Chapter 3: Self-reliance
Shixun has two families, one is in Luoyang City, and his wife Cao, concubine Gan, and two daughters live together, and the other is outside the city, building a village, and living with the side room Guan and his son. The reason is that Cao and Guan are not in harmony, and Shi Xun was a good state minister before, so he didn't have the energy to worry about internal affairs, so he simply separated the two, and then it gradually became a rule. After being separated for a long time, the two daughters also exchanged letters, and even walked around occasionally, on the surface they were still harmonious, but no one mentioned the matter of "meeting for a long time", and Shi Xun had to continue to run at both ends.
On the whole, he spent more time in the mansion in the city, and only two-fifths of the time he spent in the courtyard outside the city. Therefore, theoretically speaking, it is much more intimate to get along with two daughters than to get along with sons - besides, Xunben does not have the idea of male superiority and inferiority of women, unlike the vast majority of scholars and doctors in these days, who regard their sons as Zhang, and women as Ruwa.
But this does not mean that he is subjectively alienated from his son, and he is still quite concerned about the issue of re-education. It's Hoon's mind full of future knowledge and ideas, full of desire to confide, and very much wants to be able to reveal his true origin to someone - of course that's impossible, people will be crazy. Even in "The First Words of Physics", he gritted his teeth and held back, not spending time describing the shape of the world two thousand years later—even the most enlightened reader in these days, I am afraid that no one will be able to understand what if.
It wasn't until he had a son that it occurred to him that I could tell him all this...... No, I have to tell my son! It's just that the timing of indoctrination still needs to be considered, and it is really necessary to educate the son to become an ancient person with a vision of the future. Is it possible to mix up in society? After all, it is impossible to take his son to the future world to take a look and experience it for himself, so "a bottle is not satisfied." Half a bottle swaying", knowing that it is not exhausting, I'm afraid I'll drive myself crazy.
Zhou Budo has become more and more chatty and cynical recently, which is proof - this is thanks to himself, Guan Jing and Zhuge Liang repeatedly enlightened him, otherwise even if Cao Cao is not ruthless, he will be pointed at. That young man will inevitably die without a disease.
Everyone in the world says that they are the disciples of Taiwei, and each has his own strengths. Zhuge Kongming got his "benevolence", Guo Boji got his "faith", Sima Zhongda got his "harmony", and Qin Yuanming (Qin Lang) got his "words". Zhang Jingzhong (Zhang Ji) got his "Gong" ...... Du Zhou Yuan was straight to the madness of his youth. And even more.
Therefore, Shixun plans to wait for his son's outlook on life and worldview to basically take shape, and then gradually reveal the truth of the matter to him. The question is, how will he shape his son's outlook on life and the world? For Zhang Ji, Qin Lang, Xiahou Wei and other young disciples, Shi Xun hired the famous Confucian Lu Yu Lu Zijia to teach the scriptures, and he only occasionally gave advice, but he was sorry for his own son, so he really didn't worry about throwing it to others, especially the Confucian scholars of this year. In case the mud of a head is instilled. I'm afraid it's going to be hard for me to get it right.
Therefore, he personally went into battle, and at the age of six he was reopened. But the problem itself has limited energy after all. And he went out of the house twice in three days, and rushed between the princes, plus after all, he was his own son, and he was stopped by Guan Si, so he really couldn't beat it, and he couldn't remember it......
After years of hard work, he can finally pat his chest and say that his son is reluctant, whether in this era or in the era before he crossed over, his outlook on life is barely decent, as for the worldview...... Don't mention it. But although it is a very normal official eunuch child after looking back, there are no bad habits, and there are no evil deeds, when it comes to learning, it really can't be mentioned.
In terms of scriptures, it is only possible to recite the Analects, and the rest of the scriptures cannot be read through, let alone understand their meaning; In terms of literature, it is a repetition of the pen and barely the smooth writing and words, and there is nothing of spirituality and brilliance. If you go to the imperial examination, as a Xun, the genuine quality of his children will be given to the first-class upper middle school, and there are a lot of bonus points, but even if it is doubled, it is estimated that it will still be famous in Sun Shan......
Shi Xun had no choice but to comfort himself: "I only hope that the child will be foolish and reckless, and there will be no disasters and no difficulties to the minister." As long as you are old, you don't suddenly fall a big heel in politics, and you don't have to make a big mistake in politics, and you don't have to make any big baskets and accumulate qualifications, and you still have to do 2,000 stones after all. As soon as he closes his eyes and leaves, even if the new knighthood is still uncertain, at least there is a marquis to pass on to him, so he can have no worries about food and clothing for the rest of his life.
However, the problem is that Shi Fu is not really "stupid and reckless", he just doesn't like literary affairs, probably influenced by his mother, the way of arching horses is quite skillful, and he threw off his father several streets at a young age. Guan Si sometimes boasted triumphantly: "My son doesn't learn from his father to be a slaughterer, but he can be a general." "Yes Xun said that you really feel at ease to let your son go to the battlefield, aren't you afraid of a single event? Guan Si was dumbfounded when he heard this, and it took a while to come up with a reason to refute: "His father can cause peace, and his son is a Taiping general." ”
It was Xun Xin who said that General Taiping had nothing to do......
Since Shi Fu has no expertise in literary affairs, and he is full of "knowledge", it is not suitable to teach him, and the time to explain the truth has to be delayed again and again. Later, he also figured out that although his son was crowned, he was only eighteen years old, and the young man was uncertain, and he had to wait until he was really mature before he could reveal the truth. And I'm only forty years old—I'm actually younger—and although the average life expectancy of people is very short these days, as a pampered minister, I can't live beyond the age of fifty.
