126 Proposals
Propose!
Hearing Fang Mengjin's words, Su Hao really couldn't cry or laugh. I was injured, but it seems to have become a piece of fragrant bait, Yang Gendi is in a hurry to let him marry Lu Xiuer, and Han Wen is also in a hurry to marry his daughter to herself, what is this.
Also, this kind of marriage proposal should also be said by the matchmaker, why is Fang Mengjin disrespectful to the old and also came to play the role of a matchmaker?
Su Hao didn't know that Han Wen was in a hurry to marry his daughter to him, precisely because of his heroic rescue of beauty in Fuyuan Village. After he was injured, Han Qian ignored the defense of men and women and went to take care of him every day, which was an extremely immoral thing. Between men and women, there has been such an experience, even if Han Wen doesn't want to marry his daughter to Su Hao, there is no other choice.
Han Qian took care of Su Hao's affairs, she didn't plan to say it, but Honglian was a little girl who couldn't hide things, and after several inquiries from Mrs. Han's Song family, Honglian shook out all the things in Fuyuan Village. Hearing that his daughter was actually by Su Hao's side when he was bare-chested to heal his wounds, and then he personally went to help him wash his face and feed him, Song almost fainted, so he hurriedly called Han Wen over to discuss countermeasures.
If you change to those old-fashioned people, your daughter will do such ugly things, and you may even have the heart to beat your daughter to death. Fortunately, Han Wen has always been a relatively open person, and he also had a good impression of Su Hao in advance, so he is quite acceptable to this matter. Besides, this time after all, it was Su Hao who sacrificed his life to save Han Qian first, and Han Qian's life was saved by Su Hao, so it is understandable to make such a move that is similar to making a personal promise. The most critical issue now is how to deal with the aftermath.
"Qian'er has a deep affection for this Su Gaizhi. This Su Gaizhi is indeed a person of good character, and he can go out of his way to save Qian'er, which is not something that other men can do. I think it's okay to give Qian'er to Su Gaizhi. Han Wen said.
Song hesitated: "But this Su Hao is just a showman, and I heard that he has also received the title of one hundred households, I'm afraid he won't be able to enter the court as an official in the future, right?" If Qian'er marries him, won't she have no future? β
Han Wen said: "This civil and military incompatibility is the rule of the time of the grandfather, how can anyone care about this now?" In other words, when this is over, he plans to get rid of the military and return to the academy to study for the exam. With his talent, if he can use his skills for a period of time, it is not difficult to gain a fame. When you married me, wasn't I just a showman? β
This example is convincing enough, and the Song family will not be entangled. However, she immediately thought of another more serious problem: "Master, in this Su Hao's family, there is a child daughter-in-law, and it is the girl named Lu Xiu'er." If our Qian'er marries in the past, what should we say? β
"Of course our Qian'er is a wife." Han Wen took it for granted and said, "Then Lu Xiu'er is a country girl after all, how can she compare with Qian'er?" Qian'er and Lu Xiu'er have a very good relationship, and they will not be embarrassed to get along together in the future. β
"That's right." Song nodded and said, "Then the concubine will go to find a matchmaker and talk to Su Hao's mother." β
"Matchmaker ......" Han Wen pondered for a while and said, "In this case, I will ask Mr. Fang to talk to Su Hao first, and if he is interested, let him send a matchmaker to propose marriage." β
This is the face problem of the eunuchs. In the society at that time, it was okay for the man to take the initiative to propose marriage to the woman, or for the woman to take the initiative to propose marriage to the man. If the man's conditions are better, and the woman is eager to marry her daughter, she will naturally ask a matchmaker to say goodbye, which is not a shame. But it's different here in Hangul, he is the magistrate, his daughter is married to Su Hao, how can it be regarded as a marriage, if he asks a matchmaker to say goodbye, it will be too faceless to spread it.
Let Fang Mengjin say yes, there is no such problem. First, Fang Mengjin was tight-lipped and would not make a big deal about it, and secondly, Fang Mengjin was not a matchmaker, and what he said to Su Hao was not a woman's offer.
In Han Wen's heart, there is actually a little bit of worry, that is, he is afraid of what to do if Su Hao disagrees. Replaced by others, the magistrate wants to marry his daughter over, and the other party must be flattered, not to mention that Han Qian is good-looking, smart and gentle, and the conditions are excellent in all aspects. The problem is that Su Hao is a freak, Han Wen has never dared to speculate on Su Hao's mind with common sense, in case he invited a matchmaker to say goodbye and was rejected by Su Hao, Han Wen can't afford to lose this face.
In this way, Fang Mengjin came to Su Hao's house with the will of Hangul. He knew that Su Hao had a straightforward personality, so he didn't go around in circles, and said his intention straightforwardly.
"This ......" Sure enough, as Han Wen expected, Su Hao's first reaction when he heard Fang Mengjin's words was not to be ecstatic and bow down, but to make a look of embarrassment: "Master Fang, this Miss Han is the daughter of the county lord's family, I am just a country talent, is the difference between the status of the two sides too big?" β
Fang Mengjin said: "Where do you say it?" If you are only 17 years old, it is not easy to have a talent and fame, do you want to be the champion and the first now? Lord Han has a discerning eye, and sees that you are not a thing in the pool, and you are willing to marry your daughter to you, why do you hesitate? β
"Is this what Lord Han meant, or is Miss Han meant?" Su Hao asked again.
