Chapter 428: If Everyone Is Trying
Xie Chunping understood this passage, and nodded again and again, "Yes, that's right, that's the case, there is nothing wrong with the child, it's just that there are some bad behaviors after the first grade." ”
Mu Chun shook his hand, "No, no, why is it bad behavior, maybe the eyelashes are too long, maybe someone else is beating him, right?" Maybe he didn't have any problems, but others beat him, he couldn't help it and wanted to fight back, and later the story was told by other parents and classmates that Xie Xiaofei beat people, and Xie Xiaofei misbehaved. ”
"No, there is no misconduct, at most some bad behavior." Although it is inevitable to bite the words and drill the tip of the horns, Xie Chunping just feels that it is inappropriate to say that he has misbehaved, at most it is just bad behavior. In contrast, overtly misbehaving sounds a little lighter.
"Well, that sounds like there's nothing wrong with the kid and there's no need to go to the doctor, right?" Mu Chun said happily.
Xie Chunping thought about it, and drank the delicious coffee in his stomach, "It's still a bit of a problem, we took him to see an ophthalmologist, and the doctor said that his eyes are dry, and a little eye drops will be fine, and then Xiaofei has myopia problems, in short, the problems are one after another, from the beginning of the second semester of the large class to the present, it should be more and more problematic." ”
Although Xie Chunping told Mu Chun most of the things truthfully, it was mainly Xiaofei's kindergarten teacher who said how Xiaofei was doing, and the elementary school teacher said that Xiaofei beat people, couldn't answer questions accurately in class, failed to dictate and Xiaofei fought with boys at school.
As for Xiao Fei making a sound like a dog barking, Xie Chunping avoided talking to Mu Chun at the beginning, and he didn't know why, he always felt reluctant to say it.
When he heard Mu Chun say happily, "Then the child is fine, there is no need to see a doctor", Xie Chunping felt that something was wrong.
It seems that this is also incorrect, Xie Chunping suddenly felt how it became like this.
It was because Xie Xiaofei must have something wrong with him, so he did his homework last night and studied where to go to the doctor to ask his son about the problem, why was he told by the doctor that there was no problem?
What's funny is that in the first few minutes, Xie Chunping also had the idea that maybe Xie Xiaofei didn't have any problems.
"Don't toss if there is no problem, now children are under a lot of pressure to study, just relax and relax." Mu Chun said lightly again.
The doctor didn't say that, so forget it, the more Mu Chun said that it was okay, the more Xie Chunping felt that it was impossible to be fine.
"If no one in the family is angry, or other oddities related to blinking, the child should be fine, don't worry." Mu Chun said happily again.
No, no, no, it's not like that.
Xie Chunping shouted in his heart, really, it's really not like this.
When Mu Chun mentioned his family again, Xie Chunping couldn't help but think of the village where he grew up when he was a child, the way his grandmother shook her head when she spoke, and the frightened and desperate look of his cousin locked in the room.
Do you want to tell the doctor about this, if you really say it, won't Xiaofei's problem really become his reason.
Is it their family that is flawed?
Xie Chunping didn't dare to say it, and wanted to know if it had anything to do with it.
So he went around the bend and asked Mu Chun, "Doctor, I just want to know if this kind of bad temper or inability to concentrate is also genetic, and blinking or something, is it also hereditary?" Although my wife and I don't have these conditions, it doesn't mean that the rest of the family doesn't have it, right, now we don't visit relatives and friends very much, not to mention I don't know the situation of my wife's family, at most, it is a few years to simply once both parents, if there is any grandparents generation problems, is it possible to pass it on to children? ”
Mu Chun held his chin and pondered for a moment, and then said slowly: "You are right to say so, of course there is a part of the reason for this kind of thing, and sometimes there are no symptoms in the son, there are in the daughter, sometimes, the uncle has it, the niece does not have it, and sometimes it is manifested as a generational characteristic, such as the problem of the grandfather, and the grandson will appear again." ”
The more Xie Chunping listened, the more nervous he became, speaking like this, is it really possible that our family is genetic?
"How do I know if a child's problem is genetic? Or is it? Xie Chunping didn't know how to ask.
For a person who is not good at lying, it is not easy to talk around the bend.
Mu Chun stood up and patted Xie Chunping on the shoulder, and said, "Does genetics have anything to do with acquired or something?" Symptomatic means symptomatic at the moment, pay attention to the present or pursue the responsibility of the family? ”
Xie Chunping didn't seem to understand, but he felt that what he meant should be that he didn't need to be too much of a genetic.
