Chapter 417: If the Doubt Is Still in the Dark
Her game should be over, I think when she recovers, she will regret it more than now, and the blame for me will be deeper, which I don't want, but I have no choice, I have no other way to explain this matter except to deny it, and, thank you for listening to me so much, about Xu Dan, can Dr. Mu keep it a secret? ”
He Ping suddenly said a lot, it looked like he was about to leave the outpatient room, Mu believed that He Ping had told him everything he knew, and it could be seen from He Ping's account that there were many contradictions between Xu Dan's accusations.
The most significant contradiction is that Xu Dan said that He Ping violated her, and He Ping denied it.
Secondly, Xu Dan said that he only told He Ping about being violated by his uncle when he was a child, but apparently there were many sentences in the message about I was dirty and I didn't deserve happiness, and these words were not left by viewers who didn't know anything. There should be others who know a little more about Xu Dan when he was a child.
And among those who left messages, there were many people who thought of themselves because of Xu Dan's affairs, for example, some people said, [I also thought about dying countless times, but I can't do it, I can't imagine how sad my parents will be when they see me die, and I can't imagine mine, the most painful thing to love me is when I see me die, this kind of white-haired person sends black-haired people to desolation, I think that when they are gone, I should not continue to survive in this dirty world. 】
Such a message seems to be heartfelt, with a strong sense of reality and rigorous logic, and it can be inferred that some people should have understood the misfortune that happened to Xu Dan.
If there is only one such message, then it may be a coincidence, and the person who left the message thinks of his past experience to persuade Xu Dan to stop committing suicide, but in fact, there is far more than one such message.
"Alright, doctor, I'll go first." He Ping stood up and prepared to leave.
Perhaps because of fatigue, He Ping didn't stand firmly, and suddenly leaned on the table with some dizziness.
"Are you alright, did you not get a good night's sleep or something else?" Mu asked carefully.
He Ping smiled and waved his hand, "It's okay, I'm too tired, what can I say about catching up with the performance, I'm too late to become famous, if I had worked harder when I was a teenager, I wouldn't have to work so hard now, the orchestra is a very comfortable place, just follow the performance, but I have to accept more performances outside the orchestra, just to make up for the time wasted in the past." ”
"I also need to spend a little more time with Bai Lu, the feelings of the two people always need to be communicated." Mu made a suggestion slightly.
He Ping smiled reluctantly, "I want to too, I also know that if Bai Lu doesn't say it, it will make the doctor laugh if she keeps talking." ”
"If things don't change suddenly, since you're back in Huanhai, the police station should come looking for you, how are you going to explain?" Mu asked.
He Ping sat back in his seat and shook his head, "I don't know, what else can I say besides denying everything?" ”
"This matter is not so easy to deny, because Xu Dan actually deliberately wanted to make a big fuss, can you analyze the reasons?" Mu asked again.
He Ping suddenly laughed heartily, and coughed several times after laughing, "I don't know, I don't know, the girl's mind is really too hard to guess, she told you today how miserable her past was, and tomorrow she will accuse you of violating her, she was still talking to you about music yesterday, and she will commit suicide tomorrow, and said that she committed suicide because of you, the girl's mind is more difficult than learning music, I really, why should I go to her, I really regret it, how much time I delayed."
"Go to a lawyer, if you tell the truth, a lawyer will help you." Mu proposed.
He Ping said to Mu with some hesitation, "I just thought I could tell you, and I don't know why I trust you so much, but I don't know if I will find a lawyer, I just hope that Xu Dan can figure it out, and it is not easy to understand that I am actually the same as her, and then let me go." ”
After speaking, He Ping stood up again and left the outpatient room.
He Ping walked back to the ward, looked at his sleeping wife Bai Lu, kissed Bai Lu's forehead lightly in distress, and gently tidied the broken hair around her ears, Bai Lu looked as beautiful as when they first met.
If life is only as first seen, what is the autumn wind and sad fan.
Waiting for idle changes but old people's hearts, but old people's hearts are changeable.
Although the hearts of both of you and me may not have changed, and neither of us really wants to abandon anyone, this may not guarantee eternal grace and harmony.
He Ping suddenly burst into tears, and the tears fell on Bai Lu's cheeks and slowly fell on the pillow.
The heart has changed the same, whether the sense has changed or not, it doesn't matter, in He Ping's opinion, it doesn't matter.
Soon, everything will become meaningless.
Zhang Wenwen patted Mu's shoulder and comforted: "Don't worry, the law will not wronged a good person, nor will it tolerate a bad person, you are just a doctor, don't be so sad." ”
After Zhang Wenwen finished speaking, he handed Mu a copy of the printed materials.
Mu first expressed his gratitude to Zhang Wenwen, Zhang Wenwen didn't need to stay in the hospital on Saturday afternoon, and the outpatient time ended in the morning, because of Bai Lu's matter, Zhang Wenwen took the initiative to say to Mu, "Use my outpatient room, I'll go to the staff café to sit for a while and read some materials." ”
Now it's time to get off work again, and Zhang Wenwen obviously has no plans to get off work.
