Chapter 578: A Planned Marriage
On the sixth day of the first lunar month, Zheng Kaihua and Zhou Bingyan had just left, and Bian Yujing's mother came to pay New Year's greetings. √∟ Top,
In fact, from the month of Layue to the first month, Bian Yujing is basically in the backyard of the Governor's Palace, Bian Yujing and Wen Manshan, Xu Fojia and others have a good relationship, Wen Manshan appreciates Bian Yujing's knowledge, after all, Bian Yujing is also from the family of the official eunuch, plus diligent and studious, proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, this is similar to Wen Manshan, so the two have a lot of common language, Zheng Xunrui accompanied his family to go shopping and visit temple fairs, and Bian Yujing participated several times.
Bian Yujing is seventeen years old, and he is eighteen years old according to the imaginary age, which has long reached the age of talking about marriage, but Bian Yujing doesn't seem to be in a hurry, and his mother is not in a hurry.
Xu Fo's family is Bian Yujing's benefactor, and he came to pay New Year's greetings during the New Year, and there is nothing.
Since it was the mother and daughter who came to pay New Year's greetings, Zheng Xunrui still came forward, but it was just to meet, and then Wen Manshan and others were in charge of the reception.
Zheng Xunrui didn't know the purpose of Bian Yujing's New Year's greetings this time.
Before leading the Zheng family army to Beizhili to resist the Houjin Tartars, the Xu Fojia specially went to the matter of marrying Bian Yujing, Zheng Xunrui's attitude was noncommittal, there were enough women around him, Wen Manshan, Dongmei, Lotus Ye, Yang Aizhen and Xu Fojia, and there are so many excellent women in the Ming Dynasty, how can it be that excellent women want to marry, this is obviously impossible.
So after returning to Huai'an, Zheng Xunrui kept silent about marrying Bian Yujing, in his opinion, as long as a period of time passes, this matter will slowly be left in the cold.
Of course, during the month of the month and the first month, Bian Yujing's cleverness and gentleness made Zheng Xunrui really sigh, no wonder Bian Yujing was forced by the pressure of his family to enter the Qinhuai River. can become one of Qin Huai's eight Yan.
Bian Yujing has several characteristics, which are very prominent, one is that the handwriting is very good, which makes Zheng Xunrui breathtaking, and the other is that Bian Yujing's paintings are very good and distinctive. is especially good at painting orchids, the third is that Bian Yujing can drink, you must know that unless it is a woman in the Qinglou, she is forced to drink for a living, and everyone basically does not drink, but Bian Yujing is an exception, not only can he drink, but the amount of alcohol is quite good.
Such a beauty is a typical intellectual beauty after a few hundred years, and I don't know how many people pursue it.
Bian Yujing's performance on weekdays is very high and reserved. But once he entered the backyard of the Governor's Palace, people seemed to be lively, and he was a little shy and twisted in front of Zheng Xunrui.
As a traverser, Zheng Xunrui, how could he not understand Bian Yujing's thoughts.
Wen Manshan had long had the intention of marrying Bian Yujing into the Zheng family.
As Zheng Xunrui's genuine wife. Wen Manshan should hope that there are fewer women around Zheng Xunrui, not Wen Manshan. Most women will have such thoughts, not to mention that Zheng Xunrui is too prominent, and in the eyes of women, he is a good man in a thousand.
Zheng Xunrui's self-discipline made Wen Manshan very satisfied, and for so many years, she had never heard of Zheng Xunrui have any lace news. Not to mention anything between men and women, look at so many scholars and doctors in the south, many of them have married more than ten women, and they are still not satisfied, and they still like to linger in the places where the wind and snow are blowing.
Since marrying Zheng Xunrui. Wen Manshan has never seen Zheng Xunrui in and out of the Qinglou, except for being busy with business, the rest of the time is with his family, and he also loves his children from the bottom of his heart, and Zheng Xunrui's generosity is also surprising to Wen Manshan.
There are always some disputes in the family, after the family atmosphere is relaxed, Wen Manshan and others also have a temper, and sometimes they are impatient, so they lose their temper in front of Zheng Xunrui, or they are coquettish, no matter what the situation is, whether it is right or wrong, Zheng Xunrui always smiles, not only will not show an unhappy look, but will also comfort in turn.
Wen Manshan once saw the relationship between grandpa and grandma, grandma never dared to lose her temper in front of grandpa, and was always heartbroken, especially after grandpa was raised.
In fact, Wen Manshan also knows that Zheng Xunrui is very hard, there are too many things to deal with, look at the years over, Zheng Xunrui has barely spent the New Year at home, you know, Zheng Jiajun's many expeditions, each time Zheng Xunrui led the army, I don't know how many dangers there are on the battlefield, Zheng Xunrui must also have troubled times, but these emotions have never been expressed at home.
