Marriage is a matter of two people, not two people.

Some people can take it as a person's business, whether it is the opinion of friends or the opinions of parents, it is just a reference, can not influence his own decision, he has to finish the road he chooses on his knees, and he does not need others to be responsible for him, happiness or misfortune, he bears all the consequences, does not complain about the sky, and does not blame the other party, if he has to blame, he will only blame himself for being blind at the beginning.

Some people regard it as a matter of two people, two mature people rely on each other, close the door to live their own small life, quarrel is just the internal contradiction of two people, no matter what others say, how to look, no matter whether they are poor or rich, no matter whether the door is inappropriate, whether the household is right or not, they will not care too much, family and friends agree to oppose it, anyway, the two people are consistent with the outside, such as people who drink water and know themselves.

But more often, marriage is a matter of three families, the people in the two families are split out to form a new small family, the three families can be regarded as one big family, your relatives are my relatives, my relatives are also your relatives, it is difficult to separate, if they are happy, if the three families can not balance the relationship, the mother-in-law and son-in-law can not accept and tolerate each other, for the family quarrels constantly, two people are sandwiched in the middle only worry, the relationship will be difficult to maintain.

In addition to love, there is also life in marriage.

Qin Guanglin thought a lot and thought a lot, but he didn't expect that it would be this reaction.

"Seeing that my father-in-law is not married, let my father know you early, so that you don't have to think about it in your old heart, and give you a reassurance."

Why don't you see him stunned there, and finally couldn't help laughing, but he didn't tease him anymore.

The more she cared, the more she would think about it, she knew that Qin Guanglin was suddenly retreating at the door, not because she didn't like it enough, but because she attached too much importance to it.

I'm afraid her family won't like him.

"I didn't think about it so much before I urged you, now that I think it's too early, it's not appropriate to meet......" Qin Guanglin raised his eyes to look at her, and said softly: "My mother likes you, this is a good start, I don't want to have any problems in your house, and I don't want you to have any conflicts with your family because of me."

Your dad and your brother are very fond of you, think about it, if my daughter just graduated and pulled a guy who wanted nothing to come over and say that this is her boyfriend, I will definitely have to ......"

"Surely what?" Why don't you sit on the sofa and listen with a smile, see him pause there, and ask out loud.

"I'm going to have to screw his head off." Qin Guanglin shrugged and smiled as well.

"Hey, hey, you're scared?" She leaned forward and said proudly: "It's useless to be afraid, you have to go if you unscrew it, who asked you to arch other people's cabbage." ”

"If I told them that you actually arched me, would they believe me?"

"Phew, shameless, who arched you." Why don't you pouting and snorting, "Hurry up and cook well." ”

Qin Guanglin turned around with a smile and continued to chop vegetables, not dwelling with her on the question of who arched whom, anyway, the two of them would be fine.

"Really, I think it's better to go later, or go back at the end of the year? Or when my job stabilizes, if Sun Wen leaves, maybe it will be an opportunity, and I will be the biggest pillar if the company can survive, and then I will ask the boss to promote me to a magnificent-sounding position, and I will have face in your father's place. ”

"But I've already told my dad that I'm going to take you back to show them on National Day."

“…… Can it be postponed? ”

"My dad doesn't like to talk about good things and regret it, so you just go over and show up, don't worry, there is me."

Why not pat his chest and promise, picked up his mobile phone from the table and pointed it at his back to take a photo, and secretly sent it to the family group.

Qin Guanglin said that he wanted to go to her house for two or three months, and she knew that he especially wanted to go, but he hesitated after thinking too much, no matter what, he had to meet his wish on the National Day.

"You're now the big boss of your company, isn't it enough for you to stink?" She chatted with Qin Guanglin while pressing her mobile phone, "I hadn't graduated when I went to your house to see your mother, and then I let you raise you for two months without going to work, I'm fine, you're afraid of a ghost." ”

"You will please my mother, she is more dear to you than to me now, I didn't go back to eat for a week without calling me, but let me call you over."

Qin Guanglin was a little speechless when he mentioned this, and he didn't know whether to be depressed or happy.

His girlfriend is liked by his mother, and in general it is still worth being happy, which is much better than the bad relationship between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law - but when they muttered together, he always felt a slight chill down his spine, as if there was some conspiracy.

Why not hold the mobile phone in his hand, smile and put it aside, then turn around and lie on the sofa, stretch his calves comfortably, and say to him: "My dad will like you too, don't worry." ”

Qin Guanglin didn't respond when he was in the hot pot, thinking about how to deal with it then, there was less than half a month left to face his father-in-law and eldest brother, and he had to be stable.

"Actually, getting married is a matter for the two of us, why do you want to do so much, although you don't have a car or a house now, but we can earn it slowly." Why don't you look at the ceiling and say, "You are not the rich second generation, I am not the rich second generation, the two of us are the right people now, I don't want to sit back and enjoy it, I want to accompany you and go through everything with you, no matter what the result is, what I want is the process." ”

"I've got to make your life better." Qin Guanglin stir-fried the vegetables in response.

"I'm doing well and being content right now."

"You're too easily satisfied."

"Enough, I'm afraid that there are too many blessings to bear, but now it's enough." Why not lie on the sofa and look at Qin Guanglin's back with a shovel stir-frying, with a touch of tenderness on his face, "Have you seen the little prince?" ”

"Movies?"

"Books."

"I haven't seen that."

"There's a saying in it that goes like this: If you come at four o'clock in the afternoon, then from three o'clock onwards, I begin to feel happy, and the closer the time comes, the happier I feel. By four o'clock, I will be restless, and I will discover the price of happiness. But if you come at any time, I don't know when I'm going to get ready for me. ”

She looked up at the ceiling, her fingers gently fiddling with the ends of the hair on her shoulders, and asked Qin Guanglin, "Guess, what time do I start preparing my mood?" ”

"I don't know." Qin Guanglin came out with the fried vegetables, leaned over and took a sip on her forehead, "What time is it?" ”

"From the time I got on the bus, it was a whole day."

"So early?"

"I've been thinking about you since we were apart."

"I won't be able to stand you talking like that." Qin Guanglin's heartbeat quietly accelerated, he picked up her hand and kissed it hard, turned around and went back to the kitchen to continue cooking, "Whoever taught you these love words, I also have to study hard." ”

"So you understand?" Why ask.

"What?"

"The ones you mentioned, the house, the car, the deposit, the magnificent position...... It doesn't matter what it is, as long as we're together, sooner or later we'll have it, and even if we don't, it doesn't matter, the most important thing is that you're there. ”

"Don't worry, I've always been."