Chapter 200 It is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs

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Sun Yumei's father, Uncle Sun, sat anxiously on a sofa in a small reception room in the Milanello Building, not in the mood to admire the Renaissance decoration in the room.

Fortunately, he didn't have to wait long, and Zhuo Yang, who hurriedly finished showering, changed his clothes and pushed the door and walked in.

"Uncle Sun, you are an elder, I think you should still be invited to a light meal." Zhuo Yang said: "If you find it troublesome, in fact, the food in the restaurant here in Milanello is also very rich, that is, the taste is light, but the nutritional value is very high. Or, Uncle Sun, do you see? ”

"No, no, really no, I've already eaten before I came, you're welcome." Uncle Sun also quickly stood up and politely declined again. "Zhuo Yang, I just want to meet you this time, it's been almost twenty years, that naughty little doll back then is now a talent, how fortunate my Brother Zhuo is!"

"If it weren't for Yumei explaining to me, I wouldn't have thought that the current big star pianist is the original little boy. Zhuo Yang, you are amazing, Brother Zhuo teaches his children in a good way, admirable, hahaha......"

"Uncle Sun, you have won the prize. Please take a seat, Uncle Sun. ”

Zhuo Yang did not invite Uncle Sun to sit at home, because in Europe, those who can go to the house are very familiar friends, and they are usually not invited to the house as guests when they meet for the first time. It's not a precautionary measure, it's just a custom, and guests are not used to visiting in a hurry. Zhuo Yang said that he would go to the city to find a restaurant to eat and chat, but Uncle Sun also declined.

Sun Yumei's father, Sun Zhicheng, is 49 years old this year, and his ancestral home is Shanghai, but he grew up in Xi'an when he was a child.

Sun Zhicheng continued his father's science and engineering majors, and after graduating from a prestigious university, he entered a large central enterprise in Xi'an and became an engineer in the aviation industry. When Yumei was four years old, Sun Zhicheng bought out his seniority from the unit and chose his own job, and his family returned to his hometown of Shanghai from Xi'an.

Yumei's mother, Aunt Tang, whose ancestral home is also from Shanghai, worked as a clinician in the endocrinology department of a tertiary hospital in Xi'an after graduating with a master's degree in medicine. When Aunt Tang first worked, she was introduced to Sun Zhicheng and fell in love, and Sun Yumei was their only child after marriage.

Aunt Tang's parents were British patriotic overseas Chinese, who returned to China to participate in the construction of New China in the early days of the founding of the People's Republic of China, and later returned to London to live and retire when they were older. After Sun Yumei, who went to kindergarten in Xi'an that year, moved to Shanghai with her father, Aunt Tang also quit her job in the hospital and handled skilled immigration through Yumei's grandparents' family more than a year later.

Now that his grandfather has passed away, Sun Zhicheng is a senior engineer of British Aerospace Aerodynamics, Aunt Tang is the clinical director of the Royal Brompton Hospital, and Sun Yumei is in the final semester of the Department of Electrical and Electronics at the University of London School of Engineering.

Sun Zhicheng came all the way from London to Milan to find Zhuo Yang, naturally for his baby daughter Sun Yumei.

Since Yumei and Côtes Pirnan's homosexual relationship was discovered by Sun Zhicheng and Aunt Tang, this family, which has always been peaceful and harmonious, has never had a comfortable day, and the couple resolutely cannot accept the fact that their only baby daughter is gay. The quarrel and estrangement that lasted for two or three years not only plunged Sun Yumei into great pain, but also made the couple feel more and more powerless.

These things really can't be judged by a simple sentence of 'interfering with children's freedom of choice', and things in the family cannot be measured by right or wrong because of the different perspectives.

Sun Zhicheng and his wife think that Yumei was not born with Les, because the Sun and Tang families have not had this gene for more than ten generations. Yumei is just ignorant of feelings and desires, and at first fashion and curiosity prevailed, and over time she fell into it, not with her.

