Originally, I went out on a blind date tonight, but the other party said that I would work overtime temporarily, so I will forget it first.

Sitting in front of the computer and thinking about it, I saw the introduction of this book, and I felt that writing a "blind date guide" was also a bit of a problem.

Hey, don't guide it, let's point north.

After all, I have been on a blind date for four years since 16, and I have been back and forth dozens of times.

So, let's wrap it up.

In fact, the first step is not what happens after meeting, but starting from the circle of friends.

plus WeChat, they will generally flip through each other's circle of friends (of course, if you go to each other, there is a high probability that it will be visible within a month or even three days).

At this time, you have to package yourself, such as Van Gogh's sunflowers in the picture above the circle of friends, or similar literary pictures.

Don't use anime characters for avatars, especially anime female characters.

You can put some art photos, suit art photos and the like, or small animals.

For example, the avatars of cats and dogs.

Let's take another sentence and literary words.

Words like "Even if you see all the darkness, it's still warm and brilliant" and so on, I blush.

Circle of friends, some people say that when taking pictures, try to be in the middle of the crowd.

Or put a picture of a plate of cherries or something, and add a sentence below "It's quite sour, it seems that you have to wait a little longer to eat cherries".

Or go to a restaurant that doesn't look bad at first glance, such as a Vietnamese restaurant, a Thai restaurant, Japanese food, etc., take a photo of the dishes on the table, and add a sentence "It's okay, it's just a little spicy/sour/light." Something like that.

Or pets such as cats and dogs, and even bask in their pets.

These ...... It's useless.

Because of that ability, he is already cash-filled, and he doesn't need to go on a blind date.

If it's pretended, it's always exposed.

Let's talk about blind dates.

Some people like WeChat chat.

Actually, I don't like it.

I think WeChat is a stranger at the beginning, and it is too embarrassing to chat.

Unless the other side specifically agrees with you, you won't talk about it.

And then there was no more.

After all, the interaction is mutual, with a cold face and a hot ass...... Who isn't a parent's little baby anymore?

I usually talk for a day or two, and my instinct is to go out to a café or eat.

If the other party is willing to come out, then meet and talk.

If you don't want to make excuses or make excuses, just make an appointment twice.

Then I told my parents directly that people were unwilling, and it was perfunctory.

If it comes out, it's another way of saying it.

When the time comes, ask what to eat first.

Don't let her think, but just give a few options.

Hot pot, Japanese food, steak?

Give a few options and let the other person choose.

If the other party says it's okay, just say, "What about the Japanese food?" What do you think. ”

Generally, if the other party does not hate it, they will agree.

If you find a reason, it's that you don't like it, just change it.

After that, it's the traditional rhetoric, "Send me a location, and I'll drive you up." ”

From here, the blind date has actually officially begun.

As the text says, a blind date is actually an act of exchanging conditions between two people.

But some people, TA doesn't think that a blind date is a blind date, TA still thinks that this is a relationship.

Falling in love is something that happens after a successful blind date.

So if you say the conditions directly, people think you're too straightforward.

But I can't help but say it, so I can only show my conditions like this.

Some brothers said that when they went on a blind date, the other party was very cold as soon as they came up.

This is quite normal, and many people are introverted when they see strangers.

As a personal rule of thumb, dress as neatly as possible.

Then don't wear any jackets, knitted sweaters, etc.

It's not that you can't dress casually, at least you have to be clean and tidy.

Solid color cardigans, casual T-shirts in summer, try not to be fancy.

Shoes are just normal travel shoes, and then try to wear long slacks in summer.

Don't keep your hair too long, or you have a hairstyle, like oily hair or something.

The beard is shaved clean, the fingernails are cut clean, and nothing else.

In general, as long as the other party is not particularly resistant, then you can actually continue to talk.

In fact, you can also make a joke about WeChat for the first time.

If you want to say who introduced it.

You ask, "Are you also introduced by a matchmaker?" ”

Then the other party responded, and said, "Isn't this a coincidence, and so am I!" ”

The same can be true for meetings.

Straight ball attack, "Don't you don't come on a blind date too much?" ”

The other party either laughs and acquiesces, or most likely says yes.

At this time, he said, "Oh, I was the same, but the result is ...... Didn't I see you? ”

Of course, provided that you really don't dislike the other person.

After that, there is no specific way to chat.

It's to talk about your own situation first, don't talk about your shortcomings and work complaints.

The main thing is to arouse the other party's desire to speak.

For example, ask you what your job is, and then follow her work down, or life, or parents urging marriage or something like that.

Then say something like "Wow, that's hard, the boss thief hates balabala".

The main thing in communication is to arouse the other party's desire to speak.

If you can get to this point, here's the end.

When I sent her home, I asked directly, "Do you think I hate it?" As for the next time I ask you out, will I still ask you out? It's okay, I can handle it. ”

Generally, if you don't say you like it, as long as you don't hate it, the other party will agree.

After that, it's time to strike while the iron is hot.

Behind?

The back is gone.

If there is a back, I haven't been able to go on a blind date dozens of times?

The main thing is that it's troublesome, and I basically didn't strike while the iron was hot, but went to code words every day.

Code word mistake me!

So don't say anything, let's have a subscription and a monthly pass after 12 o'clock tonight, hehehe......

By the way, everyone above can just watch it, after all....... This is a "Blind Date Pointing North" for a man who is almost twenty-eight years old before the blind date has not succeeded.