1181 Mutual trust in management (semi-theoretical chapter)
PS: The content of this chapter is my personal experience and only represents my personal opinion.
At the same time, Yun Xiaohan was also making pre-battle preparations, exploring the map while accumulating savings to summon tree people. Although Yun Xiaohan was no longer able to see the territory channel at this time, he knew that the players in the Corsican territory would definitely not be absent, and the thought of being crusaded by the players in his own territory next, even if he had already been mentally prepared, felt a little weird.
It's not that Yun Xiaohan didn't think about informing them in advance about playing the boss, letting them paddle, and even cooperating with himself to do it to other players, but after careful consideration, he gave up this idea.
The price of doing this is too great, first of all, the Viscount of Corsican is now Mu Xiu Yulin, and then help the BOSS to fight the player, even if the BOSS is played by the player, but after all, it hurts the interests of the majority of players, and it will definitely become the target of public criticism, which is not conducive to the long-term development of the territory.
Secondly, if he does this, Yun Xiaohan is very likely to be exposed, he now has 42.92% of his killing experience, half of which has not arrived, and he is still long, so it is better to be exposed later.
Again, just for the sake of Yun Xiaohan's personal interests, let the players of the entire territory sacrifice, this practice itself is very selfish, destroying Yun Xiaohan's long-term image, playing online games, especially group leaders, a good personal image is still very important, just for short-term profits to sacrifice personal image, this is too much to lose.
In the end, players in Corsican territory can also make a profit by defeating the boss, let them sacrifice their own interests to do things that are not beneficial to them, even if they don't say it, they will not be too reluctant in their hearts, and it is very likely that they will disobey and paddle in secret. Even if you can get most of the territory players to help with their hearts, the cause and effect of the matter must be clearly explained, otherwise for some reason, the territory players will help the boss fight other players, and they will only think that the territory high-level brains are in water.
As for only telling a few high-level people in the territory to secretly release water or cause trouble in the boss fight, it would be even more inappropriate.
The mouth of the online gamer is not very strong, after all, everyone doesn't know each other, and even if you say it, it's not easy to check, so you won't have too strong a sense of confidentiality. The more people who tell it, the easier it is for the information to be revealed.
Moreover, this kind of information, if there are fewer people to inform, it will not play a role, and it is easy to leak the news if there are more people who inform. What's more important is that it is easy to have problems in the selection of the person to be informed, which makes people feel that there is a difference between intimacy and intimacy, and it is likely that it will not help much, but it will make some management feel estranged and feel that Yun Xiaohan does not trust him.
Some people may say that Yun Xiaohan doesn't tell anyone like this, doesn't it mean that he doesn't believe in anyone, only himself, he doesn't even trust his siblings, he is a single husband, and it is difficult for such a character to go far.
Those who hold such a statement can only say that they look at the problem too one-sidedly, lack the vision of the superiors, and have insufficient grasp of people's hearts.
The idea that this kind of relationship needs to be managed and carefully maintained, and the idea that this person has a good character and that known experience proves that he is trustworthy is very naïve in itself.
This is because people's hearts are never static, the other party may not be able to give enough feedback or corresponding trust because you have not been able to give enough feedback, or be imperceptible by people close to you, or some small contradictions in the details of getting along slowly accumulate and form qualitative changes, etc., in short, there are too many possibilities and changes that make this relationship of mutual trust difficult to maintain, so it is naïve not to do any maintenance and efforts, just relying on stocking to expect the relationship of mutual trust to be maintained forever.
is like Liu Guanzhang during the Three Kingdoms, they all know that Guan Yu and Zhang Fei are righteous, and their historical experience also shows this, but if there is a modern person to replace Liu Bei, will Guan Yu and Zhang Fei still be like that?
This is actually very unlikely, Liu Guanzhang is really like-minded, can talk together, hobbies are similar, and have been together for a long time, change to a modern person, and can always accompany two rough men with a beautiful wife? I don't sleep with my wife every day, but I sleep with two rough men?
This kind of "love is like a brother" mutual trust relationship is not formed because of what Taoyuan righteousness, in the real history, there was no brother worship in the late Han Dynasty, but slowly cultivated after a long time of getting along, I think it is just a good brother for a lifetime, this is naïve? Or is it naïve?
What's more, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei's personalities are actually not so easy to get along with, Liu Bei has spent a lot of time and energy in order to manage this relationship, and even if modern people want to manage this relationship, they may not be able to do well Just like in reality, as the boss, you know that you have two thorny subordinates with extremely strong ability, but the corresponding ability is their temper, one is arrogant, the other is short-tempered, how many bosses can manage the relationship like Liu Guanzhang?
No one is a fool, even if he has the heart to operate, the boss himself has to pay a lot of effort, and even the sincerity is true to the sincerity, Liu Bei has many flaws, but he obviously has a heart for Guan Zhang, otherwise there would be no White Emperor City to support the orphans.
To say a very unpleasant thing, it is to aim at an ordinary person, let you make friends with him, in the absence of sufficient resources, many people do not do well, relational science is originally a sociological theory, and it can even be said to be a very important ability, and it is obviously unwise to ignore the role of this ability.
Managing a relationship of mutual trust is a long-term and detailed work, there are many things that need to be done, and there are many things that cannot be done, not only to give enough benefits to the other party, but also to transfer part of the rights and the corresponding trust.
The mentality of "the soldier dies for the confidant" has never been unique to the Chinese, but the Chinese attach more importance to it. However, it should be noted that this corresponding trust is never unrestrained, nor does it need to be given in everything, but it is necessary to give trust in things that are relatively important to both parties to have a significant effect.
For example, Yun Xiaohan, who plays the BOSS, is unlikely to be grateful to others because you told him a little secret, but it has become a test, and people's hearts can't stand the test.
This is not to say that the other party will deliberately say something or something, but many people have an unintentional mouth when playing online games, and accidentally say it, or hint at it when they communicate, for example, they will intentionally reveal some content in order to show that they are closer to Yun Xiaohan.
Once this happens, other people may feel unhappy, and once the little secret leaks out, or is speculated by someone through clues, Yun Xiaohan's own interests will be damaged, so it is not good for him to check this matter afterwards, everyone is ugly on his face after checking, and he is uncomfortable if he doesn't check it, and there will be problems in the relationship of mutual trust, which is completely unnecessary.
Therefore, as a truly capable superior, one should not consider whether others are trustworthy, but should consider how to cultivate a relationship of mutual trust, and increase the cost of betrayal by others, and pin all hope on the character and character of the other party, which is the way of thinking of the weak.