In terms of money, Wen Manshan has a lot of feelings, the family has never been short of silver, every year Zheng Kaihua will send 50,000 taels of gold on time, if you have money, you will be in charge, and there will not be much contradiction, everyone has a lot of silver every month, Wen Manshan is 10,000 taels of silver every year, Dongmei, Lotus Leaf, Yang Aizhen and Xu Fojia are 5,000 taels of silver per year, Zheng Hanyu is 3,000 taels of silver per year, Zheng Lingrui, Zheng Lingrou and Zheng Linglan are 2,000 taels of silver per year, and the descendants of the Zheng family have an average of 300 taels of silver per year, you must know that in Huai'an Mansion City, Fifty taels of silver a year for ordinary people is enough to sustain their lives, and they are living very well.
Things at home make Wen Manshan comfortable, and Zheng Xunrui's care can really feel that a woman's life can go to such an extent, and she is very satisfied.
Wen Manshan admires Bian Yujing very much, and feels that Bian Yujing, a girl, has a lot of personality, and after a long time of contact, she feels that Bian Yujing should stay in the Zheng family, and at the same time, the Xu Fo family often reveals this meaning, so Wen Manshan made a decision to let Bian Yujing marry into the Zheng family.
made this decision, Wen Manshan didn't tell Zheng Xunrui, anyway, she is in charge of the affairs of the family, don't look at Zheng Xunrui is the crown prince and the governor of Caoyun outside, managing too many things and too many people, so that everyone admires, but at home, you still have to listen to her, who is in charge.
This time, Bian Yujing and his mother came to pay New Year's greetings together, which was actually to discuss Zheng Xunrui's marriage to Bian Yujing.
Zheng Xunrui's parents are far away in the capital, so Wen Manshan is naturally in charge of such a thing.
Rao has a personality, and when it came to this matter, Bian Yujing was still blushing, of course, she couldn't participate in the discussion process, so she came to Xu Fo's room.
Bian Yujing's mother and Wen Manshan discussed the matter, Xu Fojia also knew, seeing Bian Yujing whose red tide on his face had not completely faded, Xu Fojia smiled and congratulated Bian Yujing.
Bian Yujing's vision is very high, according to her identity, she needs to at least become the wife of Ming Media is marrying, but marrying Zheng Xunrui, she does not feel aggrieved at all, nearly two years have passed, she is already a frequent visitor to the backyard of the Governor's Palace, she has seen all the harmonious scenes of the Zheng family, Zheng Xunrui is handsome and chic, maintains his family, has a very good temper after returning to the backyard, and has never been angry, Wen Manshan and Xu Fojia and others live very nourishingly, and being able to marry such a man is a woman's blessing.
And Zheng Xunrui's reputation in Huaibei is very good.
In fact, a long time ago, Bian Yujing made up his mind that Zheng Xunrui would not marry in this life, and if he couldn't achieve this goal, he would live alone for the rest of his life.
On the tenth day of the first lunar month, just after the ninth day, the matchmaker entrusted by Wen Manshan went to Bian Yujing's house to propose marriage.
All the procedures are complete, and the progress is very smooth.
When Zheng Xunrui got the news, the wood was already in the boat, and his next task was to go to Bian Yujing's house to greet him according to Wen Manshan's request.
Zheng Xunrui has a very good impression of Bian Yujing, such an intellectual beauty, which man doesn't like it, but for such a big thing, Wen Manshan needs to give him at least one, but empathy, as his wife, Wen Manshan can take the initiative to show such a thing, it is not simple, and Zheng Xunrui is embarrassed to do it if he gets benefits and behaves well.
Xu Wanghua, Zheng Jinhong and others all congratulated.
Because of Bian Yujing's mother's insistence, many ceremonies were saved, and the time when Zheng Xunrui married Bian Yujing was set on the twenty-fifth day of the first month.
Even Xu Wanghua and Zheng Jinhong and others knew about the marriage date, Zheng Xunrui didn't know yet, he thought that he would follow the old rules and marry Bian Yujing at least half a year later, until the backyard began to be arranged, he didn't know the actual situation, Zheng Xunrui actually found Wen Manshan in a hurry, it was not very fair to Bian Yujing to do this, I couldn't think of Wen Manshan, this is exactly what Bian Yujing's mother and daughter meant.
Whether it is today or hundreds of years later, there will always be too many suitors for excellent men or women, but the marriage law hundreds of years later clearly stipulates the system of monogamy.
Zheng Xunrui was very emotional, this marriage was a planned marriage, and he almost didn't know it from beginning to end, but he would not refuse such a good thing, otherwise he would not be a man.
On the wedding day, there are many people who come to celebrate.
When entering the cave room, Zheng Xunrui felt that Bian Yujing's body was trembling all the time.
After more than ten years, Zheng Xunrui's feelings are very much, whether it is people or things, there are many different understandings, but the biggest difference comes from the understanding of women, women in the Ming Dynasty, maybe they have little contact with society, maybe they have a different view of education on weekdays, and it is completely different after hundreds of years.
The views of men on women in the Ming Dynasty are also different, there is little respect from the bones, probably male superiority and inferiority are accepted by the whole society and understanding, Zheng Xunrui, the person who crosses, should be on this, different from others, he is really respectful of women, equal treatment, maybe in some places there is a view of the idea of the man's attention, but when treating his family, he is truly respected and loved.
Zheng Xunrui will not know, because of his words and deeds, so that many years later, his son and daughter performed equally well in these aspects, so that it directly changed the social atmosphere. (To be continued......)