Therefore, he can't say that he is "nothing hidden", so he just says that his son has "nothing to hide" from himself.
Therefore, this time I said it again, I won't hide it from you, I will tell you the truth, I am really not optimistic about the prince, and-"Daddy hopes for the Son of Heaven, and the son will hope for the prince, if he is not popular, the danger of the eunuch will be worse than that of the commoners." ”
Shixun nodded, saying that it is good that you have this kind of worry, but ...... He lowered his voice and asked, "Who do you think is the heir among the kings?" ”
Shi Fu grinned and replied, "All the kings are willing to travel with their sons because of their fathers. He was the king of the city and the king of Liyang, and he had the closest correspondence...... "The king of Liyang is Cao Chong Cao Ziying-" Ran'er thought that those who could settle the country were the only ones who could serve as the king of the city. ”
Shixun frowned slightly. I said that among the kings, I am least optimistic about Cao Zhang, do you think he is the most suitable to inherit the throne...... Is it because you have a common language in martial arts? "How is the King of Liyang like a human being?"
It is said that Cao Chong's kid is too smart, and he seems to be very hypocritical: "Just a few words, they all seem to have deep meanings, and they want to explore what they want, and they are very tired of interacting with him." ”
It's Xun Wenyan. I can't help but wonder -- there are two kinds of smart children in this world, one is "young, big may not be good". Spirituality will gradually dissipate, and the other will rely on its own wisdom, and eventually "wisdom will be mistaken by wisdom." Kong Rong is a typical example of the latter type, if he was stupid back then. Don't taunt Cao Cao all day long. Even if it was to face him, Cao Cao might not really kill him—maybe it would be used as a reference for his own massive magnanimity.
Cao Chong, who was once famous all over the world for "calling elephants", is also the same, too smart and sharp. For example, in terms of wooing family members, as Fu said, almost every sentence seems to be testing the other party's thoughts and tendencies, and it has been a long time. It's offensive. In this regard, he is not as good as the third brother Cao Zhang. You see that Cao Zhang saw that Tian'er was looking for martial arts and hunting, and only brought his feelings closer, but basically did not mention the battle for the storage position.
Of course, if it comes to winning people's hearts, Cao Chong and Cao Zhangnai are not as good as the other two competitors. Now Cao Zihuan and Cao Zijian have gathered a lot of talents, and there are also a considerable number of important ministers who are clearly inclined to them, but on the draft in Shi Xun's heart, the names of these two people have basically been crossed out. Because Cao Pi mainly wooed the big clans, headed by Chen Changwen, this ran counter to Shi Xun's political concept - Shi Xun had not yet broken his face with the family, but he always regarded the big clan as a stubborn enemy of his own governance, and he didn't dare to be careless for a moment.
As for Cao Zhi, because of his brilliant writing and graceful bearing, he was admired by young bureaucrats. But these young bureaucrats are only known to Xun, not including Shi Fu, Xiahou Wei and others, to put it bluntly, most of the people around Cao Zhi are scribes, and his influence in the army and among the warriors is quite limited. Shi Xun believes that the country is not unified after all, and at this time, it is not old and reliable to consider an heir to the throne who is purely literary and artistic......
However, unlike Shi Fu, he was not very optimistic about Cao Zhang, and he was quite guarded against Cao Chong because he was too smart. In the past few years, although he has tried to stay out of the matter, he has always considered the issue of Cao Cao's heir, and the current conclusion seems to be the most suitable for the eldest son Cao Ang.
One Cao Zixiu is seen as the crown prince, and it is justified for the prince, ensuring that his status remains unchanged and can maintain a stable situation to the greatest extent; Second, this child has a certain influence among the scribes and generals, and he stands relatively firmly on both legs; The third is that although it is a little pedantic, it is benevolent after all, and it can be the master of the master, and it is relatively safe for the courtiers.
It was Xun who wanted to create a semi-hypocritical bureaucratic system, so Cao Ang, a first-rate monarch with first-class morality, second-rate talent, and a third-rate desire for power, was very suitable.
However, it's a pity that Cao Ang himself is not very angry, and he has recently made such a fuss......
In the end, Shi Xun couldn't help but sigh, and took care of it: "It's not what you can say." For example, if you are in a quagmire, you will be trapped, be cautious, be cautious. "Don't tell anyone what you said to me tonight.
Yes Fu hurriedly gave up his hand to be taught, saying Dad, you should relax, your son is stupid, but he is not stupid to that extent. However, "Daddy's will must also be determined." "Don't keep hesitating, which prince do you like, you have to make up your mind quickly.
Shi Xun waved his hand and said let's go out for dinner.
When the family had dinner that night, Guan Si brought it up again, saying that Fu'er had already been crowned, and you had better think about his marriage quickly. It didn't seem to have the idea of getting married immediately, but blocked his mother: "And after my sister gets married, it's not too late to talk about it." Guan Si glared, saying that it was too late for Xue to get married, and I don't know what your father thought in his heart...... She was not born to me, and I don't want to intervene, but this has nothing to do with your marriage, so there is no need to wait for her to marry first.
Shixun had no choice but to say: "I also miss it." "I'm thinking about it, how can I delay my son's lifelong event? But it is precisely because I love my son that I must be cautious in this matter - don't talk too much, I will come up with a result as soon as possible.
After the meal, he excused himself from hunting during the day and wanted to wash and sleep quickly, so he said goodbye to his parents and returned to the small courtyard where he lived. After entering, the servant ordered the servant to light a candle, and he knelt down on the desk and began to write. The letter was written to the assassin Peng Dingyi, and it began with the words: "Righteous and courteous, I received the previous book, and then I thought that the matter of chasing the wind and catching shadows should not be suddenly ...... adults and shadows" (to be continued......