It has been proven that once a person gets used to good times, a sudden failure will cause him to suffer twice as much damage as the average person. People who grow up in good times tend to be less resistant in the face of adversity. This is a kind of mental illness, which has a scientific name in Xiuzhen psychology, which is called: Aikun syndrome.

Specifically, it can be manifested as: blind self-confidence, for some favorite things or habitual things, they often think with reverse thinking that is completely different from ordinary people (in popular terms, it is to lose fairness and rationality), and they also have one of the biggest characteristics is that they like to get to the bottom of it.

For example, after seeing the scientific name "Aikun syndrome", I immediately opened a search engine to search for it (here, Pipi Dry warm reminder: no need to search, this scientific name is made up by me).

And this symptom is actually a lot, the specific performance can be reflected in some fanatical star chasers, they tend to turn a blind eye to some of the shortcomings of their idols and do not allow others to say half a more "no", and then strive to carry forward their brain spirit to infinitely amplify the advantages of idols.

For another example, I was in a well-known large-scale national idol variety show laundry and dishwashing show "Idol Practice".

Qin Zong has watched an episode of this show, and the program process is to recruit good-looking boys from all over the country to go on the show and use singing and dancing to DJoy, wash dishes, and rub the washboard...... In all kinds of housework that seems to have no sense of beauty, combined with his own body dance to develop the truth, goodness and beauty between the soul and the body......

At that time, there was such a discussion that attracted the attention of the whole network.

In the last part of the finals, the fans of the two idols with similar votes were canvassing online.

"Why don't you vote for my little brother, what's there to vote for that big bowl of noodles? My brother is so good, not to mention that he is white and beautiful, and he can also play basketball in suspenders. ”

"I didn't shoot because he didn't have good basketball skills, his movements were too stiff, and I didn't like him."

"But he's white-skinned and beautiful, and he can play basketball in suspenders! There are many people who are not good at basketball, but have you ever seen a white-skinned and beautiful player who still plays basketball in suspenders? Do you have what it takes to wear a bib to play basketball? ”

"No, you're not talking about the point! The point is that the skill of playing basketball is not good! ”

"What's that? Isn't this a draft? Don't choose the best-looking one, but also choose the one with good technology? You're just jealous of my little brother's beauty! I also play basketball in my bib pants! ”

"You are stupid, of course the talent show is to choose the all-round development of morality, intelligence, physical fitness, beauty and labor!"

"! You're stupid! Do you know how hard it is to play basketball in bib pants! My little brother also has to prevent the strap on his shoulder from falling off at any time, which will affect the aesthetic minus! ”

“……”

"Hehe, I knew you were a fool! I like the big bowl of noodles and I don't like my bib pants! Do you know how hard my little brother insisted on playing basketball despite a fever of 60 degrees in suspenders? ”

……

In short, Aikun syndrome is such a terrible symptom, blindly making up for shortcomings psychologically, thinking that what you "believe" must be the most perfect, such a psychology will cause great trouble to yourself and others.

Not to mention others, if you don't accept any reasonable and well-intentioned criticism, you may often be besieged collectively and be hacked even worse...... There has always been a popular saying on the Internet called "fan behavior, idol pays", and excessive expression of one's love often ushers in more radical mass discussion.

Then there is this kind of mentality, for himself, the best example at the moment is He Zhanlong himself.

He Zhanlong is not only competitive, but also a perfectionist who has grown up in good times, and he certainly won't just accept his defeat. And he lost to the freshman "Wang Ling" who had been trying to teach a lesson before and was not optimistic.

Fortunately, most people in the Xiuzhen circle do not have overly fanatical star-chasing behavior, so once the "Ai Kun syndrome" appears, most of them will appear in the person himself.

This kind of person will not allow himself to fail, which will lead to greater psychological pressure, and once the psychological load is exceeded, there will be the situation that Gu Shunzhi is most worried about, that is, "blackening......

Of course, in fact, there is also a child and sister disease of "Aikun syndrome", called "Ellie syndrome". The onset of Ellie syndrome is much simpler, and the most popular thing for such patients to do is to wear other people's clothing.

Although the pathological response is completely different, the cure method for these two diseases is the same, that is, the care of others is needed to carry out spiritual transformation......

After making up his mind to help He Zhanlong regulate his psychology, Qin Zong asked his younger brother and grandmother to start the establishment of the "Kuakua Group".

Qin Zong agreed to He Zhanlong, and his voice was very high, and his status among the new students was now also echoed.

Of course, the biggest reason is that Qin Zong is now everyone's creditor......

Basically, the freshmen who participated in the exchange meeting this time, except for the students of Sixty and Beiqinglong, still owed him the credits of the loan......

A crowd of 100 built by all the participating students.

At this time, He Zhanlong had not yet joined.

Qin Zong asked about the latest situation.

He Zhanlong was swiping his mobile phone in the room, looking like he was not in a good mood, his face was dark and blue with dark circles under his eyes, and from time to time there would be the behavior of picking at the wall with his fingernails, the kind that would not stop if he didn't pick the bleeding......

"It seems that the blackening is already very serious." Qin Zong sighed.

Self-injurious behavior is also one of the obvious manifestations of "Aikun syndrome".

"Are you all ready?" In the group, Qin Zong asked.

"It's OK! Just waiting for He Zhanlong to come in! ”

"Brother Wang, don't worry! You're all set! ”

"We've got the wording ready! Brother pigeon rest assured! ”

“……”

Soon, a large number of people responded.

"That's good! Now bring He Zhanlong in......" Qin Zong looked at the screen and nodded.

Dozens of seconds later, the system prompted: He Zhanlong joined the chat group......

He Zhanlong was depressed at this moment, but he was suddenly pulled into a chat group, he was a little strange.

"What kind of group is this?" He Zhanlong asked.

Immediately, a large number of people replied.

"A group that loves you dearly!"

"Wow! Your avatar is so pretty! ”

"This newcomer's nickname is so nice, can I imitate one! Hezhanlong, such a quintessential and unpretentious name, is very artistic! ”

"In the face of this unknown group, the courage of the little brother to ask questions is really rare!"

"......" He Zhanlong.

"! Awesome! Little brother's ellipsis, like a string of black onyx, dazzling, round, shiny! ”

"......" He Zhanlong.

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