For Long Yifeng, all his thoughts and confusion he told Guo Ziling about him were just a momentary emotional impulse, just to find someone to talk to. However, Guo Ziling kept thinking about this in her mind, and after the war between the two subsided, she began to bring up the previous topic again.

"Yifeng, I've been thinking about the questions you mentioned just now. You are a person who loves to read, and you read some classic domestic and foreign classics. Those things are undoubtedly good and can broaden your horizons and pattern. Your academic performance is so good, it means that you have a high intelligence, so it is easy to learn anything. But have you noticed that emotional intelligence is also important? I think you need to expand yourself in this area now. ”

Long Yifeng grabbed Guo Ziling and said "viciously": "Dead girl, you won't be thinking about that question when we are fighting, right?"

The key parts were mastered by someone, Guo Ziling was a little embarrassed, and said with a red face: "Villain, there were fantasies there at that time." I just remembered it. ”

"Hehe, I know the emotional intelligence you said, but how to expand and improve it. I paid too little attention to this aspect to pay attention to. ”

"The so-called emotional intelligence, also known as EQ, mainly refers to people's emotions, emotions, will, and ability to tolerate setbacks. Generally speaking, there is no big difference in emotional intelligence between people, and it depends more on the cultivation of nurture.

In a word, emotional intelligence is one of the main abilities of a person to act and do things.

You see, some people have good academic performance, but they are not very good at doing things, at least they don't understand the human feelings and sophistication under the Han cultural system. It's not even very good at dealing with people, just as the current people attack the students trained by our country for being high scores and low ability, just because the emotional intelligence training is not enough.

Naturally, there is no problem with your IQ, otherwise you wouldn't have taken the first place in the class in every exam. If you have a problem with your IQ, it's too high. To dare to say that you have a low IQ is to insult the low IQ of the students in the city. Hehe.

Of course, I think you are also very high in terms of emotional intelligence, otherwise you would not have developed your career so quickly as a high school student. But there is a small error in between. That is, the things you learn on weekdays are too traditional, some things are far away from modern society, and you have just come out of the countryside, as you once told me, even electricity in your hometown has only been connected in recent years. Previously, of course, there was no opportunity to learn something modern.

Now, you can study online, and you can go out and walk more. Of course, as students, we don't have much time yet. So, online learning, book knowledge, and social experience are the best ways for you to learn. In the future, we will start learning from these three aspects. ”

"We?" Long Yifeng was a little puzzled.

"That's right. We!" Guo Ziling said with certainty: "Miss Ben has decided that you must strengthen your emotional intelligence training to make you the most perfect man." Hey. When the time comes, I will make you a killer of women, from nine years old to ninety-nine female compatriots, all in seconds. ”

"I'm going, is that an exaggeration, and how are you going to train me?"

"I thought about it, and I just talked about the three aspects of online learning, book knowledge, and social experience. First, find some knowledge of fashion elements from the Internet for you to learn, such as various categories of world brands, including watches, clothes, boots, cars, airplanes, as well as social etiquette, image dressing, social news, entertainment gossip, financial theory, life knowledge, health and wellness, sports competitions, social psychology and so on.

Second, the so-called book knowledge training is to increase the reading of books and magazines in all aspects, mainly magazines. The books you used to read were thousands of years old, or at least hundreds of years old, and there was no modern knowledge. It is imperative to introduce you to subscribe to basic magazines such as "Reader", "Digest", "Xinwei", "Ruili", "Bosom Friend", "Car Friend", "Nandu Weekly", etc., of course, not all subscriptions, these things can improve your understanding of the current society, but also increase your understanding of fashion.

Thirdly, the social experience, which is also the most important point. I want to teach you how to take Tongren City as a circle of life, learn to eat, drink and have fun, increase your social experience, and also let you have a deeper understanding of modern society. These things are more specific, and they need to be educated accordingly with the change of the environment, for example, you can learn the process and etiquette of Western food by eating Western food, learn driving etiquette and business etiquette by driving the car, learn table etiquette through hotel dining, master dress etiquette and knowledge through dressing, and so on.

The ancients said well, 'The world is full of knowledge, and the practice of writing is the article', once you learn those things that were regarded as mundane things by ancient readers, your psychological state will slowly adjust, and you will become more and more socialized and become a real social animal. Hahaha. ”

Long Yifeng listened to Guo Ziling say a lot of theories, not only did he not feel disgusted and cumbersome, but felt very reasonable.

