, originally he was highly concentrated, he may want to rest and rest when he comes home, you are constantly complaining over there, and you take care of it very well, people are not silent, and do not quarrel with you, and then say that many people are introverted。
If she doesn't say anything, it doesn't mean that he doesn't get angry, he doesn't say anything, it doesn't mean that he doesn't have an attitude, it doesn't mean that they don't bother you, she says his mother in front of him, this is her mother's, do you say who in front of whom? Who can be happy, is this the best way to be separated from her husband? If you feel that your mother-in-law is not taking good care of you, don't let your mother-in-law take care of others who don't owe you. It's not your exclusive confinement lady who must serve you comfortably, people can take care of you, you can not take care of you, it depends on whether people like it or not, whether they are willing to help you be your own mother, take care of us, because our mother hurts, we say that we want to give birth, let's raise us as a mother-in-law's obligation?
Life is your own son, when the son needs help, people come to help, for the sake of the son, because you are so likeable, people love to chatter, like to complain about others, he has been this style for so many years, his family has not taken anything, you run to people's houses to complain about other people's things, is that the case?
People have the final say in their own homes, whether they have been involved in your house, why are you talking about this talk next to you? When people come to your house, go there and stop, daughter-in-law, you have to listen to me, do other people do this kind of thing? What does it have to do with you? Dominate the rivers and lakes in your own family and don't care about your business. The real conflict happened in March last year, when the powder keg exploded and the two of you quarreled because of your mother-in-law. What happened? It was just the two of us, and we got into a fight.
Later, you forgave him, but you didn't pass this hurdle in your heart, you beat people first, and destroy the harmony of the family first, why should you forgive others, you don't have to apologize, and people don't forgive you. When there is a lot of domestic violence, the first person to do it is the most hateful, that is, because you have led the way of dealing with family conflicts in an extremely bad direction, you use the way you do it first to tell the other party, we can use the way you beat me and I beat you to solve the problem between the two of us, you owe it first, you hit him first, do you still blame others for fighting back? Is it in your concept, in your dictionary, you start with him first, and he can't fight back, and he can't fight back, and he can't fight back, so that he can be called a good husband? You start beating people first, your taste is so poor, your quality is so poor, why do you ask people to beat less.
Asking people to be in good condition, very gentlemanly to you, very humble, gentleman and refreshing is a lady, not a shrew asking for anything, you forgive others, you haven't apologized to others, why do you let people forgive you? You can't get over it in your heart, you can't get over this hurdle, you scold my mother in front of me all day long, say that my mother is not good, and then beat me. I don't know how to fight back, and when I fight back, I say that I can't get over it in my heart, this hurdle, you should beat me, I'm a rich man.
Isn't that right? So what kind of reason are you giving yourself? The one who did it first was not right. He blames your mother-in-law for not contacting you, you are someone's own mother, and you are so rude, so lacking in quality money? Why do you want to contact you?