Chapter 149: Teaching by Words and Deeds

Just like the ancient society that Yi Ying understands, except for the official eunuchs, ordinary children only have a nickname before they become adults, and there is no big name. When she becomes an adult, the girl will follow her husband's surname when she marries and call her directly by a certain family, but the boy still has to see if he has a head in the future, otherwise he will directly put an ancestral surname in front of his nickname.

If you go to the countryside, titles such as Huang Ergou and Wang Wumao are even more common.

Although Lin Fang is a chief soldier, because he has been married in the countryside since he was a child, and the children are all born in the countryside, there is no control, so he only has two nicknames: Da Niu and Tiger Egg.

"It's not good, the old ghost Yi is here. Tiger eggs, big girl, come back to my room to read. ”

Seeing Yi Huan coming from afar, Mu Fen, who was about to take the big girl and tiger eggs out, turned around and ran. Back in the study, he jumped on the chair, kicked off his shoes and recited aloud: "At the beginning of people, the nature is good, the sex is similar, the habits are far away, and they ignore the ......."

Then with the help of You'er, the big girl and the tiger egg also quickly sat down at the desk.

You'er began to serve Mu Fen after the two ghosts in Youshan, mainly because Mu Fen moved to the West Courtyard alone, and Jiao Yu also wanted someone to take care of him.

And You'er has always done a good job, which is why she was fixed to Mu Fen.

Although the eldest girl and the tiger egg are older than Mu Fen, not to mention whether they are smart or not, just because of the difference in experience and knowledge, the two children can only follow behind Mu Fen. When she sat on the chair, the eldest girl pulled the corners of the tiger eggs wrinkled together, and then read it together: "At the beginning of people, the nature is good, the sex is similar, and the habits are far ......away."

When he came to the West Fourth Courtyard where Mu Fen and the Lin family lived, Yi Huan heard the sound of recitation coming from inside. Since she didn't see a few children running back to the house, Yi Ying also nodded secretly.

Since sending Mu Fen to the West Fourth Courtyard, especially the Lin family, Yi Huan has not come to the West Fourth Courtyard very much.

It's not that Yi Huan doesn't want to take care of Mu Fen, but Yi Ying doesn't know how to take care of Mu Fen. In other words, with Yi Ying's feeling, he has no power to care about Mu Fen at all. This is not to say that he has no power now, but with Mu Fen's identity in the future, Yi Ying is not qualified to take care of him at all.

Of course, Yi Huan didn't think that he should seize the opportunity to have a good relationship with Mu Fen, but thinking about the experience and lessons of modern officialdom, Yi Huan still decisively chose to avoid it.

This is not a novel, and if you cast a peach, you will definitely get a reward.

For a person who will be powerful in the future, no one wants his past to be known to outsiders.

Or maybe Mu Fen can't succeed in the future, and Yi Ying doesn't want to waste his feelings now.

In modern officialdom, people who know too much or think they know too much often end up with no good end. This is that the greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment. Yi Ying didn't want to be disappointed, so she simply didn't expect it. If it was in the ancient officialdom, the way to solve the matter was probably simpler and more direct, and Yi Ying didn't want to be accused of any trumped-up crime because of arrogance and gratitude.

And with strong strengths, Yi Ying may not have time to wait for Mu Fen to grow.

Not to mention that Mu Fen could not succeed in the end, even if Mu Fen succeeded, Yi Ying's age may not be able to wait for that day.

What's more, Mu Fen's identity is also related to the issue of "listening to politics through the curtain", I don't know what the master of Tianying has planned, Yi Huan not only doesn't want to have too many expectations for himself, but also doesn't want Mu Fen to expect too much from himself.

Considering all aspects of the situation, Yi Ying is also not interested in taking care of Mu Fen. Fortunately, in order to hide Mu Fen's identity, Yi Ying's attitude is also reasonable. So not only did the women of Yifu not take Mu Fen's affairs too seriously, but Jiao Yu also turned one eye open and closed one eye to what Yi Huan did.