In the past, I lived in the countryside, I knew very little about urban life, reading and writing were all imitation of the style of the ancients, and I learned some things that were elegant, even if I had some perception and understanding of life, it was also an understanding of the rural living environment and conditions.

In the face of life in modern society, he is considered an idiot-level person. If he hadn't known Xiao Jing in junior high school, he wouldn't have even read animated books such as Huluwa and Monkey King, let alone comics. Naturally, the cognition of modern life tools such as airplanes, Tucker cars, etc., is just a noun.

He thinks that Guo Ziling is very reasonable, in fact, the process of experiencing modern urban life is itself a process of learning and integrating into modern society, and it can be regarded as a science of emotional intelligence cultivation.

Therefore, he immediately decided to cooperate with Guo Ziling's actions and let her build herself into a "perfect" man.

"Alright, Ziling. But I think what you said is very reasonable, from now on I will be your man, see how you build a perfect man. Ha ha. ”

"You've been my man for a long time, okay. Since you are willing to accept Miss Ben's creation, first of all, I want to explain one thing. Because of your strong martial arts foundation, I won't educate you about sports, and start directly from other fashionable lifestyles. It's not too late, half past nine, and the nightlife has just begun for city people, and there are still many things to do, just like you just managed to get on a chick. ”

Guo Ziling pointed to himself playfully, and then continued: "I still have to go home to live at night, and I can't play projects that take too long." In addition, there are only two of us now, and the number of people is too small to play group entertainment. So, the best way now is for the two of us to go to the bathroom and take a bath, press a mo, and then you treat me to a late-night snack. According to the popular way nowadays, after supper, there is a beautiful scenery of a thousand gold. But you've already enjoyed it in advance, and I still have to go home first, so we're going to enjoy the first two items today. ”

Bathing is also learned.

Under the guidance of Guo Ziling, Long Yifeng drove to the bathing center, and Guo Ziling took the opportunity to introduce the situation of the bathing center. Tell Long Yifeng that the place they went to was the largest bathing center in the city, and how to do the specific process.

At present, there is no personalized service in the bathing center of Tongren City, mainly for men and women to take a bath separately, and then you can rest in the rest area with clothes that can rest on the bed. If there is no other consumption, guests only need to spend 68 yuan to take a bath in the bathing center, and they can also dine inside, surf the Internet, watch TV, watch shows, and stay in it for up to 24 hours.

Of course, there are other consumption options in the bath and the West, such as pedicure, chess, massage, and even gray transactions such as eating "chicken" games.

The two came to the bathing center, and Long Yifeng entered the men's guest area.

Leave your shoes, socks, clothes, hats, etc., and then strip yourself naked and enjoy the comfort and pleasure of bathing with peace of mind. Of course, these are superficial. The first time he went to this kind of public place to consume, Long Yifeng still couldn't let go, and he was very nervous, and later saw that many young people in society who were similar to him were also free to wash in it, enjoying it openly, and slowly adapting to it.

After taking a bath, Long Yifeng went to the wardrobe and took out his mobile phone, then put on the clothes of the bathing center and went to the rest area to meet Guo Ziling. Guo Ziling skillfully asked for a private room and asked two masseurs to help them massage both.

The bathing center can specify the gender for massage, Guo Ziling didn't want the boy to press it for him, so he helped Long Yifeng also choose a female masseuse. Being pressed back and forth by a strange woman for the first time, Long Yifeng felt comfortable and embarrassed, and some parts were too sensitive and swollen so much that Guo Ziling and the masseur were snickering.

Guo Ziling told Long Yifeng that the bathing center is generally the best occasion for mass consumption, and when she is usually fine, her cousin likes to take her here for a bath and massage, and then go back to sleep comfortably, feeling great.

After an unforgettable bathing trip, Long Yifeng felt good, and it turned out that the city was not like what he felt was just busy and stressed. happily drove Guo Ziling home, and asked Guo Ziling to hurry up and plan tomorrow's course.

Guo Ziling said that the curriculum design is confidential, and as a teacher, she can freely decide the content of the lesson, and if necessary, she may also help Long Yifeng choose other teachers.