Although the child is small, he also understands that the eyes of the people around him are unfriendly, whether there is anyone around him who likes him, whether the people around him hate him, this feeling is sometimes clear in the child's heart.

Later, Mu Chun told Xie Chunping and Li Xiaoyun that the child would not divide all kinds of feelings very carefully, and the child would only rush to be "abandoned".

Neglect by adults, parents leaving their children with the elderly, or parents yelling or even scolding their children.

Children can't think of too many complicated emotions, but they will feel abandoned.

This feeling will follow the child for a lifetime, and many will not change for many years after adulthood.

When you grow up, this feeling of abandonment will grow into a certain people-pleasing personality.

Because they are afraid of being abandoned, they always try to do a lot of things well, and always hope that the people around them think they are good, and such a life will be a very tiring life.

And all the carelessness of the parents, it is the children who bear everything.

Li Xiaoyun finally quieted down after listening to Mu Chun's words, and Mu Chun's voice softened, "It's really difficult, whether it's now or in the future, there are many, many things to face, but everyone can face it together." ”

"Tell me, what the hell is sick." Li Xiaoyun stretched out his right hand to wipe away his tears.

"It's supposed to be [Tourette's], a neurological disease with hereditary inheritance."

After Mu Chun finished speaking, Li Xiaoyun was confused, "I don't understand the doctor, so you just tell me how to treat it, what medicine to buy or to do some infrared physiotherapy or something?" ”

"There are no targeted drugs."

Mu Chun replied.

"No?"

"Yes, no."

"Actually, we met last time in the concert hall, do you remember?" Mu Chun reminded Li Xiaoyun.

Only then did she realize that there was indeed such a thing. This doctor did see Xie Xiaofei when she took Xie Xiaofei to listen to the final of the Lechuan National Piano Competition, and at that time she felt that this person was nosy, it turned out that the people around her said well, and he was really a doctor.

During the intermission, in the hall, Li Xiaoyun couldn't help but educate Xie Xiaofei with his temper, but was later stopped by a man.

This person is Dr. Mu Chun! That's right!

"I'm so sorry," Li Xiaoyun said, "I'm so sorry." ”

"I said that Dr. Mu Chun must have a way here, and I saw that many people on the Internet said that Dr. Mu Chun is very good." Xie Chunping praised bluntly.

Li Xiaoyun glanced at her husband from the corner of her eye, and then asked Dr. Mu Chun seriously, "What should I do if I don't have a special medicine?" ”

"Tourette's usually begins before puberty, but some end together at the end of puberty, and some may persist in the same problem."

"Then how do you know which kind of Xie Xiaofei our family belongs to?" Li Xiaoyun hurriedly asked.

Mu Chun understands very well the worry and pressure that parents feel when they know that their child is sick and there is no clear treatment.

When I saw Xie Xiaofei in the concert hall at that time, this sense of oppression already existed in Mu Chun's heart, and when Xie Xiaofei grew up, when he understood more people's evaluations and could understand more feelings, the world that Xie Xiaofei had to face would be very unfriendly.

"There's no way to tell." Mu Chun decided to tell the truth.

He had no way to hide it from the parents in front of them, because it seemed to make the parents feel less painful for the time being, but it didn't mean anything at all.

"So what are we going to do?" Xie Chunping grabbed Li Xiaoyun's shoulder, his fingers trembling slightly.

"First, this symptom, such as strange screams and body tremors, can occur more frequently due to emotional stress, and it is much better to try to keep your emotions calm.

Second, more exercise and physical fitness will help.

Third, family harmony, even if the child has no problems, try to maintain family harmony, in addition, slowly let him understand his own problems, this kind of problems do not affect him and every normal child, they are no different.

It is necessary to take into account in advance the inferiority complex that the child may have because of the surrounding environment, establish and protect the child's self-confidence, and parents especially cannot let the child feel that he has embarrassed his parents because of these strange things in his body, so his parents look down on him.

He's bound to have all kinds of difficulties out there, because we can't avoid or prevent them from happening, right? ”

Xie Chunping and Li Xiaoyun nodded together.

