After saying goodbye to Yiyi, Sun Yimin went to find the goddess to go on a date without intention, and during the date, he tentatively proposed to her to go out for a walk tomorrow, invite her to dinner by the way, and then watch a movie or something.

It had been some time since the four of them met after the last duel with Murong, and he missed and longed to see Zhang Xinyao's beautiful face again. He also hopes that his relationship with her can break through the boundaries of the virtual world as soon as possible and progress into reality.

However, Zhang Xinyao refused his invitation: "I don't really want to go." I still like to stay in the game. ”

In a cold sentence, this result was beyond Sun Yimin's expectations.

This way of refusing seems a bit blunt, and there is not even an excuse, it is straightforward. If she just said "I'm not available tomorrow", then Sun Yimin can also propose "make an appointment the day after tomorrow". But she didn't even give it such a chance. Such an attitude seems to reveal that Zhang Xinyao has a sense of coldness and arrogance.

He thought that with his handsome appearance and through his interactions in the game world for a while, Zhang Xinyao should have a good impression of him, but in fact, Zhang Xinyao did show some enthusiasm for him in the game world. On this basis, he made a realistic offer to her, and it stands to reason that he should not be refused.

But Zhang Xinyao's refusal seems to indicate that she has no idea about him, nor does she have any idea of having a realistic relationship with him. And in the game world, her little enthusiasm for him seems to be only out of gratitude for his help.

For a while, his confidence took a few hits. Thinking of his mother's entrustment and his goal of coming to Shenzhen, my mood was even more gloomy.

The pessimism caused him to have no intention of continuing the game, and he got up and walked out of the room and sat on the couch in a daze.

glanced at Liu Ronghua, thinking that he had a flowery love life, but he didn't even get the opportunity to date the girl he liked, and he couldn't help but feel a little lonely in his heart. I couldn't help but let out a long sigh.

Liu Ronghua seemed to sense that he was in a low mood, so he asked with concern: "You don't go to play games to accompany your goddess, but what are you doing sitting here?" ”

Sun Yimin said: "It's boring, it's not interesting. ”

"What's wrong?"

Sun Yimin hesitated for a moment and told the truth about the rejection of the invitation.

Hearing this, Liu Ronghua just smiled faintly.

Put down the mouse and turned the office chair to Sun Yimin, and said: "I said earlier, most girls are slow-burning. This is especially true for a girl like her, who is beautiful and has a somewhat cold personality. If she refuses to let you go on a date, it means that you haven't been able to impress her enough, and you still need to keep trying. ”

"I'm trying, so I try to invite her out on a date." Sun looked aggrieved.

"You're not focusing your efforts on the right thing." Liu Ronghua said, lit a cigarette, and exhaled a puff of dark gray smoke, with an unfathomable expression.

"What do you mean?" Sun asked.

Liu Ronghua explained: "To some extent, dating is something that is done after the relationship between the two people is confirmed, and it is a way for couples to express their feelings. Or at least what she is willing to do with you after she has some feelings for you. The premise here is that she has feelings or feelings for you before she is willing to date you. But it's clear that, judging by her current attitude towards you, your relationship hasn't reached this stage yet. So, the focus of your efforts should not be on forcibly inviting her out on a date, but on how to qualify to date her. ”

Sun Yimin looked ignorant and listened quietly.

Liu Ronghua continued: "It is undeniable that the main purpose of you asking her out is because you like her, you want to see her, be with her, and even hold her hand and kiss her mouth, right? In short, you are here to relieve your lovesickness. ”

Sun Yimin was silent and acquiesced.

Liu Ronghua said again: "You ask her out to meet her, maybe it can relieve your own lovesickness." But you can't get carried away by the sensuality in your heart, and don't forget that your current task is to impress her and make her like you. Instead of rushing to forcibly kiss Fangze. ”

Sun raised his head and asked puzzledly: "If you can ask her out, you can also enhance your mutual affection by getting along with her face-to-face." Isn't this also to impress her? ”

Liu Ronghua smiled: "This doesn't have much effect. Think about it, even if she promised you to come out on a date with you today, what can you do with her? ”

"Eating, watching movies, shopping, chatting......"

