Obviously, Dai Lan didn't expect Zhou Tong to say such a thing at all, she always thought that Zhou Tong knew that she was sorry for her family because she was drinking, so Dai Lan also felt that the new life she chose was understandable, Zhou Tong was embarrassed to tell her in front of relatives and friends, but she didn't expect that today Zhou Tong would make her lose face in front of the doctor.

Dai Lan stood in place, and the flesh on his face trembled.

Suddenly, as if she had made a decision, she rushed out the door.

"You woman is a, ~ son, go serve those stinky men, shameless, shameless!" Zhou Tongwo raised his voice in the sofa and scolded hoarsely, as if he had scolded all the grievances in his stomach.

After scolding, he cried like a fool.

The moment Dai Lan opened the door, his face turned from red to pale, and Zhou Ming stood outside the door, covering his stomach with both hands.

Zhou Ming, who had not yet changed out of the patient gown, looked at his angry mother suspiciously, in Zhou Ming's mind, his mother has always been a gentle, generous, and cultured woman.

Mom will never be fierce to him, Mom is a big brown bear, Mom is a small energy, and he is also a mother's Xiaoneng.

"Mom, what's wrong with you?" Zhou Ming asked innocently.

"You, why are you here?" Dai Lan's tears couldn't stop flowing.

"Mom, when are you coming to see me again?" Zhou Ming didn't know anything, he only came here because he waited in the hospital bed for a while and didn't see his mother, and later the nurse told him that his mother was talking to the doctor in the office.

Zhou Ming, who missed his mother so much, wore slippers and walked to the door of the office without putting on a sweater and coat.

I heard a lot of commotion inside, and before I could figure out what was going on, I saw my mother open the door and walk out.

Zhou Ming really wanted his mother to hug him immediately, and Zhou Ming wanted to see his mother every day.

"Zhou Ming, you tell me, what did you eat, you tell your mother, you tell your mother, what did your father eat for you?" Dai Lan grabbed Zhou Ming's shoulder like crazy and shook it again.

Zhou Ming stood in place in a daze, not knowing what his mother was talking about.

Maybe it was to win back a city, or maybe it was because he was very unconvinced by Zhou Tong's abuse just now, Dai Lan grabbed Zhou Ming's shoulders super hard and pulled him into the office, shouting, "You say, what did your father give you to eat, you said, you said." ”

Zhou Ming looked at his mother and then at his father, most of the time he just stood in place in a daze, his lips trembled, and finally began to twitch.

Dai Lan has entered a state of madness, a state of madness in which human reason is completely carried away by emotions.

There is a very apt word in the English language called insane, a state of insanity and madness that is more terrible than Razy and Mad.

At this time, Dai Lan was in this unconscious state of loss of control.

Zhou Ming didn't know how his mother could be like this, he couldn't say a word, there were tears in his two black eyes, and he didn't know how the tears would flow out.

"You let go of Zhou Ming first, the child is scared." Mu Chun said calmly on the side.

Dai Lan suddenly let go of Zhou Ming and looked at Mu Chun in panic.

"Well, you sit down first, and Zhou Ming will also sit down." Mu Chun said again.

Zhou Ming was a little scared, and sat next to Dai Lan tremblingly, and at the other end of the sofa, sat the sleepy Zhou Tong.

It seems that Zhou Tong doesn't remember what he just said.

"Zhou Ming's situation, Doctor Fang Ming has already said it, what is in Zhou Ming's stomach is" Mu Chun was interrupted by Zhou Ming before he finished speaking.

"Don't say it, you don't say it." Zhou Ming said crying.

"Okay, I won't say it, but I want my mother to tell Zhou Ming how long she will go to Zhou Ming, okay? Every Saturday at 10 a.m.? Or every Sunday at eight a.m.? Does Zhou Ming want your mother to tell you when she will pick you up at home? ”

Zhou Ming nodded again and again, "Think, Mom, tell me, when will you come to me, I know you are busy with work, and I also know that you don't want to live with your father and me, but you just need to come to me, I just need my mother to come to me often, really, I don't want to buy anything, I can skip meals, I just need my mother to come to me, I will study hard, I just need my mother to come to me, I don't fight at school, I won't fail silently, as long as my mother comes to me, I can do everything, I will do everything that my adult mother wants me to do well.