The couple thought that if Yumei was allowed to continue like this, she would inevitably find that her orientation was not born Les after she entered middle age and her thinking ability matured, which led to a huge rift in her life, and then the family and marriage were in a mess, but it was too late at that time. The joy and happiness of Yumei's life is the most important thing for the couple, and they can give everything for this.

Yumei is already confused, she confirms that her deep love for Corsie is real, but she is shaken whether this relationship is correct or not. She doesn't believe in the emotional prophecies given by her parents, nor does she believe in Cosie's cynicism in love, she longs for love, but love shouldn't be like this, love should be blessed by the whole world.

There is a gap and misunderstanding between Yumei and Ke Xi, and she also has huge conflicts and complaints with her parents.

There are right and wrong things, but it is impossible to specifically distinguish who is right and who is wrong, and where is wrong and where is right, and the conflict between children and parents is often like this.

Zhuo Yang's father, Zhuo Tongtong, had a college roommate, and his only son had a very rare disease - narcolepsy since he was a child. The cause of this disease is so niche that no medical institution in the world is willing to study it to develop a specific targeted treatment drug, because the target audience is too small and the profit margin is small. Therefore, there is currently no cure for this disease, and even the vast majority of doctors have never heard of this disease, let alone understand it.

The cause of the pathology is unknown, how to prevent and treat it is nonsense, and once it can be accompanied by life, fortunately, this disease does not affect life and health, and does not have any negative effect on intelligence and other physical functions, only sudden sleepiness, saying that sleep is about to sleep, and you can close your eyes when you are walking, which greatly affects work and study.

There is no cure, but exercise is recognized as a very effective way to relieve symptoms. Zhuo Tongtong's roommate has been running with his child every day since he was in the first grade of primary school, rain or shine, gradually from two kilometers to five kilometers and seven kilometers a day, and so on until his son was admitted to university.

But in this long-term process, the son has a great grudge against his father, especially after entering middle school, the heavy academic load makes the middle school students racing against time like a war, and squeezing out time to run long distances is an extremely difficult thing and a painful burden.

Why doesn't anyone else have to work so hard? Why do you have to make me so desperate?

The son did not understand his father's good intentions, and the playful nature of children made him very resistant to this. The father couldn't persuade his son to consciously and voluntarily put fitness first, so he could only use various means to force him to go out every day. For more than ten years, although long-distance running has been persistent, the estrangement between father and son has become deeper and deeper.

Now, my son, who has graduated from college, has surpassed most ordinary people in physical fitness because of his perennial exercise, and his illness has become milder and milder, and it has almost no impact on his life. But because the change in physical fitness is a long-term slow gradual effect, the son can't experience the obvious gap contrast, so naturally he will not be grateful after suddenly realizing it, but complaining in his heart because of the unforgettable reprimand and persecution in those years, and the days of running and struggling with tears are unbearable for him.

To this day, my son doesn't even want to go home during the Chinese New Year, and he has nothing to say when he sees his father.

Don't say why don't you explain the reason to the child well, and take him to exercise happily. Nowadays, who adults don't know the importance of exercise, but how many people can take the initiative to exercise every day? Not to mention immature children? If you can't do anything yourself, don't morally criticize others. The ancients said: It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs. The old man was right!

Zhuo Tongtong once lamented to this roommate that it is not easy to be a father, but this father said: As long as he can be healthy and happy in the future, what does it matter if I am wronged and misunderstood?

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Zhuo Yang and Uncle Sun laughed and talked about recalling the funny story caused by his 'savage robbery' of Sun Yumei's half of a cantaloupe when he was in kindergarten.

Zhuo Yang naturally had no impression of Uncle Sun back then, he almost forgot all about Yumei, except for the half of the cantaloupe, he almost didn't remember anything. In fact, Sun Zhicheng also has no memory of Zhuo Yang, and it was only under his daughter's efforts that he vaguely remembered the naughty little boy who was brought by his father to apologize pitifully in front of him.

Looking at the tall and handsome Zhuo Yang in front of him, Sun Zhicheng was having a hard time connecting him with that vague little guy.

"Zhuo Yang, uncle took the liberty of asking, ...... Like Yumei? ”

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