Entering the study, Yi Huan slapped Mu Fen on the head and said, "Second son, what are you doing here?" ”…,

"What? Don't you see I'm reading? Why are you hitting me? Although Yi Ying's strength was not heavy, but for some reason he was beaten, Mu Fen immediately said angrily.

Yi Huan continued to slap and said, "Reading? Don't coax children with this county, just rely on the ability of the second son to memorize like a stream, do you still use this way to study? ”。

“…… What do you really want? ”

Stunned for a moment, Mu Fen really didn't know whether Yi Ying was praising himself or hurting himself, but he felt that this was unlikely, and immediately became suspicious. Yi Huan was not polite to Mu Fen, and sat down directly on the chair brought by You'er and said, "This county asks you, can you understand the "Three Character Classic" through it now?" ”

"Comprehension throughout? It's hard to say. I don't know why Yi Ying asked this, but Mu Fen knew that it was not good for him to lie at this time, so he said honestly.

Yi Huan nodded and said: "Isn't this it, in terms of learning process and learning ability, the second son has already passed the stage of reading from the script." If you want to improve your abdomen, the second son must start from the aspect of understanding. It seems that the second son doesn't understand what the county wants to say to you now, and only by enhancing his ability to understand can the second son's achievements in the future be greater. ”

“…… So how can I enhance my comprehension? ”

Frowning and thinking about it, Mu Fen really didn't know how to answer or refute Yi Huan, so he had to follow Yi Huan's request to ask.

Yi Huan raised her right hand and pointed at the big girl and the tiger egg and said: "It's very simple, as long as the second son can teach all the things he has learned to the big girl and the tiger egg, the second son can understand the "Three Character Classic". If there is anything that the second son can't teach the big girl and the tiger egg, it means that the second son has not yet learned, and he still needs to work hard to understand and learn. ”

"What is teaching by example? Words and deeds should not only convince oneself, but also others. ”

"Without the ability to teach by word and deed, I can't say that I understand an article at all. This can not only be used by the second son to study the "Three Character Classic", but also can be used to study other articles. Of course, if there is anything that the second son can't understand, he can also go to the county at any time. ”

"Or does the second son think that his level can't even teach the big girl and the tiger egg?"

I have never heard anyone say such things to themselves, and I have never heard anyone make such a request to themselves, after hesitating, Mu Fen immediately said with a disapprehensive face: "Who said that I can't teach big girls and tiger eggs, but can this really improve my comprehension?" How come I haven't heard from the Master? ”

"As the county said before, how can you teach others something that you don't know? Only when Childe discovers his own shortcomings first can he take the initiative to learn. ”

"Are you saying that the Master does not know these things? Only you know? ”。 Mu Fen was not fooled.

"This county doesn't say that, but the second son thinks that with his own natural posture, is the master's education method really suitable for the second son?"

"The second son just didn't want to think about it before, and he didn't want to waste time thinking about it, so he didn't know where his limit was and what he should learn. But as long as the second son calms down and teaches the big girl and the tiger egg, then no matter what they can learn in the future, the second son can understand what he lacks and what he should add. Isn't that more important than anything? ”。

Active learning is not unusual, but what matters is how it is induced.

Although it is impossible for Yi Huan to say to Mu Fen that this is an educational method in modern society, if it is just to fool a child with vanity, Yi Huan does not think that it will take much effort.

When Yi Huan's voice fell, Mu Fen also fell into silence. Faced with Mu Fen's doubts, Yi Huan did not continue to explain him, but quietly left the study. Because as long as Mu Fen can remember Yi Huan's words today, it is not only now, but even in the future, Mu Fen should be able to understand the value of Yi Huan's words to him.

Teaching people and fishing instead of teaching people and fishing, some things still have to be imperceptible in order to reap greater benefits......