Mom, when are you coming to see me. ”

"I" Dai Lan choked up.

"Mom, will you come every week? Next week is an open house, I want you to go to the school's open house, I want other students to know that I have a mother, I have a mother, a mother. ”

Zhou Ming took Dai Lan's hand and grasped it tightly.

"Me? I don't" Dai Lan didn't know how to get back.

"I'll just go, what do you want your mother to do, just the smell on her body, disgusting." Zhou Tong hiccuped and began to count Dai Lan again.

"Doctor, you said there was magic, magic." Zhou Ming whispered to Mu Chun for help.

Mu Chun nodded, focused, focused, magic, magic, Mu Chun thought in his heart.

"Is it okay to choose one on Saturday from 10 a.m. to 7 p.m., or Sunday from 10 a.m. to 7 p.m."

Mu Chun knew that at this time, if Dai Lan was asked to tell the time herself, she might not be able to decide, and when it was not easy for the patient to make a choice, there were limited options that allowed the patient to choose a result from it.

The purpose of the questions in the treatment is to elicit an answer, and the information contained in the answers can also be further analyzed by the doctor, and it is a common way to gather information by choosing the appropriate questions and ways of asking questions in the early stage of psychosomatic treatment, that is, at the stage of "diagnostic consultation".

Commonly used questions are divided into [open-ended questions] and [closed-ended questions].

Open-ended Questions: Words such as "why", "how", "can't", "what", and "willing" are usually used to ask questions, so that the respondent can give a detailed explanation of the relevant questions. The advantages are: it helps to stimulate the patient's enthusiasm for conversation, helps the doctor to obtain a lot of information, clarifies the essence of things. If the patient accepts this type of questioning and enters into a long answer, then a great deal of confidence in it can reveal much information that the patient may not be aware of; Another advantage is that such questions are non-threatening and easier to answer.

While there are many advantages to open-ended questioning, the disadvantages are also obvious: since the patient determines the length and core of each question, a question may take up most of the time of the meeting, or it may only provide unimportant information, forever taking the doctor in circles.

Therefore, in the process of questioning, it is necessary for the doctor to guide the patient correctly and skillfully control it to prevent off-topic.

At the beginning of the diagnostic consultation, or after the treatment plan is formulated, during the "talk therapy", the method of "open questioning" is also a more common method in the treatment process. The counterpart to [open-ended questioning] is [closed-ended questioning].

In closed-ended questioning, the questions are usually preset and the patient does not need to expand them to answer. Closed-ended questions are often used to gather and organize information, and are generally used when doctors want to guide patients to a question in order to clarify the facts, get the point, and further narrow the discussion.

This time, Mu Chun chose a highly closed question, which looked like a multiple-choice question, meaning that the patient had to choose the most appropriate one from all the answers. For example, when in the outpatient room, Mu Chun will not ask the patient what to drink? Instead, the patient will be asked to drink coffee or water?

The advantage of choosing [closed-ended questioning] in treatment is that the patient can control the length of the question through closed-ended questioning and guide the patient to provide the required information. It also allows doctors to ask more questions in more areas in a short period of time, increasing the efficiency of the meeting.

In fact, most questionnaires use closed-ended questions, which facilitate the extraction of answers and their conversion into data, tables, etc., for further analysis.

Correspondingly, the disadvantages of closed-ended questioning are equally clear, first of all, it can create a dilemma that the patient does not want to answer at all.

This is especially true for extremely closed-ended questions, such as: Do you support same-sex marriage? This kind of extremely closed-ended questioning means that the answer to this kind of question is either/or, forcing the answerer to choose between two opposing options, and this kind of questioning can easily trigger the patient's resistance and bring the conversation into a difficult situation in the process of psychosomatic treatment.

