Chapter 320 320 Help
Qi Yiming came to Chongqing to meet his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and although official affairs were encountered, it did not prevent him from coming to the door to ask for relatives. The traditional system of Nacai in modern marriage has naturally collapsed, and the role of the matchmaker is basically limited to blind dates. Men and women under free love basically decide by themselves when they are young, and then report to their families, which is actually a notice. Especially in this era, families who work in other places and have a relatively high level of education have little control over their children's marriages.
For example, Qi Yiming's parents got married at about this time in another plane, both of them were college students from the countryside, and after graduation, they were assigned to places that were not their hometowns, and their families were all workers and peasants. The situation of Qi Yiming and Jiang Huayan is roughly the same.
On the contrary, in the future, parents have become more demanding with the changes in society, and economic development has caused inequality between the rich and the poor, and it is difficult for the children of tens of millions and billionaires to find children from working families. Parents urge their children to get married, either looking for enterprises and institutions, or asking both parents to have a good family background, but it has become a lot more troublesome.
Jiang's father and Jiang's mother had seen Qi Yiming once before, although they didn't know what kind of official Lu Dao's daughter's boyfriend was, but it seemed that he was such a big person in Beijing. Moreover, Qi Yiming can be regarded as a decent-looking young man, tall and long, handsome, and has good conversation and cultivation. Such a good son-in-law can't be found with a lantern, and the Jiang family's parents naturally have nothing to be reluctant to. Jiang's mother smiled from ear to ear, and when chatting with other middle-aged women, she also liked to mention that her daughter was next to a young official from Beijing.
This time, Qi Yiming came to the door to ask for marriage, and the Jiang family's parents saw that this kid was surrounded by bodyguards before and after, and they felt that he was a great character.
Jiang Huayan's face was full of joy, and she took Qi Yiming to the house to meet her parents, Qi Yiming would not come to the door empty-handed, so naturally some of his subordinates would mention some things like meeting gifts. Sitting down at home, Qi Yiming gave Jiang's father a cigarette, although he didn't smoke it himself, but at this time this thing was a courtesy. After greeting for a while, Qi Yiming also revealed his words and asked the Jiang family's parents to marry their baby daughter to him.
Jiang Huayan naturally called home before, and Jiang's father and Jiang's mother certainly understood that the two young people came to Chongqing in a busy time. After Qi Yiming finished his marriage proposal, Father Jiang didn't think about it, and nodded again and again: "Okay, okay, it's been two or three years since you and Yanzi got along, and you're about the same age, so it's almost time to do things quickly." The Swallow family is the eldest child in our family, and we are counting on our grandson in the early years. β
Qi Yiming smiled, did not answer, Jiang Huayan's little face was flushed, she would never dare to tell her parents about her unmarried pregnancy, the atmosphere was not so open at this time, and her parents knew that they had no face to see people.
Immediately afterwards, the Jiang family set up a rich family banquet to celebrate the lifelong appointment of the eldest daughter in the family. The Jiang family has a total of three children, Jiang Huayan is the oldest, and there is a two-year-old younger sister Jiang Huahui and a five-year-old younger brother Jiang Huali. Jiang's father works in the county's local taxation bureau, and he has not yet been mixed into the deputy section level when he is almost 50 years old, and Jiang's mother works in a state-owned factory in the county, which is also a quality inspector.
It's also strange to say, although Jiang's father is relatively tall, he is not handsome, and Jiang's mother is also middle-class, and she can't even talk about her charm when she is in her forties. But these two parents who are not very good-looking gave birth to three children with good skin, among which Jiang Huayan is the best, with well-proportioned flesh and bones, convex and backward, and a charming face, the second sister Jiang Huahui is also a beautiful embryo, although she is not as bad as her sister, but she also has the posture of a small jasper, and the third brother Jiang Huali is even taller, heroic and extraordinary, but she is more shy.
However, the three children of the Jiang family are all good-looking, but they are not very good at school, Jiang Huayan has a secondary school degree, and then the flight attendant who took the exam is the best. Jiang Huahui was originally the best child in the family, but she was admitted to a second-class undergraduate in the college entrance examination, and was persuaded by her mother not to go to college, and also took the civil service exam. Jiang Huali, the only boy in the family, was even more confused, barely mixed with a junior Chinese certificate, and was entrusted by his family to work in a factory, and now he has not turned positive.
This time, Jiang Huayan is getting married, and Jiang's mother is very satisfied. She has long told her daughter that it is better to marry well than to study well, let her daughter look long, and come back with a good son-in-law. Jiang Huayan, a girl who lacks assertiveness, listened to her mother's words in a daze, and really became a golden beetle son-in-law.
Jiang's mother felt that her son-in-law had a background and could live better in her own family. In the past two years, Jiang Huayan has sent a lot of money to her family, and her family's living conditions have been much better. But parents always have to think about the next generation, and when the family banquet was almost halfway through, Jiang's mother opened her mouth to Qi Yiming: "Our aunt is a capable person, and it is a great blessing for Yanzi to be able to marry you." We husband and wife don't want to follow Yanzi to Beijing to enjoy happiness, but hope that the two unhappy children can live better. Yiming, you see that your sister-in-law and brother-in-law are still young, and you can help with more. β
Qi Yiming was cooking, and he also had a headache for this kind of thing, he was the worst at meeting these family members, so he could only respond sullenly.
