Qi Feng, 35 years old this year, is a businessman.

Chu Sisi had previously told Mu Chun during the case discussion that the patient did not come alone, he came to the hospital with his wife for treatment, saying that his wife was irritable. Qi Feng saw a guest in the variety show and said that if there were any unpleasant problems, he could go to the physical and mental health department, so he accompanied his wife Li to the hospital.

Mu Chun was not in the hospital at the time, and Chu Sisi told Qi Feng that he was just an intern, and if they didn't mind, they could sit down and talk.

Qi Feng is a man who looks very decent, well-dressed but not deliberate, he seems to be a well-educated person, according to his own words, he also graduated from a prestigious university majoring in architecture, has been engaged in the building materials business, and his family conditions are getting better and better.

The husband and wife are very literate in speaking, although they know that Chu Sisi is an intern, but after discussing it, the two decided to sit down and talk for a while. This is the first treatment.

Leigh did seem a little irritated at the time, she spoke quickly, but from time to time she would deny her claims, saying things like, 'Probably still my problem'.

At this time, Qi Feng patted his wife on the shoulder and said very fondly, "It's okay, we will communicate slowly, and we will all get better, you just have too high requirements for yourself." In Chu Sisi's opinion, Qi Feng is a bit like Chen Weiwei, with a successful career and patience with his wife. ”

When Mu Chun asked who proposed to come to the hospital to have a look, Chu Sisi told Mu Chun that it was Qi Feng who proposed it.

The main focus of the discussion was that his wife, Leigh, often felt lonely.

"When we got married, I was still taking exams and hadn't graduated yet, but I wanted to go to graduate school, but I was already working, and I met Qi Feng because of my work."

When Li spoke, her eyes revealed her admiration for her husband, and Chu Sisi saw it in her eyes and felt that a man like Qi Feng was indeed the kind that was easier for people to fall in love with.

"Then, I was busy studying, and my husband was busy with business, but he always took time to spend time with me, I mean the kind of very considerate companionship, such as driving me to school, where I went to school is far from home, usually 45 minutes by car, my husband always took time out to drop me off at school, and then prepared lunch for me, saying that if I didn't want to have lunch with my classmates, I would just eat the bento he prepared for me."

Sounds like he's very good at taking care of people.

"When I got out of class, he would show up at the school gate on time to pick me up, which made many students very envious at that time."

When Li said this, Qi Feng showed a very fond look to her again, "No, these are all things I should do." ”

Then Li suddenly became unhappy, frustrated and angry, and said: "But then it was not right, I mean now, now he is very busy, very busy, although he still takes good care of me, I don't know, my statements may be a bit excessive, I really don't know, so ......"

"You say it slowly, everyone will have some emotions that can't be avoided, it's okay, we may be better if we talk about it." Chu Sisi comforted, she found that Li did look very unhappy, her tears swirling in her eyes, and she wanted to fall at any moment.

"But maybe these are my reasons, it's that I'm too demanding of him, and I also understand that we've been married for four or five years, and I can't ask him to treat me all the time like he did when I first fell in love and when I first got married."

"My wife has a little princess temper, please forgive me for that." Qi Feng said very politely.

"My princess's temper? Do you think it's temper? ”

Li turned to look at Qi Feng, Qi Feng hurriedly shook his hand like a child who wanted to do something wrong, "No, no, I mean, you were originally a princess, and you are the eternal princess in my heart." ”

"When I got married, I didn't think it was false at all, but now I feel a little unreal when I hear it."

Qi Feng shrugged his shoulders helplessly, the two of them felt as if Chen Weiwei was coaxing Zhang Mei, and his mother often couldn't help but lose her temper because of the headache in the case at hand, at this time, Chen's father was very patient with his mother, and always encouraged her to say, "It's okay, take your time, I'll help you see how to solve it." ”

In Chu Sisi's view, this is a necessary communication between husband and wife, this kind of tantrum and pampering complement each other, and it is a way for both parties to get along.

Li bit her lip and said to Chu Sisi, "Doctor, I think there is a little problem between us, maybe it has something to do with the child. ”

"Don't talk nonsense." Qi Feng suddenly grabbed Li's hand, and Li pulled out her hand, as if she was determined to tell Chu Sisi about the grievances in her heart.

"Maybe because I don't want to have children, my husband is a little cold to me."

Chu Sisi felt that she might have asked some questions about the life of the couple at this time, but she didn't know how to ask, for fear that everyone would feel embarrassed.

"There is no such thing, why do you have to attribute everything to the child, I have told you many times, it has nothing to do with the child, it is your pressure that is too much, if you plan to work in Europe, I said that I support you, you don't think that we are often unhappy because of our children's problems because we are hesitant and unable to make up our minds on work issues."

"Why can you talk nonsense with your eyes so open? Didn't your parents keep urging us to have a baby? But I'm still young, and I don't think it's something we should have to deal with right now. ”

"So this is your princess's temper, I always feel that what you think is right, okay, okay, let's talk well, there is a doctor here today, we can make the problem clear, I will say first, I swear, I did not ask my wife to have a child, I like you, do you want to have a child, this matter will not affect my feelings for you."

Li cried and laughed, and said, "You really swear? ”

Qi Feng raised his hand solemnly, "I can say the same thing to anyone. ”

"Is it the same even in front of your parents?"

Leigh still couldn't believe it.

"Of course, I don't think my parents are the kind of people who are unreasonable and vexatious in this regard. My wife and my marriage are all my business, why should you care so much about what they think, and I don't know how they urged us to have children, or if I have amnesia? ”

The two sounded like they were arguing, but Qi Feng had been letting his wife go all the time.

