Chapter 589: Between Discussing and Not Negotiating

"I have a patient who is in a very similar situation to you, but it is uncertain whether the specific fear can still find the source for the time being, and many people have OCD for years, but it is still fresh and new.

Some patients have been separated by months, years or even more than ten years from the first appearance of the disease to the time when they come to the hospital for treatment, and many things will change over time, and the initial trigger for the disease may have disappeared, or it has become something that the patient himself cannot remember, and some may still not be real, and may not be able to figure it out even if he peels back the cocoon.

Psychologists are confronted with this kind of problem like paleontologists studying a fossil that has been around for tens of thousands of years, and it is not only difficult, but also likely to find nothing. ”

"Frustration." Li Nan said, "The frustration of psychosomaticians may be strong. ”

"Almost all doctors deal with frustration, so you should have heard the saying, 'Sometimes healing, sometimes caring, always comforting.'" However, let's figure out how to find a way together and study hard. How long did you come back and walk around the sea this time? ”

"It won't take more than three months at most, and I'll be back at the institute before the next round of drug trials begins."

"Okay, I have a patient, maybe you can participate in the treatment together, the patient is a sophomore in high school, the symptoms are very severe at the moment, she told me two days ago that she has not washed her hair for more than thirty days."

"This!"

"You've had a lot longer time than she did." Mu Chun smiled deliberately, and the atmosphere in the outpatient room was a little more relaxed.

"But she could also develop to the point where she could be as serious as me." Li Nan said as he touched his hair, and then grimaced at Mu Chun.

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After a week of trying, Li Xiaoyun was desperate again.

She looked at Xie Xiaofei, who was sitting on the sofa watching TV, full of anger.

Xie Chunping was afraid that she would beat the child again, so he could only rely on Li Xiaoyun in everything, and when he came back from work, he bought her a bunch of food she liked.

"Wife, you see I bought you a chocolate cake, and an egg tart, this egg tart was bought by me in line, what matcha cheese flavored egg tart, the queue is very long, the most popular Internet celebrity egg tart is it recently, you see there is also your favorite puff, and also, I also bought you your favorite cheese oolong milk tea, slightly sugar."

As soon as Xie Chunping got home, he coaxed Li Xiaoyun to be happy, pushed Li Xiaoyun from the living room to the bedroom, and then put the cake and milk tea on the computer table, and said to Li Xiaoyun: "Wife, I will take Xiaofei to read a book or something at night, you don't have to worry about it, you have to prepare more videos during the Chinese New Year, you record early after eating, rest early after recording, and I will bring my son." ”

These foods are indeed very suitable for Li Xiaoyun's daily appetite, but now she is not in the mood to eat those things, she just wants to ask Xie Chunping, "Will you go back to your hometown for the New Year?" ”

"Why do you have to go back?" Xie Chunping asked aggrievedly.

"Because I want this kid to live in your hometown for a while, and a change of environment might help him." Li Xiaoyun said.

Xie Chunping is reluctant in his heart, Li Xiaoyun has never mentioned going back to Xie Chunping's hometown to see it after all these years of marriage, and Xie Chunping himself doesn't want to go back, this suddenly said that he will take the child back to his hometown, of course his parents will not object, they must be happy to see their grandson, but Xie Xiaofei's situation, the old couple is afraid that they will feel uncomfortable when they see it.

Speaking of which, Xie Xiaofei is definitely good-looking, but this weird problem that can't be changed is not forgotten in big cities, everyone thinks that children are not normal at most, and ordinary people will not think about messy places.

This would be wrong if he was in his hometown, Xie Chunping thought that when he would go home when he was in college, his cousin who was tied to the room by his family with a chain of dogs, Xie Chunping's heart was full of thorns.

"Don't do it, don't go back."

Xie Chunping was almost begging his wife Li Xiaoyun for mercy.

"Absolutely not, I definitely want to go back, I will set off on the second day of the new year, if this child is still not good, I will not take him back to the sea."

"Wife, don't be in such a hurry."

Li Xiaoyun was not in a hurry, not so much anxious, but more desperate now, a thought that she didn't even think of herself and didn't know when it had taken root in her heart.

Now, Li Xiaoyun feels that this home is like an abandoned castle overgrown with weeds, and Xie Xiaofei is the cursed devil in the castle.

Where he still has the slightest childlike appearance, he is a devil who comes to torment her through and through.

And what about Xie Chunping? It seems that such a thing is not taken to heart at all.

Thinking of this, Li Xiaoyun sneered, raised his head, and said to Xie Chunping clearly word by word: "I really don't understand, is it so incredible that I want to go to your hometown?" Are you that embarrassed? ”

Li Xiaoyun's words, Xie Chunping had no way to answer.

Is it wrong to go back to your hometown?

No!

Is it wrong to take your son home with you to see your parents?

No!

My wife said that she was going to her hometown for the New Year.

So when Li Xiaoyun asked Xie Chunping like this, Xie Chunping couldn't think of a way to scold Li Xiaoyun in addition to being silently painful in his heart.

"Look, our son, I'm good to him, he is scolded by the teacher every day, do you think he has face? From time to time, someone in the parent group chatted with me privately, telling me what happened to my son today, do you think I still want to be faced?

The health products I bought for him are not cheap, does he take them on time, do you think of taking the medicine to him every day?

No! What did you do? You don't do anything.

I spent more than 10,000 yuan for him to participate in [Quantum Wave Speed], for what? In order to make his brain better, even if his behavior habits are not good, your brain is good, the calculation speed is fast, and the grades are good, and the teacher can't say anything about you.

Even if the teacher says him, I can proudly reply to the teacher, at least our family's grades are not bad, just play more, it will be good if you are older.

But what? He couldn't hold on to the class for a week, and as a result, other parents in the camp asked for a refund, saying that the child was seriously affecting their children's learning.

It's more than 10,000 yuan, it's only a week's class, and you can earn more than 10,000 yuan a month. ”

"You're right." Xie Chunping was said to have lost his temper, as if his son's problem was that he was guilty.

But this logic seems to be deeply ingrained in Li Xiaoyun's mind, and Xie Chunping has no choice.

His mind was full of buzzing sounds, and he only felt that if he continued like this, he would have a stroke sooner or later.