Father Jiang frowned slightly when he saw Mother Jiang open her mouth to ask for a future for the two children, and kicked his wife under the table, but his wife glared at him instead, and Father Jiang stopped talking. And the two children also looked at their brother-in-law eagerly, they were young and wanted to go further. However, Jiang Huayan is well versed in the virtue of her fiancΓ©, and she is not very happy to see him embarrassed.
Jiang Mu saw that Qi Yiming couldn't open her mind, so she could only make her words clearer, and said: "Yiming, see if you can talk about the relationship, let the people in the agency take care of Xiaohui a little, we don't ask for too much, when you should be promoted, you should be promoted, and when you change your position, you can transfer a higher welfare, don't be like his father, who will be a deputy department for the rest of his life, and has no future." β
Father Jiang saw his wife exposing herself in front of his son-in-law, and immediately reluctantly retorted: "What's wrong with the deputy department, I work briskly, I do something, I rest when I don't have anything, and the pressure is small, you old woman, how can you not know how to be satisfied." β
Mother Jiang snorted, as if she felt disdainful of Father Jiang's lack of ambition, and said: "Xiaoli is not yet twenty, I think he has no way out of that broken place, if it is convenient for Yiming, take him to hone and hone." β
Jiang Huali was tired of staying in a small county town for a long time, and he always wanted to go to a big place for a walk, and said with bright eyes: "Brother-in-law, don't worry, I am very obedient and can endure hardships, if you have any errands for me to do, I will definitely do it." β
Father Jiang said again: "You little rabbit cub, you didn't get into high school, your brother-in-law has a big career, what can you do, pedaling a tricycle will make you lazy." β
Mother Jiang felt sorry for her son, and replied: "What nonsense are you talking about, our Xiaoli is a little worse at school, but he is still very smart." I think Xiaoli is very good at talking, and he has eyes, maybe he can do big business! β
Jiang Huayan finally couldn't help it at this time, she used to be obedient, she couldn't even speak loudly, let alone say that her parents were not. Now she has the consciousness of being a housewife, and immediately said: "Parents, you don't want to be like this." Yiming is very principled in doing his work, how can you let him do these things that go through the back door? β
Mother Jiang looked at her daughter with a smile and said, "Yanzi, you have to take care of your younger siblings." Besides, what are the principles and unprincipled of these, everyone does this, and it would be a waste if they didn't go through the relationship. She originally wanted to say stupid, but she didn't want to be sarcastic in front of Qi Yiming, so she changed her words.
Qi Yiming is really reluctant to do such a thing, he can still accept these favors, but let him "take care" of his family, he will inevitably have a pimple in his heart. Indeed, people don't follow the rules, they all go to the relationship, he doesn't use it if he doesn't go, and he looks stupid, but this kind of thing is like a dye vat, he has the heart to clarify everything, but he has to be contaminated, it's ridiculous.
Qi Yiming saw his fiancΓ©e blushing and helping him speak, and his heart was slightly moved. After getting along for a few years, this little girl really knows herself very well, and he thinks it's really right to find this wife.
"Mom and Dad, I really can't guarantee what happened to the agency. Let's put it this way, now that the political style reform above is strictly investigated, it will be troublesome in the future. However, if the family wants to start a small business and start a business, I can help. I think Xiaohui and Xiaoli have a good image and are also very smart, so I will find a senior to teach me and go to my family's company in Nanyang to hone it. "This is basically the best guarantee that Qi Yiming can do, he is a twisted person, you let him raise his hand to help people solve troubles, he is happy, you let him raise his hand to let people promote his family, that makes him uncomfortable. Even if it is placed in the Shenghua Group under his management, Qi Yiming is reluctant to intervene, after all, with state-owned shares, Jiang Huayan's gas company is also a relatively important company, and there are also state-owned shares.
On the contrary, the large and small enterprises that I got in Nanyang at the beginning are purely owned by individuals, although it is not good to send individuals in this way, but it is not too much to work from the bottom and rise up if you do a good job. He can give this kind of opportunity, because the nature is completely different.
"Nanyang? It's so far. Mother Jiang hesitated for a moment, the parents didn't want their children to be by their side.
On the contrary, Jiang Huali is very willing, he has heard before that many people go to Nanyang, and there is Chinese in general, business opportunities everywhere, it may be much more interesting than staying in China, he hurriedly said: "Nanyang is good, Nanyang is good, didn't I have been shouting to support Nanyang Chinese to build a new homeland, I still wanted to go at that time, my mother stopped me, this time my brother-in-law said to go to Nanyang, then go to Nanyang." β
The second sister Jiang Huahui is a bit similar to Jiang Huayan's personality, they are both very gentle, she is still young, she feels embarrassed to let her brother-in-law pull her, and she is not willing to engage in business, so she said: "Parents, the younger brother is still young, he should go out to break through, the family can't be without personal care, I think it's very good in the agency now, don't trouble my brother-in-law, I will honor your second elder at home." β
Father Jiang nodded kindly, "It's still the second daughter of our family who is sensible." β
Qi Yiming didn't want to be officially married, so he left a crack here for his father-in-law and mother-in-law, "Xiaoli's side, I'll find someone to take him, and I'll leave one million for the second elder at home, and your second elder will see what you want to buy, buy something, and live a better life, so that Yanzi can rest assured in Beijing." β
Although Jiang's mother did not achieve her own meaning, she smiled when she saw that her son-in-law would give one million as soon as she stretched out her hand. On the contrary, Jiang Huayan looked a little sulky, she was really outgoing.