"The tires of my family's car broke, broke down in the middle of the road, and I didn't catch the flight." Old Mata said a little sullenly.

"It's a terrible experience." Fang Jue nodded and said.

Old Mata glanced at the other party, and when he saw Fang Jue, he actually showed a happy expression, and said angrily, "Sir, you seem to be very happy." ”

"That's right." Fang Jue was very honest, he spread his hand, smiled and said, "From a moral point of view, I should indeed express sympathy and regret, but, I'm sorry, I can't help but cheer a little when I think of you not being able to complete the signing with Valencia today because of this matter......" Fang Jue deliberately made an exaggerated expression, "This means that I have another chance to convince you, in my opinion, this accident may be that DìDū is helping me." ”

Hearing Fang Jue's frank words, although Old Mata was a little unhappy, he was also made to cry and laugh in the end.

The other party was so frank and outspoken, but won the recognition and appreciation of old Mata: this is a very honest gentleman.

This reminded him of Flores, who was not very friendly on the phone just now, and old Mata also sighed, and the whole person was in a bad mood.

The reason for the bad mood is not only because of not being able to catch the flight and delaying the signing, but also because of the fact that Valencia coach Kik. Flores' attitude, in addition, if he heard correctly, there seemed to be an argument on the other end of the phone, and the two sides of the argument were Valencia head coach Flores and the club's sporting director Carboni......

This inadvertent 'discovery' also made Old Mata really feel the chaos of the high-level struggle in Valencia that Fang Jue had said before.

As the Ibiza coach has said, if Flores loses the battle for power with Carboni and is sacked, what will happen to the future of Fernando in Valencia? Will the new coach appreciate Mata?

Although he didn't know Lao Mata's inner fluctuations at this time, seeing that the other party was not in a good mood, Fang Jue kindly sent out an invitation, "Let's have a cup of coffee together, I'll have a treat." ”

……

"A latte." Fang Jue said, then turned his head and asked Old Mata, "Mr. Mata, what about you?" ”

"Same." Old Mata said casually that he was not in the mood to enjoy coffee right now.

"What do you want, Mr. Mata?" Fang Jue winked at Xiao Ma Ta and asked with a smile.

"A cup of milk coffee." Old Mata took the attention for his son.

Fang Jue noticed that Little Mata was frowning, his expression became serious and serious, he looked at Old Mata and said, "Mr. Mata, with all due respect, I think you should ask Little Juan what he likes to drink, instead of directly making up his mind for him. ”

Looking at Old Mata's surprised appearance, Fang Jue said seriously, "He is nineteen years old, he has his own ideas and hobbies, as long as he does not violate the law, does not violate morality, and does not violate the life standards of professional players, then he should be able to have his own choice." ”

was already in a bad mood, and was pointed at by Fang Jue and taught a lesson, Lao Mata was angry, how can Lao Tzu teach children, you still need to take care of it.

Old Mata stared at Fang Jue, Fang Jue's expression was serious, and he looked at each other without evasion.

"Sir, an independent and self-reliant character is very important for him in his later life, both on the court and in life." After Fang Jue finished speaking, he didn't pay attention to the father, but looked at the son, "Little Juan, what do you want?" ”

"Iced coffee, no added sugar." Xiao Ma Ta first glanced at his father, then at Fang Jue, and when he saw Fang Jue's encouraging eyes, he said loudly.

"Good." Fang Jue nodded to the waiter, "Another latte, and then give this gentleman a cup of iced coffee, no sugar." ”

"Okay, wait a minute."

Seeing the excitement in his son's eyes, Old Mata was a little silent, and then said to Fang Jue, "Perhaps, you are right, in fact, I usually take care of his feelings." ”

……

"I understand." Fang Jue smiled and said, "Just like my father, he will also make some choices for me, he does it because he loves me, he thinks he is right, although I don't like it very much, and I will resist, but I know that he loves me, and we will always try to communicate and find a way that both parties can understand each other." ”

Fang Jue smiled, as if thinking of the rattan in the yard of his home.

"Coach Fang, I have a question." Old Mata asked.

"Please." Fang Jue nodded.

"What would you do if your players made an appointment with you to meet but for some reason didn't show up?" Old Mata asked.

"I'll be angry." Fang Jue replied without hesitation, "Observing time is the basic quality of a person's success. ”

Sure enough, Old Mata's brow furrowed even tighter.

"I'm not going to get angry directly, though." Fang Jue said, "I will ask him why he missed the appointment, whether it was his own reason or an irresistible accident." If it's the former, I'll criticize him harshly, and if it's the latter, I'll be glad that my player himself hasn't been physically affected or hurt by the accident, and then make an appointment with him for the next meeting. ”

"That's it?" Old Mata asked in surprise, "Won't criticize?" ”

"Of course there will be criticism." Fang Jue said with a smile, "I will criticize him when we meet, or increase the amount of him in training, so that he can reflect on it, although there is a reason for it, but a no-show is a no-show, this is a fact." ”

"Then why not criticize it on the spot?" Old Mata asked strangely, he didn't notice it himself, his mood seemed to be a lot better, and the other party's attitude was also much better, he didn't notice even more, although the question was asked by him, but the dominant power of the topic was already there for the other party.