I don't know how much they understand, when they left the hospital, Li Xiaoyun secretly turned back and asked Dr. Mu Chun if he could try some drugs, Mu Chun originally wanted to prescribe her some drugs to control Tourette's disease, but Xie Xiaofei's current condition is not too serious, Mu Chun hopes that they can take the child to a follow-up visit once every half a month, and record the time when the child's symptoms are serious at home, a cycle of two weeks, and at the same time Mu Chun suggested that Li Xiaoyun communicate with the school teacher about this matter and truthfully explain the child's situation, In this way, the child may suffer less at school.

All the things that can be done in advance, Mu Chun tries to do it in advance, but whether the child will suffer outside or not, Mu Chun knows that it will be.

This matter has to be faced and borne by the family together, whether a child with Tourette's can grow into a happy and cheerful child, the influence of parents is too great.

Of course, Mu Chun also hopes that Xie Xiaofei will be able to leave the control of this disease after a good adolescence.

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That night, Mu Chun made an appointment with Mu Xiao for dinner, Mu Xiao saw that Mu Chun's expression was a little gloomy, thinking that he was worried about the professor and wanted to comfort him, but Mu Chun asked about Xiaolan Ping and the sea.

"You mean their Tourette's public welfare movie?" Mu Xiao asked.

Mu Chun nodded, put down his chopsticks and asked Mu Xiao, is the filming of this movie going well?

Mu Xiao took out her mobile phone from her bag and happily told Mu Chun, "It's great, I really didn't expect that these two children could do this to such a complete extent, I thought at first that they would simply find some patients and do some interviews, but they really used the kind of documentary shooting method that followed, I watched the version after the first edit, and I cried." ”

When she said this, Mu Xiao's eyes were red, and she seemed to be about to cry in the hotel.

"Don't cry, why are you so fragile?" Mu Chun comforted.

"What a fragility, is it good to be moved, you can see for yourself."

Mu Xiao opened the video and handed it to Mu Chun.

This initial edited version often lasted more than an hour, and Mu Chun only finished watching the story of the first patient, and he wanted to cry as a big man.

"It's really hard." Mu Chun leaned back in his chair and said.

"Yes, this girl, whose parents are divorced, lives with her mother, was ridiculed by her classmates when she was studying, and finally wanted to find a job after graduating from junior college, but she was repeatedly rejected by her boss on the grounds that you screamed like this, that your image of the company was not particularly good, or that this would affect the work of other colleagues. It's really not easy, but you see that she is so optimistic, she looks like a normal 21-year-old girl. ”

In the documentary, the girl named Liu Hui showed the sea the medicine she was taking, a shoe box with more than 20 kinds of medicine, she took out five of them, and poured the pills into the palm of her hand according to the dosage requirements on the instructions.

She reached for the camera lens and said, "Look, this is the medicine I take every day, no, it's the medicine I take every meal." ”

Liu Hui counted at the camera, "Eighteen!" She said.

"Is it useful to eat it?" The sea asked.

"What do you say? Haven't you taken these pills? Liu Hui smiled heartily.

The voice of the sea appeared in the picture, "I have eaten it for a year or two, but my mother said that it is useless, and if it is useless, it will not waste money." ”

"Hahaha, I don't know how many years I've been taking it, what you see here are more than a dozen bottles of medicine, you look at these, I don't know how to eat these medicines, what to eat, anyway, some are vitamins, some are nutritious and nerve-wise, and some are for emotional treatment - because I often be very irritable, very irritable and irritable."

Liu Hui's mother said on the side: "Yes, very irritable, it's like a nervous break." ”

The picture was still on Liu Hui's mother Liu Fangmin, but suddenly broke into Liu Hui's voice, "What do you mean by being like a neuropathy, aren't I just a neurotic?" Neuropathy neuropathy. ”

Liu Hui, who was wearing a ponytail, yelled at Liu Fangmin, while her fingers kept tapping on the tabletop, and the whole person trembled.