"That's right, at the end of the month, your community has a new year's community class, and our director Jiang will also go to the neighboring communities to give lectures, the courses are all about pregnancy health care, early childhood feeding and preschool children's behavior and habit counseling courses, if it is not convenient to bring children to me, you can go to the neighborhood committee to see the class time in January, there should be one or two new course preview activities before the New Year, although it is not a formal course, but experts will go to the scene, there will also be on-site consultation time, In this way, you can take your child to Dr. Jiang Hong to see it at that time. ”
Mu Chun's suggestion made Xie Chunping feel at ease, and when he heard that it was Dr. Jiang Hong, Xie Chunping was even more impressed by Mu Chun's proposal, "Really? That's great, Dr. Jiang Hong is a great obstetrician and gynaecologist. ”
Mu Chun smiled and nodded, "Yes, bring it early to sign up, this kind of free community course will be full in a while." ”
Xie Chunping stood up, stretched out his hand to hold Mu Chun, and thanked him again and again, "Great, you really helped me a lot." ”
Mu Chun was a little embarrassed, "Huh? Well, thanks thanks! Remember to sign up, sign up. ”
Xie Chunping left the outpatient room after thanking the doctor, almost forgetting his medical insurance card on the table.
After Xie Chunping left Huayuanqiao Community Hospital, his mood was half better, and he didn't feel the cold wind when he walked on the road, but his heart was very warm.
In fact, I didn't solve any problems in the first place, but it seems that Xie Xiaofei has already been helped, or his problems are not as serious as before Xie Chunping came to the hospital.
Xie Chunping originally wanted to talk to Li Xiaoyun about the incident of coming to the hospital today, but thinking that Li Xiaoyun might scold him for going to a psychosomatic doctor on his own initiative, it is better to have more than one thing, so he still took the time to go to the neighborhood committee to report the name of the course first.
"Behavioral disorders in children?" After Xie Chunping left, Mu Chun took out the notebook stored in the drawer.
From Xie Chunping's description, Mu Chun noticed several important information.
First: Blink.
Second: Bad behavior in the eyes of the teacher, fighting with classmates.
Third: grumpy
Fourth: Lack of concentration
More than 60% of the thousands of students who fail to complete their assignments on time have attention deficit or hyperactivity disorder.
Mu Chun recorded these key points in a notebook, referring to the records about [hyperactivity disorder] and [attention deficit] written down in the notebook before, and carefully wrote down a summary of Xie Xiaofei's case.
Just from Xie Chunping's dictation, there is no way to understand the real reasons behind Xie Xiaofei's situation.
But Xie Chunping was obviously unwilling to tell the doctor the full real-time. Mu Chun fully understands this, and it is not an easy task to require complete trust and complete symptom details for the first treatment.
Except for those who are in an emergency situation and who are able to describe their condition clearly, in general, the first treatment will be mostly limited to data collection, partial assessment, and appropriate recommendations.
Xie Xiaofei's situation is a more complicated one.
Mu Chun frowned, first of all, his father Xie Chunping, just by his father went to the hospital to inquire about the child's condition, the doctor was very difficult to treat me, and the matter of itching in the boots was really powerful for Mu Chun and there was nowhere to go.
Why don't you want to bring your child to the hospital? Mu Chun also recorded this problem in Xie Xiaofei's case.
Mu Chun understands that Xie Chunping is reluctant to bring his child to the hospital, and in fact, many parents have a similar psychological state.
Some people consider that if the child comes to the hospital and uses a medical insurance card, in this way, if the child has some mental problems, won't he have to carry it with him for the rest of his life?
There is still a great deal of prejudice against mental problems, and even in many areas there is still some form of discrimination.
Hu Peng, for example, is a very stark example.
He is a very good teacher, just because of some personal reasons, in fact, it has not affected the teaching, but in the eyes of parents, if you can choose such a teacher, you will not choose such a teacher.
Because their most important possessions, the most important person in their lives, even their gains and losses, their successes and shames, are in that school, in that class, in a chair behind a certain desk.
As long as parents can think of it and jump it out, they will try their best to protect their children and maximize the protection measures possible.
That's why Hu Peng had such a big trouble before, and he was able to find new strength in this trouble.
This worry is objective and unchangeable, but after all, he is an excellent teacher who is familiar with the school and parents, he understands this feeling, and decides to turn these worries and troubles into motivation to urge him to do more beneficial things in the field of education.
It's a sublimation of professionalism.
Shen Fan's situation is somewhat similar, although he has not appeared at the Garden Bridge Community Health Center since he was found to have a large number of stolen items in the storage cabinet, but everyone has not forgotten about him because he did not show up.
Everyone talked about him, whispered behind his back, and even talked about people related to Shen Fan's theft, such as Liu Tiantian.
This is part of the people's hearts and minds, when it is not their own business, many people can distinguish between right and wrong, justice and kindness, suitable and inappropriate.
But when he became an insider, he became a fan of the authorities.
This is still the case between colleagues, let alone between blood relatives.
Xie Chunping is reluctant to tell the truth, and Mu Chun can only try to provide him with opportunities to let his children get more help, but these things can't be forced to ask a parent, sometimes, patients need to guide rather than guide and force them to accept.
Everyone understands that everything is for your good, but the relationship between people is not simply measured by such a stainless steel ruler.
After Mu Chun completed all the records, he flipped through his notes for a while.
This red notebook has more than 2,000 pieces of content about [Children's Neurodevelopmental Disorders], some of which are cases and notes that Mu Chun remembers very clearly, but there are some that Mu Chun is a little confused.