Here, Mu Chun chose [Closed Question] in the hope that Dai Lan could give a clear answer, and not take him and Zhou Ming around the bend.

"Me? Okay, will I come to Xiao Ming on Saturday? Dai Lan smiled and pinched Zhou Ming's face.

Zhou Ming nodded obediently, and the slightly wide and fat patient gown looked empty on Zhou Ming's body.

Zhou Ming, who got the answer, already felt that there was nothing in this world that was still a problem, so he clapped his hands happily at Mu Chun.

Mu Chun also nodded happily with him.

"Is it okay for Zhou Ming to go out to change his clothes first, the doctor still has something to tell Zhou Ming's parents, okay?" Mu Chun said softly to Zhou Ming.

"Okay, doctor." Zhou Ming replied.

Zhou Ming, who got his mother's promise, was as happy as getting candy.

Seeing Zhou Ming's happy appearance, Dai Lan also regained her composure a little, took a tissue on the table to wipe the tears from the corners of her eyes, and wiped off some makeup slightly, and then Dai Lan changed her previous attitude towards Mu Chun and said cautiously: "Doctor, did Zhou Ming tell you a lot?" ”

Mu Chun shook his head, "No, Zhou Ming rarely speaks, he is a very introverted child, and this introversion may have gradually formed after you separated from his father." ”

"Maybe, the three of us used to be fine, but later, everything changed, I don't want to talk about those things, people have a lot of helplessness, I don't want to talk about it." Dai Lan repeatedly said that he didn't want to say it, he didn't want to say it.

"I understand, bitterness is a word that is not easy to swallow or say, it is true that it is uncomfortable, it is really uncomfortable, and the days are always very long, it is always difficult to get better, if you want to tell me, I am willing to listen." After Mu Chun finished speaking, he handed Dai Lan a tissue.

"You don't understand, we used to be very beautiful, but his father drank, day and night, but also because he couldn't be promoted at work, so he became more and more listless, and then we invested in financial products were cheated of money, how to say, everyone actually knew later, most of the financial products are unreliable.

At that time, we had more than 300,000 yuan in savings, and we thought that the interest rate would be 11%, which is a lot of money. We also plan to go to Hong Kong once and take Zhou Ming to Ocean Park after getting the interest, or go to Guangzhou once and go to Chimelong to play.

The money I finally saved was all gone, and I couldn't keep a cent, Zhou Tong and I kept arguing, and we kept arguing, and we got tired of arguing until later, I didn't want to take care of this family anymore, and I didn't want to take care of Zhou Ming anymore.

I looked at Zhou Ming and felt that my life was all ruined, and I didn't know what was wrong at that time, just like the evil spirit, I didn't want to take Zhou Ming with me.

My girlfriend told me that there was a good job that was introduced to me, that it paid well, and that it wasn't that unorthodox.

I think you've heard Zhou Tong say it, that kind of work is ~ in Zhou Tong's eyes. With that, Dai Lan shrugged his shoulders.

She had narrow shoulders and was wearing a tight-fitting knitted dress with a long coat over it, making her look a little younger than she really looked.

When Zhou Ming sat next to Dai Lan, Dai Lan was old enough to be the mother of a child of such an age.

But as soon as Zhou Ming walked away, Dai Lan looked like a young woman who had not yet given birth.

A snow-white one-shoulder leather bag is placed on Dai Lan's lap, and the brand on the bag looks like the name of a luxury brand.

Dai Lan also seemed to notice Mu Chun's eyes, and smiled professionally, "Doctor Mu Chun is still single." ”

Mu Chun didn't answer yet, but he heard a snoring sound from Zhou Tong This father fell asleep.

"It shouldn't be difficult for doctors to find girlfriends, the conditions are so good, and they all graduated from prestigious universities, unlike us, if you don't work hard, you have nothing." A slight smile tugged at the corners of Dai Lan's mouth.

Honestly, it's beautiful.