"Look at her, she's like this, she can't say a word, where did I say anything about her? As soon as I talked, she was angry anyway and would argue with me all day long. Liu Fangmin didn't look at Liu Hui either, nor did she look at the camera, she looked at her mobile phone and swiped Weibo.

"Don't worry, my mom and I are like that, she's not easy. Mother! You don't want to brush Weibo, what is there to brush. ”

Liu Hui roared as she spoke, and as soon as she roared, her neck twisted around, and there was a sound like teeth fighting in her mouth from time to time.

"You go back and look slowly, I'll send it to you, but I can tell you in advance, Liu Hui is still very optimistic so lucky girl, she found a job in a few days, the sea also interviewed the boss of Liu Huixin's company, the boss is also a very kind person, he said that Liu Hui is very good, is the employee that their company wants, as for this kind of small question, Liu Hui told the boss very clearly during the interview, and also gave the boss a detailed and clear explanation, the boss thinks she is very brave and honest, is the employee he wants.

Although the salary is not high, Liu Hui is very happy and says that she will buy a new dress for her mother, she has not bought new clothes for a long time. ”

"It's great, can such a movie be the first?"

Mu Chun asked with a smile.

"Not necessarily, this movie is very touching, but many public welfare movies are also very touching, and I now receive "Children of the Stars" shot by a [autism] non-profit organization, which is also very, very touching, I cried again and again, and I want to watch it again after crying."

"Autism?" Mu Chun asked.

"Yes, autism."

"I saw a child before, but the mother didn't notice the child's problem at all, she just wanted me to give her a medical certificate to prove that the child is intellectually disabled, and then, I don't know what she wants to do."

Mu Chun thought of Fang Jia and her daughter, that child looked likely to be an [autistic] child.

"If parents don't pay attention, or treat their children's problems in an unscientific way, then it must be the children who suffer, and many of them are really a lifetime."

Mu Xiao's expression was very solemn.

The problem of children has always been a big concern for psychologists.

"That's right", Mu Xiao said again, "Help me think of a name, Xiao Lanping said that she and the sea were about to quarrel, and she didn't think of a name that both of them thought would be suitable, so she wanted to ask me to help think about it, and I didn't know what to name." The name of the documentary is still more important, it is best to let everyone know what the theme of the movie is from the title, and there can also be a little positive energy, it must be positive, and it is best to be more beautiful. ”

Mu Chun looked at Mu Xiao and snapped his fingers, and then, he smiled and said, "This is really very demanding." ”

"You can figure it out, I know Mu Chun has a little wisdom."

"In terms of names, I think our parents are probably more powerful, Mu Chun, Mu Xiao, what do you think."

Mu Chun made a joke, but in his mind he was thinking about finding a suitable name for this movie, this movie is very touching, and it also tells everyone about a disease that few people know about - Tourette's disease.

But these young Tourette's patients are so energetic, for example, Dahai himself is also a musician, often participates in various music performances, and gradually has some fame in the circle.

"Did you think of it?" Mu Xiao urged.

"If I think of it, it's called "Proper Happiness". Mu Chun said.

"Proper happiness?" Mu Xiao repeated, and then a beautiful smile bloomed on her face, and suddenly light and shadow flowed in her eyes, as if there were tears, but they were tears of joy.

"Good name." She said.

"Then ask Dahai and Xiao Lanping if they like it, they shoot documentaries, only they know best what is the most suitable. Do I need to think of another backup? Mu Chun asked again.

"I think this name is fine, why do you even have a name Plan B, Plan C is like this, Mu Chun's real bad habits will not change." Mu Xiao deliberately laughed at him.

"If you have bad habits, it's really hard to change, I seem to have some bad memories, so I may have to be more careful in the future, and think about everything." Mu Chun rubbed his forehead, thinking of the strange words that Hong Ling said a few days ago, but as soon as he thought of those words, Mu Chun's head hurt a little.

"What's wrong with you?" Mu Xiao touched Mu Chun's forehead with concern, "There is no fever!" ”