Chapter 417: The Clever Xu Fo Family
Any woman wants a beautiful wedding, and Xu Fo's family is even more so.
The woman who was born in the Qinglou was looked down upon, although there were many men who supported and even pursued, but most of them were just out of the psychology of playing, so many outstanding girls in Qinhuaihe, after choosing to be good, most of them returned to Qinhuaihe again, so that they were dead set on men.
The girls of the official eunuchs, don't worry about whether the wedding is beautiful, because they are eligible to enjoy the treatment of the scenery wedding, and almost all of them are married by the media, if the man can't afford a beautiful wedding, that is the most embarrassing thing for the man, and he can't raise his head in front of everyone.
Only the girl of the Qinglou, the wedding has a lot of uncertainty, the girl of the Qinglou marries a good person, and needs to leave at night, this is the rule, and they all become the concubines of men, men are unable to marry the women of the Qinglou as their wives, even if they are lowly men, they can't endure such a reputation for a lifetime.
Some Qinglou girls, the wedding may be good, which is enviable, there are too few, but most of the girls in Qinglou are sneaking into the door, and some Qinglou girls can't even enter the man's home, and are forced to live outside, and they can't get the recognition of the man's family, and finally they leave gloomily.
This is also proven by countless facts.
The Xu Fo family, who has experienced a lot of hardships, dreams of having a beautiful wedding, and the wedding is organized by Wen Manshan herself, which means that the Xu Fo family has been recognized by his wife and can officially enter the Zheng family after the wedding.
Since June, the Xu Fo family has begun to control their whereabouts, basically not going to the Governor's Palace, and almost not going out, the meals are all sent by the ministers, and they are reserved before marriage. It's a must-have.
But Xu Fo's family also discovered one thing, that is, Zheng Xunrui has been very busy since he returned to Huai'an, and he can't even spare time to accompany his family. With instinctive understanding, Xu Fojia knew that Zheng Xunrui must be busy with something big, although she was a woman in the Qinglou, she had also seen some adults in the court. I know a little about some things in the officialdom, an official like Zheng Xunrui is usually busy with big things, and on the surface, he will not be particularly busy.
Zheng Xunrui's busyness will definitely affect the wedding.
Even Bian Yujing, who came to the official post, was worried about Xu Fo's family, could it be that Zheng Xunrui didn't attach much importance to this wedding, but Xu Fo's family wouldn't see it this way, she believed in her own feelings and vision, and she believed that she wouldn't be wrong.
When Zheng Xunrui came to the official post to see Xu Fo's house. It is with guilt, the identity of Xu Fo's family is different from everyone's ladies, he came to Huai'an alone, there are no relatives around, there must be more ideas, he should be more concerned and considerate, so that Xu Fo's family can really feel at ease, but after such a long time, because there are too many things, it is even more worrying about tax reform. Basically, there is not much time to visit and comfort the Xu Fo family, let alone be with the Xu Fo family.
After seeing Zheng Xunrui, Xu Fojia had a surprised smile on his face, but there was also a hint of melancholy.
After all, she is a twenty-eight-year-old woman. Xu Fojia knows how to control her emotions and will never be petty in front of Zheng Xunrui, which is also the advantage of a woman of her age.
When the wine and food were served, Zheng Xunrui took the initiative to pour wine for Xu Fo's family, and this time Xu Fo's family did not refuse.
"Qingling, I have a lot of things to do during this time. I can't find time to spend with you, this glass of wine is my apologies to you. ”
Xu Fojia held the wine glass, his hand trembled slightly, and a drop of wine swung out of the wine glass.
After hurriedly drinking this glass of wine, Xu Fojia spoke.
"Don't say that, the slave family is very good here, the husband has a lot of things, he is busy every day, the slave family can't help, he can only watch, he is very unbearable, the slave family toasts the husband with a glass of wine, hoping that the husband can do everything well, the slave family doesn't want the husband to worry about it every day, the slave family only needs the husband to be happy every day."
When Xu Fojia stood up and poured wine, Zheng Xunrui did not speak, from Xu Fojia's body, what he felt was comfort and peace of mind, just like the situation that two people have a little bit of understanding, which Wen Manshan and others do not have, this may be the relationship of age, Wen Manshan and others may understand men's hearts better after they reach the age of Xu Fojia.
In his opinion, the so-called rules that women cannot participate in politics are too rigid, in fact, some smart women can come up with good ideas to help their men do things better, but in today's era of the family world, the situation of a person who has won the Tao chicken dog ascending to heaven is endless, and women because of the limitations of knowledge and insight, once they participate in politics, it is easy to fall into the strange circle of family affection and family, and the vision cannot be very long-term. I can't see any other capable talent.