Seeing that Mu didn't speak, Zhang Wenwen patted Mu's shoulder again, "Hey, don't be so preoccupied, this is not like you, what kind of patient is stumped by our Dr. Mu?" ”
As soon as Zhang Wenwen said this, Mu couldn't ignore him anymore, so he could only tell the truth, "No patient is not difficult, how can I think every patient is not easy?" ”
"That's because you're too serious, speaking of which, Senior Sister Xiao is as serious as you, and I also obeyed the two of you, it's hard to imagine that you are lovers when you were students, are you discussing patients when you are together? Isn't that how many people you have in love every day, many, many strange patients? ”
Zhang Wenwen had a hippie smile on his face, pretending to be relaxed and teasing.
Mu turned his face and glanced at Zhang Wenwen, "Otherwise?" Patients, no matter how small a disease is in the eyes of a doctor, it affects the whole life of the patient, and it is all the business for them."
"Is that an exaggeration? It's much harder for a patient than for a doctor. Zhang Wenwen sighed.
"No, it's all difficult, and it's never easy to be a human being." After Mu finished speaking, he opened the information handed to him by Zhang Wenwen.
After reading the five pages printed out by A4, Mu's face looked like a crude model that had just been modeled, and there was no human breath at all.
"Don't look at me like that, isn't that something we all feel? Now it's just a statistical report, it's not so unacceptable, it's not like we are here, the world has already entered a period of high incidence of suicide, this is a common problem faced by mankind. Zhang Wenwen tried to make Mu easier.
Mu also wanted to make Zhang Wenwen more relaxed, so he nodded, stood up and asked Zhang Wenwen for a cup of coffee.
There was a two-minute silence, and the two doctors were silent, each looking at the cup in his hand and the dark brown liquid in the cup.
Mu was holding the "Global Report on Suicide Prevention" issued by the World Health Organization (WHO) that Zhang Wenwen had printed out to him.
The first line of the report is a shocking and powerless few words of suicide: one person dies every 40 seconds.
This line of words silenced two doctors, silenced thousands of families around the world, and millions of children in the world died young.
Zhang Wenwen said: "Paying attention to and preventing suicide is almost the top priority of mental health work around the world, and I believe that more people will raise data and difficulties in this area at the Mental Health Annual Meeting in the future. ”
"It's not just hospitals that can encounter people who are at risk of self-harm, but also schools, businesses, communities, families, you and we may have someone in a train who is planning to commit suicide." Mu said solemnly.
"Yes, nearly 230,000 people are dying by suicide in our country every year. In addition, the number of suicide attempts is many times higher than the number of suicide deaths. In the general population, suicide attempts are the greatest risk factor for suicide. Moreover, suicide has become the second leading cause of death in the 15-29 age group. When I was volunteering in Detroit, I saw that their hospital system was conducting risk assessments on almost every patient to prevent suicide, and the results were still not significant. Zhang Wenwen couldn't help but be a little nervous when he talked about this.
His hands trembled slightly, and cold sweat broke out in his palms.
"Well, but in recent years, in fact, our overall suicide rate has decreased, and I have been paying attention to the relevant data reports of the World Health Organization, which has become more obvious in recent years is the problem of adolescents, according to the self-suicide risk faced by adolescents, learning pressure is still ranked first, accounting for nearly 50, whether urban or rural, there is not much difference, in addition, parental divorce and early love are also important influencing factors." Mu said.
"Speaking of this, I remember, the most terrible thing in the past few years is that the age of suicide is getting smaller, do you think about Ding Xiao, she is only in the fifth grade, is there a huge pressure of small promotion? Oh, my God. Zhang Wenwen almost jumped up, but he sat down in his chair, trying to look calm.
There is no way to calm down on such a topic.
"So, do you have any ideas?" Zhang Wenwen asked Mu.
"Well, I'm almost ready, I'll submit the full report when I get to the Mental Health Annual Meeting." Mu said calmly.
"You're all set, kid? You see, I'm still nervous, I'm afraid no one will do it. Zhang Wenwen's nervous heart finally relaxed a little.
Mu took a sip of coffee but was still very serious, "This is also what has happened in a row recently to urge me to do these things, we live in this era, we should be brave to do something when we have to do something."
Especially this time Xu Dan sent Qiu Ping's room number, I thought of some possible more effective methods, outside the medical system, in fact, there can be many people who can participate in suicide assistance, we need to establish a more comprehensive model of mutual help for everyone, not only limited to the 7x24 hour telephone line that may be busy, but also the need to register will be recorded to see all the hospital outpatient clinics that pass through, we need to have the idea of keeping pace with the times.
For example, the assistance system on the Internet, and the assistance system in the mobile phone, the help module embedded in Alipay, etc., which is highly related to social A~
For the time being, some things are just preliminary ideas, some plans are based on the existing interventions on our side of the medical system and the police, and some are more complicated.