"In my opinion, having a meal together, watching a movie, going shopping, and talking, these don't mean much. It's hard for a girl to be attracted to you because of this. ”

"Really?" Sun Yimin shrugged his shoulders, "So what is the more effective means?" ”

"I've stressed before that in order to impress a girl, you have to have a transactional environment where you can interact with her. For example, if you are a colleague in the company, she encounters difficulties in her work and life, and you help her solve the difficulties with your own talents and efforts. For example, you have worked together for a work project in the company and have achieved success through a lot of hardships, and in the process you have not only shown your strengths, talents, abilities, but also built a good impression of each other with her. In short, only in such an environment where you have been together for a long time and interact with each other, it is possible for her to slowly develop feelings for you. ”

"But the problem is that in reality, I obviously don't have such conditions, and at present, she and I can only be regarded as netizens." Sun Dao. Spread his hands.

"That's right, so the only way for you to pursue it is to stay in the game and get along with her. And, it's also the most effective way. The interactive effect in the game world environment is not inferior to the real environment. ”

"So, I'll just continue to soak her in the game, and I don't have to ask her out again, what does that mean?" Sun asked.

"Hmm. In the gaming world, though, you also have to pay attention to the method. You have to do something constructive instead of spending all day with her on dates and chatting and completing daily tasks. At best, you create a little bit of conflict, get her into some trouble, and then you step in and help her out. The process is the easiest to touch the hearts of girls. ”

"What contradiction and how to create it?" Sun asked.

"For example, does she have enemies? Let her enemies her, and then you use your abilities to stand up for her and relieve her anger. Wait a minute...... You think along these lines. ”

"That seems to make sense, huh...... I'll have time to think about it. Sun Yimin paused and asked again: "But there is one thing I don't quite understand. ”

"You say."

"I've been with her for so long in the game, I've built a good image for myself, and I've done so many things for her, why doesn't she have a little bit of a heart for me?"

"There may be a little bit of excitement, but it's not enough for her to agree to a realistic date with you alone."

"Then why would she want to date me in the game world?" Sun asked.

"There is a fundamental difference between a game's dating and a real-life dating. Dating in the game is just a quest activity to increase intimacy and gain experience. Intimacy is just a virtual number, not a real emotion. The game system allocates 3 times a day to each player.,In the past, in addition to dating Yue'er.,Because the number of times is not exhausted.,I will also find someone else to date.,The main purpose is to get some experience points.。 For example, my sister and I have also dated, can you say that we are in love? I also have a high level of intimacy with her, but do you say she likes me? ”

"That's right." Sun Yimin nodded, sighed, and said, "It seems that this Zhang Xinyao is a little cold and arrogant. It's hard to chase. ”

"That's right, in addition to her arrogant personality, Zhang Xinyao is beautiful, and there are many people chasing her in her daily life, so she will inevitably be arrogant to boys."

"Why is she always single when so many people are pursuing her?" Sun asked.

"I heard Lin Chunhong say that my sister has a quirk. This quirk causes her to scare away a lot of suitors. ”

"What quirks?" Sun asked.

"Honghong told me one thing: there was a boy in Zhang Xinyao's company before, who had good conditions in all aspects, and among the people who chased her, he was relatively close to success. She had dated her a few times. But once because of a trivial matter, she said goodbye to him. ”

"What happened?" Sun asked.

It was said that one night, the two came back from a date, and the man asked for some ambiguous requests, but she refused on the spot. Then the man may still be obsessed with love, and he is unwilling, so he tries to forcibly kiss her (maybe they haven't reached this step before), but she refuses, and the man goes away in anger and ignores her for the next few days. Unexpectedly, Zhang Xinyao did even better, and since then she has cut off contact with him, and even changed companies. So that the man can never find her again. ”

Sun Yimin exclaimed: "This ...... It's a bit of an overreaction! ”

"Therefore, to deal with such a girl, you need to be patient, pay attention to methods, and never be in a hurry."