There is a kind of hazy night, swaying wine glasses, and the beauty of drunken gold.

It's easy to be intoxicating, but it won't linger for long.

"That's right, I'm in this profession, a profession that I can't say during the day, but it's not as disgusting as Zhou Tong said, it's just singing and drinking, it's just that for me, it's watching Zhou Tong drink at home and then I shed tears, or I watch others drink outside, the difference between me making money, you say that there is nothing wrong with people making money, how can Zhou Ming live after I don't make money?

If I can't make him a million, what hope will he have in the future? ”

When Dai Lan spoke, he crossed his hands in front of him for a while, and crossed his legs alternately with his legs crossed.

It always seemed that the somewhat sunken sofa made her uncomfortable to sit on.

But her desire to talk or complain was still very strong, so Mu Chun listened quietly, waiting for the right time to discuss Zhou Ming's affairs with Dai Lan.

Today's conversation involves two important aspects: the first is to let Zhou Tong and Dai Lan know that Zhou Ming did not accidentally eat something that could not be digested to cause abdominal pain to be admitted to the hospital, and finally had to rely on surgery to treat.

The second is to see if there is a chance to buy a little more time on Dai Lan and let her accompany Zhou Ming.

Now it seems that it is not difficult to explain the first thing clearly, Mu Chun just needs to get straight to the point, but the disadvantage of this is that Zhou Ming's parents will listen carefully, and whether they will seriously reflect on this matter.

Symptoms are in the child and the cause is in the parents.

"Zhou Ming's biggest pain is that he misses you and he misses his mother. There's nothing wrong with that for a child, isn't it? Mu Chun asked patiently.

"I know." Dai Lan lowered his head and said softly, "I really can't help it, I also want to spend more time with him." ”

"Zhou Ming is very sensible, so sensible that I was a little surprised, he is a very good child." Mu Chun said.

"Really? When he was a child, we still paid attention to education, and we would travel with our children, and we would read and paint together, I thought that life would always be so good, until his father started drinking, and that way of drinking was like holding a wine bottle to death, he didn't make noise after drinking, he just slept, and I didn't know when I would wake up after sleeping, and I was exhausted, and then I basically had no money. But he's not picky, any wine is fine, people always have to get some food or snacks to drink, right, he doesn't pay attention to it, there is the best, if not, he can drink liquor empty, beer is even more water to drink, can you believe it?

Have you ever seen someone who drank like this and didn't die? Then his world was all broken, once I had a toothache, there was really no way to send Zhou Ming to school, I called him for a long time, from six o'clock in the morning to half past seven, he was like a dead pig, he couldn't wake up at all.

However, his only advantage is probably that he never goes crazy with alcohol, and when he is drunk, he is either asleep or groggy when he is drunk, and he looks like he is being bullied. It's the first time I've seen him talk like that. Dai Lan said as he kept moving, looking more and more agitated.

"Do you want to smoke?" Mu Chun asked suddenly.

"How do you know? Are my teeth discolored? Or do I smell of smoke on me? Dai Lan asked anxiously.

"It's just that you're uneasy, like a smoker, but you can't smoke in a hospital office." Mu Chun said.

"I know, I know, I have to get ready for work at four o'clock, and I will draw it again when I get to the company, by the way, is there anything else Zhou Ming should pay attention to after he goes back today? Dr. Fang Ming said that there was no major problem, as long as he had a good rest at home for half a month. Dai Lan said.

"Yes, Zhou Ming's problem is [pica], also known as pica and disorderly eating. It is mainly manifested by continuous ingestion of non-nutritive substances such as soil, soap or ice. The ball of wool in Zhou Ming's stomach had been there for about half a year to a year, and it had gradually turned into something the size of a pebble. Zhou Ming ate what he ate this time was hoarded in the stomach, and the newspapers, soil, and fiber that some children ate will gradually enter the intestines with the movement of the digestive tract, resulting in intestinal obstruction, severe pain during acute attacks, difficulty in excretion, and even intestinal bursting. ”