When he flipped through more than 20 pages, he found a case record in which he mentioned the term "Tourette's disease".
Mu Chun has no impression of this case, but judging from the case analysis, it is indeed the text recorded in his notes.
Tourette syndrome, the inability to suppress the urge to blink, grimace, shake the head, otherwise move or make a sound, but this behavior is not voluntary.
It usually occurs before the age of 18 years, and usually has some symptoms at the age of 5 or 6 years, and the frequency of tics is strong or weak, and the first tic generator lasts for more than a year
This tic disorder cannot be attributed to the physiological effects of a substance or other medical conditions, such as Huntington's disease and postviral encephalitis.
The case record was a boy who was only 19 years old at the time, and at the end of the case, Mu Chun saw another line of words, tracking
This line of words, the handwriting is beautiful, it should be the girl's handwriting.
Mu Chun looked at it for a while and thought of someone.
So Mu Chun took out his mobile phone from the drawer and opened WeChat to leave a message for Mu Xiao.
"About [Tourette's disease], I want to ask Senior Sister Mu."
Mu Chun hesitated for a while, thinking about whether to send a sentence first, "Is Mu Xiao busy these days?" ”
I feel a little rusty.
I thought, or I asked, "Do you have time to eat together, we haven't had time to meet after the concert at the end of the year?"
It doesn't seem to be appropriate.
"I met a patient and wanted to discuss it with Mu Xiao"
This seems to be about the same, but since it is said that the patient is going to be discussed, it is better to directly explain the specific content, so as not to affect Mu Xiao's time, maybe she is very busy.
Subconsciously, Mu Chun thought that Mu Xiao had to live two lives alone, and it was a huge pressure in terms of time and physical load.
It's better if she's the kind of personality that stabilizes in one personality for a long time, and then stabilizes in another personality for a long time, such as Mu Xiao in winter, and may become a little watermelon in spring.
There was a case report of a man who only spoke Spanish during a few years as a teacher in Spain, but when he was in Korea, he could only speak and write Korean, and he was a chef by profession.
Everything was done well, every life was wonderful, and until that person was about to get married in Spain, he didn't realize that he had a wife in Korea.
If it is really such a stable personality for many years, Mu Xiao should not be very busy, at least for a period of time, she is completely devoted to a kind of life.
But Mu Chun knew that he seemed to be deceiving himself and didn't seem so stable, and Mu Chun was also very vague about how unstable the personality switch between Mu Xiao and Little Watermelon was.
Whether it is a small watermelon or Mu Xiao after going abroad, Mu Chun doesn't know much about it.
It's just so hard.
But there is good news, five minutes later, Mu Xiao replied to Mu Chun.
"Tomorrow morning, I'll be on the third floor of Zhinan, do you want to come and talk? Bring your little notebook. ”
When Li Mu arrived home in a daze, it was half past four in the morning, and the day's work ended quite early, and the director team was always like this, saying that they would shoot three times a week, and then it became five times a week; It was said that the show would be recorded four times a week, and then it became five times a week; In short, it's a week, it's useless to say anything else, and it's useless to sign a contract.
It's not wrong to always want to do things well, if a show is done well, everyone who participates in the show is profitable, and it's not a bad thing in itself, it's just a little too tired.
During the day, he has to deal with the project, and the huge gap in funds is like a white shiny paper blocking Li Mu's eyes, as soon as he opens his eyes, he will hit the white giant wall, but when he records the show at night, he can change his mind, think of some interesting ideas and stalks, and sometimes have a hearty interaction with other guests.
Even though I am tired, I have joy.
Speaking of which, the show [Wonderful Showdown] is really good, from conception to production to invited guests, it is definitely the first echelon level in this kind of variety show, of course, this also has to ensure that the show can be done one after another, if it is done in one issue, then it is useless, and it will still lose money if it is not good.
So it's normal for everyone to work hard, and there is no one in the industry who can make some achievements without working hard these days.
In the director's own words, making a show is similar to Li Mu's financing, in the final analysis, it is not long to find a funder to do the show, and everything is easy to do with the funder.
Just invite any guests you want, the guests will go up when the program grade is good, and it will be easy to record.
The implication is to praise Li Mu, and the good young man who really comes out of the hall and enters the kitchen is probably none other than Li Mu.
Before finishing work at four o'clock, assistant director Mark also pulled Li Mu to drink a cup of cappuccino whose cream had completely melted in the coffee. After drinking, Li Mu was dizzy, as if he was drunk. What Mark said was also a little misty and untrue.
I only think that Mark seems to say that the program team intends to make Li Mu an image of a high IQ + a good man from the Gu family, because there are not many guests in the program group who can meet these two aspects at the same time, and Li Mu's wife Qiu Tong is not a female star in the circle, but she is also a well-known little celebrity, and I heard that the husband and wife have a good relationship, and Qiu Tong is even more appreciative of Li Mu, which can be described as a rare model couple in the circle.