"Hello!" I said into the phone.

"Hello. Is that right, did your mom tell you to call me? I asked.

In order to determine whether the identity of the child is the same as the one who came to call today, I have to ask this question.

Otherwise, if it weren't a member of the family, and it would not have been in vain if it had been spoken for a long time.

After waiting for the child's definite answer, I was relieved to tell him.

"Since this is the case, the two of us men will get straight to the point and say, you go and tell your mother, let her go out, don't let her listen to the conversation between the two of us."

At this time, a voice came from the other side of the phone and said, "The principal of our school asked you to go out." The door slammed shut. I just resumed my speech.

"You're in the second grade of junior high school now, so you should have studied physiology and hygiene, right?" I asked.

"Yes, teacher. By the way, let me ask, what did my mother tell you? ”

The child can ask this question, and it is obvious that the child's vigilance is very strong, and if you don't pay attention a little, then the two of us will not be able to communicate. Looks like I'm going to have to be careful.

"In that case, then it's easier for us to talk, let me tell you, your mother called me and wanted me to communicate with you about your work and rest habits."

"Oh, that's right!" The child replied.

"Yes, what kind of problem could there be? How are you studying now, and what kind of ranking do you rank in the class? ”

The child replied that he was now only in the middle of the class.

It seems that I have to look for this child's problem, otherwise, when I come to the third year of junior high school in the future, then the problem will really come out.

"What do you think of your academic performance?"

I have to let the child speak for himself, because the child has reached such an age where it is easy to rebel. If I, as an outsider, am dissatisfied with the child, maybe the child really won't dump me.

"It doesn't feel very good." The child replied.

"Since you yourself know that your academic performance is not very good, have you ever thought about improving your academic performance?" I asked.

"Of course there is." The child replied.

"Don't just say that there have been, are there any specific actions that have come out? Let's put it this way, shall we? Do you say you're stupid, tell me about it? I said a little jokingly.

"I'm not stupid, but I always want to sleep in class." The child said so.

It seems that this is how the problem was brought to me.

"Why do you sleep? The time set by the school for you is definitely enough for you. Our school is to study at 8 o'clock in the evening, and you should have set the lights out at 9 o'clock, but I know that you will definitely not be able to sleep at 9 o'clock, don't say, you can't sleep, and I can't sleep. But if you can't sleep, you have to sleep, how can you do it without sleeping. You have to get eight hours of sleep a day at such a young age, you know? Tell me again, what do you do when you can't sleep? Don't talk about others, talk about what you do. ”

When I asked me this, I believe that the child should have told me, and according to the question he just asked me, I could feel that he was a man who dared to act and be a little manly.

"I'm embarrassed to say." The boy thought for a moment and said.

"Don't be embarrassed to say, so be it! I say it, and if anything, you have to admit it. If not, forget it. I said to my child.

"Okay, you say?"

"Tell me the truth, have you ever had a habit?" I asked straight to the door, I felt that I had to ask like this, if I didn't say it, then this kid would be embarrassed to say, so if this stalemate continues, when will it be a result?

"Yes." The child hesitated and said.

It seems that the child still said it, if the child is afraid to admit it or embarrassed to say it, then I really have no way. Since this is the case, it means that the two of us still have this kind of fate.

The fate of this conversation.

"And once a few days, you?" So I asked.

I really don't have anything to be embarrassed to say about such a problem as a teacher, if the problem is not clear, then how can it be solved? That's what I think.

"Sometimes I do it once a day, sometimes once every two days." The child talks and slurred.

I think he must have had some embarrassment in it, or why would he talk like that?

"Do you know, then,* the damage to the body?"

"Yes."

"What kind of damage?"

"It's just sleepy, and there is no spirit."

"I'll tell you, in fact, you're only half right, * hurt, especially for you teenagers, that's not a little, it's a lot. Because you know that now is the time for you to grow your body, and if you don't pay attention, your body can't grow taller. Small bones, man's baby, you should know what it is! It's very small. I don't know about this, you know, you don't know. If you haven't heard of it before, I'll tell you today. And if you don't succeed in your career in the future, even if you get married, it will be difficult to have a happy marriage. These are really not to scare you, I think you should be able to use a smartphone! If you don't believe me, you can check it on your phone. ”

"I know all of that. Teacher, but sometimes I just can't control myself, I want to quit, but I don't know how? ”

"Since you want to quit, have you asked someone for advice again?"

"I talked to my classmates, and they all said, * There is no harm to the body, and they said, small masturbation is pleasant, big masturbation hurts the body."

"Oh! Then let me ask you, do you think you can control it, and since you can't control it, how can you not hurt yourself? ”

I don't know where these children got it, why they have such a realization in their minds, who spread such rumors, how they still say harmless theories, and say things that are like a little flirtatious thing. It's really stupid to turn it upside down.

"What do your classmates do? Is one of the people in the group a Chinese medicine practitioner? "I can't say that the children in my school don't learn anything. But the understanding of this matter is obviously wrong.

"Nope!" The child said.

"If not, that's right." I replied.

"But teacher, how did you quit?"

It seems that the child is in a hurry to change. I should have told him the detailed method.

"First of all, you have to be deeply awakened in your mind, and you can't be confused anymore. Say anything * harmlessly. Recognize, great mistake. I think you should recognize this. But is it profound? To be honest, I don't know very well in my heart. But I hope that you must have a deep understanding. In ancient times, there was such a saying, that is, to change the past and be a new person. As long as you recognize the pain, you can change it, if it doesn't hurt or itch, and it's very comfortable, then why change it? ”