Fang Mengjin laughed and said: "I have changed my appearance, Miss Han is a girl, how can she say what she thinks?" This is naturally what Lord Han meant. However, when Miss Han was in Fuyuan Village, she took good care of you, can't you see the friendship in it? β
"Uh......" Su Hao was speechless, in fact, when he was in Fuyuan Village, he felt that Han Qian's performance was a little too intimate. If it is changed to 400 years later, it is common for men and women to take care of each other like this, but now it is better than the Ming Dynasty. A young lady who pours tea and water for a young man every day, Hao Tong, Deng Kui, as well as Zhao Luo, Ma Yu and others, have long been unable to see it. Everyone hinted to Su Hao, saying that this was almost Han Qian's direct expression of his heart to him, and if he didn't marry Han Qian in the future, it would be intolerable.
"Master Fang, in your opinion, do I have to marry Miss Han?" Su Hao asked tentatively.
Fang Mengjin's nose was almost crooked: "What do you mean by changing this, don't you think that Miss Han is marrying you, are you still reluctant?" β
"That's not what I meant......," Su Hao said. He didn't know what to say, speaking from his heart, Han Qian was talented, smart, cheerful, reasonable, and beautiful, which was really exciting, but Su Hao always felt that there were some obstacles between him and her, and it was these obstacles that made him hesitate.
One of the obstacles, of course, is the issue of the identity of both parties. In later generations, Su Hao had seen some big officials, and he didn't pay attention to a small county magistrate at all. But in this life, except for a few military officials and the eunuch Chang Wu, Han Wen is the biggest official Su Hao has ever seen. He is just a showman who has just come out of the countryside and married a girl from the county magistrate's family, which really belongs to Gao Pan.
Another obstacle is Lu Xiuer. Although Su Hao felt that Lu Xiu'er was still young and he couldn't marry Lu Xiu'er for the time being, since he was a child, he always knew that Lu Xiu'er was his child daughter-in-law, even if he was now a cross-over body, he still thought that he should not abandon Lu Xiu'er. If he agreed to the Han family's family affairs, where would he put Lu Xiu'er?
"Master Fang, as you may know, the student has been contracted by the elders of the family since he was a child, and the student's fiancΓ©e is the student's sister Lu Xiu'er, how dare the student agree to other family affairs?" Su Hao said.
Fang Mengjin said: "I have always known about this matter. The law of the Ming Dynasty does not prohibit men from marrying concubines, and the girls are gentle and beautiful, and they are indeed a good match for change, and it is not an exaggeration for you to accept them as concubines. As far as the old man knows, Miss Xiu'er and Qian'er are also close friends in the boudoir, and in the future, the two daughters will serve a husband together, and they must be very harmonious, so there is no need to worry about it. β
"Why does Xiu'er have to be a concubine?" Su Hao was surprised, "The status of this concubine seems to be relatively low, right?" β
Fang Mengjin said unhappily: "Why do you have this question, Lord Han intends to marry his daughter to you, you don't want to take Miss Han as a concubine, right?" β
There has to be a first-come, first-come, first-come, Su Hao muttered in his heart, but he also knew that if he dared to say this, Fang Mengjin would have to be anxious with him. Han Wen is willing to marry his daughter to him, and he doesn't even mind that he will take another concubine, which is already a big face, if he wants Han Qian to be a concubine, it will violate Han Wen's bottom line. Since ancient times, how can there be a reason for the daughter of an official family to be a concubine?
In the Ming Dynasty, wives and concubines were clearly divided, and if the wife was considered the master of the family, then the concubine could only be regarded as a slave. The child born to a wife is a concubine, and the child born to a concubine is a concubine. The inheritance rights of the concubine and the concubine are very different, for example, the hereditary title can only be inherited by the concubine, unless there is no concubine, it can be passed on to the concubine.
When a woman marries, she should compete for the title of the wife, and that makes sense. Because this position not only affects one's own status, but also affects the status of children. If Su Hao wanted to take Han Qian as his concubine, Han Wen estimated that he would rather strangle his daughter to death than agree.
"Xiu'er has been with me for many years, and she has always been ready to marry me. If I make Miss Han a concubine because of her, wouldn't I see something different and become inflammatory? Su Hao said to Meng Jin.
"This ......" This time it was Fang Mengjin's turn to be speechless. Previously, he and Han Wen had discussed the issue of Lu Xiu'er, and felt that Han Qian was a wife and Lu Xiu'er was a concubine, which was a matter of course, and Su Hao would definitely not have any opinions. Who knew that Su Hao actually carried such a moral weapon and insisted that Lu Xiuer should be his wife.
Su Hao's reason is also very sufficient, it is very shameful to say this kind of thing, even with the status of Hangul, Su Hao cannot be forced to abandon his fiancΓ©e who has been married since childhood.
However, how could Han Qian be Su Hao's concubine? Fang Mengjin fell into embarrassment.