Coming out of Liu's mansion, Fang Yingwu still didn't understand what Liu Ji meant, and if he didn't understand it, he didn't want to think about it for the time being, a day of delay was a year, and the situation would become clear sooner or later. However, compared with his own marriage, Fang Yingwu felt that his father's future was more important, or more worthy of his attention.

In any case, at least as far as the current situation is concerned, I am quite popular, and I don't expect the marriage to be too bad, it's just a matter of choice. has his own "vision", looking for Lao Taishan will not bump into the street, but his father's future is a little unpredictable, and the uncertainty is greater.

After arriving home, Fang Yingwu did not go back to his west courtyard, and after inquiring with Menzi, he went to the study of the east courtyard to find his father, and asked sideways: "Between my father and that Xie Qian, have you ever had any heart problems?" Has anyone compared you two? ”

Fang Yingwu had already learned the inside story from the university scholar Liu Ji, but he still came to ask his father, mainly to compare with Liu Mian's words and verify what Liu Mian said. The ancients listened to it and knew it, and it was right to have a few more eyes.

Fang Qingzhi sat upright, put down the book, stared at Fang Yingwu for a moment, and then said: "Don't think nonsense, and study carefully to prepare for the exam, next year's spring is the most important thing, and there are some other things that you shouldn't think about." ”

My father still refuses to admit it or confess it? Fang Yingwu sighed secretly, there was obviously an inside story between his father and Xie Qian, but he refused to say it clearly, I don't know if it was weishenme? Probably because of the identity and face of a gentleman, I don't want to talk about these things in front of me? This kind of mentality is that a gentleman is ashamed to talk about profit.

Fang Yingwu suddenly realized that it was not just his father. I'm afraid that many righteous people and gentlemen have this mentality. Because they are gentlemen, they don't talk about utilitarianism. Only talk about morality. If it involves something that is not on the table and really does not have morality, at most it is a few hints.

Liu Mian is different. He can have no scruples and say that the struggle for fame and fortune is an ordinary thing like eating and drinking, and he doesn't feel ashamed. Of course, if you want Liu Mian to say whatever she wants without concealing it, the premise is that the relationship between them is familiar to the point of Fang Yingwu.

Fang Yingwu couldn't help but secretly compare in his heart, and found that he was still more comfortable talking to Liu Mian, as a person who had crossed over from the era of etiquette and happiness, and Fang Yingwu, who also had the imprint of his previous life, was not a wicked person, but he was indeed more accustomed to dealing with Liu Mian. It is too unrealistic to let a 21st century person be ashamed to talk about profits!

Like today. Liu Mian told him very bluntly, "Ling Zun has the qualifications to compete with Xie Qian for the Zhejiang Party, and the old man also wants to make profits in the middle"; And his father Fang Qingzhi was embarrassed to admit this possibility, as if admitting it would tarnish his reputation.

These two completely different personalities are in stark contrast, and what is admired by today's mainstream public opinion is obviously his father, and Liu Mian's is not easy to win the reputation of Shilin.

Thinking of this, Fang Yingwu suddenly realized something, slapped his forehead suddenly, and shouted, "I see! ”

Fang Qingzhi coughed heavily. "Okay haode speak, what's your name on the heel?"

The reason why Fang Yingwu screamed was because he finally figured out that when Liu Mian talked about marriage. What does that seem like an aberration mean? This doubt has been haunting my heart, and I can't figure it out, but just now it suddenly became clear.

What should be compatible with the woman's personality and temperament. What should be considered carefully, the woman Liu Mian said is not the woman she is referring to, but the old man of the woman's family. Even referring to him.

Liu Mian's true meaning is to advise himself - "With the communication of Ling Zun Fang Qingzhi, the relatives you find will probably be like-minded people." In other words. If there is an old-fashioned and square gentleman who is your father-in-law, who does not deal with you in every word and deed, and still works against you in the officialdom, then can you stand it?

And the old man knows very well what your temperament is, and he doesn't mind it. You can also talk to the old man about problems, but what if you change to someone else? Can you still understand you like the old man? ”

Even if Fang Yingwu is a human being in two lives and has rich experience, at this moment, I have to admit that Liu Mian's level of understanding of the problem is very profound, and what he said is really to the point and to the heart.

Marriage really can't just look at too material things such as portals, power, money, and fame, and the most important thing is really feelings. I'm afraid it will have a negative effect, so it's better to find someone with a more harmonious character.

Fang Yingwu recalled the characters he had met since he crossed over, and if he said who he could talk to the most openly and without retreat, it seemed that there was only Liu Mian. In addition, even if it is in front of the prime minister, you must be cautious when you speak, think about it in your heart first, and dare not say it recklessly.

Presumably, the so-called compatibility refers to himself and Liu Mian? Fang Yingwu continued to think that in the past, Liu Mian's biggest advantage was his position of power, but today Liu Mian deliberately reminded himself that he has another kind of competitiveness, and personality problems should indeed account for a large proportion of marriage.

Unconsciously, the balance in Fang Yingwu's heart once again tilted in favor of Liu Mian, and the advantage was very large. At the same time, he had to admire that Liu Mian's jishu was really the pinnacle, and he easily changed his mood without moving.

From another point of view, if he really becomes a relative, Liu Ji can probably support himself without being principled and scolding him for forming a party for personal gain; If you change to your father's colleague and become your father-in-law, then it would be good to ask the other party not to use him as a stepping stone to brush up the reputation of the duke.

Of course, he also knows that if he chooses Liu Mian to be his father-in-law (if Liu Mian does not regret his marriage), it is not without shortcomings. As a slightly famous little Qingliu, he married Liu Mian's daughter as his wife, and it seems that it is not easy to explain to public opinion.

One is not good, it is light to be labeled as selling oneself for glory and greedy for wealth, and more seriously, the positive image he created before is likely to be all in vain, and maybe it will also affect his father's reputation.

But the other choice Li Dongyang is not bad, if Zuihou really gave up Li Dongyang and chose Liu Ji, it shouldn't be considered too poor and loves rich? Fang Yingwu lowered his head and thought about it.

It should also be noted that don't offend people in this matter, Liu Mian is not easy to offend, and Li Dongyang is also not easy to offend. This needs to be carefully planned by yourself, and the first thing to pass is the father's level.

Fang Yingwu walked out of his father's study, looked up at the starry sky on the way back to the east courtyard and sighed. I think that when he first crossed over, he was also a pure and good boy, but now he has really become more and more utilitarian. Is this the result of growing up and maturing, or is it born after entering the circle of fame and fortune? (To be continued......)

PS: Today and Monday, the unit is riddled with miscellaneous affairs, unable to double change, barely guaranteed, and will fight again tomorrow! In addition, I recommended a friend's book yesterday, and it turned out that there was an emperor thief who seemed to want a eunuch, and I really didn't mean it, it was all the moon's fault.