"I think your loneliness is because you are too demanding of yourself, why can't you be a wife with peace of mind? You can live like a princess, go out every morning to drink a cup of coffee, and then go shopping, you can buy whatever you want, although the money at home is not rich, but you don't have to be careful to spend some money every day, I give you a credit card, I will pay you back the money for you every month, in the afternoon, you can find a girlfriend to drink afternoon tea like other girls, there are so many good places around the sea, there are delicacies everywhere, or you can go on a trip, you can go anywhere. ”

"When it comes to traveling, I have a headache and I'm unhappy." Li looked at Chu Sisi and said, "Really, I feel more uncomfortable when it comes to traveling, but you know what? I don't think I can do this, I can't complain, because most of the family's income is earned back by Qi Feng, I can't complain that he doesn't accompany me on trips, in short, I feel that all my troubles, I can't eat, I can't sleep well, it's all because he doesn't have time to spend with me. ”

"I've been with you as much as I can."

"No, you don't, since you started opening branches in other cities, I often think that my husband is a workaholic, I used to think that you are a man who manages your time very well, and now, I feel that you manage your time by reducing the time you spend with me, and I am the unimportant person who has been shrunk and shrunk again."

"It's not like you said at all, if I really don't care about you and don't want to be by your side, why do I still propose that we come to the hospital to talk to the doctor, why do I care so much about your feelings, you have to know that when you talk about loneliness, it is a kind of harm to me at all."

"I'm sorry."

Li suddenly burst into tears, as if she had really hurt Qi Feng.

At this time, Qi Feng stretched out his hand to hold his wife, and put his wife's hand between his hands, and the two showed "affection" in front of Chu Sisi.

Chu Sisi really didn't think there was any problem between the two of them.

According to her knowledge, couples therapy is a type of family therapy that usually deals with problems that originate in the family system, such as emotional communication difficulties in both partners, or the belief that one partner has a personality disorder in the other.

Generally speaking, people are more reluctant to treat couples, and one of them wants to ask for help, but it is often not easy to talk to the other party, and it is still taboo to talk to the doctor about such things.

For thousands of years, the culture formed by the people of this land has always been - the ugliness of the family is not publicized.

No matter what happens at home, most people will always say that the home is good, the husband is good to them, and the wife is also very gentle. In fact, there may have been a cold war between the two for several years.

Chu Si thought about Zhang Mei and Chu Xiaofeng, in the eyes of outsiders, Professor Chu is becoming more and more prestigious in the academic world, he is a doctor and a university professor, such a husband is already very good.

Zhang Mei himself loves the profession of lawyer very much, it can be said that he is conscientious, and the wealth accumulation in his family is also very good.

No one would have thought that Chu Xiaofeng and Zhang Mei would divorce in the end.

And the reason Chu Sisi has not been very clear until now, she once wondered if it was because of her that her parents would gradually become indifferent.

Or because of work, when he was young, Chu Sisi even thought that if two people didn't have to work, if there was no "work" in the world, would the relationship between parents be like those happy families on TV?

There are family meals out every week, and there will be family trips every month or every holiday, but Chu Sisi's childhood did not have these, parents respect each other, but the relationship is very cold, almost living their own life.

If Professor Chu didn't say it, Chu Sisi didn't say it, and Zhang Mei didn't say it, no one would doubt that this family was one of the thousands of happy families in the world, but in fact they were not happy.

It wasn't until after her parents separated that Chu Sisi saw Zhang Mei's happiness, and only then did she see her father Chu Xiaofeng showing a relaxed expression, she still didn't understand what was going on for a long time, and even thought that it was probably because she didn't have to take care of this daughter together.

Under normal circumstances, outsiders will not be involved in this kind of conflict between families.

Qi Feng was able to take the initiative to bring his wife to the hospital, which made Chu Sisi feel that he cared about Li very much, because his father Chu Xiaofeng had not tried to understand his mother's mood, at least he had not considered some methods to re-harmonize the relationship between the two.

Leigh also seems to feel a little vexatious, but her loneliness is real.

"I think it all started when you started busy with the outside business." Li's focus changed from her parents urging them to have children to Qi Feng's business outside.

"When you know me, I was in the building materials business, the demand for building materials around the sea over the years is not as good as in previous years, this is caused by market changes, but the demand for building materials around me is indeed growing, do I look at the opportunity to make money and not work hard, which makes it more and more difficult to do business in the sea waiting year after year?"

"But your peers, I mean, your friends don't have to go out for business so often." Li raised her hand to wipe her tears, Chu Sisi was about to hand her a copy So far, Qi Feng has been wiping his wife's tears.

"Don't cry, you know, I'm working so hard for you, for this family, I can earn a little more money and you can live more comfortably, this is my promise to you, isn't it?"

"I know, so, I ...... I'm sorry, I don't know what to say, maybe we shouldn't have come to the hospital today, I feel so ashamed. ”

Li turned her face and no longer looked at Chu Sisi, who didn't know how to progress......

"Next time, we can talk separately." Mu Chun gave Chu Sisi such advice.

The follow-up appointment was at 10 a.m. the next day.

Mu Chun looked at Deng Moran and roughly sketched the possible outline of the whole thing in his heart.

The most obvious thing is that Deng Moran and Li, one of them is definitely not Qi Feng's wife in the legal sense.

Bigamy is illegal, would a man with a successful career like Qi Feng marry two wives in a grand manner knowing that it is illegal?

If everyone is not lying, what is the truth of the matter?

Mu Chun promised Deng Moran that she could give her an answer to this matter the next day, and she could go home and wait for the call.

Deng Moran didn't accept this solution at first, until Mu Chun told her that Qi Feng might have really come to the hospital, Deng Moran looked at Mu Chun blankly, looking a little dazed, and finally, she said, "I hope you guys have made a mistake." ”

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