Whether it is mental distress caused by physical illness, or self-harm, domestic violence, abuse, inattention and other behaviors caused by physical illness, or other aspects of the induction, such as public opinion guidance, news, online media communication, etc.

The social life attributes of a person determine that behind every symptom of a person requires the meticulous care of a psychologist, and constantly looking for and adjusting the treatment plan in the treatment.

Sometimes, the treatment will be difficult or even regressive, and sometimes it is necessary to refer other doctors for assistance in time, all of which are difficult to avoid completely, and more often, the first thing that the psychosologist needs to solve is the patient's doubts and confidence.

If the patient does not have confidence, and the patient does not believe that your work will help him, then the treatment is at best a piece of wishful thinking.

No matter how wishful thinking the doctor carries out the treatment, the patient is vigilant or unbelieving, which is always putting the cart before the horse, and it is a drop in the bucket.

Every patient's situation is different, and sometimes what doctors need to do is to allow enough time not to push the patient, let alone rush the patient.

Li Mu's current situation is like this, after more than a minute, Li Mu drank the whole cup of coffee, and after drinking all the coffee, the twelve ice cubes have not completely melted.

Li Mu took a deep breath, and then said, "I'm afraid that I will be very impulsive, and I will quarrel with my wife." ”

After Li Mu finished speaking, his face was a little ugly, full of self-blame, and his right hand, which was clenched into a fist, trembled slightly, sometimes better and sometimes more serious, it could be seen that Li Mu was trying to control his emotions.

"Well, we had a fight last night?" Mu Chun tried to ask.

"Yes, I had a quarrel last night, and I quarreled again this morning, she threw all the bags I bought for her on the ground, as well as the shoes, lipstick, cosmetics, and many, many clothes I bought for her, she likes those luxury and broken items, I always buy them for her, but she doesn't seem to cherish them, every time she quarrels, she throws whatever is expensive, I think it's not good, but I can't help it, because my temper doesn't seem to be controllable, I'm not like this, I don't want to do this."

Li Mu let go of his clenched fists, propped his elbows on the table, and held his forehead with his palms, rubbing his right forehead while shaking his head again and again.

"Looks like both of you can't control your tempers." Mu Chun tried to express his understanding.

Li Mu is very tired, and he has to wait for a long time to say a word, such Li Mu is not like a "star" who can participate in variety shows. Now some popular variety shows are either talk shows, or running men, at least they require the guests to be more excited, respond quickly, and can't be like Li Mu who doesn't talk at every turn.

Li Mu kept rubbing his forehead, and his eyes were red when he raised his head, "Doctor, my purpose is very simple, I don't want to quarrel anymore, I just don't want to quarrel anymore, I feel that my life is messy now, and my work is a little problematic." ”

"Because of your emotions? Your work has also been affected because of your temper problems? Mu Chun asked.

Li Mu nodded, "Yes, it should be so, I think I can't bear my temper, this is a very sinner, originally I was already going to become a shareholder of the company, but, just because of my temper, how to say, I feel too tired recently, as soon as I am tired, my temper will be even greater, and when I have a big temper, I will think not to listen to what those people who don't like it, I just want to quit, and change a company casually with my ability, even if it is from scratch." ”

, no problem. ”

"Well, I remember, have you ever participated in the program [Talent and Business], which is full of young talents in the financial industry, so are you the kind of financial industry with an annual income of one million?" Mu Chun asked with a red face and super envy.

Being praised is always a pleasure, especially if you are in line with what others are complimenting.

Li Mu raised his head, looked at Mu Chun, his shoulders swayed back and forth, his previous anxiety was slightly relieved, and said: "Indeed, I participated in that show, and there were many doctoral students from the Fudan Department of Economics who participated in it at that time, as well as practitioners in the financial industry who came back from studying in the UK, all under the age of 35, and after the recording of that program, I became busier." It was around that time that my relationship with my wife became a little sour. ”

"Oops?" Mu Chun frowned.

"Yes, I think I'm good to her, but she always asks many, many times if I'm just good to her. Sometimes she keeps calling me when I work late at night, and I am also very serious at work, and I don't think about anything else at all, but she is very clingy, especially to stare at me" Li Mu said, picked up the cup and wanted to take a sip of coffee, but drank a large sip of ice water.

Mu Chun said, "It's really enviable, there is a wife and a wife who is sticky, it's super enviable." But it's very clingy and irritable. ”

As soon as the words changed, Li Mu immediately nodded, as if he had seen a confidant.

"You're a well-known person, if you always think you're a man who is afraid of his wife, isn't it good?" Mu Chun asked lazily.

Li Mu dragged his forehead and shook his head again, ww. Mu Chun guessed that this was probably Li Mu's habitual action, and he would pose this pose when he was thinking about a problem or encountering something annoying.

Human beings have many postures, each representing different meanings, and these meanings are closely related to the language and culture of different places.

An individual person also has a lot of habitual actions, for example, some people will bite their nails when they are nervous, some people will purse their lips when they think about problems, some people will clench their fists when they are anxious, some people will shake their feet when they speak, and some people will touch their noses when they see girls, and there is nothing on their noses.

Fairy, it seems that Li Mu's habitual action is to rub his right wrist against the hairline.

"Yes, it's not good, but I'll forget about it, I won't say much today, it doesn't seem appropriate for a man to complain to the doctor in the hospital that his wife is sticking to himself." Li Mu raised his head, his shoulders sank, and his straight upper body bent slightly, and he finally didn't look so handsome that he couldn't do more.

Mu Chun snapped his fingers and pretended to be cheerful: "Yes, yes, especially in front of a single male doctor who said that his wife was clingy, it was really a handful of dog food sprinkled on the hospital, it was really not suitable, not suitable." ”

After speaking, Mu Chun shook his head and shook his hand again, Li Mu looked at Mu Chun like a serious doctor, but a bit like a guest in a variety show who was responsible for making appearances and being funny.

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