Section 3 Remedies for resurrection
Hong Xingyue is a doctor engaged in cutting-edge medical research, of course he knows that half a month is far from enough for Liu Ying's current condition, and the reason why he said goodbye like this is completely because he uses the spur and encouragement skills of medical psychology.
After saying goodbye, Hong Xingyue went straight to Fuzhou Airport. In the waiting hall, he chose a relatively quiet corner, thinking about the love of Liu Chang and Liu Ying, the golden boy and girl who only envy the mandarin ducks and not the immortals, the reason for this emotional crisis, he got a shuddering conclusion, that is, passion is easy to cold, strong love is easy to fade, perfection is easy to lack, and beauty is easy to reverse.
Hong Xingyue decisively believes that this conclusion is common to both medicine and sociology, and both belong to the category of psychology, but the difference between disciplines lies in the way of solving problems, medicine intervenes from the perspective of medical psychology, while sociology intervenes from the perspective of behavioral psychology.
Hong Xingyue couldn't suppress the excitement in his heart, after he recorded the four sentences of the conclusion on the computer notebook, he took out his mobile phone and thought about it, who should he share this result with?
He smiled and nodded, of course it was Deng Juan who was thinking about her day and night, and she was in love.
After Hong Xingyue dialed Deng Juan's phone, he hesitated, and the other party kept coming from the sound of kissing in the air, constantly calling "dear", but Hong Xingyue didn't know how to report this conclusion to the lively and sweet her, and finally just told Deng Juan lukewarmly, the plane was about to take off, and he was about to board the plane.
Liu Ying tried her best to cooperate with the doctor's recuperation, infusion, injection, medicine, exercise, eat well, drink plenty of water, keep a good mood, enhance the trust between husband and wife, and give each other an acceptable independent space.
Great, Liu Ying's face gradually regained its vitality, gradually had a luster and luster, her eyes gradually regained her vitality, and her body was also rapidly enhanced.
Principal Liu's wife and Liu Ying's parents were all happy with this huge change, but Liu Ying's active exercise made the four old people a little unbearable.
On the morning of the sixth day of Liu Ying's admission to the hospital, Liu Ying's mother finally protested: "Ying'er, can you make it a little easier for us, can we old bones withstand such a toss?" ”
Liu Ying's face was full of unhappiness, but what she thought in her heart, she didn't dare to say it, and she wouldn't say it, after all, she was knowledgeable and well-educated.
"If you should accompany me, you don't have to accompany me!" Liu Ying said lightly to her mother.
How could Liu Ying's mother not know the truth? This is a doctor's order, a prescription for the treatment of Liu Ying's condition, which was prescribed by Dr. Hong Xingyue, a well-known young Zhuang researcher in the world medical community.
This prescription is not so easy to accept.
After hearing that the famous Dr. Hong Xingyue had arrived, Fuzhou Rehabilitation Hospital took it for granted that he would do his best to be a landlord and ask for advice on how to heal. When Hong Xingyue asked the hospital to convene the patient's family members for discussion, no one was surprised or suspicious.
"Dr. Hong, this is too unkind, isn't it?" Liu Chang couldn't accept it at first, and his reason seemed to be that emotions were conducive to the recovery of the disease, especially the healing of spiritual wounds. President Liu, Liu Ying's mother, and doctors at Fuzhou Rehabilitation Hospital share the same opinion.
Hong Xingyue was not disappointed, his explanation was convincing, he said this, the mental illness caused by emotion is very complex, and emotional ** disorder is not all lack of emotion or too strong emotion, and it is often on the two extremes of emotional dependence.
One is the lack of emotional dependence and the psychological hollowing out, like the land of thousands of miles of red land, it thirsts for rain, as long as there is rain, the land has the hope of growing crops, if there is abundant rain to irrigate, it may become a fertile field.
Liu Ying is in a different situation, just like a waterlogging, where the crops are soaked in emotional rain all day long, she is perishable, and if washed away by the flood, she is easy to uproot. If the flooded land is to be restored to normal, it is necessary to drain the water, and it is not enough to drain the surface water, but also to dig deep ditches to drain the land, dry and loose, and cultivate soil fertility, otherwise, the land will be abandoned.
After thinking about it, Liu Chang figured out what Dr. Hong Xingyue meant, and he explained to the old people more popularly, that is, Liu Ying needs to seize the best opportunity for treatment, cultivate emotional independence, get used to being able to leave, get used to personal emotional regulation, and can't rely too much on emotional care, so that she can live a normal life.
In fact, Liu Chang understands this truth, which does not mean that he can do it easily, to let Liu Chang leave Liu Ying's sight, even if it is a short departure, it is not easy, because this kind of ** disease of strong affection is mutually infectious, it should be said that Liu Chang is not lightly ill, but he is a man and has stronger immunity.
No, except for the time when Liu Chang had to go to the Institute of History, he was revolving around Liu Ying, just through a window, he was always silently observing Liu Ying outside the window, feeling distressed!
Even when Liu Ying went for a walk on the lawn of the hospital accompanied by her parents, Liu Chang would hide behind the big tree and watch affectionately, worried about it.
It is really not easy to cure this disease of their husband and wife.
One night, Liu Ying was jogging around the trees on the lawn, Liu Chang was also consciously avoiding her, and the biological mother who accompanied Liu Ying saw it in her eyes, and couldn't help but feel sad in her heart, he was distressed by the difficulty of the virtuous son-in-law, her tears swirled in her eyes, Liu Ying ran to her biological mother and asked, "Mom, why are you crying?" ”
The parents pretended to rub their eyes and dealt with their daughter on the grounds that the sand was blowing into their eyes, Liu Ying would never have dreamed that the grain of sand was big, it was a grain of sand that would pant and care about people, but it was not the wind blowing, it was a grain of sand that was like a thief reluctantly wandering behind the tree, and a grain of sand that would be like a knife.
When Liu Ying was in the ward, because Liu Chang was too famous, when he hid by the window outside, he had to be vigilant at any time, not to dodge, but to stop, countless unsuccessful stops, so that the heavenly opportunity was leaked, and he was forced to enter the ward, forcing out the well-intentioned lie of deceiving his wife, and laughing against his will like a fool, and enduring the blame and complaints from his beloved wife.
Liu Chang, Liu Chang, you need sympathy so much, your wife's groundless accusations, your wife's complaints, you have to secretly rejoice in accepting it, she sprinkles salt on your bleeding heart, and you have to quietly applaud and celebrate it, because this is the curative effect of Dr. Hong Xingyue's prescription for resurrection, and this curative effect comes at the cost of the pain and deterioration of your spiritual wounds.
Liu Chang is enough to men, your historical knowledge has forged the endurance of a man, your deep understanding of the complexity of human emotions has created your tolerance to resist the pain of the soul, you deeply understand the truth that long pain is better than short pain, and you have fully realized the true meaning of exchanging labor pain for lifelong happiness.
This kind of pain is also sweet, my beloved wife Liu Ying's withered grass hair began to shine, her mental state has roughly returned to her original familiar state, and her smile has gradually returned to its former state, which is also a great comfort!
Yes, Liu Chang is also growing, who said that adults don't need to grow, who said that experts and scholars don't need to grow, growth is as normal and normal as people want to breathe, especially in terms of feelings, experts and scholars need to grow more, they often spare no effort for their careers, it is precisely this kind of sparing no effort, ignoring family, friendship and husband and wife feelings, in these aspects they are often deformed, imbecile, and powerless.
Liu Chang understands the true meaning of this life, and he is also painfully happy for it.