Section 20 The patriarch's grandfather gives a small lesson
The words of praise of the two uncles made the patriarch grandfather more heartfelt than the river breeze blowing from the Suzhou River, which can be said to have watered the flower of his old man's heart, which is not a lonely flower, but is full of beauty and beauty.
However, the performance of the two sons is not very good in the eyes of the patriarch's father, of course, as a father, there is no reason to dislike his son, the patriarch's grandfather is a little tricky, but also a little cunning, but he will not lead his pure family affection to tricky and cunning, which is well-educated, especially for people who are influenced by feudal etiquette, he can't do it.
Of course, the patriarch's grandfather's long-term fairness and justice have made him form a character trait that only recognizes justice and fairness and will not be easily partial. At the same time, he has been the patriarch for several years, and he has also developed the habit of giving orders and calling him to come and go as soon as he is called.
No, he said to his two sons, "Wait until you go back and rest, and then you will get drunk!" ”
Of course, the two sons understood the meaning of the patriarch's father, and they had something to say to the younger generations. What's the concern? There is no stake between the uncle and nephew, go back to rest, a good thing, why rely on this, obstruct the eyes, get in the way.
After the two sons left, the patriarch grandfather said seriously: "The old man has a big doubt in his heart to ask......
Hearing this, it is obvious that there are still words behind, especially in a patriarchal society, and it comes from the mouth of the patriarch who holds the power of the family, women are inconvenient or should not be present, of course the wife of a genius prodigy understands this, and it is also her first reaction, so she took the initiative to raise the topic of avoidance.
The wife's request was first approved by the genius prodigy: "Well, the more things a woman knows, the worse it is, and it shouldn't be, go back, and I'll be back later." ”
The smart brother not only admires the genius prodigy brother who is as famous as the sky, but also admires the sister-in-law who can be called a heroine among women, he quickly glanced at the patriarch grandfather and saw that he did not react in time. He said: "I am out of the house, and I should also avoid it and say goodbye!" "He's getting up.
"Smart brother, who can you hide from that little bit of caution!" The patriarch's grandfather had to speak, "Aren't you grateful because your sister-in-law takes care of you and others, seeing that she proposed to avoid it and I didn't keep it, I must be dissatisfied!" ”
"This is the right thing to do, so why is there any dissatisfaction?" I don't know what the genius prodigy is saying this, but one thing is certain. Objectively, it played a role in stimulating the patriarch's grandfather.
And the smart brother listened to the words of the genius prodigy brother, on the surface, he reprimanded him slightly, but he was the most affected by this words, and he was quite proud, he was okay, and he quietly created an opportunity to use the topic to play, and the results were quite good.
The patriarch's grandfather came with an enlightened explanation, which is indeed not self-glorified, this is the real truth. He said: "I originally thought that as the Wu family, we knew the Wu family very well and understood the concept of the Wu family. I never thought that the younger generation actually looked down on the old decay, thinking that the old decay was rigid in thinking and closed in concept. Don't dare to accept the living reality. It's so disappointing, it's so sad! ”
The smart brother is familiar with the pathos of the patriarch's grandfather, and he has lived in the city for a long time. He has seen a lot of new things, the contest between old and new ideas, the collision of old and new concepts, the separation between the new and the old, he has seen a lot, the story is not strange, but the matter is ever-changing.
The smart brother is also a new thought figure, he is a little younger than the genius prodigy, and there will be some gaps in the ability to analyze and distinguish things, and he does not have as much of a genius prodigy brother, and he is not generous enough to treat others. I don't know if this is accurate, but the difference between the two is that the smart brother has one less of seven tricks, while the genius prodigy has one more of seven tricks.
It happened to be the smart brother who was present, and his words made the patriarch grandfather have no way out: "Old man you can also teach us here, talk about it, why don't you admit that you are old and stubborn, old antique!" ”
"Say what?" The genius prodigy stared at the smart brother with strange eyes, and criticized, "When I talk to my grandfather, I don't know how thick the sky is, my mouth is open, and my language is so sharp that it is difficult to accept." What's going on in your head? ”
At this time, the wife of the genius prodigy who was about to leave told her smart brother with lip language, apologize!
The smart brother understands: "Although he speaks ugly, he shouldn't be disrespectful to his grandfather, he should be beaten, but the meaning is one." ”
The patriarch's grandfather didn't care about these either, he concisely summarized: I am against all family members who unjustifiably deprive women of their right to speak and appeal when they are at family gatherings or chatting at home, and I believe everyone knows it.
The smart brother responded: "I know, the eldest uncle, the third uncle, and my father have all been severely criticized by my grandfather, and even driven away with red eyebrows and green eyes, and they have also come to criticize education a lot. It's to the point where you have to admit your mistakes and have to bow your head! ”
After the genius prodigy urged his wife to leave, he had already agreed to sit back in her place.
The patriarch's grandfather rarely had this opportunity to talk about etiquette with his juniors, and he said: "The three outlines are the foundation of the country and the essence of the ministers!" ”
"Speaking of etiquette, why is it tied with the country?" The smart brother objected.
The patriarch's grandfather was proud, and he sighed lightly: "It's all because I don't educate the younger generations too little, and I rarely say this." For example, the state is a well full of water, and the family, no matter how many prosperous families, can only draw water from this well, whether it is a jar of water, a pot of water, a scoop of water, a glass of water, half a cup of water, or a mouthful of water, they all have to drink tea and think of the source, and be grateful. This is the basic principle of the family and the country. ”
"That's right! Grandpa can really be far-sighted, insightful, and reasonable! The genius prodigy gave a thumbs up and praised, "Grandpa is a rare thinker in this era." When the well water runs dry, where does the water come from in the tank? Last time, in a commentary, I said that people should know how to be grateful, the grace of a meal, the grace of a drop of water, all for grace, don't live a good life, forget to be grateful, gratitude will be indifferent, this is forgetting the roots, is to endure hardships. ”
The patriarch's grandfather and the smart brother both agreed with this speech, and the latter also emphasized: "There are also a lot of confused people in the audience, they will not care about yesterday, in their hearts, only today, do not want tomorrow, and do not understand that our today is the yesterday of the younger generations, and our tomorrow is the today of the younger generations. Where can their cognitive ability be as unique, profound and profound as grandpa! ”
"Where's Wuchang, grandpa!" The smart brother asked, and when he asked, he didn't forget to excuse himself, "I don't have much knowledge, and society is full of knowledge, can I break the casserole and ask in the end, grandpa." ”
The patriarch grandfather did not respond clearly, and the genius prodigy at this time knew that the patriarch grandfather was difficult to explain, so he replied on his behalf: "Grandpa often taught us that the five constants are benevolence, righteousness, etiquette, wisdom and faith, which can be described as the foundation of human beings, and a virtuous person must have them. ”
The patriarch's grandfather was fully affirmed by the people present, so he simply said it thoroughly, as if he was making a literary declaration: "The old man thinks that the 'three subordinates' in the etiquette should be abolished, and he doesn't treat women as human beings too much, and completely treats them as men's vassals and animals, which is really unreasonable!" ”
The patriarch's grandfather said very excitedly, he looked at the audience, and said briefly: "The four virtues are the basic code of conduct for women, and they cannot be abolished. ”
The two men present applauded the patriarch's grandfather, and it seemed that the water birds were also excited, and a scream pierced the night sky, as if it was uncontrollable applause.
Hey, it's not early, the two people who are going to live in the suburbs tomorrow have come to the front station. (To be continued......)