But in principle, there are only two points: first, suicide intervention must ensure that the suicidal person can find a channel for help in the first time, one person, one online answer, one voice.
Second, prevention of disease is the top priority in the long run, and improving overall health is the fundamental way to avoid frequent crises. This matter involves a wider range of aspects, and the time is longer and longer, raising the awareness of the whole people is a part, improving the regular assessment is a part, and paying attention to the timely assessment of risk groups is also a part, as long as we continue to think, there are many, many things, and there are many things that cannot be done. ”
Mu took out a pen from his pocket, wrote one after another in the blank space with a brush, and then stood up and handed it to Zhang Wenwen.
"Almost like this, although there is no clear quantitative data on the effectiveness of crisis intervention, but everyone's crisis is time-sensitive, if you get through that period of chaos and imbalance, people's self-help power is activated again, maybe you will get through the crisis and have the strength to live again.
The reason why people are human beings is that they always have to take care of each other. ”
After Mu finished speaking, he stood up and was about to leave, but was pulled by Zhang Wenwen and said, "How did you think of such a meticulous idea, how long did your brain grow?" ”
"Me? I don't know, some things are still influenced by Xu Dan, the room number she sent to Qiu Ping is a way to ask for help, although she doesn't seem to have the original purpose of asking for help. Okay, I'll go first, hungry. After speaking, Mu drank all the coffee in the cup, threw it into the dry garbage can, and was just about to leave the outpatient room when he was stopped by Zhang Wenwen.
"We'll have dinner together, I'll please, I know your money is in the public welfare fund." Zhang Wenwen patted his mouth and said with a grin.
"No, I still have something to think about, next time." Mu replied.
"Is it okay for your patient to be here? You're just gone? Zhang Wenwen said as he changed out.
"Well, let's go, everything that can be said has been said just now, what can't be said, I can only wait." Mu replied.
"Then let's talk as we walk, I still have a case to ask you about, I have a patient here, I came to see a nerve headache, and then every time I have a headache, I say that I will see three of myself"
From New Year's Day to Saturday of the second week, Li Xiaoyun, who has been busy for a whole week, finally found time to lie comfortably on the sofa and watch TV for a while.
finally had a half day of rest, Xie Xiaofei and his father Xie Chunping went to the playground to play for a day, and Li Xiaoyun finally had time to apply a mask and rest comfortably alone.
It's really too rare to have such a good son.,It would be nice if I could keep doing this.,It's like going back to the time of single.。
Li Xiaoyun, looking at the guests in [Wonderful Showdown], one is smarter than the other, especially when he sees Li Mu calm and calm in the battle of words, he can always make witty remarks and turn the tide, he really likes and envies it from the bottom of his heart, and after checking Li Mu's background on the Internet, it turned out that he had a feeling of not knowing both character and learning since he was a child.
Anyway, it's someone else's son.
So I thought of my son Xie Xiaofei again, speaking of which, he really didn't make trouble this week, he didn't say anything strange in class, and when he wrote Chinese texts silently, he only wrote half a line of words in 20 minutes, and he was completely regarded as a bad student by the teacher.
What the head teacher said is also good, it doesn't matter if you learn slowly, it doesn't matter if you don't understand, you can teach, but Xie Xiaofei's situation is not only that he is slow to learn, but also that he is unwilling to learn, the teacher is now worried about whether the child has serious problems with his behavior and habits, and even the news Li Xiaoyun said that there is something between his parents that affects the child's thread.
This situation is also very common now, and Li Xiaoyun also knows that the girl in the Far North Affiliated Primary School before was weird because her parents divorced, and she jumped off the building because of too much pressure. But she and Xie Chunping have a very good feeling, it can't be related to their discord.
Li Xiaoyun shook his head, while watching TV, while sticking a mask and brushing his mobile phone, the January weather stayed in an air-conditioned room with gusty winds all day, Li Xiaoyun felt that his skin was about to be dehydrated.
After swiping Weibo and swiping the circle of friends, suddenly a message in the circle of friends caught Li Xiaoyun's attention.
The person who posted this circle of friends is a friend of Li Xiaoyun, a guzheng teacher who specializes in Korean purchasing, and his appearance is definitely an Internet celebrity face, but unfortunately he is interested in being a teacher.
Recently, it seems that there is no time to go to Jeju Island to buy on behalf of her, Li Xiaoyun originally wanted to introduce two customers to her, but it turned out that the girl had not flown for a month.
Li Xiaoyun sighed, thinking in his heart, it is really not easy to purchase on behalf of the airport in these years, the customs and customs are getting tighter and tighter, especially the flights of Jeju Island or Thailand in the purchasing place, and it is a flight that the airport pays special attention to.
If the purchase of cosmetics and other goods violates the regulations, then you have to make up the tax, what is the concept of making up the tax? In addition to the round-trip air ticket money, this purchase is basically lost.
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