……

'At that point, he was already guilty of the accident and there were probably other factors that caused him to bother, so I couldn't put a mental strain on my players at that time. As he spoke, Fang Jue squeezed his eyes, "Moreover, when we met, when he thought that the matter was over, I criticized it again, which would make him even more impressed." ”

As he spoke, Fang Jue faced Xiao Ma Ta and asked with a smile, "Little Juan, if you encounter this situation, what will you think when you are trained?" ”

"I might think, oh my God, the coach still remembers, it's unlucky, I won't dare to be late next time." Little Mata also said in an exaggerated tone.

"Look." Fang Jue shrugged towards Old Mata, "The effect is very good. ”

Old Mata nodded, he recalled Flores's attitude on the phone, and he couldn't help but sigh.

With such a comparison, the gap between the coach and the coach comes out.

Compared with Flores's rough attitude, the Ibiza manager's handling is obviously better, first of all, he suppressed his anger for the first time, and then asked the reason, and the first consideration is the safety and psychological impact of his players, he will not be rude and angry, this is a kind of respect and love, and finally, this is not the kind of blind tolerance, he will adhere to the principle of criticism, but the means are more tactful, and the effect is better, it is clear that such a coach, the player will respect and like, Rather than simply being afraid.

is also a coach, who is still the head coach of a La Liga giant, but why is there such a big gap in the level of life and work.

……

Fang Jue raised his wrist and looked at the time, "Don't delay your time, so let's do it, I will stay in Madrid until tomorrow morning, and then leave after picking up my friends, before eight o'clock tomorrow morning, if you change your mind and don't go to Valencia, you can call me directly." ”

"Okay, Coach Fang, I'll think about it seriously." Old Mata said.

He didn't notice the trap in the other party's words, what Fang Jue said was that if he didn't go to Valencia, he would call him, which was already making continuous psychological hints to the father and son, even if he didn't go to Valencia, he wouldn't think of or consider other teams, so contact me quickly.

Fang Jue also took the initiative to say goodbye and leave first, but he didn't forget to pay the bill before leaving, and then waved his hand at Xiao Mata, "Goodbye, Xiao Mata, drink less iced coffee, pay attention to protect your stomach." ”

"Thank you, coach, I see." Little Mata said quickly.

Tsk, Fang Jue immediately left with a smile on his face, and he was very happy to hear this 'coach'.

……

Back home.

Father and son tossed the salute trolley case aside.

"Son, what do you think?" Old Mata asked his son.

"Dad, I'm ......" Little Mata glanced at his father, wanting to say something, but was a little hesitant.

"Son, tell me what you really think, and I will respect your personal opinion as much as possible." Old Mata said, "Coach Fang is right, you are already an adult, you have your own considerations and career plans, I will try to respect you, unless I realize that your ideas are very wrong, otherwise, I will not interfere." ”

"Dad, I want to go to Ibiza." Juan. Mata said, with a serious expression.

"Why?" Old Mata asked.

"Because I can feel that Coach Fang really appreciates me." "And he respects me a lot and doesn't take what I should listen to and do like other coaches do." ”

"You go on."

"I think Coach Fang is right, I should be more assertive, more independent, my personality is indeed a bit introverted now, and I am not ...... enough on the court Grace ......"

"Deterrence?" Old Mata said.

"That's right, that's it, I'm going to make them all afraid of me." Little Mata said happily.

"Thank you, son, for being willing to open up to me about this." Old Mata patted his son on the shoulder, "I'll think about it again, I'll think about it seriously." ”

……

While we were having dinner, the old Mata's phone rang, and it was Mrs. Mata.

Old Mata took his mobile phone to the side, and Little Mata tiptoed over to eavesdrop, and he heard his father say to his mother, "Honey, maybe we won't go to Valencia, are you interested in experiencing the scenery of the beautiful island?" ”

"Oh yes!" Little Mata jumped up and cheered, and then touched his head a little embarrassed when he saw his father looking over.

"What's wrong? What was that? Mrs. Mata asked.

"Nothing." Old Mata smiled and said, "Your son told me that he has grown up and is already an adult. ”

"Ha, is our son in love? How old are the girls and together? Mom asked in a surprised voice.

"Son, do you hear that? What about your mother asking you? Old Matahaha asked with a smile.

"Well, her name is Lina An, and she's five years older than me." Juan. Mata smiled, a little embarrassed, but tried to keep his composure.

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