Chapter 1 O 4 (II) Proud girl is afraid of love
"I heard that your mother was very opposed to you playing football at first, how did you persevere and convince your pianist mother?"
Zhuo Yang was silent for a moment with this question, and instead of continuing with the question, he talked about what he had learned about family education in Chinese culture. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info
"In our traditional Chinese culture, there are some very beautiful things. In the family, for example, parents will give everything they have to love their children, and this love will not be reciprocated. And the children in the family will also respect their parents, love them, and try their best to repay them. ”
"However, love can try to reciprocate, but the life given by parents can never be repaid, and life is above all else." As an art student, Zhuo Yang began to be familiar with the sensationalism of the road.
"Children always want to repay the life and love given by their parents with love, even if it is to repay it with their own lives. But there are not always such sad things and opportunities, so what should we do? How can I repay my parents? Zhuo Yang's words didn't talk about the host, even Professor Norman was hooked, and hurriedly followed the guidance to think: What should I do?
However, in our traditional Chinese culture, this seemingly contradictory problem is perfectly solved. That is, to pass down the love that cannot be reciprocated to one's parents, to love one's offspring. Raise his own children with unrequited love and let that love last forever. "Look at this guy and talk a lot.
"So, in China, everyone will try to repay their parents with love and love their children deeply. It is also this kind of culture that makes our love endless. This kind of love has made our culture indelible and indelible. ”
Zhuo Yang's words made the host stupid, and he muttered: "Oh my God, this is really beautiful." Zhuo Yangxin said: It's not like you're playing.
Actually, what Zhuo Yang said is somewhat reasonable. Chinese say that people's hearts are downward, and many people love their children more than their parents, including the parents who have been exceeded. Because the living conditions of Chinese have greatly improved, many parents do not ask their children to do more for themselves. And many people born before the 60s are not good at expressing their love, and they will always seem very clumsy. People born after the 70s, who were exposed to the different cultures they were exposed to as a youth, are generally more outgoing and focused in their expressions of love.
Of course, this does not refer to the love between a man and a woman, but the love between parents and children.
Compared with their elderly parents, young parents are better at expressing full love for their children, so to speak, they are more capable of loving.
Love is an instinct, but it is also an ability, and it is the ability that will be divided into big and small. Therefore, with the same meticulous love for their children, some parents always do not do well, and even do bad things with good intentions.
A parent's love for their children is one of the most beautiful things in the world. It's actually a very, very happy thing to really invest in someone completely regardless of the return.
If you don't pay attention, it's far away!
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After returning from the city of Cowwitz, Zhuo Yang finally had a little bit of a worthy achievement in his music. However, people cannot always live in the book of honor, time is moving forward, and life must continue to move forward.
Li Xiaoqing is really a good woman, Zhuo Yang won the gold award, and she was more excited than Zhuo Yang himself. But just happy but not enjoyable, Li Xiaoqing opened the card and kept buying gifts for Zhuo Yang to celebrate, and Cheng Hao secretly said that the gifts were so expensive. Cheng Hao already knew that Li Xiaoqing was the eldest lady of Dinghuang Group, not an ordinary person. The lord who is not short of money has absolute influence on Zhao Xue, for the sake of his own happiness, Cheng Hao vigorously stammered Li Xiaoqing, helping to make suggestions and buy things, lest the world be chaotic.
If Zhuo Yang hadn't stared at him and stopped him, the latest BMW MINI-Cooper would have been able to drive Li Xiaoqing back. Zhuo Yang didn't let her buy it, and Miss Xiaoqing wondered: How much money is there?
It is impossible to say that Zhuo Yang is not moved, looking at Li Xiaoqing's delicate and delicate face flushed with happiness, he can't help but feel in a trance. Zhuo Yang really wanted to hold Li Xiaoqing in his arms and kiss him a few times on that blown-up face, but after thinking about it again, he didn't dare. Although he was more than ninety percent sure that Xiaoqing would not refuse, Zhuo Yang still didn't dare.
Zhuo Yang's feelings for Xiaoqing were a little empty in his heart, why wasn't Li Xiaoqing like this?
The psychology between men and women is a very delicate thing, and it is difficult to summarize it in one formula. Zhuo Yang and Li Xiaoqing are both sunny and cheerful people, and they both have a deep affection for each other, it stands to reason that the two of them should become a couple without hindrance, but in fact, both of them are a little timid in their hearts.
Zhuo Yang is a very proud person, and this pride is hidden deep in his bones. He likes to be with Li Xiaoqing, likes her happiness and simplicity, and likes Li Xiaoqing's beauty and delicateness. But Zhuo Yang was a little uncomfortable with Li Xiaoqing's strength in money, because it seriously hit the pride in his heart. If Li Xiaoqing could be poorer, Zhuo Yang would have been eager to form a pair with her.
Li Xiaoqing is also a very proud person, and this pride comes from her background and appearance. She likes to be with Zhuo Yang, even if she is just looking at Zhuo Yang, she is very happy. But Zhuo Yang also put a lot of pressure on Li Xiaoqing, because Zhuo Yang's independence and versatility are something she does not have, and she is two years older than Zhuo Yang, which also somewhat hits Li Xiaoqing's pride. In fact, Li Xiaoqing is not a big-spending girl, and her expenses on weekdays are still very moderate. The reason why she keeps spending money on Zhuo Yang is not stingy, liking Zhuo Yang and being willing is naturally the most important thing, but using the advantage of money to suppress Zhuo Yang's excellence is probably also due to her subconscious pride.
Both people are highly intelligent, and people with high IQs will always think about things in a complicated way and appear to be worried. Just as people who read a lot like to ponder the depth of a problem, it is far less straightforward than a person who thinks superficially about the problem.
In other words, Zhuo Yang and Li Xiaoqing subconsciously want to dominate love and try to make themselves the strong party. In fact, there is nothing wrong with this kind of thinking, and there will always be one party in a strong position in a stable love and marriage, forming a core that can only be understood. Those who advocate that the two sides are on an equal footing with each other as the core, just looks beautiful, and the waves are scattered together.
In this way, two beautiful women who seem to be handsome men and beautiful women made in heaven, and the golden boy and girl who could have walked together logically, are in a hurry to see people in a hurry.
In terms of love, the immature Zhuo Yang and Li Xiaoqing still have a long way to go, but the two are already like two hyperbolas that are gradually getting closer, getting closer and closer.