In-depth consultation?

Sun Wen was silent and didn't answer, and took another sip of wine.

Although he did want to test how deep this depth was, he was not in the mood right now.

"Dead Eye." Xu Wei shook her head when she saw him, and then laughed again, "But I'm more interested in you." ”

It will be more interesting to conquer such a man.

"You're dead-eyed, aren't you?"

"It's different."

"What's the difference?" Sun Wen asked.

"I find a way to make myself comfortable, and you find a way to make myself uncomfortable." Xu Wei pointed at him with her finger, and then pointed behind her, "The more you can't get it, the more uncomfortable it will be, and as long as I meet a similar one, I can replace you." ”

Sun Wen smiled, "You won't be in your thirties, will you?" ”

Women, especially those who can take care of them, are really hard to tell how old they are from their appearance.

Not to mention the makeup.

"Eighteen this year."

"Okay, I believe it."

The two didn't talk again, Sun Wen put the cup on the bar and rotated it gently, Xu Wei put her forearm under her neck, leaning on the edge of the bar and watching him quietly.

The more I look at it, the more interesting it becomes.

When the illusion of beauty is shattered, the more affectionate the man, the more completely he collapses.

"I can give you an idea."

After a long silence, she spoke with a smile.

"What's the idea?" Sun Wen asked.

"The idea to help you save your feelings."

"Tell me about it?"

The woman's attitude changed suddenly, he was a little unsure of what she was thinking, and there was obvious suspicion on his face.

Xu Wei didn't care about his attitude, still maintained the posture of leaning on the bar, and said, "Do you know what your problem is?" ”

"What is it?"

"What's the difference between a man and a woman?" Xu Wei didn't answer, but asked another question.

"Say whatever you want." Sun Wen was too lazy to play guessing with her.

"I'm helping you analyze the nature of your relationship." Xu Wei lazily flicked her nails, "Just speaking of the princess dream, have you ever read a fairy tale?" ”

"Of course I did."

"What are fairytale princesses like?"

"Beautiful, gentle...... Kindness...... Be generous, strong......" Sun Wen thought about it, and at the end he smiled, "Add all the good things and it's over." ”

"What about their way of doing things?"

"Uh......"

"Wait." Xu Wei hooked the corners of her mouth and showed a meaningful smile, "Whether the princess is abused by the queen, captured by the evil dragon, or cast a spell by the witch, they bear all the hardships silently, and then wait for the prince or warrior to save her, all she has to do is wait." ”

"And then?"

"Princes and warriors, on the other hand, are overcoming obstacles, crossing thousands of mountains and rivers, and overcoming many difficulties to save the princess."

Xu Wei looked at Sun Wen's thoughtful expression, and smiled even more, "This is the difference between a man and a woman." ”

"Huh? Men and women? ”

"Women are passive, men are active. No matter how much a woman suffers, it is difficult for the princess to wake up from her dream, because it is normal for the princess to suffer a little, and sooner or later a prince will come to rescue her, but you can't, that's because you are not her prince. ”

She paused and continued: "And men are different, as long as they go out of society and touch the wall a few more times, they will wake themselves up and understand that they are just an ordinary person, not a prince, not a warrior, just an ordinary mortal, and the dream of marrying a princess will be scattered." ”

"So women's standards are almost always aligned upward, they must be better than themselves when they find a spouse, and they can't have too many shortcomings, they can ignore all the other advantages of a man for a small shortcoming, and then tell him: we are not suitable."

"Men are the opposite, most men's standards are downward alignment, it doesn't need to be good, as long as you can see it, there are one or two advantages, he can ignore all the other shortcomings, fall in love with this woman, and then start pursuing."

Sun Wen lit a cigarette and thought for a moment, "It's a bit absolute, right?" ”

"Of course, I'm only talking about the majority, there will definitely be exceptions." Xu Wei didn't deny it, just looked at him and said, "But you, and your ex-girlfriend, are not that exception." ”

"Go on."

"Your ex-girlfriend who regards 'you don't need to be reasonable in love' as the truth, obviously just didn't wake up from a dream, and occasionally coquettish in love can be unreasonable, but it doesn't matter if it's right or wrong, you just want to be coaxed unconditionally and be spoiled......"

Xu Wei smiled and shook her head, "Once you can't, she'll think you're not her prince - that's the root of your problem." ”

"What can I do if I don't coax?" Sun Wen asked.

"For people like your girlfriend, it's okay to coax, but you shouldn't try to reason first, and only coax when it doesn't make sense...... It took billions of years for human beings to evolve such a perfect brain, but she was reluctant to use it, she didn't even bother to talk about the reason, she just wanted to be coaxed and spoiled like a pet, why did you reason with her? ”

“……”

"The relationship between the two of you is not equal from the beginning, maybe you sometimes feel that you are very humble in this relationship, but in fact, the humble one is not you, but her, she herself has turned herself into a vassal of a man, you don't have to reason with her, just coax and deceive, think about it like this, is it suddenly enlightened?"

"......" Sun Wen smoked a cigarette and did not speak.

Xu Wei looked at him with a smile, "Now you know what to do, right?" ”

"What should I do?"

"That's a lot of nonsense." She shook her head, "The reason you broke up was because you weren't scumbag enough. ”

"Not enough scum?"

"As long as you paint her big enough, speak sweetly enough, lie true enough, and habitual enough, she can't do without you—you are not her prince, but disguise yourself as a prince."

“……”

"Unconditionally spoil and get used to it, and when it comes to money, try hard to cheat, and allow empty checks, do you still need me to teach you?"

"I don't want to just have fun." Sun Wen frowned.

"But you want to get back together." Xu Wei shrugged indifferently, "The more you get used to her, the more she can't do without you, even if she breaks up in the future, her new boyfriend will not be able to stand her, and then she will come back." ”

"Is that so?"

"Think about it, do you just break up like this, let her try and make mistakes again and again, and then find other scumbags, or do you do it yourself?"

“…… I think what you said makes sense. Sun Wen extinguished the cigarette butt and poured another big sip of wine, "So, everything is my fault for reasoning with her?" ”

"Reasoning is the fuse, you have to learn to deceive." Xu Wei shook her head, "She wants a LV bag, you reason with her and say that you want to save money and think about the future...... Isn't that stupid? You have to learn how to make her happy without buying it. ”

"And this kind of operation?" Sun Wen was stunned.

"Of course there is, as long as you make her happy, she will naturally be inseparable from you."

Xu Wei saw that Sun Wen's wine glass was bottoming out, so she raised her hand and called the waiter to refill a glass for him.

"Thank you." Sun Wen did not refuse, "But, what about in the future?" ”

"I'll only teach you how to chase it back, and it's up to you to do the rest."

Xu Wei's eyes showed a hint of playfulness.

Later?

This kind of love is essentially a person who uses words to make another person happy, and when the other person is happy, he uses depth to make him happy.

It's just a deal, where does it come from?

"So how do I get started?"

"What's your situation now?"

"Now......"

The two continued to drink and talk.

Outside, the night was getting darker.