86_86695 When it comes to getting married, Wang Shuhui has no experience at all. In the more than 20 years of life in modern society, not to mention Wang Shuhui's own marriage, he has not even participated in other people's weddings a few times. Even, in his heart, he still looks down on those weddings quite unusually.

In his opinion, the wedding that he has known since he can remember is something full of vanity and lies. In the few weddings he has attended, he feels that the cookie-cutter rigid and tasteless ceremonies and the bride and groom, who seem to wear various masks, are full of postmodern irony under the weak marriage relationship of modern society. Every time Wang Shuhui sees the gorgeous and beautiful wedding photos posted by his classmates and colleagues on the Internet, he will think of a sentence written by Chekov in it, "Rust eats iron, aphids eat grass, and vanity eats soul." ”

So in this sense, Wang Shuhui didn't know what it meant to get married in the last years of the Ming Dynasty.

And Zhu Youzi, who was in a hurry to organize the wedding, actually didn't know what to do about getting married. The marriages of his father, grandfather, and ancestors were handled by the Imperial Court's Zongren Office. His own marriage was done with great care by the family of faithful old servants. He knew that marriage was a big thing, a very important thing, but when it came to how to handle a marriage specifically, he immediately became numb.

Zhu Youzi and Wang Shuhui, the future son-in-law, fell into an awkward silence and looked at each other.

"Uncle Shi, my little nephew grew up in the mountains since he was a child, and I really don't know what this secular etiquette is. What's more, the first parents and in-laws are scarce, and the little nephew is a guest living in another province, so there is really nothing to rely on the power of consultation. The marriage of the two families, I am afraid that it will depend on Uncle Shi to do a lot of work. Wang Shuhui first broke the silence and said to Zhu Youzi in a deep voice.

This ......, the situation of the virtuous son-in-law, the father also knows. However, I have not done such a major event for many years, and I am afraid that there will be many omissions. Zhu Youzi also began to panic, before he was bent on marrying his daughter to Wang Shuhui, but now that the goal has been achieved, how to handle the marriage has become a big matter.

The two sat silently and drank stewed tea for a long time in silence. Zhu Youzi scratched his head and said to Wang Shuhui, "The virtuous son-in-law doesn't have to worry. Although there are not many people who know his father, he is still from the clan after all. This generation of Changyang King Zhu Shuya, after being the same King of Liao as my family, I can ask Changyang Wangfu for advice. But....... Speaking of this, Zhu Youzi showed a look of shame on his face, and after only saying half a sentence, he stopped talking.

"Uncle Shi has something to say, although the little nephew and Uncle Shi are already in the same family, what is there to say." Wang Shuhui heard that Zhu Youzi was a little embarrassed in his words, and hurriedly persuaded his future father-in-law.

"Hehe, the virtuous son-in-law also knows, although the son does not say anything about the father, but the father's temperament is more intense, and there are many relatives who have been offended by him. Although this generation of Changyang King is close to my family, he also had some conflicts with his late father in his early years. ”

Wang Shuhui is quite new to family life. As a child, he spent most of his time taking care of his sick mother and waiting for his father to leave home. At an early age, his relatives had already cut off contact with his family. Therefore, Wang Shuhui does not know very well what the relationship is like in reality.

But as a history buff, he clearly remembers the story about Su Qin written in the "Historical Records". When he was young, Su Qin had been unable to achieve anything, and was disliked by his family, and even his mother and sister-in-law often bullied him. Later, Su Qin relied on his three-inch incorruptible tongue and matched the seal of the six countries. When he returned home, his mother and sister-in-law greeted him cautiously and grovellingly, saying something like, "Whew! If you are poor, your parents will not have children, and if you are rich, your relatives will be afraid. In the world, the power is rich, and the cover can be sudden! ”。

What Su Qin meant when he said this was that his parents and relatives basically didn't treat themselves as sons when they were poor and humble. When he was rich and rich, he put on a humble and flattering posture. It is absolutely impossible for a person to live in the world without wealth and power.

When Wang Shuhui saw this at the time, on the one hand, he felt that Su Qin's family had done things a little too much, and at the same time, he also believed that the kinship in feudal society was more hypocritical. On the other hand, I feel that Su Qin may have inherited the character of his family, even if he recognizes the face of his family, there is no need to expose it in a big way. His inauthentic genes, inherited from his family, are probably the main reason why he was assassinated by his political opponents in the future.

For Wang Shuhui, he can agree with the practices of Su Qin's family in feudal society. After all, in modern society, everything exists under the maintenance of interest relations. At the same time, he agrees with a point of view, it is better to have a father and a mother, it is better to have it himself, and it is better to have a father and a mother, than to be close to himself. If a person does not have the ability to survive in the world, it is absurd to want to rely on others to survive.

From this point of view, he knew why Zhu Youzi mentioned the grievances between the Zhijiang royal family and the Changyang royal family, and he didn't agree with Zhu Youzi's idea of asking the Changyang royal palace for help. At least before asking for help from the Changyang Palace, you must first revive the Zhu Youzi family.

Thinking of this, he said to Zhu Youzi, "Although the little nephew grew up in the mountains since he was a child, he also has some speculations about the world. When my little nephew was a child, when he was studying with his family teacher, he read the "Zengguang Xianwen" and said, "Human feelings are like thin paper, and the world is like a new chess game." In the eyes of the little nephew, the human feelings in this world are also like this. Since Uncle Shi said that there were many discords between the Changyang Mansion and my Zhijiang Mansion in the past, how could the little nephew bear to let Uncle Shi go to the Changyang Mansion to be wronged for my marriage. ”

Zhu Youzi was moved when he heard this, and felt that he had chosen a good son-in-law. Although it is a little heartbreaking to marry his daughter, this kid cares so much about his father-in-law, but he has a loving and righteous temperament.

Wang Shuhui looked at Zhu Youzi as if he accepted his statement, and continued to say to Zhu Youzi, "The little nephew's family is passed down and given by the ancestor, but it is a little wealth. I think it would be better to repair the house first, buy some acres of family property, and hire some servants and servants. The younger nephew also bought some acres of land near his uncle's house and built some mansions. After doing these things well, it is more appropriate to handle the marriage steadily. ”

Zhu Youzi heard this, and hurriedly said to Wang Shuhui, "Why do you need a virtuous son-in-law to buy another family property, there is only one daughter for the father, this huge Zhijiang Wang Courtyard, in the future, will not be all virtuous son-in-law." ”

Wang Shuhui heard this, thought for a while and felt that this idea was very good, and he was not ready to move out of the Zhijiang Outer Courtyard. You must know that the light gate that travels through two time and space is in the back garden of the Zhijiang King Farewell Garden. But after thinking about it, he felt that something was wrong, if he lived in the Zhijiang Wangbei Garden, wouldn't he become a door-to-door son-in-law who was upside down.

Thinking of this, Wang Shuhui felt a little troublesome. If he moves out of the Zhijiang Palace, he will be in danger of being exposed when he passes through the gate. But if you stay here all the time, there will be many inconvenient places to start planning in the future. For a moment, he couldn't help but hesitate