After drinking this glass of wine, Zheng Xunrui put down the wine glass and spoke again.
"Qingling, I have a lot of things to do during this time, so I don't have a lot of time to accompany you, in fact, in this regard, I am a little guilty of my family, several Spring Festivals, I have not been able to spend with my family, they have suffered a lot with me, in my impression, many times during the Spring Festival, I am leading the army to go on expeditions, so that the family is frightened, and soon you will also go home, I hope you can chat with Manshan and them more in the future, they are not very old, There are some aspects that are not as mature as yours. ”
Xu Fojia smiled and spoke.
"The husband can really speak, after the slave family enters the Zheng family, everything must follow the arrangement of the lady, the rules of respect and inferiority of the elder and the young, the slave family is very clear, and the slave family does not dare to come nonsense."
Zheng Xunrui smiled, and quickly changed the topic, he knew that his requirements were a little too high, after the Xu Fo family entered the Zheng family, it was indeed impossible to speak casually, if he put on a mature posture too early, not only would he be regarded as not knowing the height of the sky, but he might also be excluded.
"The Bian family's family moved to Huai'an, they are not familiar with the place, if you have time, accompany them more, now in this world, the family has lost a man, I am afraid that there is nothing to rely on, you go to their rented place a few more times, and you don't dare to find any trouble if you want to come."
Xu Fojia nodded.
A woman's heart, a needle under the sea, when Xu Fo's family let Zheng Xunrui know Bian Yujing, the purpose was to think that he could introduce Zheng Xunrui to Bian Yujing, who is both talented and beautiful, men always like beautiful women, out of the ** of conquest, so that Zheng Xunrui also looks at her differently, but once she is about to become Zheng Xunrui's concubine, Xu Fo's family's thoughts have also undergone subtle changes, although such a change will not be shown, so long time has passed, Xu Fo's family and Bian Yujing's time together, rarely talk about Zheng Xunrui's affairs.
Xu Fojia's view of Zheng Xunrui has also been slowly enriched in this process, she found that Zheng Xunrui is indeed not a womanizer, although he said that he helped Bian Yujing's mother and daughter, but he has never taken advantage of people's danger, after Bian Yujing came to Huai'an, he almost never saw Zheng Xunrui.
There are too many women around men, there must be trouble, women do certain things in order to compete for favor, then there is nothing unusual, Xu Fo's family is about to enter the Zheng family, if Zheng Xunrui introduces women, don't say that Mrs. Wen Manshan will not be happy, she also has some worries in her heart.
"When the slave family has time, they all accompany Bian Yujing's mother and daughter, they have just come to Huai'an, they live outside, there are no acquaintances, and most of the time they also come to the official post."
Zheng Xunrui couldn't know what Xu Fojia was thinking, he really didn't care about Bian Yujing.
"Qingling, I remember that you talked about the tax of Qinglou last time, this time I really didn't expect that more than 300 Qinglou in Huaibei paid more than 300,000 taels of silver every month, and this year it is nearly 4 million taels of silver, which is really not a small amount."
"The slave family has long said that they can take it out, in fact, the Qinglou of Qinhuai River, the amount of silver taken out every year is far more than this amount, and the Qinglou of Qinhuai River, if it is not taken care of by the government, it will not be able to maintain it at all, and the silver secretly handed over to the government every year does not know how much."
"What you said is that the money paid out in secret has gone into the pockets of the officials, and the government cannot get the money, and the result is that the individuals will be rich, and it will also lead to rampant corruption.
Xu Fojia empathizes with this, but her understanding, it is impossible to change in a short period of time, the Qinglou of Qinhuai River, every year to give the local government a certain amount of silver, this has become a practice, everyone knows, otherwise the ruffians and gangsters in Nanjing come to find trouble, the Qinglou does not need to open for business.
After dark, Zheng Xunrui left, he could have stayed, but this is disrespectful to the Xu Buddha family, there are still a few days to go, and the Xu Buddha family will be married into the door, at this time he and the Xu Buddha family are unreasonable, but the Xu Buddha family has no family in Huai'an, and there is no special attention in this regard.
After some conversation, Zheng Xunrui felt that the Xu Buddha family was indeed empathetic, which was all sharpened, in the environment like the Qinhuai River, the Xu Buddha family had seen too much, in comparison, Yang Aizhen was much worse, after all, he left the Qinhuai River very early, and did not deeply understand the hardships.
In his heart, Zheng Xunrui was also a little worried, after all, the wedding was very important to the Xu Fo family, and no one thought about encountering anything unhappy on the big day. (To be continued.) )