I don't know how long it took for Bai Lu to regain consciousness.

"I'm sorry." Bai Lu said.

"Huh? It's okay, I'm just afraid that we will be on Weibo tomorrow. ”

"How so?" Bai Lu grinned.

"[Lewd-Zuo Nan Hot Pot Restaurant Stalking, Cheering Piano Player] This kind of Weibo will generally be of interest to people."

"You did it on purpose." Bai Lu asked.

"Ah, it's seen." Mu Chun pretended to scratch his chin stupidly.

"Well, I can see it, it's a pity not to act."

"Don't say that, I really like Teacher Bai Lu too." Mu Chun said softly!

Just like the real thing!

"If I hadn't suddenly remembered the sign at the door of the outpatient room on the fifth floor, it would have seemed that I had rushed into the outpatient room with a female patient one morning."

"Huh? It seems to be such a thing. Mu Chun agreed.

"Yes, it was a few weeks ago, so that time I deliberately looked at the brand, and I was impressed by the three words [Psychosomatics], so a psychosomatic doctor will naturally be a little different, if it is just an ordinary doctor, I am afraid that I will not know if I have been deceived."

Bai Lu seemed to be smiling, but his mood was much more stable than just now.

"This seems to be praising the [psychosomatic] doctor, but in fact~ that is, an ordinary doctor, may not be as good as an ordinary doctor."

Mu Chun lowered his head, Bai Lu suspected that he had seen something wrong, how did he feel that the shameless doctor just now, why did he suddenly have a deep sadness now?

"So psychosomatic treatment isn't just limited to hospitals, right? I'm afraid it's not as simple as prescribing medication, and it's so simple to check. ”

Bai Lu dragged his head with his right hand and looked at Mu Chun's face.

Mu Chun suddenly became embarrassed, "Don't look at me like this, no girl has ever looked at me like this." ”

The atmosphere suddenly relaxed, and Bai Lu sighed, "Okay, I don't look at you, your treatment may have some effect." ”

"Really? At first, I just felt, I always felt that there was something I didn't notice, in the chain of [loneliness] - [alcohol] - [indulgence] - [pain], I always felt that there was something I didn't notice, so I wanted to look again, find a better breakthrough, and rub it to untie the chain. ”

"Well, you might have helped me realize that."

Bai Lu smiled.

"Really? Then we may be on the right track, and I will say that Ms. Bai Lu definitely has the potential to become a psychologist. ”

"Is there one? No, I'm just a patient, loneliness is a disease, not knowing how to refuse is also a disease, making myself very hard, I don't dare to say anything dissatisfied, my husband's side, maybe as long as I tell him early in the morning that I don't like him to always go on business, maybe it won't be what it is today.

Since I was a child, whether it was at home, at school, or among classmates, I was always afraid that others would be unhappy, but it seemed that others were not really happy because of my compromise. ”

"It's very common." Mu Chun explained that almost every pleaser knows very well in their hearts that it will be very tiring if they don't know how to refuse, and it will be very hard to please others, and sometimes this thing is really not what they want to do, but if they don't do that, others will be unhappy.

They are sensitive and even vulnerable.

Sometimes I wonder if the world was really going to be a better place because of the kindness of the People-Pleaser. These people have lost themselves again and again, some have become more and more lonely, some have become weaker and weaker.

But it backfired, the world has not become better because of the self-sacrifice of the [pleasing personality], they have become a natural tool for others to use, they satisfy others but hurt themselves, at this time they have to make up a set of explanations of the past to make things look less bad, their weakness is not because they don't know how to refuse, but there will always be a good part in agreeing.

For example, you can take revenge on your husband, such as increasing your work experience, such as adding glory to school.

They are always selfless and hardly able to refuse anyone's requests, even if they are vexatious or excessively out of their duties, they will try to understand these requests and rationalize them in their minds. Things like wronging oneself and fulfilling others often happen to such people.

However, as for the "pleaser" himself, they seem to be people who don't have any requirements, as if my thoughts are not important in front of the request, because they don't like to conflict with people, and always instinctively avoid everything they quarrel with, such as rejecting a request for help at work, or rejecting an invitation from a man they don't like.

Before a conflict occurs and is about to occur, it is easy for them to choose to compromise, tolerate and settle. ”

Bai Lu shed tears, for her years of grievances, but also for finally understanding that she could try to change this problem.

"Experiencing a [total crush] may make a difference, or [total despair], being driven to the point where it is unbearable, and sometimes it may be a physical breakdown. Long-term overtime fatigue, the body that does not get rest, sensitive nerves. Mu Chun explained further.

"Why am I like this? Why is it that only I am like this, and everyone else in the school can give me their work, I just think it is troublesome to say no, why is it so difficult to say. If it weren't for Dr. Mu just now, you~"

"I'm disgusting, isn't it?"

Mu Chun said with a smile.

Bai Lu nodded, "Yes, a little." ”

"It's like the guy who dressed as a woman, because it's so disgusting, and when it comes to your limit, the chain is broken."

"Unintentional treatment?" Bai Lu asked.

"Well, you are really a good material for a psychologist, if you have the opportunity, you must join us."

Mu Chun's invitation looked very sincere, Bai Lu didn't nod or agree, she was wondering, is this also the "me" of the [pleasing personality] is causing trouble, when she hears this kind of invitation, she always thinks that if she agrees, the other party will be happy, and the scene will look warm and harmonious.

"I have a presumptuous question for Mr. Bai, just to accumulate some experience for meeting the same patients in the future."

Mu Chun said sincerely.

"Well, okay, you ask."

"I want to know if there is anything special about your childhood?"

"My childhood?" Bai Lu thought for a while, "My childhood was to practice the piano, and I have always been an excellent girl, very good, until one day I can no longer show my parents my excellent results."